girls who make no noise

[chisme]

ok i gotta ask it.

look ive been with girls and theyve screamed and shouted while doin the dirty work and i love it.

but what is it with these girls who like tsay silent throughtout the whole thing? like i was with this girl and she was silent as a mouse...i had to keep stopping and asking if she was ok.........i mean yeah she was she was more then ok but i didnt get it why do sum girls just stay silent and lay there like a sack of spuds? i mean cmon girl put sum effort into it.

and no before anyone goes on the "you cant be doin it right" notion well.....fuck it i know i am and so do all the girls who do make noise.......im just curious as to why sum girls are silent?



anyone with a serious answer?

[JeenYuss]

idk... its like the same thing when ppl are in pain too, some people can handle it an dont make noise while others cant control expression thru multiple types of noises

[lagstronaut]

well I've been told girls find different things more stimulating than others, try a wacky new position or play with her butt

but i know what you mean it kills my confidence when a girl is just lying there looking at the ceiling..it's hard not to take it as an insult even though you know it's (most likely) not

[stinkyattic]

Maybe she used to do all her dirty work somewhere she had to be quiet before? Like in the back of a library... see, in that case, being silent is SUPER EXTRA sexytacular... the library is a great place to get yer work done... you should take her there sometime to prove a point! :D

[lil josh]

lol had it a few times not to many tho usually when the girls are a bit shy. tlk to her about it and she will most likley speak up lol

[Nochowderforyou]

Some girls are quiet. They're a challenge to get going, and that sometimes leaves the door open to explore a bit more in some positions.

If you find a girl is quiet, switch positions and try something different.

But some girls just don't make any noise. That's how they are, and some may feel they might sound stupid or be embarrased. Don't be shy girls! :p

[dutch.lover]

some girls are just quiet. I am pretty quiet, I don't scream or anything, but I do talk and try to throw in a moan every now and then. lol. I try to express my pleasure physically tho, like an assgrab or digging my nails in, etc.

here's something you have probably never heard tho- some people are physically UNABLE to speak during sex. They're experiencing so much pleasure that their speech mechanism actually shuts down. It's rare to lose speech completely, but in it's mildest form (not being very vocal in bed) it is very common. Some people also can lose hearing or sight during sex. Sounds crazy, but it happens.

I wouldn't take her lack of speech personally, and I definitely wouldn't keep the "put sum effort into it" mentality. She is probably just enjoying herself a lot, and this is the way she shows it. She might not even be able to help it. However, if you really want to get her to speak up you could try buying a book that teaches "dirty talk".

[Pride]

^ my thoughts exactly.

Yea, she's enjoying it dude. Keep it up.
Some girls are just like that.
I had a girl like that. The 'lay there like dead meat' type of chick. fuckin boring chicks lol.

[KindMidasSoundman]

Anybody ever been with an Asian woman who DIDN'T make a lot of noise?

(I hope this isn't taken as a racist comment, it's just something I've noticed)

[dutch.lover]

^ my thoughts exactly.

Yea, she's enjoying it dude. Keep it up.
Some girls are just like that.
I had a girl like that. The 'lay there like dead meat' type of chick. fuckin boring chicks lol.

Chisme, if the chick you are with doesn't talk OR communicate in any other way (ie. lays there like dead meat), that's a totally different situation. I defended her lack of talking, but if she literally doesn't do anything to communicate with you while in the sack (like nail digging, ass grabbing, holding you closer, etc)...well she is either shy or she DOES need to put in some more effort.

[dutch.lover]

here's a book thats supposed to be good for dirty talkin

The Fine Art Of Erotic Talk, by Bonnie Gabriel

[hewhispers]

Here's another trick....
Get her to tell you a sex fantasy while you're playing.
Encourage her to talk. "Then what happened?"
Every chick has a fantasy. What are hers?

Also try leading her.
"Do you want me to fuck you?"
Tease her clit with your cock.
She'll say "yes"
And you'll say "Yes, what...?"
Dont fuck her until she says the whole thing.

(Granted those words may not be too vulgar....customize)

You may have to do this a few times to get her retrained, but it works.

She may never be a noise maker...so accept that....but I find sex talk hot when we are doing it.

[stinkyattic]

You may have to do this a few times to get her retrained, but it works.




:eek:
retrained eh? creepy!

