shes young, what do you think?

[nikweiser]

ok i am starting to really like this girl, shes chill, like a homie, a really good friend who i could def see me and her in a relationship.. but shes 15... and im 18...
i dont plan on just boning her, i like this girl for who she is and shes really nice to be around.. would dating her just for who she is and not sex be a problem at all? what do you guys think?
seriously replies please, tired of dumbass remarks

[Euphoric]

wait til shes legal

[nikweiser]

i know thats what bugs the shit out of me... but like what im asking is what do you think about just dating, being a good friend and always hanging out.. maybe now and then do something special but keep it on the dl

[nikweiser]

because its only 3 years.. shes mature as fuck, she acts like anyone else my age or older.. thats what matters i think is if they are mature or not... shes not some little girl

[hewhispers]

You are an adult.
She is not.
If you care for her, you will wait.

[Euphoric]

YEA I UNDERSTAND CAUSE MY GF IS 18 AND IM 24 like my adivce is wait til her 16th birthday to offically date rite :angelsmiley:

[JeenYuss]

im 15 my g/f is 17 but before/during the time she got wit me she was wit a dude thats like 25 (who i found out later was like my 4th cuzin), they never fucked or anything & the main reason she was wit him is he had $ an was a dumbass (she said jump & he said how high? lol), but still age shouldnt really be a factor unless its on sum pedophile shit like shes 12 or suttin but its whatever, but anyways it was funny as fuck like we'd b fuckin downstairs in his house while he was sleepin LOL... good times...

[JeenYuss]

jus make sure she aint tryna F an get u in trouble thats a given

[ValkyrieAg]

I think it depends on the situation. 3 years isn't really that bad. If you are like 6'3" 250lbs and shes some little girl, people will notice.

[nikweiser]

no we are both the same size and she dosent even look young.. when i first met her i had no idea she was young

[ValkyrieAg]

beat that ass up.

[someuser]

they never fucked or anything & the main reason she was wit him is he had $ an was a dumbass (she said jump & he said how high? lol)

ROFL

Or so she tells -you-

LoL

:jointsmile:

[napolitana869]

I would wait until she's 16 if I were in your situation. She may be very mature and cool, but her parents might not think shes old enough to be with someone your age and you dont want them to press charges - even if you dont sleep with her, her parents will think you did

[Prozac fairy]

plain and simple mate- wait,,, shes jail bate man ..and if u think no oone will find dont be so sure. Happened to one of my mates..got her pregnant was soo stupid coz i told him to wait then punched in the face for being an irresponsible jerk.

[someuser]

Honestly, I understand protecting a 14 - 16 yrs from some guy my age now (28yrs +) but it is totally f*cked up when the age difference is so close to pursue a technical legal action. It was in the news not too long about this black varsity football player that was an honor role student got busted for statutory rape with his HS gf who was either 16yrs or 17yrs... He got 10yrs in prison. Tell me that isnt FUCKED up. The guy just happened to turn 18 while in his senior year and got put in prison for dating his HS sweetheart.

Both the judge and DA should burn in hell for ruining a kids life with a bright future like that... Those laws werent intended to be used like that... But anyhow, be careful... If you're in the wrong income bracket or the wrong race and you get a over-zealous DA and judge you never know what may happen.

[JeenYuss]

ROFL

Or so she tells -you-

LoL

:jointsmile:

most of tha time i was wit them lmao me n her was fuckin tha whole time n he never even knew

like literally this guy was sad, they was wit each other for a few months & only KISSED like 2 times... but i still chill wit him, he gots money & i say jump he says how high lmao...

[FakeBoobsRule]

15 will get you 20.

