How long does your fella' last?

[Frivolous248]

This is strictly for the women.

How long does your man last?

Whats the longest you've had a guy last?

The shortest?

I really don't care what the guys have to say, no guy in his right mind would admit to lasting 5-10 minutes, and I think most guys would lie anyway.

Heh, reminds me of "Fast times at ridgemont high" where this dude cums in like 5 seconds flat, and the girls talkin' to her friend about sex and her friends like "how long did he last?" and she said something like "Uhh...about 20 minutes" and the other girls like "yeah, my guy lasts like 30"

haha

[bavet]

Sorry I'm a guy and I'm the most honest dude you'll ever meet and I don't take kindly to idiots calling me a lier. By lasting I'll assume staying hard hehe I said hard hehehehe
Guess it depends, I've had my exciting quikies that were meant to be quickies Like say at moms house on the bathroom floor in n out before anyone knoticed were missing, (the 3 min job). Had my marathans where You go for a few hours or till someone is too sore and gives ups grrrr. but normaly I'd say 30 mins yes thats right 30 mins, not 3 mins no bs here butty! Sometimes I never finish and my woman just calls it quits cause "I'm tired I wanna go to sleep now" "I'm getting sore" " I got a head ache now" grrr whatever always tomorrow hehehe

[dutch.lover]

i don't really know exactly how long my guy lasts, cause we usually do a decent amount of foreplay so i don't keep track of how long the actual intercourse lasts. i would guess it lasts on average 15 mins, but he can come way faster than that, and on the other hand last way longer than that. in general, our entire sexual encounters probably last between 30mins-45mins. but like i said, it can vary. i don't like to have sex for too long anyways, cause i get tired and/or sore. sex is a workout!

[JeenYuss]

yeah i dont see why anyone would lie on the internet? makes no sense to me i guess sum ppl so insecure in their real lives that this makes them feel better?

i agree lotta females i kno get tired of it, but if tha guys doin all tha work (as is usually in my case) an u jus quit on'm cuz u gettin tired/bored/headache or w/e i think thats pretty rude, thats when nex time yr fuckin u take it out real quick & shove it in her fuckin ass:mad: take that bitch

on average - 40-70 minutes, it varies for me idk why, i dont give a fuck if this threads supposed to be females only im an avid cannabis user & i can post wherever the fuck i want:) :rastasmoke:

[YahtzeeG]

it all depends for me...

[stinkyattic]

I'm not kidding here... I used to date a guy who had figured out the art of the tantric male multiple orgasm... OMFG I wish he would get his ass back from Vermont already... 4 hours straight... 3 for me, 5 for him...
ahhhhh damn that pretty much ruined me for anyone else... standards too high now :D
Yeah and on top of that he's a better street bike rider than me too... too fucking sexy... WOW. Only person I have ever met who can really handle a Honda RC51 the way it was meant to be ridden.
Excuse me I have to go take a cold shower now

[MarzVooolta]

The average guy lasts around 6-7 minutes of intercourse, pretty funny if you think about it, and the male sex drive is most active from age 18-22 and for woman age 35 I believe. Mother Nature is cruel

[stinkyattic]

... the male sex drive is most active from age 18-22 and for woman age 35 I believe. Mother Nature is cruel

lol mother Nature is really nice to the ladies!!! I can't wait to be in my early 40's and putting the moves on some hot young 20something!!

You young bucks just have to change your focus and chase some grey squirrel, lol!!!

[napolitana869]

I had a 2 pump guy once. It was really bad and needless to say it wasnt repeated. My boyfriend now is perfect though.

[Prozac fairy]

LMAO...a 2 pump guy...unlucky. umm how long does my guy last...hmm like Dutch lover...dont really keep track. We spend alot of time wit fore play, and oral...sumtimes i make him cum coz i no he can get hard again pretty quick then we have sex. acttual sex lasts about ummm 20 mins roughly ish but hey cud be longer cud be shorter...wen ur havin fun time shud just stop! With anal...he cums a lot quicker...he was a bit embarrased wen we first tried but his gettin there now so its REALLY enjoyable for us both

[stinkyattic]

Hey all New Englanders... might recognize this dude... his statue graces the Lexington Battle Green... to me, he symbolizes a bit more than the rebellious colonial farmers... he is....

The Minute Man!!!!

(still 200 years later failing to satisfy his womenfolks, lol!)

[qdavid]

Hey all New Englanders... might recognize this dude... his statue graces the Lexington Battle Green... to me, he symbolizes a bit more than the rebellious colonial farmers... he is....

The Minute Man!!!!

(still 200 years later failing to satisfy his womenfolks, lol!)

