Do girls stay if they don't orgasm.

[SuperTorch]

I have always been paranoid that if I don't make a girl orgasm she won't be interested in me, or will lose interest very fast. Its well known that girls don't like lame sex. I have just eqauted that to mean if they don't orgasm then its lame. But the statistics show that more than 50% of girls don't orgasm(correct me if I'm wrong). So my questions is are they still enjoying sex and satisfied with it if they don't orgasm. I have made plenty orgasm but I have this mindset that I'd better make it happen along with she better see my orgasm also as proof that she's doing a godd job all of it has led to too much pressure I place on myself and that in turns make most girls nervous as hell feeling my presure to make sex incredible and fullfilling but in the end a lot of times its not because they feel my worries but that if I don't make it happen she'll just kind of fade away unable to tell me that shes not feeling anything.

So here are a few questions,

Girls have you ever really like a guy a lot who did not make you orgasm.

Would you marry someone if you haven't orgasmed with them.

Whats the longest time you been with a guy that you go to bed with that didn't make you orgasm. And why did you leave?

If your not orgasming try to explain what your getting out of the sexual relationship. Is it just being close to them that you like.

If the guy doesn't orgasm is that a turn off for you, or a turn on that he can last and not cum but just deliver the goods with out having to orgasm himself. In other words wich turns you on more seeing a guy orgasm or Seeing him preform and him not demand that he cum. Does he seem like more of a stud if he doesn't orgasm.

[Bong30]

OMG.... I can feel your stress coming through the screen.

First thing you need to do is "chill the fuckout"

How are you ever going to make a girl orgasm if you are shaking in your boots...

You need to get a girlfriend that will love you for YOU.

When you are exploring each others bodies you will ask her "do you like that" she will ask the same....

have your girlfriend show you how she masterbates, and then do it for her..


Rule # 1 if you want to be a stud....

Boys drop there pants and start humping right away......

A man will drop "her" pants and make her come, and then drop his pants.....

If you can get her to orgasm and then start doing it... she could have multiple orgasms.....

Just remember, If you start giving a girl multiple orgasms (young one, im sure from how old you sound) you will never be able to get rid of her.......LOL

You will be fine......Relax


someday ill tell you about the hat trick.....LOL

[friendowl]

if she dont cum shes gone
start practicing your moves

[SuperTorch]

I'm definitely looking for the female perspective on this. I have always been shockingly nervous when it comes to sex, and it has always scared the shit out of the girls I'm trying to hook up with. They love the shit out of me during regualr daytime interaction and a lot think I'm fun and different from a lot of the other guys. But the pressure I put on myself to orgasm so they can feel like they got me off or a least weren't left feeling like they didn't get me off or the experence was lame is off the charts. I think I'm just going to try to have sex 4-5 times with out me orgasming and that might give me a new perspective, even though the reasons I've alway felt I needed to were ethical in that I wanted her to feel like she made me orgasm, but which in the end made the girls nervous as hell maybe not understanding me or the vibe that that pressure was giving them. I'm 99.99% sure I'm way older than you, I'm just looking for a new perspective maybe and sometime direct from the girls can give that.

[Bong30]

99% older the FO and I?

LOL you are funny kid.

I am 36, with 2 kids.

Friendowl.... is 30 something with 3 kids....


You dont need a girls perspective......you are getting MENS perspective.

shit.....

I can tell you what my wife will say...... I have been with her since Jr. High back in 84..... I can tell you what she thinks...... you have no Idea, On many things obviously.


have sex 4-5 times and dont cum....see how that works for ya....... LOL

Look up Blueballs, and get back to me. aahhhh so young......LOL

[SuperTorch]

I said that because I feel I have to stop focusing on myself as far as must orgasm regardless of the reasons I do it. Your giving remarks but no real details. Hows this for a shocker, I'm older than you both by a few years. I'm just immature sexualy I guess I was 27 when I lost my virginity all my buddie had been geting it on for 13 years before I did. I have a lot of girls that like me some are currious what I'd be like, till they find out what I'm like is nervous at level 10 and I can't even say why I am. Perfomance anxiety I guess that comes from my trying to figure out what will satisfy them and not make them run.I know I got to ease up on the pressure vibe and if I knew what they were thinking it might help. I have to get over this WE HAVE TO CUM TOGETHER mentality that I have and just focus on pleasing her.

