Are girls attracted to muscles?

[YahtzeeG]

I am sure you are. But just wanna ask the question...

[JackdaWack]

In my experience, most girls don't take alot of intreast in fatty guys, or muscle heads, most of all the testosterone goes strait to there head. Most girls like well maintained guys, who take care of there bodies. So yeah muscular, but even they know when too much is to much. Hey some chicks are just retards tho so dont take what they like actually as what other girls like. Most of my x-girlfriends have been good looking and sexy, some that i dated way back in the day arent anymore, but either way, im a skinny guys with no acne and i keep my self well maintained and i got some muscle but not alot, and i still get the chicka's hope this helps man, once u hit a certain age alot of girls go for the personality more then anything but they do rate your looks and it could be a factor still.

[stinkyattic]

Mebbe an mebbe not...
Muscles are sexy.
Like construction guy muscles.
Not desk job + 3 hours at the gym and "I can't figure out which end of the hammer to hit the little metal whatsit with" muscles.
Guys who look like they spend waaaay too much time at the gym, and even more admiring themselves in the mirror, FORGET IT.
Besides... doesn't shooting 'roids fuck up your sexual function?
Nice garage to keep your car in... too bad the thing won't start :D

[JaggedEdge]

I think it depends on the girl. My g/f saw pictures of me from when I played football and she said she is happy I don't look like that anymore. She want's something a little less hard to cuddle up to.

Just like some guys like short girls, others like tall. Some like bone thin, some like a little meat, and some like fat. It depends on the individual.

[napolitana869]

I like it when guys look strong, but not when they look like they're taking anything to maintain that look. If I had to choose between either extreme though I would choose the skinny guy. I dont want to be with someone who looks like they could break me in half

[notransfer]

im a guy its about confidence not looking power ripped...if looking power ripped gives you confidence go for it...my girls liked the way i looked i wasnt super strong wasnt weak, wasnt super fat wasnt super thin

[MastaChronic]

i used to do construction
i lost most of my fat this way
when i was 180-190 girls would spare me a second glance
now that im down to 140 and have some muscle the girls are all over me
im getting back into construction, its good money

[Samwhore]

NO, the grungy no muscle guys are the cutest

[blackbarbie]

it depends on the individual guy. nice, natural muscles are can be good on a guy, but i wouldn't necessarily not be attracted to a guy because he didn't have muscles. of course, if he looks like a steroid using bodybuilder, then that is really unattractive.

a guy's body type isn't really that big of a factor for me. i've liked skinny guys, medium, and slightly chubby. the only thing i don't do is fatties lol (no offense)

[stinkyattic]

I like guys with some chunk!
You know, the ones who look like they enjoy a bit of hedonism and know their way around a kitchen.
No slobs though! Blech. Take care of yourself!

[dutch.lover]

I like muscles but am not obsessed with them. The ripped bodybuilder look is just creepy IMO, and yes Stinky 'roids do fuck up sexual function (ED i believe)! I too wouldn't mind a little bit of pudge to be honest, it's more comfy to cuddle with. Basically, I don't really care about body shape, as long as it's kept in shape! Being healthy and taking care of yourself (ie no body odor, lol) is what really counts.

[birdgirl73]

I agree. I like well-muscled, lean types like my husband. Not the over-muscled, steroid-enhanced competitive bodybuilder types. Nothing could be less sexy to me. Just thinking about Ahnold in his competitive days makes me feel queasy. But the healthy, chiseled, lean look where you can see muscle definition in the arms and legs and abs is definitely a turn-on for me. It just sends the message of health and strength. My husband played football in high school and college but long ago got rid of that beefy, thick-necked defensive-end muscular look and now just looks, well, like a very healthy, fit guy.

[Lethal G]

I'm actually a quite skinny guy, and short at the same time. I always thought I needed muscles (and still do think that honestly lol) but the time and money it takes to gain them could be well-spent on a female companion instead :)

I actually have a girlfriend now who is a little taller than me, but she is also very thin like me. She says my body is perfect the way it is, so I don't plan to change anything.

