Need Girl Help

[UTD Toker]

Ok so first off im 19 yrs old and go to a college where in one of my classes there is this really pretty chick that sits in front of me and one chair to the right. So anyways EVERY day like she will walk in and i swear we will like eye fuck the shit out of each other but no conversation......and like during lecture I can see that she tries to look at me cause like she'll turn her head sideways and i can just tell. (Hard to explain sry) But anyways I am 95% percent sure she likes me too but I'm just to scared to talk to her cause Im afraid of getting rejected. I know im a vagina when it comes to women sorry lol. Anyways I was just wonderin what yall great creative stoners out there should do?!?! Tomorow I'm going to say something to her cause I need to get with someone again... Thanks and HaPpY ToKiNg!!!!

[Gatekeeper777]

strike up a conversation about class. ask her a meaningless question about a class topic, tell her that you would like to ask her to be a study partner.
Ask if her boyfriend would get jelouse if you studied with her. that will tell you if she is in a relationship.

[Its a Plant]

But anyways I am 95% percent sure she likes me too but I'm just to scared to talk to her cause Im afraid of getting rejected.
Lol...that doesn't make sense. If you're sure she likes you, what do you have to lose?

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Say "hi" to her one day if you've actually never spoken. Then ask her about something class-related...just something to break the ice...then go from there.

Just relax, take a deep breath, and be yourself. Good luck. :hippy:

[birdgirl73]

Make a sweeping romantic gesture. Take her a rose on Valentine's Day.

OK, that may be too brash. But I do agree that you should talk to her. Unless she's an absolute witch, she's not going to reject a conversation. We females are the ones with the talking genes, you know. She'll jump in and start talking right back and, if she's anything like I was, feel relieved that you had the guts to break the initial surface tension.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained, as the old adage goes. I like the way Plant worded it even more. I'm going to start using that "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" line, Plant!

[Its a Plant]

Hehe, well don't quote ME on that. I believe Wayne Gretzky said it first.

I do like it though. :jointsmile:

[birdgirl73]

I might have known it would have a sports origin. That's no doubt why I didn't recognize it, although I am proud to say I do know who Wayne Gretzky is. Of course, it could also have been something an archer or a sniper first said, too.

[Samwhore]

So anyways EVERY day like she will walk in and i swear we will like eye fuck the shit out of each other


I hope you used protection, you might catch pink eye


but just say, "Hey, whats up, my name is ______ did you understand the assignment yesterday?" then shell be bound to talk to you, then you can carry out the conversation as you please, be confident in yourself and ask her to come to your dorm or whatever and ask her to study with you

[UTD Toker]

ya its just kinda hard cause the teacher just lectures the entire class (Pschycology) so theres really no time to talk to her except for before or after class and like she usually gets there like right on time or a little late so like the only time would be after class in the halls but like what should i say? "Hello my name is Tyler and I want to get in your pants LMAO" no really

[Samwhore]

hm, then "run" into her in the halls and say, "hey can I walk you to class?"

[UTD Toker]

hm, havent thought of that i might do that

[Samwhore]

just dont ask to carry her books, thats pushing it a little

[Frivolous248]

"Hello my name is Tyler and I want to get in your pants LMAO"

Perfect...only it'd be kinda weird to say "L-M-A-O!" at the end. She'd be like "double you tee eff?"

[meloncoly]

ask her if she knows how to spell psychology, it would help you as well ;)

not but seriously, the best way to get a girl to notice you, is to fall over on purpose near her and fondle her breasts as you fall down, and say sorry, then get married.

[dutch.lover]

I know im a vagina when it comes to women

:error: I resent that sentence.

Anyways- just talk to her. It's not that hard, say something like "hey, how'd you find that test?" or "have you started working on that assignment yet?"

She's not going to think you are crazy for talking to her. And, if she finds you cute, she will be flattered and probably all 'butterfly-y".

*sigh*

[2600HERTZ]

I say just walk up and slip a finger in her booty.

[blackbarbie]

seriously just talk to her. she's probably wondering why you havent already

[UTD Toker]

Ok so today in class we had an exam which kinda sucked, but anyways after the test i walked up behind her and asked her what she thought of the test, and I could tell she was like a little supprised/shocked cause she was like stuttering in shit which is all good i guess but then I asked her what her name was and what her next class was, etc. and then I just said that I was glad to meet her and pretty much thats that! I don't have cass with her again until valenines so i think for the occasion im gonna ask her if she wants to go out sometime and see how that goes? Thanks to Sam and everyone else that game me advise! :) Happy Toking

[Samwhore]

Ok so today in class we had an exam which kinda sucked, but anyways after the test i walked up behind her and asked her what she thought of the test, and I could tell she was like a little supprised/shocked cause she was like stuttering in shit which is all good i guess but then I asked her what her name was and what her next class was, etc. and then I just said that I was glad to meet her and pretty much thats that! I don't have cass with her again until valenines so i think for the occasion im gonna ask her if she wants to go out sometime and see how that goes? Thanks to Sam and everyone else that game me advise! :) Happy Toking

Congrats! give her some flowers, (not alot, id say 1-5, a small boquet) or chocolates for valentines even if its just a bag of kisses, I know that would make my day. GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER!!!:)

[ReUp]

I like what your doing man. Definitely ask her to hang out or something on Valentine's. Stay far away from that friend zone aka death trap. Keep the relationship moving forward and toward a romantic ending.