[xcrispi]

statutory rape ,
ever heard of it . lol . i had a friend do 5 yrs. n never even got laid . a lil tity is all . be careful , -n- don't piss her folks off .
peace
crispi

[harris7]

I would wait until she's 16 if I were in your situation. She may be very mature and cool, but her parents might not think shes old enough to be with someone your age and you dont want them to press charges - even if you dont sleep with her, her parents will think you did

I donâ??t know the specific laws in the states. But I know they cant press charges if you donâ??t bone. And since you said you arenâ??t going to, then go for it and at least wait till sheâ??s 16 till you do. It will probably be better for her anyways


statutory rape ,
ever heard of it . lol . i had a friend do 5 yrs. n never even got laid . a lil tity is all . be careful , -n- don't piss her folks off .
peace
crispi

How did he get charged with S. rape if he didnâ??t get â??laidâ?�?
And didnâ??t piss the parents off?

In cases like this, only the parents can press charges, the girl cannot as itâ??s consensual.

[MaryJaneintheCloset]

I was 16 and my now husband was 22 when we met... we had to lie to parents about ages, but eventually it all came out. I was mature for my age, he was a 22 year old guy. :) We've been together almost 10 years now, and if we had listened to everyone else, we never would have made it. Follow your heart, just be careful, since 16 is the age of consent. Good luck!

[JeenYuss]

so does anybody know anything about like statuatory in REVERSE, like the female being 19 and me being 15? theorhetically speaking of course;) not saying i've done it, or plan on doing it again

any feedback on this? any? or does any1 know any1 in a similar situation?

[stinkyattic]

It goes both ways...remember the schoolteacher?

[JeenYuss]

so do you like not wash yr dick & get vagina samples from it or sumthin??? how do they really do it is what i was trying to ask

[K-town Kronic]

ur 18 and shes 15. date that. if shes cool wit it its not like ur gonna get jail time if shes down for that.grab that shit b4 she grabs someone else.

[RyanTheCaveman]

No sex than i dont see why you guys cant be..besdies its only 3 years.

[stinkyattic]

dude, GREAT first post... wow...


JeenYuss, I think the schoolteacher case was that the kid's parents pressed charges and they called him as a witness... and didn't she get pregnant by him too? Creepy!!!! I'm under the impression that most statutory rape cases don'r have an arrest made like right away after you just rolled out of bed and are prosecuted based upon testimony

[Psycho4Bud]

ur 18 and shes 15. date that. if shes cool wit it its not like ur gonna get jail time if shes down for that.grab that shit b4 she grabs someone else.

At 15 it don't matter what she's cool with....if mommy and daddy decide that she was raped....the system WILL convict!

If ya can't keep it in your pants you better run like hell.

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

[lil josh]

personally i would have sex with her, you should have added a poll

[PatrickHenry]

Check out your state laws. If you're not having sex with her there is nothing to worry about; otherwise be careful. All it takes is one fight where she decides to tell the authorities and then you're convicted of a "sex crime." Being such, you will be listed as a sex offender on government websites and hassled for the rest of your life. Sex isn't worth that much brotha, wait til she's of the age of consent.

[stinkyattic]

personally i would have sex with her,



so i walked in2 the mental home with my cock out my nappy down and my wellies on and take the piss out of all the mental ppl.

Personally I think your sig does a good job of making your opinions a bit suspect

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Listen, I had a really bad incident with this shit, so I really know what I'm talking about here.... basically, when she's 15, she's off limits. Wait until she's 16. Even if you're not going to have sex, because the minute you 'accidently' get lost in passion, you're putting yourself in jail also police can charge you with all sorts of fucked up laws like enticing a minor, which means the minute you kiss her, you're 'enticing' her. What's a year anyway if you REALLY think you like her and you're already friends? I dunno, that's just my opinion.

[xcrispi]

hey harris ,
i said . don't piss her folks off . i didn't say didn't piss her folks off .
girls dad was a detroit cop . lol . yes hey pressed charges -n- yes they stuck .
peace
crispi

[nikweiser]

appreciate your guys responses.. i think im just going to be real good friends with her and kinda of have like a relationship but not.. if you understand what i mean

[MastaChronic]

appreciate your guys responses.. i think im just going to be real good friends with her and kinda of have like a relationship but not.. if you understand what i mean

so...basically what you mean to say is that you want to be friends with her.
im pretty sure you can be friends with a minor, and then give her a real nice 18th birthday gift?

