What every man should know

[Coelho]

So, ladies, what do you think every man should know? Mainly sex related things.
Ive posted this in the women issues, so you may feel more confortable to spill the beans out (sp?).


PS.(besides the 'you should NOT piss outside the toilet'... we know it, its just difficult sometimes :D)

[Mean Green Charlene]

So do not attempt the morning no-hander?

[dutch.lover]

i live with my bf and that's the worst...

[Weedhound]

Hmmm maybe men should know that women don't really care for guys who's first statement is tell me about sex-related things

[Coelho]

well... its a sexuality forum... whats the problem?

[rebgirl420]

I think every man should know that he should treat her like a goddess. Thats what every girl needs.

[birdgirl73]

I think every man should know how to kiss well. And every man should know the female anatomy and how it works. After that, every man ought to be wise enough to know that women are unique individuals who like different things. The smart, secure guys know to ask what we like instead of cockily assuming it's going to be what they think it is. So you may hear a lot of different answers here, Coelho, but if you're a really wise inquisitive man, you'll ask the lady of the moment that you're getting close to, not a bunch of perfect strangers on a Web forum.

[rebgirl420]

TRUE: If you have a question, ASK HER! Dont ask your pals or family ask her! DOnt be embaressed

[Weedhound]

Coelho...you made a good point there. My bad. :(

[gabee42ee]

i hate when guys talk too much about themselves ... ask the girl lots of questions and keep her talking about herself ... at least i love that sort of thing, it drives me nuts wen i guy goes on and on about himself

o and i do love wen a guy can pay for my dinner move or weed

[Goddess of Green]

I think every man should know that he should treat her like a goddess. Thats what every girl needs.

agreed.


that includes telling us how beautiful we are, and often!

[napolitana869]

and telling us what amazing people we are and how we make you feel like the luckiest person in the world

[Coelho]

After that, every man ought to be wise enough to know that women are unique individuals who like different things. The smart, secure guys know to ask what we like instead of cockily assuming it's going to be what they think it is. So you may hear a lot of different answers here, Coelho, but if you're a really wise inquisitive man, you'll ask the lady of the moment that you're getting close to, not a bunch of perfect strangers on a Web forum.

Well... I know (by my own experience) that women are VERY different one from another... And know the better way to know anything about one particular woman is just asking.
But i did not make this thread only for my own enlightment... I did it because i know there is a lot of things we must know, and altought it may be just obvious for any women, for us men it can be unknown. For example, i know about the outside toilet pissing thing, but im sure there are some men does not. Things which are common sense for women may not be for men, and vice-versa.
So, my question is more in a broad sense, for provide a nice discussion. Im sure there is a lot of men lurking in this womens forum, and it would be useful for all of us to know.
And thanks for all the woman whom kindly answered! :thumbsup::)

[Weedhound]

and telling us what amazing people we are and how we make you feel like the luckiest person in the world

I think she nailed it right there.....but only because it's true. ;)

[Purple Banana]

Sometimes men can go overboard with compliments, and it feels awkward.

But when you feel comfortable, compliment her :) It make or break it.

[birdgirl73]

I was thinking about this subject overnight after talking to my friend Judy, who's constantly at odds with her husband about their sex life.

I think a very basic thing men need to know is that while they regard sex as being the best way to for us show them love and acceptance, we women first need to feel love and acceptance before we feel like having sex. Sounds almost too simple to be worth mentioning, but it's not. It's a difference in our emotional constitution that influences how we relate to each other at a very basic level.

Men's actions of being loving, supportive, and accepting of women is a lot more likely to make us want to put out than just saying "I need sex" or "If you loved me, you'd have sex with me." For some reason, although they've been married for 19 years, my friend Judy and her husband haven't yet figured this out.

[RyanTheCaveman]

Ye i think that is why my gf loves me...imn nto cocky withher and shit...i dont like play games and shit either.she is so sweet and i love her.

oh and the "every man should treat her like a goddess....." thingy i amw iccan so i praise the goddess ya know?...so i sya like..shes my goddess...(in tat we love everything...but i love her too :P).


im high as fuck...she also digs that....me beinga stoner...


we have alot in common too.


peace and love people...

[Weedhound]

So birdgirl, wouldn't be that the answer I gave first was the correct one?!

[dutch.lover]

i think the thread in the sexuality section called something like "how to make her feel special" will cover a lot of things you want to know, Coelho. I posted in there about gestures that women really appreciate.

the things i value the most are thoughtfulness and consideration. it's really the little things that matter the most imo. Like, make the girl feel she has a say in certain decisions. If you are planning on going out with friends on the weekend, ask where she would like to go or what activities she's in the mood for. Try to remember the (cliche) things like birthdays and anniversaries. Furthermore, try to remember dates in general! I get so annoyed when I have to remind my bf 1,000 times about the brunch with my family, for example.

I could probably go on for a long time, so maybe I will come back to this later, but lastly and as strange as this sounds- don't make your girl nag you. lol. At least in my case, I hate nagging as much as you hate being nagged. If I ask you to clean up the kitchen, and 12 hours later it's still not done, either a)don't get mad if I ask you to do it again, or b)just do what i say in a reasonable amount of time. Btw, to avoid sounding like a slave driver, I'm not bossy...I like to think I am quite reasonable when it comes to household chores and such. :)

[Samwhore]

-always be truthful
-know when its okay to be a friend, and when to be a lover (if shes pissed, be her friend and make her feel better first, then have make-up sex later)
-when your ready, tell her you love her, and mean it
-call her the cutesy names she likes, we all know, theres always that one name that guys love that we dread, "hot stuff" *shudders ew*
-little kisses throughout the day, along with hugs, remind her you love her,
-dont get too clingy and needy, we dont like it as much as you do
-when you talk to her, try to look in her eyes as much as possible
-dont be embarassed to love her in front of your friends
-know what she likes, and doesnt like,

[Pipe Dreams]

I just wanna say, this thread disgusts me.

[higher4hockey]

why ?

[Psycho4Bud]

All women should just carry their very own owners manual. The right button to push on one is the self-destruct on another. How the hell are we suppose to keep track of all that shit? :wtf:

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

[Weedhound]

But don't you think that's true for men as well P4B?

[Psycho4Bud]

But don't you think that's true for men as well P4B?

LOL.......By answering that question I would be participating in hijacking this thread and that would be wrong...."What every man should know":angelsmiley:

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

I was thinking about this subject overnight after talking to my friend Judy, who's constantly at odds with her husband about their sex life.

I think a very basic thing men need to know is that while they regard sex as being the best way to for us show them love and acceptance, we women first need to feel love and acceptance before we feel like having sex. Sounds almost too simple to be worth mentioning, but it's not. It's a difference in our emotional constitution that influences how we relate to each other at a very basic level.

Men's actions of being loving, supportive, and accepting of women is a lot more likely to make us want to put out than just saying "I need sex" or "If you loved me, you'd have sex with me." For some reason, although they've been married for 19 years, my friend Judy and her husband haven't yet figured this out.
Things are waaay backwards in the Greenjeans household. I'm always the one saying "if you loved me, you'd fuck me".

Sorry Birdie, I know it pains you that I say fuck in public. LOL!

Anyhooo, I know what you mean though. You can't call me a bitch in the morning and expect to get any tail at night. It ain't happenin without a long exhaustive conversation on just how wrong you are, and an apology. I like hot makeup sex though, so sometimes I'll pick a fight just to get laid. I know it's wrong, but it's effective.

[napolitana869]

I'm always the one saying "if you loved me, you'd fuck me".

I had to pull something like that the other night. Since then the sex has been better than its ever.

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

It's a damn shame ain't it?