[UTD Toker]

Congrats! give her some flowers, (not alot, id say 1-5, a small boquet) or chocolates for valentines even if its just a bag of kisses, I know that would make my day. GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER!!!:)

ya but dont you think thats a little too dramatic for just meeting her?! I was gonna ask her on a date that evening and then give her some roses or something

[UTD Toker]

I like what your doing man. Definitely ask her to hang out or something on Valentine's. Stay far away from that friend zone aka death trap. Keep the relationship moving forward and toward a romantic ending.


thanks for the advice btw ill keep that in mind!

[ReUp]

Roses are too much. Go with something prettier and less intense like daisies (I got this advice myself from a lady friend of mine earlier today).

[Samwhore]

ya but dont you think thats a little too dramatic for just meeting her?! I was gonna ask her on a date that evening and then give her some roses or something


you could do that too, does she smoke?

[ReUp]

Lol. If she smokes scrap the flowers and pick up an eighth of some dank. :).

[Samwhore]

or roll a blunt and fold it so its shaped like a heart

[UTD Toker]

haha i dunno shes hispanic so theres a good chance.....lol

[Samwhore]

wow, that was racist

cannabis knows no race

[ReUp]

wow, that was racist

cannabis knows no race

Agreed but I'm sure he meant it in a light hearted way. He likes this girl remember.

[Samwhore]

yeah I know, all for love

[UTD Toker]

wow, that was racist

cannabis knows no race

Sry if that came out wrong, I'm from a city in north texas and like most white ppl around here dont smoke (I'm part hispanic too lol)

[Samwhore]

me too, Im hispanic, but whatever, IM LEGAL, I have papes to prove it, no wetbacks here

[UTD Toker]

me too, Im hispanic, but whatever, IM LEGAL, I have papes to prove it, no wetbacks here


Haha i love it lmao ya im like a fifth hispanic but not mexican though i hate it when ppl ask me that. Even though I just look like a caucasion (sp) with a good tan lol

[napolitana869]

you should look her up on facebook and see if shes in any pot related groups. I used to do that all the time before my school started checking that stuff out and a lot of people stopped making that type of stuff public

[UTD Toker]

i dont have facebook just myspace, she has a myspace tho

[Samwhore]

i dont have facebook just myspace, she has a myspace tho


well check it!

you unmexican!

[UTD Toker]

well check it!

you unmexican!


haha shes my myspace friend already took care of that! *Feeling gay/nerdy* lol check out mine if you want my id is 111557047 and tell me what you think!

[Samwhore]

pokerface, lmao

[UTD Toker]

haha ya the girl's name is judith....

[Samwhore]

haha ya the girl's name is judith....

link???

[UTD Toker]

shes on the first page on my friends list, her page is public

[Samwhore]

:S2: typical, she has those portraits you get a the swap-meet, nothing racist but every mexican I know has those portraits. im probally the only one who doesnt get them, but yes, she seems nice

[UTD Toker]

thanks, haha ya i noticed...O I was goin to ask you somethin i forgot, I havent heared anything from her since yesterday like on myspace or nething so tomorow should i still make another move or wait for her to do something? What would you do if you were a man lol

[Samwhore]

If I were a man, Id pee standing up,

I would still make the move, shes just as shy as you are. JUST DO IT. you wont regret it, youll still be proud knowing you tried

[UTD Toker]

haha alrighty then....what do you think i should say? just ask her out on a dat or like just keep on talking to her...blah blah?

[Samwhore]

ask her out for lunch

[UTD Toker]

haha ok sam will do! will give you an update tomorow lol im about to hit the good ol' lightbulb vape and pass out, have a good one:o

[Samwhore]

yay! you too!

good luck!

[ReUp]

ask her out for lunch

Lunch is too friendly and she might get confused where its heading. Go with dinner. If you can find reservations that is.

[UTD Toker]

Wow I dont think my Valentine's could of gone any worse. First she comes into class like 5 minitus late, holding a box from build-a-bear and then holding like a "i love you" baloon, and of course, the first thing the dumb ass proffesor says is, wow! someones trying to be your boyfriend!! My heart just like fell 10 stories haha so then like 30 minute into class she gets all of her stuff and just left....what should i do

[Samwhore]

ask her if she has a boyfriend...

[Podge_Boro]

just pretend you need some help with something, to start a conversation
but make suure its somethin she knows, then complement her on how smart she is
complements and confidence

i know i havent said much, but it should be enough
hope you get with her mate

[UTD Toker]

no she doesnt have a boyfriend but it looks some other fucker is tryin to get with her already which kinda sucks..

[UTD Toker]

just pretend you need some help with something, to start a conversation
but make suure its somethin she knows, then complement her on how smart she is
complements and confidence

i know i havent said much, but it should be enough
hope you get with her mate

thanks btw

[UTD Toker]

Wow I think I'm seriously gonna hook up with this broad for real :thumbsup:
So I decided to send her a message last night sayin like how she must of had a really good V-Day cause like all the gifts she got from all of the guys and hope she had a good day blah blah.....ANYWAYS she messaged me back sayin how they were just from her girl friends and that she was lonely valentines and how she wants to do something sometime...;)

[Samwhore]

well then, ask her on a date!

[tokin'smoker]

yeah, quick! she obviously has interest in you so now you just gotta make a move. congrats bro.