[Samwhore]

I have to get over this WE HAVE TO CUM TOGETHER mentality that I have and just focus on pleasing her.


Then thats up to you, you have to do that

[Storm Crow]

Sex is a part of a relationship. OK, I'm not the "usual" gal- I have a killer IQ and think a bit differently than most people. When I went looking for a husband, I looked for brains and a good personality! There were a lot of dudes who were a lot more handsome than my hubby (there was Jerry the barber- shallow but killer looks, as an example), but looks don't last, while character does. My hubby has an IQ about 10-20 points lower than mine (but since I'm in the top 2%, pickings are slim). Since he's now in his mid60s, sex is a minor part of our relationship. When you are young, it seems to be the "be all and end all", but as you get older, it's nice, but WHO YOU ARE is far more important. Treat your gal as an absolute queen- open doors, give her flowers, do a lot of foreplay, ask her opinion (on ANY subject) and respect it. Do all that romantic stuff...she will love it! Then one day, if you feel you still are not doing as good in bed with her as you think you can, both of you get really stoned and you ask her "What turns you on?" If she's stoned enough, she will tell you. ;) - Granny:stoned:

[klup]

wow, youre seriously getting too far into the sink hole. just fuck her, fuck her for you, fuck her for her, but just plain fuck her. then cuddle.

[OpJ]

No. lol get good at felatio.:D

[napolitana869]

wait are you saying that you are having trouble with both of you reaching an orgasm or are you trying to have orgasms at the same time? If you're worried about getting her off you should go down on her. A lot of women cannot orgasm from sex alone.

[SuperTorch]

Sex is a part of a relationship. OK, I'm not the "usual" gal- I have a killer IQ and think a bit differently than most people. When I went looking for a husband, I looked for brains and a good personality! There were a lot of dudes who were a lot more handsome than my hubby (there was Jerry the barber- shallow but killer looks, as an example), but looks don't last, while character does. My hubby has an IQ about 10-20 points lower than mine (but since I'm in the top 2%, pickings are slim). Since he's now in his mid60s, sex is a minor part of our relationship. When you are young, it seems to be the "be all and end all", but as you get older, it's nice, but WHO YOU ARE is far more important. Treat your gal as an absolute queen- open doors, give her flowers, do a lot of foreplay, ask her opinion (on ANY subject) and respect it. Do all that romantic stuff...she will love it! Then one day, if you feel you still are not doing as good in bed with her as you think you can, both of you get really stoned and you ask her "What turns you on?" If she's stoned enough, she will tell you. ;) - Granny:stoned:

Theres some good points there I do kind of have the mentality of sex will last forever, but what about when its gone. I have kind of just been myself before and the ladys seem to like me when Im like that, but when I just get in that mode I never then make a move on them and they never make a move on me and it just get wierd. I had this one girl that I eally wanted to like and sleep with I asked her out 5 times and she was just like no no and no even though see liked to talk with me all the time. I pursued her for 2 months just always leting her know I wanted to try a little more. Finanly I got sick of it and just told her leave me alone and I wasn't interesed at all anymore. Well about 2 days later shes telling eveyone at work that she want to hook up with me, she sends her friend to ask me to ask her out for her birthday. It fucking pissed me off bad, I mean all the times I asked her directly and here the most risk she was willing to take was rejection through a friend of hers. I mean what if I sent one of my guy friends to ask her if she will go out with me on my birthday, It'd be kind of wussy that I had to send someone else to ask. Just seemed really weak after the 2 months I'd put myself on the line directly taking her rejections.

[Bree1978]

I have always been paranoid that if I don't make a girl orgasm she won't be interested in me, or will lose interest very fast. Its well known that girls don't like lame sex. I have just eqauted that to mean if they don't orgasm then its lame. But the statistics show that more than 50% of girls don't orgasm(correct me if I'm wrong). So my questions is are they still enjoying sex and satisfied with it if they don't orgasm. I have made plenty orgasm but I have this mindset that I'd better make it happen along with she better see my orgasm also as proof that she's doing a godd job all of it has led to too much pressure I place on myself and that in turns make most girls nervous as hell feeling my presure to make sex incredible and fullfilling but in the end a lot of times its not because they feel my worries but that if I don't make it happen she'll just kind of fade away unable to tell me that shes not feeling anything.

