Big, REALLY EMBARASSING question

[SwirlyMass]

Would any of you EVER kiss your own cousin?

We've all heard the term kissing cousins but how many of you have or have even heard of someone actually kissing their cousin?


Me and my cousin we're both in relationships with people and I moved in with her (long story and its boring) and whenever i hung out with her around my g/f there was this weird chemistry between us.
When i broke up with the girl I was going out with she had already broken up with her boyfriend shortly before that. Now the bad thing is I'm physically attracted to her and she hasn't made any sign that she is attracted to me, however one time when we were really young she did bring up that cousin could get married in our state.
So Now I'm really confused, we talk all the time and hang out together and i make jokes and find myself acting really natural around her and we both are interested in a lot of the same things and have the exact same views environmentally and politically.
So I was thinking that instead of letting these incestuous thoughts drive me insane I should just come up with something really charming to say and then kiss her. That way she can either reject me and say she doesn't like me at all in that way, or we could make out and it would totally relieve the whole situation.

Am I a pervert?

[smoke it]

yes, youre a pervert and if you follow through this incestuous act, youll have retarded kids

[MastaChronic]

yes, youre a pervert and if you follow through this incestuous act, youll have retarded kids

this is not a garauntee, although there is a good chanmce of it, its not a for sure thing.
theres actually a pretty good chance your kids will be retarded......although, youd still be boning your cousin.

[MarzVooolta]

The human mind is such a confusing and interesting thing. I dont think you should feel embarrased but maybe you should think about the repercussions of what this would mean if you tried to form something deeper than a friendship with her. The consequences wont be pretty for you and your family. You sound like you like her but prolly dont understand completely what your feeling. I think its possible she has alot of characteristics in a girl that you like that you havent seen in other girls so your immediately drawn to her. Reexamine yourself and think this through!

[MastaChronic]

* a good chance your kids wont be retarded
typo

[2Triv]

If you wanna kiss or fuck your cousin, that's extremely sick and wrong, even if your state allows it.

*remembers my hate for rednecks*

[someuser]

Goddamn, this thread has got to be the funniest one I've read yet...


NO dont get involved with your cousin unless she is like a 3rd or later one... Even then thats fucked up but is she is your 1st cousin dont just think about what SHE would say, think about what your UNCLE or AUNT would say. You would be boning their kid. OMG, that is so sick.

[dutch.lover]

if it's your first cousin it's definitely wrong. if it's not your immediate cousin...tread lightly and see how it goes.

i definitely wouldn't go there though.

[lagstronaut]

do it, as long as you promise to tell us when your parents find out and how many minutes after they declare you legally disowned. oh wait you won't be able to, by that time you'll be brutally murdered by your family, and they'll probably kill your cousin for good measure too


:D

[NewYork.Stoner]

Hello , Im sorry i have to inform you on this bro but you are a fucking perv and your kids are going to be DEE - DEE - DEE's!!!

[Pipe Dreams]

Man, if you do that I would totally LOL.

[Arklenao2]

if it was the 1800s id say go for it

[misk]

lol
ud ge laughed at less if u fucked a sheep i rekn

[SwirlyMass]

shes a second cousin once removed.

crap... if a mod sees this u should delete it immediately please. this is embarrassing, so everyone forget about it!

[Pride]

How old are you?
If you feel this way you are either too young, confused, or need to be CAREFUL SON!

[2Triv]

shes a second cousin once removed.

crap... if a mod sees this u should delete it immediately please. this is embarrassing, so everyone forget about it!

Shoulda never made this topic.... you shoulda expected this type of shit man!

[Skink]

Inbreading,,,hmmm

[KindMidasSoundman]

are you from West Virginia?

[KindMidasSoundman]

I doubt they have the intar-web in West Virginia.

:D :jointsmile: :D

[acrca]

haha bad idea making the title that b/c i was immediatly drawn to it

[slipknotpsycho]

meh, by science, it's wrong (your kids could come out retarded, any parent shoudl never even dream of putting that on their ow child...) but none of us can actually convince you one way or another, make your choice, but... it shoudl be both your choices... not a forums... my opinion on it? i'd never do it.. nor would anyone i know... it's not exactly an 'easy' answer... morally it's wrong.... but alot of people hold edgar allen poe as some great dude... so yeah... i dunno what to tell you...

[Trip06]

one word......WOW,

[Frivolous248]

shes a second cousin once removed.

crap... if a mod sees this u should delete it immediately please. this is embarrassing, so everyone forget about it!

I gotta know, what the crap does all this "second, third, etc. cousin" and "once/twice/n times removed" mean?

If theres no blood relation, I don't see the problem. I know someone who had sex with their "cousin" but they were only cousins through marriage, so its not like there was blood-relation.

and guys, stop being dicks, you don't exactly know the whole situation and your making him feel like crap, I'm interested in knowing more, don't make this thread get nuked just yet.

[someuser]

He already said it was his 2nd cousin.... I have no idea what once removed means but 2nd blood cousin is wrong!!!!

Only time fucking a cousin is cool in my book is either if:

1. She isnt a blood cousin but rather a cousin by law

2. You live in Alabama, Arkansas, Georgia, Louisiana, or West Virginia (I'm pretty sure by law you have to marry your cousin in those sates).