A copy of that statue is in courtyard square of Cortland NY, where I'm from. I used to always call Mass., "Massive-two-shits", I mean like all the time. Once-upon-a-time I drove the Mass. turnpike at least once-a-month going back and forth between Pease AFB in Portsmouth New Hampshire and NY. So a then some years ago, my daughter is in the 4th grade at a Catholic school and the teacher asks her, "What state is Boston in"? My daughter proudly says, "Massive-two-shits". The teacher goes ape-shit and calls the principal down. And my daughter, puffed upo at being so smart proudly repeated, "Massive-two-shits". Damn. LMFAO. But, it's my fault really though. To this day, she's 19 now, she thinks Boston is in "Massive-two-shits". But back to this here thread, Minute-men takes on that two-pump chump meaning for some I'm sorry to say. So like if I want a statue made for me I should just be somewhat premature? Dang, them minute-men, colonial farmer dudes missed out on some real happy-humping, if that's true. I'd rather think all the happy-humping kept them warm in the winter and happy and wise enough to see a great thing that was worth fighting for. Humping and freedom, go together. Ramble, ramble, ramble,..toke...ramble.

[Frivolous248]

WTF is with all the sudden mass bashing? I grew up in mass and it rocks... I think that statue was in the middle of the town I used to live, or one just like it.


Also, the reason I'm not wanting to trust most guys is 'cause I've read a bunch of statistics that say stuff like "n% of guys orgasm within 5 minutes of penetration" or whatnot. And I've never heard a guy say hes lasted any shorter than 15 minutes...

[qdavid]

I didn't mean to come off like I was bashing. I like the place. I did some temporary duty stationed at Otis ANG base on the Cape and that was some of the best time in my life. I really dug that Boston Marketplace or Nathaniel Hall thing too but I never got to Fenway, damn-it. Hopefully I still will before the assholes decide to tear down that hallowed landmark.

[greendove]

i don't really know exactly how long my guy lasts, cause we usually do a decent amount of foreplay so i don't keep track of how long the actual intercourse lasts. i would guess it lasts on average 15 mins, but he can come way faster than that, and on the other hand last way longer than that. in general, our entire sexual encounters probably last between 30mins-45mins. but like i said, it can vary. i don't like to have sex for too long anyways, cause i get tired and/or sore. sex is a workout!

Same here.

[az666]

ladies only :(...what about the guys who happen to be interested in guys?? lol
To answer your question...it depends which one i'm with ;)

No but seriously...it really depends on the situation, there are times where guys have cum in about 2 mins...and then i've had sessions lasting hours...average is probably about 5 mins i suppose...but foreplay would make guys cum faster and also how horny they are.
Lots of factors really.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

My ex boyfriend was good at one thing and that's one thing only...and that's sex, he was around his sexual peak as well (statistic wise)...He could last about 4 hours if we had the time (pure sex), with of course, a few blunts in between. Of course every guy can do the two minute miracle basically anywhere. My current boyfriend and I usually go at it for 30-an hour (not including foreplay). Perfect to me :)

[couch-potato]

Attention men, are you tired of blowing your load within 4 seconds of vaginal penetration? Say no more!


The key to lasting longer is to develop the muscles in your penis and make them strong enough to hold sperm in when you are about to ejaculate. Forget about products and systems that reduce sensation. You're supposed to enjoy fucking, not reduce the feeling.

Training

To train yourself, you will need to masturbate, my young padawan. Maturbate to the point where you are about to ejaculate, slow your strokes down and eventually stop just in the matter of time so that you do not bust your nut. Use your cock muscles to try to hold the sperm in. The first few times you try this, you may lose control and end up ejaculating anyway. This is fine, as long as you are trying to hold it in, you are developing the muscles you need to. Eventually you'll get better at it.

Repeat
Repeat these steps, masturbating and trying to control it. You can also practice while you are urinating. If you can stop yourself from urinating in the middle, you're almost where you need to be. If you perform these steps every day or so after about 2 weeks, you will come to a point where you will be able to stop yourself from ejaculating any time you want. The best part of this exercise is that the more you do it, the more powerful your orgasms will be. Unlimited cock power!

Wear Her Out
Perform this exercise until you feel confident enough to be able to have complete control of your ejaculation. Then during intercourse, when you feel you are about to ejaculate, you can stop your strokes, gain control of yourself, then start again. You'll be able to wear that bitch out! You will likely be able to keep it up better too because your confidence level will rise. Nothing feels better than getting stoned, drunk and being in control of yourself sexually.

Taken from some website, but I am too lazy to cite my sources.

[Skink]

I don't have a stop watch...

[stinkyattic]

WTF is with all the sudden mass bashing? I grew up in mass and it rocks... I think that statue was in the middle of the town I used to live, or one just like it.