So here are a few questions,

Girls have you ever really like a guy a lot who did not make you orgasm.

Would you marry someone if you haven't orgasmed with them.

Whats the longest time you been with a guy that you go to bed with that didn't make you orgasm. And why did you leave?

If your not orgasming try to explain what your getting out of the sexual relationship. Is it just being close to them that you like.

If the guy doesn't orgasm is that a turn off for you, or a turn on that he can last and not cum but just deliver the goods with out having to orgasm himself. In other words wich turns you on more seeing a guy orgasm or Seeing him preform and him not demand that he cum. Does he seem like more of a stud if he doesn't orgasm.



Okay here is a woman's perogative:

1. Yes, but I can organsm with any man if I try.

2. Probably not, but don't take that as an answer for your woman...I know my body and what makes it work, so if I wasn't climaxing, then something would be wrong with the relationship in general...I've never experienced this problem btw.

3. This is N/A

4. N/A

5. See advice below.

You need to read this and take it to heart. If your lady is not climaxing, it may be that she is having a problem with being comfortable with herself and her body. Does she masterbate? Can you talk about it? Can she climax alone? Many women need clitoral stimulation to achieve climax, somewhere around 50%, which is a stat you recited earlier...but read this is not ORGASM, but ORGASM WHILE WITH PARTNER. There are a few positions that can achieve clitoris stimuli or you/her can do it manually while in coitius. Let me know if you are serious and we can go more in depth with the discussion.. I feel from reading your post that you are very serious about this woman and because of this I'd like to help in any way.

Happy Tokin' :jointsmile: Bree

[Bree1978]

And no, I personally have never been turned on by someone that could not climax....that would make him a challenge though, lol. :jointsmile: Bree

[SuperTorch]

I didn't mean it like that what I ment was if he didn't orgasm as showing you that he had your best interest in mind ie...hes not out to just get himself off, but if he made sure you did but he didn't is that a turn on

[Bree1978]

? I want us both to be satisfied......isn't that LOVE? I have never taken pleasure in someone sacrificing thier own needs for my own..IMHO. But I do take great appreciation to the sacrifice of letting me get to the finish line first, since I, as most women, can cross that line several times in a row, lol. :jointsmile: Bree

[Psycho4Bud]

So here are a few questions,

Girls have you ever really like a guy a lot who did not make you orgasm.

Would you marry someone if you haven't orgasmed with them.

Whats the longest time you been with a guy that you go to bed with that didn't make you orgasm. And why did you leave?

If your not orgasming try to explain what your getting out of the sexual relationship. Is it just being close to them that you like.

So what's the size of your bank account?:pimp: Sex isn't the only thing for some women ya know.........

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

[2600HERTZ]

OMG.... I can feel your stress coming through the screen.

First thing you need to do is "chill the fuckout"

How are you ever going to make a girl orgasm if you are shaking in your boots...

You need to get a girlfriend that will love you for YOU.

When you are exploring each others bodies you will ask her "do you like that" she will ask the same....

have your girlfriend show you how she masterbates, and then do it for her..


Rule # 1 if you want to be a stud....

Boys drop there pants and start humping right away......

A man will drop "her" pants and make her come, and then drop his pants.....

If you can get her to orgasm and then start doing it... she could have multiple orgasms.....

Just remember, If you start giving a girl multiple orgasms (young one, im sure from how old you sound) you will never be able to get rid of her.......LOL

You will be fine......Relax


someday ill tell you about the hat trick.....LOL




Oh shit not "the hat trick" that is for pros only. ;)

[Polymirize]

No. lol get good at felatio.:D

Cute. But he's going after the ladies actually. Not that I'm judging you or anything. I think its beautiful that you can choose to have that sort of lifestyle if you wish.

Just trying to help out supertorch and all...

[Skink]

Toys,,,buy lots of toys...

[bucknuts1870]

The two finger cul-de-sac is a key move brothah. It has many names but what you do is go down on her work her up into a lather position her like yer gonna do her doggie and than pull a houdini on her and bend down and start munching from behind then insert two fingers(well 1-4 depending on..uhhh, yeah) palm facing down and make a come here motion, guaranteed to work everytime.