[Shannon]

[quote=chisme]ok i gotta ask it.

look ive been with girls and theyve screamed and shouted while doin the dirty work and i love it.



I really dont know, ever since ive started fucking ive been making noise, it just seems to quiet when theres none...plus why hold it in you get more pleasure when you express it..

[hewhispers]

:eek:
retrained eh? creepy!

So when they're scrapping away at your pecker with their molars I am sure you just smile acceptingly. :greenthumb:

Bah!

[Shannon]

Here's another trick....
Get her to tell you a sex fantasy while you're playing.
Encourage her to talk. "Then what happened?"
Every chick has a fantasy. What are hers?

Also try leading her.
"Do you want me to fuck you?"
Tease her clit with your cock.
She'll say "yes"
And you'll say "Yes, what...?"
Dont fuck her until she says the whole thing.

(Granted those words may not be too vulgar....customize)

You may have to do this a few times to get her retrained, but it works.

She may never be a noise maker...so accept that....but I find sex talk hot when we are doing it.

You're so amazing, you must be a beast in the sac.

[dutch.lover]

So when they're scrapping away at your pecker with their molars I am sure you just smile acceptingly. :greenthumb:

Bah!


the retrained comment had to do with getting the girl to talk dirty...not giving head. so where did the 'scrapping' away at the penis comment come from?

[hewhispers]

dutch.lover
You're right. Wrong thread, but the point is still valid.

If she's not doing something because she does not know any better, providing a source of education is essential, regardless if its scrapping or being too quiet . I think if you make it look like its a bad thing, you will only make matters worse.....so sometimes we have to come up with tricks that get them past their hangups. A gentle hand can help wonders.
Sometimes a firm hand is even better :D

Any idea how many women have told me...

"I would **never** have anal sex"

to me when we start chatting about it, only to find out that they're trying it (And enjoying it) for the first time an hour or a week later.

Perhaps 'retraining' is just too harsh of a word for Stinky's sensibilities.


Shannon:
Thanks. some like it a bit freaky, some like it straight.
gotta play to your audience and leave them with a smile.
;) ;)

[dutch.lover]

haha i like your point about anal, cause i was like that. now im trying to get my bf to open up to anal play but that's definitely not going as well. lol.

[greendove]

I admit it... I'm a quiet girl in the sack when things are most intense. I probably could make all that noise if I wanted to, but at that moment, my body is focussing on other things. Of course, there's a lot of laughing, playing, teasing, and commentary to the lead-up, but when it comes down to it, I think my body is perfectly capable of doing the talking for me. :D

[ValkyrieAg]

First girl i ever had sex with was a silent type. The second girl I had sex with, a few months later (this is back when i was like 14), when i was nailing it, she was very vocal and I thought..."oh yeah right, why would you feel the need to be that loud." but i didn't say anything. Well 10+ partners later, the only silent girl i'd ever been with was my first....it wasn't like i was bad or anything, i thought i did pretty ok.

[chisme]

wow nice replies peeps im actualy kinda.....pleased that you all could discuss this with me without just throwing in the spanner of "must not be doin it right" lol

yeah i mean its not all girls its just like the odd one,

and yeah dutch lover thats the kinda thing i mean just laying there.....doin nothing saying nothing......it does kill the mood i think if i gotta stop and ask if she is ok,

also just on that note i gotta say YES I LUV BEING SCRATCHED UP BY A LADY i dunno why but yeah if were like riding it abit and she grabs the skin on ma back and like digs the nais in n scratches up n down .....proper bo! lol

biteing is sexy too i think i had one girls chew that wierd mucle that goes from your neck to your shoulder? yeah proper left marks but ill tell ya at the time she gained outta doin that lol sorta like an OVERDRIVE switch lol


well just for YOUR info girls.......make noise we fucking luv it lol

[Platinum Plus]

it's not really a bad thing
like if you're trying to screw
in the room next to your parents room lol
that's when the silent chicks are good :p

[ValkyrieAg]

biteing is sexy too i think i had one girls chew that wierd mucle that goes from your neck to your shoulder?

Been there done that have the scars. Its neat the first time, but after that, no.

[someuser]

I've never been with a quiet girl though some girls make more noise then others... I dated one girl who was living with her mom in a townhouse... Anyhow, right to the point, once she made so much noise her mom knocked on the door and was like 'keep it down Adana, people are trying to sleep'.