...

lol don't worry, no bashing, I'm a real in-the-flesh Masshole and grew up for the first few years of my life in the shadow of that statue!!! I'm out west of 495 now where it's actually possible to buy a home for less than 600,000 for a 2 bedroom ranch... so did you live in Lexington or Concord? That one is in Lex, but there's another similar Minuteman monument in Concord on the other end of the Battle road... it's neat to go visit for any history buffs in the house!

[lil josh]

im 15 and i can last between 5-30 mins. when i have allot of 4play where i dont cum and then have sex with a condom i usualy cum in like 3-5 mins so i used to get my x-gf to make me cum first wait bout 5-10 mins with me fingering her then we have sex. if i use a condom its more like the 10-15 min job and if i am stoned or drunk more like 30 mins + as when im drunk its hard to concentrate lol and when im stoned i can control when i cum more.

ill admit the first time i had sex with my gf i cum in about 2 mins idk lol it was still realllly tight and the feel of her around my bell-end was amazing :)

ive realised that from now on if im about to have sex with a girl that really turns me on im gona have a lot of 4play till i cum, carry on the 4play till im hard again and then poke that shit :)

[dutch.lover]

Attention men, are you tired of blowing your load within 4 seconds of vaginal penetration? Say no more!


The key to lasting longer is to develop the muscles in your penis and make them strong enough to hold sperm in when you are about to ejaculate. Forget about products and systems that reduce sensation. You're supposed to enjoy fucking, not reduce the feeling.

Training

To train yourself, you will need to masturbate, my young padawan. Maturbate to the point where you are about to ejaculate, slow your strokes down and eventually stop just in the matter of time so that you do not bust your nut. Use your cock muscles to try to hold the sperm in. The first few times you try this, you may lose control and end up ejaculating anyway. This is fine, as long as you are trying to hold it in, you are developing the muscles you need to. Eventually you'll get better at it.

Repeat
Repeat these steps, masturbating and trying to control it. You can also practice while you are urinating. If you can stop yourself from urinating in the middle, you're almost where you need to be. If you perform these steps every day or so after about 2 weeks, you will come to a point where you will be able to stop yourself from ejaculating any time you want. The best part of this exercise is that the more you do it, the more powerful your orgasms will be. Unlimited cock power!

Wear Her Out
Perform this exercise until you feel confident enough to be able to have complete control of your ejaculation. Then during intercourse, when you feel you are about to ejaculate, you can stop your strokes, gain control of yourself, then start again. You'll be able to wear that bitch out! You will likely be able to keep it up better too because your confidence level will rise. Nothing feels better than getting stoned, drunk and being in control of yourself sexually.

Taken from some website, but I am too lazy to cite my sources.



Hey, that advice sounds good and what you are referring to are KEGEL EXERCISES. Just thought I would point out that the penis doesn't have any muscles in it, and the muscles you are in fact working during the exercises you described are your pubococcygeal muscles. These basically surround the groin and anal region. thought i would clear that up....

[Nylo]

I'm a guy, my average is 30 mins excluding foreplay. I'm shocked that that's a good time, because I'm a total quick-shot when I get off solo. But to be fair a lot of that is because of her: she bites the FUCK out of me and the pain takes my mind away from getting off.

Condoms also are a huge contributor to that: I can't feel as much so I can go a lot longer.

[xxxhazexxx]

sorry anoyher guy here but for me it depends on how up for it the women are ruder the better:) :) :)

[LIP]

With a condom i last forever, but i hate condoms. Without maybe 30 minutes, although if i've been drink it can go up to 45 minutes. Not much more than that though, and i dont really want to be going for more than 45 mins... i'll get tried.

[SaanenGoats]

So I'm new to this board and thought I'd pop the cherry for this thread... excuse the really lousy pun.

My man believes in the quantity over quality... it's forty mintures standard when I'm really a twenty minutes girl... but if I take over we come to a happy compromise. I feel for stinkyattic... had a man once too who lasted hours with lots of variation, no hour-long, ceiling-staring, monotonous humping. I'm training... er... encouraging change in.... the current man though, and he's picking up real well, so I suppose there is hope that the forty long minutes will turn into an hour of bliss.

[stinkyattic]

Welcome goats! Aww cute av.
It's the quality that counts... in sex as in all things!
:D

[TheGreenFog]

I should get my gf an account on here & let her tell you...;)


Maybe I'll do that. :D We actually had a conversation last night about starting a thread about multiple orgasms. I'm sure there's already one out there.



The Fog :rastasmoke:



P.S. Welcome Goats.

[Ibu Jari]

Nice Avatar TGF :D I recognize that one. LOL

My guy lasts about 40 minutes. We're recently condom free, so we're working our way up. Lots of variation, or play during intercourse. Hasn't been boring here in months :D

But I've had your two minute man. To make matters worse, his dick was so small I didn't feel a damn thing. Maybe he missed. But I know my two fingers felt a hell of a lot better than his dick.

