How To Make a Girl Feel Special..?

[santa]

Drives me nuts really.. i cant think up any comments or compliments.. or anything like that without it being all cheesy and cliché .. just trying to make a girl feel good about herself can be a trainwreck for me.. hellppp :(

thanks :thumbsup:

[Prunedale]

tease em.. about how cute their whatever looks.
how it cought your eye and you think its cute on them, they look like a cute something you wanna just mmmmmmm sllllllrp. :p

Be cute about it

[lagstronaut]

Hey Santa you have a really nice beard, what do you do to make it look like that in the morning? Nothing?! Wow, it looks fabulous :D


compliment her qualities that deserve complimenting. aka if you don't believe your own compliment NEITHER WILL SHE!

[Prunedale]

I'll also take the male filthy post please...


"Just whip it out and tell her.. Look girl you see this... You do that to me....."
"Thats what you do"
"You and you're cute little purse, and your soo LA sunglasses and flipflops with the perfect feet and cute little toes and cute girly tattoos and mmmmmmmmmmperfect aaa...oooooohhh heh sorry uh.. /wipe

[higher4hockey]

i know a few girls that really like a guy thats like their father. so if you can find out what her old man does to make her feel special, she'll probably eat it up.


this is just my experience, a few girls are like this, not all.

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

Listen to her when she talks. Remember things that are important to her, like birthdays, her likes and dislikes. A lot of guys give flowers, which are great. But my favorite present I ever ever got was a book that I had been wanting for ages. The guy was just a friend of mine, but he took the time to pick up cues from our conversations and got me the perfect gift.

Be nice to her mother/father/siblings/family.

Don't belittle her. Ask her opinions on things.
Don't talk about your ex girlfriends ad nauseum. Don't ogle other girls when you're with her. Focus on her.

Tell her she makes you feel special. Then tell her why/how.

I'm sure there's more. Those are just some.

[SaanenGoats]

:S Good lord: I'm assuming that's all men answering, but I'll tell you, if I got approached like that I'd definitly not feel special, I'd feel dirty. So if y'all don't mind, here's it from a girl's perspective, and to be fair, I'm not much of a girly girl either so if you're dealing with a girlie girl, different tactics no doubt apply. The cute thing: annoying. Unless of course the woman in mind is obviously trying to be cute.

What makes me feel special is usually actually only looks. When I catch a guy looking at me more than normal, it makes me feel special because he's suddenly more interested in me than other guys are.

Other than that, sincere compliments are always great, especially those that are not generic, that are appropriate to the situation, and that compliment an aspect of me that I'm proud of. So I guess in order to pay a good compliment, you have to figure out what your woman is trying to do/be and then compliment her when she's doing something related to it. For example, if she spends tons of time doing makeup, tell her she looks good. She obviously cares about how she looks. Telling a woman who doesn't wear makeup and doesn't do her hair she looks good might not compliment her because chances are she doesn't place a lot of value on her looks. Pay attention to her.

Attention really makes a girl feel special (but not attention in a creepy, stalkerish, desperately horny matter... if you know what I mean you don't have to worry). Just say hi, ask her how she's doing, (and LISTEN TO THE GODDAMN ANSWER!!), help her if it looks like she needs help, commiserate if she seems down.... ya, I think pay attention is pretty well the foolproof way to make a girl feel special.

[SaanenGoats]

Wow, Mrs Greenjeans, you must have posted two seconds before I did... otherwise I could have saved myself all that painstaking typing. Guys: what she said.

[blackbarbie]

it's the little things. you don't have to break your bank on her but just treat her with respect & kindness

[halfassedjediknight]

use the du unto others rule a lot. treat her like you wanna be treated. with respect and love.

sometimes corny and cheesy is corny and cheesy, but sometimes women like that.

my lady has the most beautiful eyes ive ever seen, and im not scared to tell her. i still tell her whenever i get the stare haha!

just be considerate dude!

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

Wow, Mrs Greenjeans, you must have posted two seconds before I did... otherwise I could have saved myself all that painstaking typing. Guys: what she said.
I love your avatar. That goat cracks me up.