You can also do it if she's on her back just do it palm facing up. It stimulates the spot like nothin' else, one of my go to moves for foreplay. I'd say it has an 80% effectivness rating based upon the 6 girls that have been goodly enough to sleep with me.

[gabee42ee]

back in like 9-10 grade i was with this one guy for ever and we fucked all the time and it was great sex but i never had an orgasim from him but it didnt matter ... i actuall y never even had one till my last bf w. oral thats the only thing that seems to work for me ... kind of sucks

[Gatekeeper777]

why do you care you will be asleep 10 minutes after you cumm anyhow.
give her a vibrating Harry potter broomstick and tell her to go play some Quiddich.

[gabee42ee]

oh and what bree said before it is kind of up to the woman to climax ... that made me think about how back when i was with my old bf i was really insecure around that time and i didnt really no myself or my body

[Gatekeeper777]

Cumming is like smoking Indinca. Mind numbing and relaxing.

[SuperTorch]

back in like 9-10 grade i was with this one guy for ever and we fucked all the time and it was great sex but i never had an orgasim from him but it didnt matter ... i actuall y never even had one till my last bf w. oral thats the only thing that seems to work for me ... kind of sucks

Thats kinda what I was looking for info wise. I have such a mind set of if she not orgasming like crazy everytime then she can't really remain close to me, but you said it didn't matter and that the sex was still good. I have this way of thingking that every girl is kind of the same, or that I have to live up to what my buddys are saying happens with them(ie .. their girls always get off and they are such studs) when in reality thats probably like a half truth and their bullshiting how close they are with their girls.

[Bree1978]

Thats kinda what I was looking for info wise. I have such a mind set of if she not orgasming like crazy everytime then she can't really remain close to me, but you said it didn't matter and that the sex was still good. I have this way of thingking that every girl is kind of the same, or that I have to live up to what my buddys are saying happens with them(ie .. their girls always get off and they are such studs) when in reality thats probably like a half truth and their bullshiting how close they are with their girls.

I wouldn't even give it half the truth....I know a lot of ladies, there are all different from me!..They do like to share thier secrets with someone they can trust!!! If you are a caring, honest, honorable, and humorous, you have everything you need...HELL, some women opt out of 1,2, and still go for it!...You need some time to have a long conversation with this person! If they smoke, a nice sativa should put them right in the mood, but not too much...don't want it to be a personal trip! B

[invision]

if you can give some crazy oral sex the sex part is 2nd rate, perhaps you should work on giving great oral sex and less thought about sex itself, not only will she be satisfied with this, it takes pressure off of you if your nervous about pleasing her.

[SuperTorch]

Yea thats kinda what I'm trying to learn, I just need to concentrate on her and don't worry about myself or me showing her I'm going to cum, I have always felt if they don't see you orgasm then its a let down for them, kinda like why are you not orgasming and that in turn has led to to much pressure on myself even beofe sex started. I can give some hella oral thats not a issue. Scareing the shit out of her before she lets me is. I've tried to let girls just make the first move but thats very rare they do, but I give them what they want if they do. I'm talking in general terms about past experiences now. A lot have liked me but got turned off if I make the move(I assumed Im making it to soon or just not smooth about it) and turned off If I let them - they get to nervous and never do. It seems like were never on the same page either Im chasing them and they like the attention but then turn me down for some reason I don't understand, then I get like fuck it Im not interested in them and that somehow turns them on and they make it clear that they want me but for me I've turned a corner and am truly no longer interested, and the times I did give it a second try its like they turn again and were back to not leting me do anything, How majorly F'd up is that. A big part is just me Im sure I have a lot of shame based issues around sex although I'm horny alot I think that it come through some how and puzzels the girls I've liked. Not geting laid till I was 27 is just a glaring sign I got issues I guess and even then I did it just to fucking know I had(my first time damn sure wasn't with someone special that for sure). I have never had the deep fun type of sex in my head its always been a tad forced sadly. But thats what Im trying to learn to just relax and find someone that I trust and relax with and not feel like Im spread thin or over extended myself emotionaly.

[spliffstar22]

just fuck her and fuck her good, than you won't have to worry about a thing, just go into sex relaxed, clear your head, and just fuck, no worries.........and you'll do it.............