[spliffstar22]

I say don't fuck with it, cause it could come back and not bite you in the ass, but bite your entire head off lol with the legal system.......

[Eazy]

yea man make it work

in my books if ya care its ite

just if u sum 18 yr old da likes lil kids n a kidy way not a

i love her more a MOLEST !

meh
no em tell dem kiss ma black ass in da whip lord kno's

[K-town Kronic]

At 15 it don't matter what she's cool with....if mommy and daddy decide that she was raped....the system WILL convict!

If ya can't keep it in your pants you better run like hell.

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

thats why i say FUCK THE SYSTEM..

[ValkyrieAg]

hey harris ,
i said . don't piss her folks off . i didn't say didn't piss her folks off .
girls dad was a detroit cop . lol . yes hey pressed charges -n- yes they stuck .
peace
crispi


OOOh. I spy with my little eye. Do we have a sex offender on the board?

I am still on the "Beat That Ass Up!" bandwagon.

[JaggedEdge]

Wait until she is legal. No point risking going to jail. All you need is one pissed off girl, friend, father, and your ass is going to jail for stat rape.

Secondly, I have to argue the age difference is pretty great.

You can't compare a 43 year old dating a 40 year old to an 18 y/o dating a 15 y/o. There is a big difference in maturity (in most cases) between those three years. Seriously dude, I would suggest not doing anything. Be friends if you like and wait until she is 17.

[JaggedEdge]

yea man make it work

in my books if ya care its ite

just if u sum 18 yr old da likes lil kids n a kidy way not a

i love her more a MOLEST !

meh
no em tell dem kiss ma black ass in da whip lord kno's

What the hell did you even say?

[EternalEnemy]

"Wait till she is legal...." Well, none of you stoners say that of an another lady, and her name is Mary Jane.

Life is short, live it fast. Dont get caught.

[thcbongman]

This thread reminds me of the MTV-made movie about statatory rape.

[nikweiser]

lol eternal you are right
anyways.. shes way mature which is the only reason im considering it.. ive just been talking with her a lot, a lot more then the other girls i considered liking and are of age.. shes just hella chill

[thcbongman]

So if you indeed go out with her and vow not to bone her, what if she wants you to go down on her?

What then?

Hopefully this girl is really chill, and is cool with it. Otherwise, you are falling in the pussy trap.

Otherwise what's wrong with just being friends? Whatever you do, be careful and know when to hit "EJECT."

[mattmao]

some nice advice but i must add my bit,what does she think of you first off,if you both get on well make each other laugh i dont see a problem with going for it,female 15 year olds are much more mature than 15 year old boys so shes probably on your level.take it easy she will be 16 soon,and as time goes on you will never notice your very small age difference.in my experience age should never matter if you belive you have met the right person for you,i met my partner 3 years ago and we have an 11 year age gap(she's older)but we love each other care for each other and look out for each other.i just wouldnt want to be without her.so good luck hope it all goes well!!

[xcrispi]

OOOh. I spy with my little eye. Do we have a sex offender on the board?

I am still on the "Beat That Ass Up!" bandwagon.

wouldn't be the least bit suprised . but it sure the hell aint crispi .
learn to read a lil better son !!! crispis never done a day in the clink in his life.
crispi

[EternalEnemy]

Seriously, what is the difference between a 15 year old and an 18 year old? Nothing, there is just a useless tabu in there. If you were 80 and she was eighteen and you two would get married the day you both meet, then thats just fine by the law, but now that there is a three-fucking-year age difference, that makes you a rapist. Just like the fact that you smoke weed, makes you a dangerous junkie. My advice is, dont ever base your beginning moral point to what the law says, since we all know its shit.

Come on, seriously. A a drug-frenzied pedophile raping little girls? While the actual rapists dont get all that much worse treatment?

[lil josh]

yea man make it work

in my books if ya care its ite

just if u sum 18 yr old da likes lil kids n a kidy way not a

i love her more a MOLEST !

meh
no em tell dem kiss ma black ass in da whip lord kno's

lol I dont even know wt u said!

lol no eazy ur nt a wigger are you

[da highest]

Surely the law should be second to both your feelings. IF ytou both feel you should have a relationship then go for it imo. Maybe its ont such a big deal here in england i know 15 year old girls who are dating 24 yr old men.