[dutch.lover]

tell her she is beautiful, and mean it.

i think every girl loves to hear it when it's sincere. i know for me, i hear that i am 'hot' quite often but that really means nothing to me. im not an object...by calling a girl beautiful it means so much more.

there are so many simple things you can do to make her feel special:
-plan a date (doesnt need to be expensive or anything)...it shows you take initiative and, if you do something she likes it will win you more points

-cook a special dinner for her. make it romantic. candles on the table.

-call her for no reason other than to see how her day is going, or to tell her you miss her

-buy her chocolate (or icecream, etc) when she says she's pms-ing, or offer her a massage

it's all about doing things out of nowhere...we love surprises, and romance is so dead these days that it's nice when a guy actually takes initiative to plan something for us.

[azure]

Drives me nuts really.. i cant think up any comments or compliments.. or anything like that without it being all cheesy and cliché .. just trying to make a girl feel good about herself can be a trainwreck for me.. hellppp :(

thanks :thumbsup:

not a good way of getting a girl, unless you know shes already attracted to you. if thats why your asking

[Skink]

just say I Love U...

[someuser]

How do I make a girl feel special?


When giving me a blow-job I let her know when I'm about to cum.

[pass_the_dubbie]

Just be yourself, I find my humour carries me through and I can make her fell good while also making her laugh. Dont try and be someone your not or else shes gonna see right through you. I find smoking weed makes me more nervous with my girlfriend...more aware of whats going on but them again im kinda shy.

[Pipe Dreams]

Tell her she makes you feel special. Then tell her why/how.



Now really, thats just going too damn far.

[pass_the_dubbie]

Now really, thats just going too damn far.
Yes heaven forbid anyone share there real emotions.

[bong_man]

get her high, buy her flowers lol

[lagstronaut]

Now really, thats just going too damn far.

Glad I'm not the only one who thinks that! The guy is just trying to make a girl like him more, I don't think it'll work if he says "Hey Sarah, you make me feel special." She'll think he has a boner then will slap him

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

Not if he has any sort of finesse about it. He can say something like "You always make me laugh/brighten my day" etc, or "I'm always in a good mood when I'm around you."

Jesus, if it wasn't for drugs and alcohol some of y'all would never get laid. Y'all gots no game.

[MadSativa]

I'll also take the male filthy post please...


"Just whip it out and tell her.. Look girl you see this... You do that to me....."
"Thats what you do"
"You and you're cute little purse, and your soo LA sunglasses and flipflops with the perfect feet and cute little toes and cute girly tattoos and mmmmmmmmmmperfect aaa...oooooohhh heh sorry uh.. /wipe

Im gona use that some time not bad:pimp: :pimp:

[pass_the_dubbie]

I smoked weed with my girlfriend not too long ago but it ended up pretty random. I ment to say i love you to her.....Somehow I ended up saying "i love youtube". She burst out laughing though and now its like our codeword thing.

[IanCurtisWishlist]

I smoked weed with my girlfriend not too long ago but it ended up pretty random. I ment to say i love you to her.....Somehow I ended up saying "i love youtube". She burst out laughing though and now its like our codeword thing.

you've spent too much time watching youtube that useless shit! somebody call the rubber truck take him away he is delusional from the internet.

[Polymirize]

Drives me nuts really.. i cant think up any comments or compliments.. or anything like that without it being all cheesy and cliché .. just trying to make a girl feel good about herself can be a trainwreck for me.. hellppp :(

thanks :thumbsup:

Dude, just start with small talk... And then give her the chance to speak and listen.

[FLORIDA MON]

Tell her that you love her every day.

Bring her flowers once a week.:hippy:

[MadSativa]

you've spent too much time watching youtube that useless shit! somebody call the rubber truck take him away he is delusional from the internet.

Youtube is sick where eles can you get videos of the truth in the states the news yeah right. check it :pimp: :pimp:

YouTube - Broadcast Yourself. (http://www.youtube.com/profile_play_list?user=MadSativa)