[Bree1978]

why do you care you will be asleep 10 minutes after you cumm anyhow.
give her a vibrating Harry potter broomstick and tell her to go play some Quiddich.

and that is why you will be alone.........lol. See what you don't want to be? Kudos for caring!

[Gatekeeper777]

Usually when they see my large cock they run.
they dont stick around for an orgasm.

[OpJ]

Cute. But he's going after the ladies actually. Not that I'm judging you or anything. I think its beautiful that you can choose to have that sort of lifestyle if you wish.

Just trying to help out supertorch and all...

Just looking back at this didn't realize somone replied to my post, I would like to clarify something. I am a GUY! and getting your girl worked up first and then poking her usually does the trick. Guys can also give girls felatio, just don't want anybody thinking Im on the wrong team. lol :)

[Polymirize]

Guys can also give girls felatio, just don't want anybody thinking Im on the wrong team. lol :)

I have never been interested, or even able, to perform fellatio on any of the girls I have slept with. Thankfully. If the opportunity ever presented itself I'd probably be horrified. That would be some serious Crying Game action. I'd be in therapy for years working that out...

Again, not that I'm judging anyone... Just, not for me. Whoa.

Anyway, I suggest you consult a dictionary. Or failing that, stick to broader terms like "oral" that don't carry a specific sexual connotation...

[JeenYuss]

i've never had an issue with a female not reaching orgasm its usually pretty easy to tell by the uncontrollable (attempted to be held in) moans accompanied by secretion of this stinky white fluid that looks like old milk on black sheets and shorts(and always check dont go to school wearing the same shorts) sometimes u can feel it forcefully come out but usually it just drains slowly

my advice is just do the best you can (unlike me I TAKE TOO FUCKING LONG:mad: which is not always a good thing)

[bud luv]

I'm definitely looking for the female perspective on this. I have always been shockingly nervous when it comes to sex, and it has always scared the shit out of the girls I'm trying to hook up with. They love the shit out of me during regualr daytime interaction and a lot think I'm fun and different from a lot of the other guys. But the pressure I put on myself to orgasm so they can feel like they got me off or a least weren't left feeling like they didn't get me off or the experence was lame is off the charts. I think I'm just going to try to have sex 4-5 times with out me orgasming and that might give me a new perspective, even though the reasons I've alway felt I needed to were ethical in that I wanted her to feel like she made me orgasm, but which in the end made the girls nervous as hell maybe not understanding me or the vibe that that pressure was giving them. I'm 99.99% sure I'm way older than you, I'm just looking for a new perspective maybe and sometime direct from the girls can give that.

I can't even imagine how to respond to this. WTF dude!

[Canadien.]

I have never been interested, or even able, to perform fellatio on any of the girls I have slept with. Thankfully. If the opportunity ever presented itself I'd probably be horrified. That would be some serious Crying Game action. I'd be in therapy for years working that out...

Again, not that I'm judging anyone... Just, not for me. Whoa.

Anyway, I suggest you consult a dictionary. Or failing that, stick to broader terms like "oral" that don't carry a specific sexual connotation...

I love pussy man, don't knock it before you try it.

Not to mention, afterwards, it's your turn... unless your being nice, like a treat, which I like to do as well.

Sex goes both ways IMO.

Peace, :rastasmoke:

[SuperTorch]

I use to be all about myself and what I wanted in sex, I'm just looking for a new angle that might make me more at ease, the more I'd be all about what I wanted he more ladies know exactly that your are like that, so I was looking to change at a core level and see what I'd learn if I really really put her first. NOW CAN THIS THREAD DIE, Looking back over it I say some pretty dumb shit even though my intentions where/are good.

[Polymirize]

I love pussy man, don't knock it before you try it.

Not to mention, afterwards, it's your turn... unless your being nice, like a treat, which I like to do as well.

Sex goes both ways IMO.

Peace, :rastasmoke:

I don't think I'd argue with anything you're saying. There must be some kind of misunderstanding. Based upon the way your post is structured, I take it you're saying that you really enjoy performing fellatio, and do it quite often, huh?

[Bong30]

I have never been interested, or even able, to perform fellatio on any of the girls I have slept with. Thankfully. ...


you guys are a little mixed up......


