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[XTC]

Hey board whats up. Anywho well my ma found out I smoke today. she and I quote "accidently" came across my bong. She was to say the least, Displeased. She smashed it up right in front of me. and basically was like not in my house. She wasnt yelling or anything. I feel kinda bad, since like I am the youngest child still living at home I am 20 btw. But ya it sucks. I just decided to vent is all.70 dollar bong smashed to pieces

[Omun]

dude that sucks, but you should try to move outta the nest.

[Miserylue]

20 years old and your mom smashed your bong.. Id make her buy ya a new one!

[kiwi]

:rolleyes: At the end of the day you have to respect that you are living under her roof and its her rules...
:D And maybe you should learn how to stash your stuff a bit better.. ;) ;)

[RESiNATE]

There are two ways that you can go about this, XTC.

Firstly, you could go to your Mom and apologise to her for 'letting her down'. This will achieve two things. 1) it will show her that you care about how she feels, and 2) may open communication between you both, so that you can assure her of your 'responsibility' in taking the drug, and that you are well aware of the facts pertaining to such (be armed with sound knowledge of the 'pros and cons').
Ok, she might not relent or be happy about you doing it, but at least you can 'clear the air' (sorry, no pun intended) and be on good terms with her.
After all, the thing that she is thinking now is, "have I driven my son into some kind of rebelious mood?", and "what other drugs is my son doing that I don't know about?", etc etc.

Or, the second option is to move out.
But, seeing as moving out will be seen by her as a rebelious thing to do, she will start thinking of all kinds of wierd stuff that you might be up to, and it will make her worry even more.

I suggest the first option.
You have nothing to lose, but you might just gain yourself some valuable respect for your honesty. Put yourself in her shoes, dude, and imagine if you had found such a thing in your son/daughter's room...

Just my opinion, man...I hope it works out for you :)

[toejam]

Third option is to buy some super glue and glue your bong back together:)

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

man id be so pissed if someone did that to my bong fucking a i mean shit u can just say i dont want this in my house but she didnt have to break it, imo what a bitch

[XTC]

Wow Res that was a cool thing to say. I talked to her about all my issues and what not. She is basically not happy I use it but she understands, but I cant smoke in the house any more, which I respect and have no problem with. It just that I dont her to worry about me is all, which for her is impossible.

[kuulbns]

Res gave you great advice. You took a mature and responsible path with your Mom. I understand how tough it can be to be the parent in this type of circumstance, and I applaud your Mom for listening to you and showing her respect for your choices. I think it's great that you can agree that you will not smoke in the house. As you get older, I hope that your relationship with your Mom continues to grow. You sound like a great person, (so does your Mom). Kuu

[XTC]

Awesome Kuu lol you guys just made my day/night. Really cool replys I got from you guys. thanks thanks a lot. Ya my ma is cool and I love her and all and I can see where she is coming from being a parent and all. Agian a big huge thank you to everyone who responded and too Kuu and Res thanks agian seriously awesome remarks

[RESiNATE]

:D
lol, no worries XTC, I'm just glad that I could help.
I'm also glad that you got things sorted out.

hehehe, I feel kinda good now :D