what is wrong with me??????!!!

ok so i am an engaged 18 year old but i am going through some problems. i cannot shake the feeling of wanting to be with other girls. i mena, my fiancee is bangin and everything is amazing and she satisfies the fuck out of me but even with all that i STILL just want to exp. new girls. i dont want to be friends with them, i dont want to talk the next day, i just want to fuck other chicks. i dont know what the fuck my deal is but i cant stop thinking about it. i heard once its because men and naturally always wanting to spread their seed...but anyways, how many of you have cheated on a bf/gf/fiancee/spouse? more then once? do oyu think its ok? i read in mags all the time that everyone does it im jsut wondering what you guys think.
call me a piece of shit whatever but this is how i feel

I think your just afraid of the commitment that you can now only fuck one person without them getting all mad.

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Originally Posted by HERBZILLA88

ok so i am an engaged 18 year old but i am going through some problems. i cannot shake the feeling of wanting to be with other girls. i mena, my fiancee is bangin and everything is amazing and she satisfies the fuck out of me but even with all that i STILL just want to exp. new girls. i dont want to be friends with them, i dont want to talk the next day, i just want to fuck other chicks. i dont know what the fuck my deal is but i cant stop thinking about it. i heard once its because men and naturally always wanting to spread their seed...but anyways, how many of you have cheated on a bf/gf/fiancee/spouse? more then once? do oyu think its ok? i read in mags all the time that everyone does it im jsut wondering what you guys think.
call me a piece of shit whatever but this is how i feel

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It's kinda normal, but resist the urges dude!!!!
It will end up fuckin' you over in the end when you realize once again how much u care for ur fiance. You'll feel like a dumbass..

Dude its because you're 18. I am 18 and want to do the same shit although i am not engaged nor am i in a relationship so i get to do those things but think man, its for the rest of your life and were young. You should be livin it up!

Human monogomy isn't a natural thing: society has created it. People have to force themselves to be faithful...which they should, considering the complex emotions humans have developed as well.

It kind of sounds like you have cold feet. I wouldnt say that its not normal to be feeling the way you do. You're young and saying that youre only going to be with one person the rest of your life is pretty scary. I would really encourage you to stay faithful to your fiancee. It wouldnt be fair to her if you cheated on her. If you're having second thoughts about spending the rest of your life with her you need to address those now rather than later.

its cause your eighteen.....when i was eighteen i wanted to fuck every girl in the universe.

good luck with that one. hope you dont do somehting you'll regret whatever you choose to do.

quite a few animals mate 4 life don't they?

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Originally Posted by hippy lettuce

quite a few animals mate 4 life don't they?

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Yes, but I don't think humans are one of those animals. Not naturally, anyway.

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Originally Posted by cannabis=freedom

Yes, but I don't think humans are one of those animals. Not naturally, anyway.

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I actually read in an article that males are programmed as polygamists while females are programmed as monogamists... I dunno if its true, but it is certainly an interesting theory