View Full Version : Wow, friend not happy about pot...
IplayWoW
01-13-2007, 07:56 PM
Ok, so I'm talking to my friend on the internet. She's a girl and we've been friends for like 6 years. She has known I smoke pot for about a month. Then today out of the blue she starts yelling at me about how I'm ruining my life and I'm just going to spend the rest of my life trying to get high. Then she said "you've really changed tony, I thought you where smart and nice. Now I realize you're just a pot head.". I don't get it. I haven't changed at all since I started toking. I smoke maybe 4-5 times a month, and it helps 1.)Back spasms 2.)Headaches 3.)Insomnia. What the hell is up? Why did she all of a sudden decide there was a huge issue surrounding my marijuana use?
IplayWoW
01-13-2007, 08:31 PM
Why does my life have to be so filled with drama?(Rhetorical question :P)
xxxhazexxx
01-13-2007, 08:35 PM
tell her to take a chill pill bro:stoned:
konqrr
01-13-2007, 08:47 PM
Im glad you restrained yourself, because if I were in your shoes I woulda broken her jaw. Not because of weed, but because Im violent by nature. I cant stand people who preach about something they know nothing about. I remember when my dad caught me smoking a blunt and he was like "stop it, its dangerous". I told him to explain to me how its dangerous and he couldnt. I just replied "bravo"
Im glad you restrained yourself, because if I were in your shoes I woulda broken her jaw. Not because of weed, but because Im violent by nature. I cant stand people who preach about something they know nothing about. I remember when my dad caught me smoking a blunt and he was like "stop it, its dangerous". I told him to explain to me how its dangerous and he couldnt. I just replied "bravo"
Im the same as you. If someone said that to me i'd tell them to fuck right off.
konqrr
01-13-2007, 08:58 PM
Im the same as you. If someone said that to me i'd tell them to fuck right off.
Ya, myabe not punched her, but definetly would of told her to shut the fuck up. On the other hand if it was a guy, ya, hes not getting away with that. I take anger managment but it doesnt help much. I just have outbursts I cant control.
Patsheba
01-13-2007, 09:12 PM
Arghhh! To maintain a relationship with her, print out the pain booklet and give it to her, you might also want to print out their mj's medical history too:
http://safeaccessnow.org/article.php?list=type&type=135
Also, FYI, these cannabinoid cell clone synthetic pain meds are being submitted to the FDA, CAT 210 and CAT 310; altho it will be about 10 years until thru the process. Naboline, a synthetic THC developed primarily for other qualities (chemo symptoms) has been very effective for pain relief also, and should be available at an earlier date.
It is very good to be prepared for this reaction anyhow, when coming out of the closet so-to-speak.
Good luck!
Ya, myabe not punched her, but definetly would of told her to shut the fuck up. On the other hand if it was a guy, ya, hes not getting away with that. I take anger managment but it doesnt help much. I just have outbursts I cant control.
I tried anger management too... didnt work. Gave up, and learnd to deal with it a bit myself. still doesnt work too well
ericwt
01-13-2007, 09:57 PM
Unless she is incredibly hot, dump her like a turd. Stupid drama babes are not worth the trouble.
Matt the Funk
01-13-2007, 10:11 PM
Dude, why does everyone give you shit about smoking? Tell them all to fuck off, peel their skin, put it in a blender, and make their parents drink that shit. YUM.
fastforyou84
01-14-2007, 12:00 AM
yeah seriously everyones comin at you. I know I told my dad i smoked and he used to all the time when he was younger. now all of a sudden hes telling me how it always leads to other things. I told him i saw some rediculous movie about how they claimed if you did marijuana it will lead to herion addict and shit and he agreed with it im like wtf? you used to smoke you should know how it is.
mafyew
01-14-2007, 12:02 AM
Well if shes a friend of 6 years i doubt you'd want to get rid of her. I'd first tell her, and hope she realizes, that morality, good and evil, and all that jazz is just a perception forced upon people by sociaty. Man defines orthidoxy, and thus it is bullshit. After that tell her all the positives of weed, and how it has effected you. For me personal, it has opened my mind, to think for myself, and not how sociaty wants me to think.
Tell her she should smoke it and it would help her with her menstrual cramps because its obvioulsy that time of the month for her. Queen victoria did it.
Bob the Awesome
01-14-2007, 12:26 AM
OK, give her facts. Facts on how your life has changed since you started. Tell her it'll change more if she quits talking to you, as you'll find new friends, who will prolly also smoke.
Best to confront bullshit with facts, nothing else really works in the end.
budsmoker only
01-14-2007, 12:47 AM
this may sound stupid.. but if you guys have been friends for 6 years, and when you started smokin she is probably just worried about you.. just sit her down and talk to her about how all the tv ads and most of the shit she has heard is stupid lies... she is definitely uneducated when it comes to cannabis and you need to educate her for sure..