[Gatekeeper777]

my wife likes me to flex my muscles while we are having sex. she likes to feel them. it makes her cum harder.

[JackdaWack]

steriods.... they dont fuck with function, but they do with form, lol, im pretty sure they give you liver problems possibly cancer very bad for you in the long run, ppl dont realize that, and it stops your body from making testosterone, so say bye to your balls.

[2600HERTZ]

I am a pretty muscular guy. I weigh about 190 and have only 13% body fat(not competition but good)

In my experience since I lost fat and gained about 45 pounds of muscle, I have gotten many many more chicks. But that could entirely be because my confidence skyrocketed. Then again, I tend to dictate very well, and present myself in a humble manner, and when girls hear it I always get an approach.

So I think other factors play more of a role, but through natural selection the more muscular guys tend to get the look first.


Oh, all natural gain, no roids. I figure wtf would be the point of losing weight and gaining muscle with roids. For me its about overall health, not just look, and roids give you temporary muscle. Natural muscle gains keep the muscle around longer in off periods between the gym, and roids muscle tends to disappear much quicker.

[JeenYuss]

im like tha skinniest dude i know, like i can almost touch my thumb & finger around my bicep, an i have like 0% body fat but i still get MAD bitches & its usually my abs, penis, face and the fact im very well groomed & dressed

[MrGreenFingaz]

i dont care about my muscles, as long as i can still kick ass and feel good im happy.

[mad_nat]

yes i like a man with muscles, i have/would date skinny guys but tbh the first thing i notice about a guy is there body if i see a guy with muscle i will check him out and i will jump on him lol but by muscler i dont mean the type of guys you see strongest men in the world that kindof freaks me out.

[The.Devil.Himself]

I think it depends on the girl. My g/f saw pictures of me from when I played football and she said she is happy I don't look like that anymore. She want's something a little less hard to cuddle up to.

Just like some guys like short girls, others like tall. Some like bone thin, some like a little meat, and some like fat. It depends on the individual.

Way to take this opportunity to interject your physical state!!

Is this really a question, or is this guy just looking for some responses?

Different people appreciate different things, doesn't everyone realize this??

Do you see every girl in the world in public with John Q. Muscle?? Nooo. So do the math.

Does size matter?? OF COURSE IT DOES, but helllloooo..... too big is TOO BIG. Obvious? Yes. Any girl that tells you size doesn't matter is too nice for the likes of you, a girl givin the choice will 99% of the time choose a slightly larger penis to tackle.

C'mon this is all common sense stuff. Seems like the trend nowadays in the schools is all this emo shit... girls go for the "dark", skinny-as-fuck, pants so tight it's silly and bangs all up in my face type mostly.

Just look around you.

[someuser]

I use to work at the gym as well as personally ranging from being very fit to being very unfit.

All in all, from my personal experience, I think most girls like guys who are 'average' to 'toned and in shape'... Guys who are REALLY big or REALLY ripped seem to turn the average girl off more so then they turn them on.

Finally, I also think a lot has to do with your body type. Guys who are more 'average' build can get away easier being in 'average' shape. Guys who are more slender (like me) tend to need to be a little more in shape to off-set the smaller frame or risk looking too 'wimpy'. In general, girls want to feel protected so if you look like you couldnt protect a warm cup of piss then you might be losing some potential points ;)

[Shannon]

Some muscles is sexy...but like greased up muscles ontop of muscles...nahh

[Wesley Pipes]

dunno, i'm skinny but well-toned, hasnt worked out the greatest for me so far, most girls prefer the muscle boneheads imo

[halfassedjediknight]

in my experience women dont like greased up body builder doofus's.

besides its all about confidence and how you carry yourself. otherwise its just superficial attraction.