[thcbongman]

lol I dont even know wt u said!

lol no eazy ur nt a wigger are you

We need an ebonics translator.

[stinkyattic]

OOOh. I spy with my little eye. Do we have a sex offender on the board?

I am still on the "Beat That Ass Up!" bandwagon.

A bit insensitive are we?

[Mosiah]

In NJ, that would be legal, as long as both partners are over 13 and within 3 years of each other it's not against the law.

[ValkyrieAg]

A bit insensitive are we?

To what? 15 year olds or sex offenders?

[stinkyattic]

We aren't talking about a 30 something or even a 20 year old dating a 15 year old... we're talking sex between 2 kids in high school... yeah. they are young, yeah, 15 year old girls are pretty vulnerable to the wiles of 'older' men, even older meaning like 17, but the 17-15 relationship or even 18-15 doesn't make you a sex offender and the laws were not written for them... but for old nasty dudes doinking lil girls. So since we are talking about high school sex, and you are calling another user who got caught in the technicality of that law a sex offender or pedophile or whatever, yes, that makes you insensitive.

[xcrispi]

thanx stinky u rock ,
i know who my friends are here .
G/B sis .
crispi

[stinkyattic]

Awww I never get tired of looking at that pic of your Neo!! What a cutie!!!

[sensi skier]

I personally would wait until she's 16. Just stay friends until then. Even if you turn 19 and she's 16, it looks better than if you're 18 and she's 15. Chances are it won't matter anyways, but you never know.

[smoke it]

ok i am starting to really like this girl, shes chill, like a homie, a really good friend who i could def see me and her in a relationship.. but shes 15... and im 18...
i dont plan on just boning her, i like this girl for who she is and shes really nice to be around.. would dating her just for who she is and not sex be a problem at all? what do you guys think?
seriously replies please, tired of dumbass remarks

im not trying to be an asshole dude, but even if your not banging her, it will look real sketchy.

[MastaChronic]

you have to lick it....before you stick it! chachacha!

[nikweiser]

you have to lick it....before you stick it! chachacha!

hahahah
the thing is, to the post about whoever said it would look sketchy, it really wouldnt look sketchy in person... but since you guys dont know what i look like, how tall i am, all my features etc.. compaired to her.. it actually looks like were the same age to any random person to see us together:stoned:

anyways, appreciate all your guys responses.. im not just gonna jump for it but wait a lil bit... with keeping touch everyday haha

[Nation_1ne]

Very uneven territory you're walking on here since she is 15. I did the same though, I dated a girl who was 15 and I was 18. I didn't go near her once in a sexual way till after she was legal and both myself and her felt comfortable with it. We started seeing each other about 3 or 4 months away from her 16th birthday. Nice girl, didn't last long though I soon remembered how much I love my Ex/Current girlfriend.

[ValkyrieAg]

We aren't talking about a 30 something or even a 20 year old dating a 15 year old... we're talking sex between 2 kids in high school... yeah. they are young, yeah, 15 year old girls are pretty vulnerable to the wiles of 'older' men, even older meaning like 17, but the 17-15 relationship or even 18-15 doesn't make you a sex offender and the laws were not written for them... but for old nasty dudes doinking lil girls. So since we are talking about high school sex, and you are calling another user who got caught in the technicality of that law a sex offender or pedophile or whatever, yes, that makes you insensitive.

Regardless of my point. Either you are a registered sex offender or not. Thats all I'm saying. And I am still on the hit it (but don't get caught) bandwagon. Crispix said something that would lead a person to believe that if the charges 'stuck' he would be on a list of registered offenders.

If you are caught then you are considered a sex offender. Then you can kick yourself for nailing a 15 year old when you knew better. Then people openly know that you are a sex offender.