:stoned: my :twocents:

[SwirlyMass]

Some of you people are really sick actually, I was just debating kissing her not trying to bone my cousin. If for some reason I really hit it off with her which I know I kind of am but not in a relationship way.
Fuck, it's like now i really regret that time when her friends and her wanted to practice kissing when we were much younger, coulda moved past this stuff sooner and it wouldn't have been as messed up. according to y'all who claim i be from alabama.

[slipknotpsycho]

dude, lol.. kissing your cousin isn't much farther then fucking her... atleast on the 'sickness' scale..

[ValkyrieAg]

Arkansas?
I've seen things in Arkansas that would make a grown man cry and look away.

Hey, everyone stop being a Negative Nelly. I say go for it. But you gotta go for broke though, if you are gonna kiss her you better beat that eager beaver up.

[SwirlyMass]

Arkansas?
if you are gonna kiss her you better beat that eager beaver up.

Thanks, you just killed a little part of me.......

[divestoned]

HEY bro your a sick man! from one sick man to another......"GIT IN WHERE YOU FIT IN" bang the hell out of it.

[SwirlyMass]

Some of you people are really sick actually, I was just debating kissing her not trying to bone my cousin. If for some reason I really hit it off with her which I know I kind of am but not in a relationship way.
Fuck, it's like now i really regret that time when her friends and her wanted to practice kissing when we were much younger, coulda moved past this stuff sooner and it wouldn't have been as messed up. according to y'all who claim i be from alabama.

also, its not like i would ever wanna have a baby BY her, id at least go for something like adoption because i doubt she would either. my cousin has very high standards to be honest there would be a very high likelyhood of her getting freaked out and never talking to me again. so i don't think it would even be worth it. i just though i could get some advice first hand from someone because situations are different in reality.

at the very least im gonna work-out and get my life up to a point where im up to her standards, that way i can find a girl just like her and feel confident in the relationship.

[ValkyrieAg]

Ask her if her beaver is eager....haha

I've been :rastasmoke:

[Inferius]

You know...

Theyre just people.
In the end,
do other peoples opinions really count?
If the love is there they will accept you,
and all you need to do is accept yourself.

Always remember that we're going to die soon.

[Left]

i have seen multiple shows on the "difficulties" inter-racial couples face. imagine what you would have to deal with. But hey, at least you wont have to worry about her wanting to keep her last name, oh and she has already met your parents...lol, this thread is comical.

[Reefer Rogue]

Eww

[Bodom Children Of]

incestuous and taboo

[someuser]

Some of you people are really sick actually, I was just debating kissing her not trying to bone my cousin.

1 - You brought up the subject about kissing your cousin on a public Internet message board.

2 - I dont think -you- have any right to call anyone else sick when -you- are the one talking about kissing your second cousin and even thinking things through to the point where you are talking about adoption!!!!


Hey man, good luck in whatever you do... I'm not trying to give you a hard time... Well maybe I am just a little bit ;)

But the point is, remember she is your cousin and that besides the complications of any sexual union keep in mind what might happen if your family found out...

Be her best friend dude but lay off the romantic thoughts. She is FAMILY bro.

[MechAnimal]

How many of you have been slurred by many because you smoke pot, this guy had tried to ask a question to what he obviosly thought was an understanding community and you guys tore shreds off him.

hang your heads *shakes fist* hang them!

to the op, never gonna happen
never
ever
dont try, you'll regret it..........so id imagine anyway :P

[spliffstar22]

wat the hell kinda thread is this??

FUCK NO, don't kiss your cousin...She'd probably trip balls if you did, and fuck up your relationship forever........Think about it this way, if she is blood related, you guys have some of the same blood flowing through your veins, so it's immediate family really, and it's fuckin disgusting..or what if she likes it and you end up fuckin it?

[birdgirl73]

Swirly, if it's OK with you, I'll close this thread so you don't get any more insults. I think you should go with your heart. From what I've read, there are actually lots of cases where first cousins and less close cousins get involved and have relationships. It's more common than you think, and I'm not just talking about in Arkansas or Appalachia, either. When those relationships result in marriage, it's true that it's not a good idea for cousins to have children because the likelihood of inbreeding-related genetic problems can result. But if I remember correctly from the article I once read about this subject, about half of the states in the U.S. say it's legal to marry first cousins. More distant, so-called non-parallel cousins aren't usually an issue, but genetic counselors would still caution most of those couples, unless they're distant cousins, against having babies. Not sure if you know this or not, but most of the royal families of Europe are all distantly related in some way through their descent from Queen Victoria. Queen Elizabeth II and her husband Prince Phillip are distant cousins themselves.

OK, now for a little geneology-relationship info for those of you who were curious. "First cousins" describes the relationship between children of two direct siblings. So my first cousins are the children of my mom's brother or sister. (Or my dad's. If any of my parents' siblings have kids, those kids are my first cousins.)

"Second cousins" describes the relationship between the children of first cousins. My first cousin Elaine, who is my mom's brother's daughter (my uncle's daughter), and I both have sons. So our sons are second cousins to each other. When they both have children, those kids will be third cousins to each other. The numbering proceeds as the cousin descent passes down parallel generations.

"Removed" happens when there's a difference between generations. For instance, my first cousin Elaine's son is my first cousin once-removed since we're of different generations. If her son had a child, that child would be my first cousin twice-removed (two generations removed). You can read more about cousin-related info here:
http://www.genealogy.com/16_cousn.html