[Wesley Pipes]

in my experience women dont like greased up body builder doofus's.

besides its all about confidence and how you carry yourself. otherwise its just superficial attraction.

yup and thats what girls are all about

[halfassedjediknight]

yup and thats what girls are all about


i hope so. otherwise i got something wrong. but it seems im doing something right haha!

[Abattoir Dream]

lol i like to keep fit and strong, not for girls but for myself, theres nothing more handy than being able to move big things when you need too, and being able to accomplish a physical task easily and quickly.. lol life gets alot easier the stronger you get...

i keep myself fit for myself, if girls like that, i guess its a bonus.. though if a girl didnt like that, i cant see myself bothering to make the change for them...

lol and i definately cant see myself on steroids haha

[halfassedjediknight]

hahaha dude what do you mean move big things? are you pushin around cars or somethin?! :D

[blackbarbie]

yup and thats what girls are all about

but of course guys arent:rolleyes:

[halfassedjediknight]

but of course guys arent:rolleyes:

guess youre lookin at the wrong guys

[rebgirl420]

I like guys who are a bit chubby actually. The whole look-at-me-I-work-out-6-days-a-week-and-look-like-an-abercrombie-model kind of guys gross me out. I dont like fat guys though, just maybe 15-20 pounds over is fine.

[MOBABN]

I go through phases, one year ill eat alot and put on weight to get bigger, the last 3 years ive weighed around 185. This year im already down to 145 and extreamly lean....kinda have the swimmers body. Since then ive had 2 ex gf's try to come back to big poppa. I think the thinner/ runner/ swimmer body is more attractive to girls.... although there are the chicks that definatly dig a big ass 250lb muscle head.

[plymouth stoner]

depends witch muscle!lol
:rastasmoke:

[Wesley Pipes]

but of course guys arent:rolleyes:

hey you girls stereotype us guys a hell of a lot more than we stereotype you girls, the fact that you didn't even argue with my statement proves that your as shallow as a barbie doll, which is quite ironic considering the name you've chosen for yourself ;)

[YahtzeeG]

depends witch muscle!lol
:rastasmoke:

lmao

[powair]

I am not attracted to muscles at all. I like softness, but not fatness.

[crudemood]

i like them toned not bulky.. thats sexy :)

[blackbarbie]

hey you girls stereotype us guys a hell of a lot more than we stereotype you girls, the fact that you didn't even argue with my statement proves that your as shallow as a barbie doll, which is quite ironic considering the name you've chosen for yourself ;)

try not to flatter yourself, dear. i didn't argue with your statement because i'm not on here everyday. you have no way of knowing how often girls stereotype guys compared to guys doing the same to girls. have you seen the posts on here from guys stating that they'd rather date a really hot girl with a bitchy personality vs. a ugly or plain girl with a great personality? or the way they talk about fat or ugly girls? if you weren't so stereotypical yourself, you would never have made that initial statement. anyone with experience with the opposite sex and even common sense would know that girls aren't just all about superficial attraction. some are, just like some guys are - but saying we all are like that? boy stop. if that were true, how do you explain ugly guys having girlfriends? fyi, my membername comes from a nickname i got a long time ago;)

[Abattoir Dream]

hahaha dude what do you mean move big things? are you pushin around cars or somethin?! :D

yeh, im pushing cars around... right now... typing with my nose... you know how we do!

[dutch.lover]

i think ive already posted in here already, but what the hell. I agree with what Rebgirl had to say...I prefer a guy with a couple extra pounds, compared to one with not enough. Perhaps this all comes down to the evolutionary-reproduction theory...men with a couple extra pounds look "well fed" and therefore healthier. Also, a little squishiness is much better to cuddle with than pointy boniness.

