How Do I start from Scratch with Friends?

[BigHyphyD]

I need to get new friends. My friends right now are assholes. They aren't level-headed like me, they steal all the time. They don't ever think about other peoples feelings. Tonight after work, they wouldn't pick me up after I got off work because "they didn't want to waste gas" I'm sick of it and I've come to the point where if they ask me if I want to drop on a sack with them, I'm going to tell them no.

Weed is the only thing that has kept me hanging out with them. Our circle of friends will all drop $5 or $10 or whatever on a bag of weed almost everyday.

What should I do?I'm homeschooled now, and I'm not going back to school. It's not an option. I hate school. I don't want to become a kermit just staying home and smoking alone. That's not fun to me. I'm 16 and will be getting my licence soon.

I live in the suburbs and there's not alot of places people my age can just "go to"


Hip-Hop is all I have.

[Psycho4Bud]

16.......getting your license...cars and shit. Drop the assclowns and hit the malls. That's where you'll find the ladies hangin' out. :D

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

[BigHyphyD]

16.......getting your license...cars and shit. Drop the assclowns and hit the malls. That's where you'll find the ladies hangin' out. :D

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

Yeah I was going to do that.

Except the nearest mall is in a different part of town. Oh well.

I'll just go.

[Samwhore]

hang out at the skate park, go to the mall, pick up chicks, get a job, meet people there


good luck, if not, were all friends on cannbis ;)

[Psycho4Bud]

Yeah I was going to do that.

Except the nearest mall is in a different part of town. Oh well.

I'll just go.

Your a young man........you got a lil' action going on the far side of town, hey.....cool.:pimp:

Have a VERY good one!:jointsmile:

[Leebstatus]

I know what you mean man, I live in Sac and there isn't a whole lot to do here. What school would you be going to if you weren't homed?

[BigHyphyD]

I would of been going to Sheldon High

[xcrispi]

soundz like u grew up before they did man ,thats not all bad .
who needz the trouble anyways ? if they're out robbin -n- thievin -n- shoplifting fuk em . -n- if .50 c in gas was only thing preventing them from comin -n- hangin w/ ya they aren't your friends anyway man . i've caught quite a few of your threads/posts -n- i personally took you for someone quite older bro. just go find some new friends that are worthy of your time or a g/f . were never too old to make new friends .
peace
your cuz
crispi

[BigHyphyD]

soundz like u grew up before they did man ,thats not all bad .
who needz the trouble anyways ? if they're out robbin -n- thievin -n- shoplifting fuk em . -n- if .50 c in gas was only thing preventing them from comin -n- hangin w/ ya they aren't your friends anyway man . i've caught quite a few of your threads/posts -n- i personally took you for someone quite older bro. just go find some new friends that are worthy of your time or a g/f . were never too old to make new friends .
peace
your cuz
crispi

Wow. You took the words right out my mouth. When this shit happend this were my exact thoughts.

"They value their half a dollar in gas more than me so fuck them"

For the past 5 months, I've been coming to the reality that I have grown up quicker than them. It sucks because I can't tell other people to grow up too.

Thanks man...you rock!

[xcrispi]

no thanx 4 crispi man , it's all pt. of being real .
same thing happend to me D . by the time i realized it they were all in juvie or jail . so i didn't have much choice i had to go make new friends .
your right too , can't tell em to grow up , -n- cant help ppl. that don't want help .
peace
your cuz
crispi

[BigHyphyD]

Well, depending on my money situation, I may or may not pick a friend up from work. It isn't because I don't want to, but it's because that dollar needs saved. However, it sounds like your friends are just idiots. You can do better. Get a bit of self confidence. Confidence is a very good thing to have in any situation.



Naw it wasn't from work.

It was from my house wich was like 2 blocks away.

I'm very confident. It's nothing about that.

[BigHyphyD]

But you said work?

Yeah my post made it kinda sound like I meant from work. but I ment it as, after I got off work and was at home ready to smoke.