Techniques

Fellatio


Fellatio describes the oral stimulation of the penis. A common technique of fellatio is to take the glans of the erect penis in the mouth while rhythmically caressing the rest of the penis with the hands; the testes and the shaft of the penis can also be licked with the tongue. Suction is often used to increase the pressure and friction exerted on the penis. As the performance of fellatio progresses, the receiver may contribute pre-ejaculatory fluid to the saliva of the giver, resulting in a more lubricated penis and enhanced erotic experience. This fluid is produced by the Cowper's glands and is not semen, although it may contain traces of sperm.

Depending on the preference of the participants, this stimulation may produce an orgasm and ejaculation of semen, or may just be used as a precursor to sexual intercourse (see foreplay). If the semen is accepted into the mouth it may or may not be swallowed (hence the slang phrase, spit or swallow). Alternatively, providers of fellatio averse to receiving semen in their mouth can shift stimulation from mouth to hand once the male's orgasm is imminent. An infrequent side effect of ejaculating into the mouth is that the semen may be gagged upon.

While the use of the mouth to stimulate the penis, especially the glans, is a central feature of fellatio, often the partner simultaneously stimulates the shaft of the penis with his/her hand to provide the man with the feeling of the penis being enclosed. Some authorities (such as Franklin, The Ultimate Kiss, p. 62) recommend this as the preferred and most satisfying method of providing oral sex to a man. Another technique is to have the penis head go in and out of the mouth very quickly (without going down to the shaft). Also, some men find it another extra pleasure if the giver runs the tips of his/her fingernails on his erect shaft at the same time they are using their mouth, they say it offers a "tickling sensation."

Some males regard receiving oral sex as an ego boost, believing that such an act is a form of dominance over their sexual partner.[4]

One form of fellatio is known as deep throating, after the 1972 pornographic film Deep Throat. This technique involves repressing the gag reflex and taking the entire erect penis in the mouth, the shaft bending slightly to allow the head of the penis to slide partially down the throat of the fellator. A deep throat session may even go 'balls-deep', a colloquial expression denoting that the provider of fellatio has fit the entire penis in their mouth, with deeper engorgement prevented only by the girth of the testicles.

The common slang term blow-job technically is a misnomer, as true "blowing"; i.e., the expelling of air through the mouth, is not used in fellatio as it would not be pleasurable . It is most commonly thought to reflect an intentional conflation of "suck" and "blow," technically antonyms but but both equally suitable as vulgar terms describing oral sexual activity. Further, the act of giving a blow-job is generally not properly defined as "sucking"; rather, the mouth is tensely moved up and down the penis's shaft, with the giver neither sucking nor blowing. At times, the giver may in fact use a sucking motion on the head of the penis, but this is generally not the sole form of fellatio. Some have postulated that the term is a corruption of "below-job", allegedly an old Victorian slang term that was commonly used to describe the act. However, there is a third school of thought that believes the word "blow" in "blow-job" indicates the climax of the penis (compare to blowing of a volcano). It is further argued that the phrase "blow-job" originated in the 1940's;[5] at the time, it was also used by Allied pilots as a slang term for jet aircraft.[6]


Cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is the act of using the mouth and tongue to stimulate the female genitals, especially the clitoris. The term comes from an alternative Latin word for the vulva (cunnus) and from the Latin word for tongue (lingua). Less than one-third of women orgasm easily during the actual act of intercourse. Masturbation and cunnilingus are alternative ways for women to achieve orgasm with a partner. Most women can orgasm easily during clitoral or pubic area stimulation.[7]

As in all human sexual behaviour, the variety of techniques in cunnilingus and individual responses to them are almost endless. As always, communication, experimentation and practice are the best way to learn how to please a particular partner.

The glans of the clitoris is the most sensitive part for almost all women, but may be too sensitive to stimulate directly at times, especially in early stages of arousal, and it is often best to begin with a gentler, less focused stimulation of the labia and the whole genital area. Ron Jeremy has advised in several films that a clockwise, counterclockwise, all over the place approach is more important than focusing solely on the clitoris. Tongue tip, blade or underside can be used, as can the nose, chin, lips and teeth (with caution). Movements can be slow or fast, regular or erratic, firm or soft as the moment requires. The tongue can be inserted into the vagina, either stiffened or moving. Humming to cause vibration while performing cunnilingus is often considered to be especially arousing, with certain pitches, rhythms or tunes thought to be particularly effective by different people.[citation needed]

Cunnilingus is easily accompanied by the insertion of finger(s) or a sex toy into the vagina, which allows for the simultaneous stimulation of the g-spot, or into the anus, either of which many women find produce very intense sensations.[citation needed] Many other activities can accompany cunnilingus to enhance overall pleasure, limited only by preference, psychology and anatomy.