AustinMan
01-14-2007, 01:04 AM
Dude, I'v been in your shoe's. Just tell her she needs to deal with it, this is who you are, and your not a "pot-head" or if you are just give her some bullshit.:)
IplayWoW
01-14-2007, 03:48 AM
Yeah, I'll gladly try some of these suggestions, as soon as she stops ignoring me... Being a teenager sucks. No one takes me seriously about anything, regardless of how hard I work and how truthful I am. I told my aunt and uncle that I smoke weed, and ever since my uncle has been a total fucker towards me. As I said earlier, I can't wait until I turn 18 and can live by my own rules... Until then, I guess I'll just have to blaze as secretly as I can, which I hate because I spend so much time trying to hide that fact that I smoked a few mins ago that I don't really get to enjoy my high :(.
slipknotpsycho
01-14-2007, 05:04 AM
you think that's something... i one time had a person freak out on me cuz i smoke cigarettes.. (and no they didn't care about my health, we had just started chatting) she's like YOU SMOKE CIGARETTES?!?! and i was like yeah why? i'm sorry i can't talk to you anymore. why? the user you are trying to contact has either signed off or has blocked you (her name was still in the chat rooms member list window so she didn't sign off)
Blunt420
01-14-2007, 05:26 AM
i got dumped by my old girlfriend, casue one day she just lost it about smokin weed. but i was able to get her to toke wit me. now were together again. THE POWER OF WEED
big smoke07
01-14-2007, 05:41 AM
Sounds to me like she cant accept you for who you are. Friends for 6 yrs or not if that's the case then she isnt worth it. Tell her to piss off. The end.
IplayWoW
01-14-2007, 05:45 AM
Meh, I just sent an email to her and said if she didn't want to be my friend because I smoke weed a couple times a month thats her decision, but I'll always be here if she wants to talk.
slipknotpsycho
01-14-2007, 05:52 AM
wait, is this your ex? if so... lol it's probably because she wants you and and you won't let her have you... probably has nothing to do wtih weed, she's just trying to find a way to go off on you
Not Enough Herb
01-14-2007, 05:58 AM
lol
you said she's an internet friend. who fuckin cares what she thinks.
make a video of you getting high as hell and send it to her.
IplayWoW
01-14-2007, 06:00 AM
No, she's a real life friend. She's not answering the phone or anything so I just sent her an email : \.
PatrickHenry
01-14-2007, 06:54 AM
Ok, so I'm talking to my friend on the internet. She's a girl and we've been friends for like 6 years. She has known I smoke pot for about a month. Then today out of the blue she starts yelling at me about how I'm ruining my life and I'm just going to spend the rest of my life trying to get high. Then she said "you've really changed tony, I thought you where smart and nice. Now I realize you're just a pot head.". I don't get it. I haven't changed at all since I started toking. I smoke maybe 4-5 times a month, and it helps 1.)Back spasms 2.)Headaches 3.)Insomnia. What the hell is up? Why did she all of a sudden decide there was a huge issue surrounding my marijuana use?
tell her to take a hike. :stoned:
Yes I Cannabis
01-14-2007, 05:08 PM
SLAP!!!:jointsmile:
d00d989
01-14-2007, 09:04 PM
you smoke only 4-5 times a month? you're not even a pothead. wtf is she talking about
IplayWoW
01-14-2007, 09:08 PM
Shhh, it's only because I can never get any bud :p
Pumpkinpie
01-14-2007, 09:33 PM
Some people have the mentality that whoever does drugs is a loser. Not really much you can do but keep quiet about your secret :D
RedFury
01-14-2007, 09:38 PM
wow that sounds like a huge fuckin drama queen bitch she needs to be able to understand that you like smoking once in a while and that its not going to affect your relationship unless shes makes it such a problem that it does but basically she needs to sit the fuck back down.:jointsmile:
Nochowderforyou
01-14-2007, 11:26 PM
Ok, so I'm talking to my friend on the internet. She's a girl and we've been friends for like 6 years. She has known I smoke pot for about a month. Then today out of the blue she starts yelling at me about how I'm ruining my life and I'm just going to spend the rest of my life trying to get high. Then she said "you've really changed tony, I thought you where smart and nice. Now I realize you're just a pot head.". I don't get it. I haven't changed at all since I started toking. I smoke maybe 4-5 times a month, and it helps 1.)Back spasms 2.)Headaches 3.)Insomnia. What the hell is up? Why did she all of a sudden decide there was a huge issue surrounding my marijuana use?
Girls are crazy man. :p
nikweiser
01-14-2007, 11:46 PM
shes dumb and ignorant, if you cant explain to her it helps you and she thinks your just trying to get high, fuck her, not literally... well maybe if shes hot then leave her the next day who cares
yzstoned
01-15-2007, 01:47 AM
i think its just the phrase getting high... society looks at getting high as a bad thing, its the same fucking principle as alcohol you drink to get drunk...
just because you drink once and a while doesnt mean you're going to be an alcoholic
if u smoke some herb every now and then you not gunna be a stoner unless you allow yourself
society is really fucking fucked up...
someone needs to tell em
MaryjaneAndHashley
01-15-2007, 01:58 AM
tell her to take a chill pill bro:stoned:
hahahahahaha you made my day.
yea, tell her that, and to shut the fuck up considering you smoke like 5 times a month.
Pumpkinpie
01-15-2007, 02:11 AM
"OMG you're telling me to stfu now the drug is making you violent!"
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