[Prunedale]

try not to flatter yourself, dear. i didn't argue with your statement because i'm not on here everyday. you have no way of knowing how often girls stereotype guys compared to guys doing the same to girls. have you seen the posts on here from guys stating that they'd rather date a really hot girl with a bitchy personality vs. a ugly or plain girl with a great personality? or the way they talk about fat or ugly girls? if you weren't so stereotypical yourself, you would never have made that initial statement. anyone with experience with the opposite sex and even common sense would know that girls aren't just all about superficial attraction. some are, just like some guys are - but saying we all are like that? boy stop. if that were true, how do you explain ugly guys having girlfriends? fyi, my membername comes from a nickname i got a long time ago;)

OOOOOH heh. thought I'd rub it in for ya.

[Wesley Pipes]

try not to flatter yourself, dear. i didn't argue with your statement because i'm not on here everyday. you have no way of knowing how often girls stereotype guys compared to guys doing the same to girls.
well when quite alot of your friends are female, you get to knows these things ;)



have you seen the posts on here from guys stating that they'd rather date a really hot girl with a bitchy personality vs. a ugly or plain girl with a great personality? or the way they talk about fat or ugly girls?
no i actually i haven't, but explain to me why that makes me the same as them please?



if you weren't so stereotypical yourself, you would never have made that initial statement.
again, explain to me how you can stereotype me by reading one post that i made... i stereotype girls the way i do because i have plenty reason to, every girl i've ever met have all been interested in one of the following: looks, money, cars, age (and i mean like 10+ years older kinda age).





anyone with experience with the opposite sex and even common sense would know that girls aren't just all about superficial attraction. some are, just like some guys are - but saying we all are like that? boy stop. if that were true, how do you explain ugly guys having girlfriends? fyi, my membername comes from a nickname i got a long time ago;)

i've had more experience than you might think... most of it bad, and so far i only know 1 girl whos not hung up on superficial attractions... thats what, 1 in my 22 years of life... oh yeah great odds huh? :rolleyes: but atleast your right, not all girls are the same... and as for ugly guys... well i already said if not looks then money, cars, or the fact they're much older ;)

but ask yourself a question, if in a bar, on a night out (assuming your single and looking), two guys giving you the eye, one ugly, one very good looking.... which one do u talk to first?

i'm pretty sure what the answer would be ;)

Peace :hippy: :D

[shoi]

boo muscle... i cant be botherd to lift weights... im pretty skinny.... but i dont want to work out.... i seem fine imo

[blackbarbie]

well when quite alot of your friends are female, you get to knows these things ;)



no i actually i haven't, but explain to me why that makes me the same as them please?



again, explain to me how you can stereotype me by reading one post that i made... i stereotype girls the way i do because i have plenty reason to, every girl i've ever met have all been interested in one of the following: looks, money, cars, age (and i mean like 10+ years older kinda age).






i've had more experience than you might think... most of it bad, and so far i only know 1 girl whos not hung up on superficial attractions... thats what, 1 in my 22 years of life... oh yeah great odds huh? :rolleyes: but atleast your right, not all girls are the same... and as for ugly guys... well i already said if not looks then money, cars, or the fact they're much older ;)

but ask yourself a question, if in a bar, on a night out (assuming your single and looking), two guys giving you the eye, one ugly, one very good looking.... which one do u talk to first?

i'm pretty sure what the answer would be ;)

Peace :hippy: :D

does anyone else hear the violins playing in the background?

what's wrong with wanting the whole package? a well dressed, good-looking guy with a nice car - oh the horror! if you fit the qualifications i'm sure you wouldn't be whining. if you had the luxury of having options with women, i'm sure you wouldn't be running after a broke, homely girl who sweats gravy with a busted up 85 honda.

also, it's kind of ironic how you're the only guy complaining about this. if you've had bad luck with girls for 22 years, the common denominator is you honey. i know ugly guys with who don't drive bmws with girlfriends. their girlfriends obviously aren't perfect 10s, but they're also not alone, bitter, and judging all women on an internet message board. i'm getting the idea that you have so many problems with the opposite sex because you are trying to date out of your league.

and yes, if i was on a night out and i had a choice between an ugly guy and the fine one i would choose the fine one. that's human nature. if you asked me to choose between a guy that looked like reggie bush but treated me like shit and a ugly nerd with a heart of gold and i chose reggie, that would be shallow. i suppose if i gave you the same choice, you'd lie for the sake of this argument or debate, if you will, and say the ugly one right?

