Regrets

[B.Basher]

This is the thread for posting your regrets and venting your guilt a little. A lot of people like to preach that regrets are pointless, but any human being sure of him or herself knows you can't help it.

So, to start, I regret being a prick to some of my friends when I was young. I used to bully one friend and thought nothing of it for so long, yet he still stuck around and is one of my best friends to date. I also regret being very harsh to a dude who was my best friend in school for years. He was a c*nt himself but I relished tormenting him after his exclusion from our social circle. Needless to say, I ended up being the bigger prick of the two and I still find myself regretting such behaviour 4 years on.

SO, post your regrets if you have any and get it out. Admit your faults and how you've risen above them.

[jokeyjokejoke]

Not working hard enough at school.

[napolitana869]

when I was in middle school my little group had myself and 3 other girls and 2 of those girls pushed the third girl out for no reason and I wish I would have stood up for her

[Abattoir Dream]

haha yeh, ditto...

i regret being me lol, i was goin out with one of the fittest girls in my school for ages, but i always screwed stuff up. i knew she liked me, but because she was one of the popular girls and i was just a stoner who skated and made funny remarks in class, ppl kept makin fun of her, and obviously we split up. even after that, everytime i looked round she would be staring at me, i still liked her, and im pretty sure she still liked me, but if i spoke to her all her bitchy little mates would butt in and give me shit.

now shes goin out with some fuckin massive gypsy kiddy and i dont speak to her at all..

basically i wish i didnt have to go through that crap, it was so shit... maybe one day ill meet her again... maybe not.. who knows?

i also regret the first time i smoked a cigarette... i swapped a bunch of stolen gel-pens for one with some kid on the council estate... lol back in the day...:)

[delusionsofNORMALity]

i only regret the things i didn't do and those are too numerous to list. all of the things i have done are a part of what i've become, which i don't regret. even the worst of my transgressions have been of some use and regretting them is pointless.

[Metaphor]

i know what ya mean, i used to make fun of of this heavyset kid, when i was younger me and this other kid would just about torment him till he was about to cry (occasionally he did). This kid is now a one of the people i smoke with, he would probaby be in the circle is he chilled every day.
I guess if you havent lost contact with the other kid you could try to make amends somehow, smoke a bowl with him or somethin

[SonicBloom]

Regrets are for the weak.

[Kid Dynamite]

I regret some of the relationships i've fucked up in the past...but its easy to regret and dwell on things that happened in the past. Its harder to learn a lesson from them and move on...

[slipknotpsycho]

missing a half year of school every year...

something i won't say...

not moving my wife when i noticed she was walking infront of a car i had a bad feeling about (as usual my bad feeling was correct)

leaving one of my ex girlfriends to go out wthi another girl just because i was listening to a dumb ass shallow friend of mine (took years to finally track down the ex, explain and apologize and tell her how shitty i felt about it)

going back to school (not because of what'd you think... lets just say i got involved with agirl that i regret ever getting involved with)

getting my brother to get me weed.. which eventually led to him smoking, and eventually getting into worse situations, and eventually being murdered (i know it's not my fault he's dead, but if i hadn't got him into it, there's a good chance he never would have, and he would have never been involved in anythign that night)

ever letting my dad back in my life

not telling my mom how i feel about her

never developing a work ethic

letting everyting be handed to me on a platter when i was younger (turned into me not developing a work ethic)

there's way too much to list.

[2600HERTZ]

That I take my ability to attract girls for granted. I don't love them like i mean to.

Also, probably that I usually do something for someone so that they think I am still their friend. Not like to take advantage of them, but because I can't tell people that I can't stand being around them, so instead I just let it keep going on and pretend I like being around them.