[BigHyphyD]

Nice couple of beats D.

I know you said school isn't an option, but why not? There are a lot of kids at school, and you can always pick up a couple of long life friends.


I just can't take it. I'd rather smoke at home and make beats.

Maybe thats my problem?

Tryin to find friends without having to go to school.

But if it isn't possible then I might go back. Or I could just wait unti I go to Community College in 1 1/2 years.

[Skrappie]

You can get by without going to school, but I think you should give it another shot considering that you want to make friends. Things might have changed since you last been to one. Youre going to be able to drive, there are tons of girls in highschool, and a million things to do if youre willing to put your neck out there.

You live in the burb's man, there has to be something you can do.

[geonagual]

Ah, I gotcha. Makes sense. Get some better friends, they're just using you for weed money.

That is most likely the situation. They probably talk alot of shit about you when your not there.
But another thing, you couldn't walk 2 blocks? WTF

[ValkyrieAg]

I like to have different sets of friends. I try not to mix them.

I have my school friends (good kids trying to get degrees)
I have my smoker friends (good people but no degree and a low paying job)
I have my real friends (when I need to dispose of a body, I can count on these few)
I have my party friends (when I need help rounding up a piece of ass or needing to down a case of beer)

Don't mix them....and you will always have people to hang out with.

[lazy smoker7]

lol i went to homeschool!!!! all i did was do some school work, smoke by my self, eat, do more online school work, so yea u may say kermit but i say i was more along the lines of a hamster... I dont mind smoking by my self, i would say 90 percent of the time i smoke by my self.. although i didnt go to school i still had a few friends, never had to many girl friends because of not going to school ,but did meet alot of hookers lol!

[Nation_1ne]

If they don't respect you then drop em' fast. If you feel that they do care about you and would do what any friend should do then give em' a chance but broaden your horizons still. I've recently hooked up with a bunch of new mates who are very cool, actually all my stoner friends a nicer than my non stoner friends. It seems the guys I'm kickin' it with now have much higher morals and are real polite n' nice too, where as all the others just gossip, talk shit, and make life harder.

[BigHyphyD]

If they don't respect you then drop em' fast. If you feel that they do care about you and would do what any friend should do then give em' a chance but broaden your horizons still. I've recently hooked up with a bunch of new mates who are very cool, actually all my stoner friends a nicer than my non stoner friends. It seems the guys I'm kickin' it with now have much higher morals and are real polite n' nice too, where as all the others just gossip, talk shit, and make life harder.


I might give them another chance. I still like to be around them when I'm high. They're my homeboys.

I finally spoke up to them last night about how fucked up they are for the first time. Maybe they change, Maybe the don't. And if they don't, then they won't ever see me again.

[nikweiser]

i know how you feel man. ive grown up a lot faster then a lot of my friends too..

[Bong30]

Make new friends

but keep the old

one is silver

and the other Gold

[RedLocks]

eeheehee he said kermit :jointsmile::jointsmile::jointsmile:

[BigHyphyD]

That is most likely the situation. They probably talk alot of shit about you when your not there.
But another thing, you couldn't walk 2 blocks? WTF

2 blocks in a suburban residential development is a lot.

By 2 blocks I mean 2 main streets.


It's not downtown where 2 blocks I could run to in 30 seconds. lol

[suhl]

were you serious about that remark about not wanting to become a "kermit" ahahahahaha

[BigHyphyD]

were you serious about that remark about not wanting to become a "kermit" ahahahahaha

lol kind of. I don't want to stay home all day and smoke a lone. Never leaving the house.

My brother was like that, except he just stayed onthe computer.

[suhl]

the word is hermit:)

[BigHyphyD]

LOL.


WOW.


Oh well

[Bong30]

if you were a kermit you would be a little green frog and no one wants that...

[smokin dope]

get involved with a sport..go to the mall...meet people, it isnt hard