[autumn tourniquet]

I say be with her. :)

My boyfriend is 18 years older than I am and we are perfect for each other. Remember that the laws can be very different in every state. In Indiana its 16and i'm turning 17 next month. My parents don't like it/don't know, but they can't do anything legal about it. :) I say go for it and if you're really paranoid about the sex thing just make it between you and her and don't tell anyone else. :) Or you can wait. :)

peace-

[ValkyrieAg]

I say be with her. :)

My boyfriend is 18 years older than I am and we are perfect for each other. Remember that the laws can be very different in every state. In Indiana its 16and i'm turning 17 next month. My parents don't like it/don't know, but they can't do anything legal about it. :) I say go for it and if you're really paranoid about the sex thing just make it between you and her and don't tell anyone else. :) Or you can wait. :)

peace-

16 year old girl and a 34 year old.

Doesn't that look weird when you go places together? How do you introduce yourselves as a couple?

[autumn tourniquet]

We really don't look that odd together, actually.
When we introduce ourselves, we don't mention age.

[JeenYuss]

yea man make it work

in my books if ya care its ite

just if u sum 18 yr old da likes lil kids n a kidy way not a

i love her more a MOLEST !

meh
no em tell dem kiss ma black ass in da whip lord kno's

em as in short for Eminem? like on that song where he says "kiss my black ass" LMAO!!!

[Skink]

Your asking for trouble!!!

[gabee42ee]

i wen tout with my first love ... and so far my last when i was 15 and he was 18 and it was fine for a long time about 2 years ... but shit happens but id say go for it its only 3 years

[nikweiser]

16 year old girl and a 34 year old.

Doesn't that look weird when you go places together? How do you introduce yourselves as a couple?

ya i must ask the same...
that is definatly weird

[JeenYuss]

16 year old girl and a 34 year old.

Doesn't that look weird when you go places together? How do you introduce yourselves as a couple?

yeah i think thats just fucked up... this dude was prolly banging whores before she was even born... hes old enough to be her fucking dad

[autumn tourniquet]

The only way he could be my dad is if he had me when he was 17 or 18.
If I were a year older than what I am now it'd be fine with everyone, and I find it sad that no one can see past the age difference. :/
Plus, you don't know the details of the relationship and hes not a pedophile its legal and just because hes older doesn't automatically make him stalking children....

[stinkyattic]

But whether you know it or not, or however mature you feel, you're vulnerable at that age.
Do you have a good relationship with your father?
Are you looking for a male role model, or some sort of affirmation from a father figure?
And no matter how YOU look at it, he's creepy for going along.
What do you guys even talk about?
How do you have mutual friends? When you are older you are going to realize how mutual friends end up being SO MUCH a part of a healthy adult relationship.

[rg420]

Dude if it someone that you really care about, jus wait.

[JeenYuss]

The only way he could be my dad is if he had me when he was 17 or 18.
If I were a year older than what I am now it'd be fine with everyone, and I find it sad that no one can see past the age difference. :/
Plus, you don't know the details of the relationship and hes not a pedophile its legal and just because hes older doesn't automatically make him stalking children....

that still doesnt change the fact that its straight up creepy...

[copelandia]

Well that is slightly pushing it, but not completely. As you state, it's legal where you are. Many 17 year old girls can be quite mature and look the part of someone older in comparison to their peers, so much so they are "older".

I would much rather see a 17 year old marry some 30 some year old than another 17 year old. Two 17 year olds will more likely have a rough start, even with family support. An older partner can offer financial security and understanding, experience, and an overall maturity. And the younger partner is less likely to be burnt,etc.

I wouldn't call someone going after a 17 year old a pedophile. Now if he/she is hitting on some 12-15 year old that's another story and worthy of prosecution. It's really not creepy in many circles. I have seen many so called "trophy wives" who are 19-20 and whose husbands are 40 or more. In reality they seemed to work quite well together.