I remember getting so embarrassed (being that I was like 27 or 26 at the time) being a full grown man getting yelled at by a 'mom'... Ever since then, anytime a girl is REALLY noisy I kinda get a little freaked out and uncomfortable LoL

(True story)

[Abattoir Dream]

lol i banged a silent girl...in a tent lol and its hell... i swear... i was drunk as fuck at the time, and i couldnt actually just sit and shag some girl in almost complete silence... so about half way through, i was like nahh... fuck this, and just pulled out and left lol then she came n spoke to me outside... then i told her.. i was like 'i cant shag you... you dont make any noise' lol n she said she was tryin not to, so we went back, and i made her RELEASE THE RAGE!!! lol - it was by far the best rage ive ever had released upon me...:)

whhoooo!!!! 1500th post! ---RELEASE THE RAGE!!! lol---

[Miss Green]

I don't know why some girls are quiet i spose they are thinking of other things or they just like to hear there partner and makin sure they are pleasin them.I mean i personally do like noise and talk but i spose everyone is different and got different needs.:p

[Jack the Tripper]

My last girlfriend was the "dead meat" type... my advice would be find a new girl, they don't change their ways. Of course, she was also annoying, so if your girl has a great personality, stay with er. Of course, if you're just talking about friends with benefits sex, find a new girl.

[Skrappie]

You ever consider that some girls are too embarassed to make noises?

[Skrappie]

Originally Posted by chisme View Post
biteing is sexy too i think i had one girls chew that wierd mucle that goes from your neck to your shoulder?


One of my ex's used to do that, one time she did it so hard i was sure she had planned to kill me.

I need that shit to live.:stoned:

[dutch.lover]

^haha some of you make biting sound scary...but i think im gonna try it. lol.

[greendove]

Never did biting, but a fair amount of nips and nibbling. Hubby seems to enjoy it. :D

[partyguy420]

idk... its like the same thing when ppl are in pain too, some people can handle it an dont make noise while others cant control expression thru multiple types of noises

im gonna agree with you one that, and im going to add a little bit more in on it.. ive been with girls who have got a little tiny scratch from the berry bushes, and screamed their heads off... and she was a very loud girl in bed...

and then there was one girl, who got cut down to the bone with a razor blade, and had to have stiches put in, and it was bleeding so bad, that they didnt have time to put in a pain killer, and she had like 5 stiches put in it, and she didnt even flinch the whole time... and when we were in bed, she didnt make a noice(but she did have that thing when they have a orgasum were their body starts shaking(or what ever)

but maybe both of those were just coinidences...

[trippruss]

just put a cigarette out on her ass! she'll make sum noise! just kidding

[OniEhtRedrum781]

I've never been with a silent girl so I dunno what it's like but it must suck, since I can get off on the noise alone :D

[ZeldaG.]

lol it has to be done :P


what is it with these girls who like tsay silent throughtout the whole thing? like i was with this girl and she was silent as a mouse...i had to keep stopping and asking if she was ok.........i mean yeah she was she was more then ok but i didnt get it why do sum girls just stay silent and lay there like a sack of spuds? i mean cmon girl put sum effort into it.

YOUR PROBABLY NOT DOING IT RIGHT!!! :cool:


Lol :D

[Hagbard Celiene]

The only time i like a girl to be still is when she is bound, the only time i like em silent is when their gagged... sorry if anyone finds that offensive.

[weedsted]

when i'm having sex i get into and all... i don't just lay there but i am silent most of the time... i may say something but i usually prefer not to make noise. i have a soft voice to begin with and it is physically impossible for me to scream or yell... i don't know... vocalizing just exhausts me.:smokin: :smokin: :smokin:

[cannabis campbell]

most likely shy or something mate or maybe paranoid about her body or sumat like that

[40oz]

When the girl is loud its pretty sexy but i also like the heavy breathing and occasional moan alot. Also when it feels like shes squeezing you like if she let go she would fall to her death.

[spliffstar22]

i been with 2 asian chicks, and both of them were screamers, loud screamers lol
Just explore other positions, and it should do the trick...............

[deftdrummer]

:eek:
retrained eh? creepy!

I just knew that one was coming.