well iv been seeing this girl for almost a year now and at the begining of the relationship we had sex all day everyday, as it is with most relationships. and of course the amount of sex has dwendled. well now she never whats to have sex and when we do she never whats to finish. last nite was the first time in a month that we had sex and she had to stop in the middle of it. she says it hurts, she doesnt stay wet and that im to big for her. now i do love sex, like most men, but i do very much love her too. but it makes me fell horrible that she hurts so bad that she cant have sex with me. the other problem is that she says the only time shes horny is when shes in the shower by her self and thats rare too she says. so i dont know what the problem is but its really agrivating and upsetting. she tells me every time that i could break up with her if i wanted to because of the sex. so i dont know what to do and i dont know what anyone else can do but i needed to ask and tell some one so whom ever can help please try.
P.S. sorry for the long post
Thanks,
JC