He went out for a smoke, I stayed in bed for an orgasam.

[stinkyattic]

He went out for a smoke, I stayed in bed for an orgasam.

lol there's no letdown like finding out your man doesn't know how to make that worm wiggle!

[Ibu Jari]

lol there's no letdown like finding out your man doesn't know how to make that worm wiggle!

Aint that the truth. I *still* get annoyed about that one. He could talk some shit too, we'd been friends for about 4 years prior to this 'event'.

[hewhispers]

question: why do men cum first?
answer: who cares?

bah-dah-bump.

seriously....i wish i was mr. quicky. most times she happily throws up the white flag about 60 minutes in (selfish wench!) and i'm left slappin' 'mr. happy' around the room for another 5.

i love blowin it while straddled ontop of her so i cover her neck and breasts.
I know...I am part beast/pig...cant help it.

Grrrrrrowl. :D

[napolitana869]

But I've had your two minute man. To make matters worse, his dick was so small I didn't feel a damn thing. Maybe he missed. But I know my two fingers felt a hell of a lot better than his dick.

that is exactly what happened to me. I was so angry afterward

[Skink]

if it's more than 4 hours,,,consult your physician...

[weedsted]

you girls who are complaining about 45 minutes making you sore from a workout. my boyfriend takes forever... i mean forever... i feel like i ran the new york marathon or something. with foreplay it takes like 2hours. like the shortest time was an hour and a half. he's so wasted. i wondered if that had something to with it... i just thought he was forcing himself not to cum... i don't know... but i'm trying to find a way to make it last shorter.

[JaggedEdge]

What is wrong with admitting 5-10 mins. My g/f gets dry after about 15 mins so if I want to come inside of here I have to make it in that window. Recently we had a stretch where I couldn't hold it in more than 2 mins. Than last night when we had sex it was the best orgasms either of us have had... On average I would say about 10 mins.

Shortest 2-mins

Longest 60+ mins

I know this was just for the ladies, but I couldn't help posting. Sorry.

[dutch.lover]

i just started using this girl-on-top position that makes my man come SUPER fast! I'm talking under a minute here (and he usually can last for a long time...average, 20 mins). I crouch on top of him, balancing on my feet like a frog hop thing, and then bounce up and down. The key is to bounce up far enough that his penis almost pops out, but not quite. If that doesn't make him come faster, i dont know what else will!!! (other than him masturbating to the point of ejaculation b4 having sex)

[JaggedEdge]

i just started using this girl-on-top position that makes my man come SUPER fast! I'm talking under a minute here (and he usually can last for a long time...average, 20 mins). I crouch on top of him, balancing on my feet like a frog hop thing, and then bounce up and down. The key is to bounce up far enough that his penis almost pops out, but not quite. If that doesn't make him come faster, i dont know what else will!!! (other than him masturbating to the point of ejaculation b4 having sex)

Please be careful with that. You know those dicks with the big curve in them. Most of those cruves have come from that position. If you come up to high and he comes out, and you come back down on it hard, you will likely break blood vessels in his member resulting in the lovely hook penis.

[dutch.lover]

haha ya sorry, I should have included a disclaimer with my post! As long as the girl is going slow, it should be fine, but if she starts bouncing up and down furiously than absolutely she could totally 'break' a dick. Sorry if that image caused distress in any of you males!

Be careful chicas!

[harris7]

Please be careful with that. You know those dicks with the big curve in them. Most of those cruves have come from that position. If you come up to high and he comes out, and you come back down on it hard, you will likely break blood vessels in his member resulting in the lovely hook penis.

i live in fear every day.
Maybe thats what she wants. a nice G-spot hooked penis

[MaryjaneAndHashley]

With a condom i last forever, but i hate condoms. Without maybe 30 minutes, although if i've been drink it can go up to 45 minutes. Not much more than that though, and i dont really want to be going for more than 45 mins... i'll get tried.

Hey, you last as long as your joints!

I HAD to say it.

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

I consider myself extremely fortunate. Mr. Greenjeans has amazing control. If we're in a hurry (gotta go pick the kids up or whatever), he can crank it out quick. (I've got a hair trigger anyhow. Takes me less than 3 mins.) But if we've got time, he'll go as long as I need him to. So, I'd say anywhere from 3 minutes, to whenever. I think our longest was 5 hours, with little breaks for cigs/weed and Pepsi LOL!

[LazySmoking420]

I learned if you wanna last longer, You cant come with a loaded gun. You gotta blow your load before hand. 30mins-1hour before hand. Smoke a bowl also helps you last longer. Had some of my best sex while stoned.