girlfriend on birthcontrol..what to do?

[GoogooGaGa]

so my recent girlfriend told me she is on birth control and i have seen her birth control pills, so i want to know your guys opinion on if i should use a condom when i am having sex with her or not, i have had sex with her with no condom before but have never came inside of her..should i be afraid to cum inside of her or not, i really want too, but i also dont like using a condom during sex..what should i do? because i dont want to end up having a baby at my age...whats your advise?

[40oz]

as long as your sure she has no stds you can cum all you want inside her all you want. 99.9% effective is good enough for me.

[Skink]

I had cornflakes for breakfast too...

[EmoRebellion]

Here is a fullproof plan to not get the girl pregnant and still get your rocks off:

Wait til your about to come, hold it off for as long as possible (around 35 seconds should be good for you), then shove it in her ass as hard as you can without warning. Not only will you still come inside her, but she probably wont want to cuddle after either. Its a win-win my friend.

[higher4hockey]

^she'll probably break your dick in half as well.


i would say go for it. birth control is pretty effective...but for the most part, use your own judgement, there is a risk of your ol lady getting pregnant, but if shes taking the shit correctly its a very very small risk.

[stinkyattic]

....then shove it in her ass as hard as you can without warning. Not only will you still come inside her, but she probably wont want to cuddle after either. Its a win-win my friend.
I don't know how to respond to this...
The serious way: That is sexual assault and you are going DOWN asshole. You will enjoy when some fat dude does the same thing to you in the can.
The not so serious but still shocked way: I hope she cuts your nuts off while you're sleeping after a stunt like that. She's not just not cuddling, she's in the kitchen looking for her poultry shears.

[napolitana869]

just make sure she takes her pill at the same time every day (this is VERY important). If you (or her) are worried about forgetting to take it she might want to consider nuvaring, which is something she would put in her vagina every month and it releases hormones like the birthcontrol pills do. It's simple, easy, and I love it.

[Psycho4Bud]

Here is a fullproof plan to not get the girl pregnant and still get your rocks off:

Wait til your about to come, hold it off for as long as possible (around 35 seconds should be good for you), then shove it in her ass as hard as you can without warning. Not only will you still come inside her, but she probably wont want to cuddle after either. Its a win-win my friend.

The more I see sick stupid ass comments like this the more I'm tending to agree that this forum should be scrapped completely! :mad:

Back to the subject........my first wife was on birth control, along come my first son and then married. Then my sons girlfriend was on birth control, now I'm grandpa Psycho........WEAR THE SKIN!

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

[EmoRebellion]

Oh relax guys.. There have been like 14 threads on this same topic within the past couple weeks, and I have responded with good info in almost all of them. I was getting tired of the same thing over and over, so I decided to give some not-so-helpful advice. It was a joke.

[thenicksmokes]

If she reallly takes the pill every day you are OK to cum insider her. Do it. It is awesome.

[thenicksmokes]

Hey def cum inside her now that she is on the pill every day. It feels so good.

[Samwhore]

just make sure she takes her pill at the same time every day (this is VERY important). If you (or her) are worried about forgetting to take it she might want to consider nuvaring, which is something she would put in her vagina every month and it releases hormones like the birthcontrol pills do. It's simple, easy, and I love it.

I swear to god, you and dutch lover are nuvaring's spokesperson

[smoke it]

std test. if that pisses her off, get one on yourself also. never be too safe dude. if i comes back negative, fuck all you want

[dutch.lover]

i have had sex with her with no condom before but have never came inside of her...i dont want to end up having a baby at my age...

Hey there, I just thought I would mention that the "pull-out" method which you just described (having sex than pulling out before you come) can still get the girl pregnant. Pre-cum often has sperm in it, so if you were turned on while having sex with her (and im sure you were) there's a chance she could get pregnant. So be careful!!!!!

And yes, I do seem to be a NuvaRing spokesperson don't I! I am just a very loyal customer, what can I say. If it weren't for the simplicity and high effectiveness it brings to the table, I wouldn't be as impressed with it. It doesn't make my period any pleasenter (more info than you all probably wanted to know, sorry lol), but everyone's different so it may work better for others.

[mackSwell]

Teenage women are not always consistant with taking the pill on time every day.

If you want to be extra-safe regarding pregnancy prevention, use a different second birth control method. Contraceptive sponges & spermicides are both available without a prescription.

