getting back with an ex?

[wadejason]

yes or no? is it bad idea? is it fine? ive been single for like a year and a half or so maybe 2 years and an ex of mine started talking to me more often lately over the last month and weve got realy close and she just makes me smile. i cant get her out of my head and while ive been crushin on her the last month i didnt think we really had a chance of maybe getting abck together. ive talked to her about it and we may once she squares away with this guy she was trying to get with. im gonna take it slow and see where this goes. i think shes starting to understand that i know how to treat a girl much better than most guys she goes out. so ex's? any input?

[b0Ng h!tz 4 mE]

dunno my ex's hate me lol

[rebgirl420]

I dont think its a great idea but to each their own.

[thcbongman]

There's a reason you parted. I learned the hard way. I wouldn't, but if she makes you happy, why not, only one life to live?

[Metaphor]

do it, if she makes you happy thats all that mattes

[higher4hockey]

i would get back with only one of my exes, which is because neither of us know why we really parted in the first place.

go for it, what really do you have to lose? remember "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take."

[Prunedale]

After your not lonely anymore, those problems will come back, you guys are who you are and thats it. I have a buddy whos a pussy whipped bitch, his girl of 18-19 years old kicked him out because he has no ambition. So he goes through the heart break, she goes and fucks other guys, then she starts callin him again, so he goes over, the "talk" and then next thing you know someone says" huh huh feels like old times" Then the stupid bitch goes.. "it would feel more like old times if you kissed me" OMG. How fuckin dumb. lol. I'm all for love, but fuck ex's sometimes man. Since you arent in this situation and don't seem like a pussy whipped dumbfuck I say do what you will, hope you are happy and have many babies.

To my friend.. Your a fukin dumbass.. your girls a immature ho. Get some balls and go talk to girls. Mutherfooker only has had 2 girlfriends his whole life. Trying to say he doesn't like meeting girls and having casual sex. I'm like duh dumbass the girl left you cause you had less experience than her. She didn't need you. Anyway.. Sounds like you grew up a bit and know how to treat her now??? HOpe it works.. gl

[dutch.lover]

first off think about what made you two break up...take some time, and really consider if you (her too) have matured enough in whatever ways, to make the relationship work again.

if yes, great. but one more thing- do not get back together if either one of you has recently gotten out of a serious relationship (or are still in one lol) and definitely don't get back together if there is any "dirty laundry" from the past. Like messy drama involving other people that hasn't yet been resolved. that kind of thing.

[mad_nat]

you know i never been a big fan of getting back with exes but i know one of my exes that i would get back together just because we both didrnt want it to end it just had no choice and omg he was hot (i never get any1 that hot again)

[halfassedjediknight]

just do what you feel is right.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

I've gotten back with some of my ex's or atleast have had some sort of crush on them again, and it's not always true that "there are reasons you broke up" because in a lot of my relationships we broke up for reasons other then the fact that a)one of us cheated or b) we hate eachother..yanno..like he was goin to college and i was in highschool or shit like that. If you like her, go for it..plus you don't have to go thru that extremely awkward stage of getting to know eachother..or maybe you do 'cause it's been so long :P

[Gatekeeper777]

BAD IDEA ! They are an EX_ for a reason!
would you eat a rotten apple you tossed in the garbage yesterday?
Then why would you polish up the ex?

[Tomthehippie]

Id say dont do it! however every situation is different! :) Sometimes you’ve just gotta move on! :)