I say be with her. :)

My boyfriend is 18 years older than I am and we are perfect for each other. Remember that the laws can be very different in every state. In Indiana its 16and i'm turning 17 next month. My parents don't like it/don't know, but they can't do anything legal about it. :) I say go for it and if you're really paranoid about the sex thing just make it between you and her and don't tell anyone else. :) Or you can wait. :)

peace-

[JeenYuss]

my grandpa has 17 years on his wife... my girl only gots a year on me:) & im better off financially with any1 im pretty independant, i pretty much sleep at home & take showers thats about it

[ValkyrieAg]

Just because trophy wives are a reality doesn't make it 'ok' or socially acceptable.

[blackbarbie]

i dont think it's wrong, i never dated anyone my age when i was under 18 and still don't now. so i dont have a problem with it, i think you should just be really careful, depending on the statutory rape laws in your state. even if you're not doing anything, somebody could say you are and you know how the law fucks men over in these type of situations.

[smokin dope]

you might as well fuck her if she wants to have sex yo

[smokin dope]

thats my opinion tho, im 21, ive banged 16 girls, and i do bang the occasional 15 year old, but 16 is legal where i live

[Stoner Shadow Wolf]

there arent many things i hate more than "age of consent"...

prohibition is one of them.

[ju99al0b0mb3r]

When My G/f Turns 18 I'll Be 16

Lol

[rainbows.rsexy]

i think canadians have it right that 16 year olds are legally do-abull

[eL.migz]

Honestly, I understand protecting a 14 - 16 yrs from some guy my age now (28yrs +) but it is totally f*cked up when the age difference is so close to pursue a technical legal action. It was in the news not too long about this black varsity football player that was an honor role student got busted for statutory rape with his HS gf who was either 16yrs or 17yrs... He got 10yrs in prison. Tell me that isnt FUCKED up. The guy just happened to turn 18 while in his senior year and got put in prison for dating his HS sweetheart.

Both the judge and DA should burn in hell for ruining a kids life with a bright future like that... Those laws werent intended to be used like that... But anyhow, be careful... If you're in the wrong income bracket or the wrong race and you get a over-zealous DA and judge you never know what may happen.

i heard about a story just like this on a talk show, and the guy actually got out of prison the next year because they took the case before the supreme court and proved the same point you did, that the law if for protecting young girls from OLD predators.

it just sucks that his athletics and grades got all effed up because of that stupid girl...

[systemofadown]

thats my opinion tho, im 21, ive banged 16 girls, and i do bang the occasional 15 year old, but 16 is legal where i live

You're fucking sick.

[chisme]

ok i am starting to really like this girl, shes chill, like a homie, a really good friend who i could def see me and her in a relationship.. but shes 15... and im 18...
i dont plan on just boning her, i like this girl for who she is and shes really nice to be around.. would dating her just for who she is and not sex be a problem at all? what do you guys think?
seriously replies please, tired of dumbass remarks

lose her.

trust me youll thank me in 2 years

[gabee42ee]

wen i was 15 i dated someone who was 18 for along ass time ... it worked fine ... age was not the problem in the least in our relationship ... although it was funny (well it is too me now) wen he made a secrete video tape of us and didnt tell me and showed it to his friends then brought it to school and got suspended ... everyone called him r.kelly ... not bc there was piss anywhere in that video but u kno the whole underage thing ... im still called paris hilton ... what can u do though

[young Hustla]

ok i am starting to really like this girl, shes chill, like a homie, a really good friend who i could def see me and her in a relationship.. but shes 15... and im 18...
i dont plan on just boning her, i like this girl for who she is and shes really nice to be around.. would dating her just for who she is and not sex be a problem at all? what do you guys think?
seriously replies please, tired of dumbass remarks

listen me and my ex went through the same thing. i mean thats why we broke up im 18 and she is 15. but i mean i love her and she loves me too. she is my best friend and nothing has changed. i mean she still to this day tells me she loves me. but u know. if u want u can date her i mean its not really a big deal. in 3 years she will be your age. what i would do if i were u, i would plant it in her head that u mean alot to her. so even if u never go out. when she turns 18 ur the fist on her list. become like her best friend and then u will be ok. but the choice is really on u. im in college now so i had to let her go plus i like older women better lol. but i know that when she turns 18 im the fist she is going to call, and we will most likely be together for the rest of our lives.just dont fuck it up lol.