Cunnilingus is also sometimes referred to as "muff diving", "eating out" or "poon-job", a slang term and a cunnilingus variant of "blow-job" (see the section of Fellatio above), where "poon" is short for poontang or punani.

Additionally, in lesbian culture several common slang terms used are "giving lip," "lip service," or "tipping the velvet" (a faux-"Victorian" expression invented by novelist Sarah Waters).

Until recently not spoken of openly in Western society, cunnilingus is accorded a revered place in Chinese Taoism. This is because the aim of Taoism is to achieve immortality, or at least longevity, and the loss of semen, vaginal, and other, bodily liquids is believed to bring about a corresponding loss of vitality. However, conversely, by either semen retention or ingesting the secretions from the vagina, a male can conserve and increase his ch'i, or original vital breath. In Taoism:

The Great Medicine of the Three Mountain Peaks is to be found in the body of the woman and is composed of three juices, or essences: one from the woman's mouth, another from her breasts, and the third, the most powerful, from the Grotto of the White Tiger, which is at the Peak of the Purple Mushroom (the mons veneris).â??Octavio Paz. Conjunctions and Disjunctions. trans. Helen R. Lane. 1975. (London: Wildwood House, 1969) p. 97.

According to Philip Rawson (in Paz, p. 97), these half-poetic, half-medicinal metaphors explain the popularity of cunnilingus among the Chinese: "The practice was an excellent method of imbibing the precious feminine fluid" (Paz, p. 97). But the Taoist ideal is not just about the male being enriched by female secretions; the female also benefits from her communion with the male, a feature that has led the sinologist, Kristofer Schipper, to denounce the ancient handbooks on the "Art of the Bedroom" as embracing a "kind of glorified male vampirism", that is not truly Taoist at all.[8] Ideally, by mingling the male and female liquids, the Taoist aims to reconcile opposites and to recapture the mythical time that existed before the division of the sexes, the primordial time of the original ch'i.

The religious historian, Mircea Eliade, speaks of a similar desire to transcend old age and death, and achieve a state of nirvana, in the Hindu practice of Tantric yoga. In Tantric yoga, the same emphasis is placed on the retention and absorption of vital liquids and Sanscrit texts describe how the male semen must not be emitted if the yogin is to avoid falling under law of time and death.[9]

The effort devoted to cunnilingus is sometimes considered by women to be a rough measure of the sexual skill and disposition of the man, Many men do not give cunnilingus at all, despite the fact that the majority of women can achieve orgasm only through cunnilingus or other clitoral stimulation. Some men are known to give cunnilingus, but in a rushed and harsh way, perhaps owing to a belief that cunnilingus is an undesirable form of male submission to the female. The lack of care when giving head to a woman has been warned against in the fictional Natural Born Killers, in which Mallory Juliette Lewis shoots an auto mechanic and admonishes the corpse that it was "the worst head I've ever had. Next time don't be so eager




I hope that clears it up for you guys......LOL:)

[Polymirize]

Dammit Bong... I already suggested a dictionary for these guys, then you just come along with your cut and paste definitions.

If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day. But if you teach that man how to fish, etc...

Plus, you've greatly diminished the potential for my own amusement. Ass.


I stand by all of my previous statements.

[ju99al0b0mb3r]

ugh

i dont feel like talking about sex

[Bong30]

Dammit Bong... I already suggested a dictionary for these guys, then you just come along with your cut and paste definitions.

If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day. But if you teach that man how to fish, etc...

Plus, you've greatly diminished the potential for my own amusement. Ass.


I stand by all of my previous statements.

LOL..... I cant believe people listen to people that dont even know ...dick.....LOL pun intended.

Shit Poly.....i didnt know i was messing up your little plan.....I had to tell them, it was killing me.

[Bong30]

ugh

i dont feel like talking about sex

OK dont.:p

[ju99al0b0mb3r]

OK dont.:p

thats all i did today im tired lol :)

[Skink]

If you don't know your girl good enough to know she came then you should not even be inside her...