[Wesley Pipes]

...what's wrong with wanting the whole package?...


....i'm getting the idea that you have so many problems with the opposite sex because you are trying to date out of your league....


stop contradicting yourself please, its rather confusing... if someone wants the whole package then chances are they are dating out of their league because they themselves probably aren't the full package... most of us average people have to settle for what we can get rather than what we want... beside, wanting the whole package is vain and shallow simply because no-ones perfect...

personally i would'nt care if a girl had a car or house of her own or lots of money or whatever, and as for her looks, the shape of her body concerns me not, i like cute faces and nice eyes, aslong as she accepted me for who i am, then i am happy with that... god forbid i should meet someone who actually cares more about the person than their financial circumstances or ripped body, thats just wrong, every girl deserves the perfect guy. :rolleyes:

and yeah your probably right that i'm the one to blame for not having much success with women, sorry for not bein the perfect guy. :wtf:

ahh whats the point in arguing... you will just think everything i say is lies, because i'm a guy... right ;)

[blackbarbie]

stop contradicting yourself please, its rather confusing... if someone wants the whole package then chances are they are dating out of their league because they themselves probably aren't the full package... most of us average people have to settle for what we can get rather than what we want... beside, wanting the whole package is vain and shallow simply because no-ones perfect...

personally i would'nt care if a girl had a car or house of her own or lots of money or whatever, and as for her looks, the shape of her body concerns me not, i like cute faces and nice eyes, aslong as she accepted me for who i am, then i am happy with that... god forbid i should meet someone who actually cares more about the person than their financial circumstances or ripped body, thats just wrong, every girl deserves the perfect guy. :rolleyes:

and yeah your probably right that i'm the one to blame for not having much success with women, sorry for not bein the perfect guy. :wtf:

ahh whats the point in arguing... you will just think everything i say is lies, because i'm a guy... right ;)

did i say that money is more important than personality? it is possible to have all of the above. you know there are people who are good looking, financially secure, and with a good personality. all pretty people aren't evil. i get low self esteem vibes from you just from reading your posts. i shudder to imagine what you are like in real life. insecurity is unattractive.

"most of us average people have to settle for what we can get rather than what we want..."
that's sad that you think that way. what, you know that you aren't the "perfect guy" no one said you had to be so you'll go for any girl as long as she just accepts you? shit, i know i'm not perfect no one is but i'm not gonna date any guy that comes along just because he "accepts me". have some standards & fucking respect for yourself. btw, most "average" people don't consider being with their s.o as settling. i would hate to date a guy who thought that. "yeah she's not that great, but she's the best i can get so i'll stay with her". that's wonderful. have you ignored 95% of the posts on this thread? you don't have to be the perfect guy. most girls have said that they don't need a beefcake guy, as long as he is decently attractive and treats them right. like i said, you only call it vain and shallow because you can't do it.

and i don't think everything you say are lies because you're a guy. don't pull things out of your ass. i don't think i've said that all guys lie. men lie, women lie, children lie, everybody lies. in fact, i believe what you're saying to be the truth, that's the sad part. you can wallow in your self pity all you want and blame everyone else for your problem, but i'm only speaking the truth.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

I like all boys (bodies and all), but I LOVE my boyfriend. He just happens to be extremely fit and muscular. He's strong and hard and solid and I absolutely adore that. I can cuddle up to him and he can hold me and I feel safe or he can literally throw me around and pick me up and do what ever he wants to me. I like that. I dunno, I really needed a guy who could make me feel physically safe and he does it for me, perfectly.