But the best advice was to both get tested first, else keep using the condoms. While it may feel incredible to come without a condom, I'm sure STDs do not feel great... And some are forever. And some are deadly. It just isn't worth the chance.

[stinkyattic]

Shit Dutch I can't give you rep again!!!
Thank you anyway for putting up some good advice that seems to be often forgotten!
Get tested... get tested again if you change partners... always have a backup plan!!! Pill + condoms... pill + spermicidal lube, etc... be safe...

[invision]

masterbate.....its the safest :)

[JaggedEdge]

I'm guessing you are young and don't live together. I would adivise against unprotected sex. It is one thing when you live with the person and know she is taking the pill on time every night. I wouldn't trust a teenage girl to take it everynight at the same time.

Not to mention I saw a thing on the news about how they have lowered the potency of the drugs and so when girls do skip a day, the pill is much more likely not to work.

[spliffstar22]

i, personally still use a rubber, can't go wrong with my good friend jimmy........

[EmoRebellion]

I'm guessing you are young and don't live together. I would adivise against unprotected sex. It is one thing when you live with the person and know she is taking the pill on time every night. I wouldn't trust a teenage girl to take it everynight at the same time.

Not to mention I saw a thing on the news about how they have lowered the potency of the drugs and so when girls do skip a day, the pill is much more likely not to work.

This is actually true. The new pills have a much lower amount of hormones. It makes the side-effects less common, but you really need to take them at the same time every day now.

I agree entirely with the first part as well. If I dont remind the girlfriend to take her pill, she would probably forget a couple times a week.

[mfitzp]

lol why u lads giving that lad a hard time over the ass comment some girls like that haha

[stinkyattic]

lol why u lads giving that lad a hard time over the ass comment some girls like that haha

Sure... great... let's take a vote of all the girls on this site...there's a BIG difference between butt sex when the girl is expecting it and the guy is gentle, and the comment that was made, which was violent and disgusting.

So here's one vote against.

[mfitzp]

heres one vote for! haha

[cindy629]

it is totally up to you! if you want to then go ahead - but also in the back of your head - what if she doesnt take the pill and says she does. you never know my man. she could be one of those girls that wants you to cum inside her to get pregnant and trap you. you seem young still - so i would advise against it!!! use protection! a rubber and the pill together is the safest thing i would say - but the safest is probably no sex!!

[xcrispi]

in the words of the mighty M.O.D
no glove no love , your only in it for the fun .
no glove no love , fill that rubber fulla cum .
peace
crispi

[Kindbud]

very simple matter, get tested. It's a serious question so I won't joke but, if you did not know this then you might want to tell your girl to shave down there to. hahah

[dutch.lover]

Teenage women are not always consistant with taking the pill on time every day.

If you want to be extra-safe regarding pregnancy prevention, use a different second birth control method. Contraceptive sponges & spermicides are both available without a prescription.

Hey, I totally agree with you on this, although I thought I would advise against something. Using contraceptive sponges and/or spermicide with a condom are basically pointless, cause their effectiveness is only about 15% at best. Also, spermicide contains something called Nonoxynol-9, which the WHO has condemned because of the fact that it causes adverse reactions to many women who come in contact with it. It basically irritates the vagina like crazy in many people, causing tearing. As you should all know, open wounds are great transmission sites for diseases! (this is why people who engage in anal sex are at a higher risk for contracting diseases...the anus tears easily) I want to spread the word around about spermicide, because no company should ethically be producing it. Avoid spermicide at all costs. It has a huge failure rate and it can increase the risk of contracting an STI. You will thank me later.

ps: thanks stinky for the rep attempt! I appreciate it, especially my aspiring to be a sex therapist and/or educator, it's good to know my advice is heard and appreciated!

[Gatekeeper777]

First I wanna say that you gont need to cum inside her to get her preggo with out a condom.
It onlt takes one time and one lucky sperm to do the trick. your PRECUM contains sperm. so the moment you enter her without a condom you risk pregnancy.

Secondly HIV can remain dormant in your system for up to 10 years before showing itself not to memntion turning into aids.

Thirdly std test cant detect hiv for 6 months. thats how long it takes yor body to produce the antogens.
juste wear a super thin condom.
If you wanns cum inside her ask her if she wouldnt mind swallowing.
Then pop your nut in her mouth.

[Jim Morrison]

antibiotics + birth control + unprotected sex = possible baby

i just wanted to let you all know that if you take antibiotics while on birth control the birth control loses affect so be extra careful around flu season