Mom is really confusing me...

[Taiden]

So I am pretty lax about keeping my smoking a secret. I don't air out the house enough after I smoke, I smoke inside, I leave all my stuff in my closet etc etc. I smoke with my bong (which is pretty loud) while she is upstairs, but only when music is on.

So today I was with a younger friend of mine, like four years younger (I'm a senior), and we were smoking at my house. I'm talking to him about a friend, I open the front door finishing my sentence: "dude AND he grows!"

My mom was outside with the groceries, and she just looked at me. "Hi mom!" akward silence. She asks me to help her with the groceries. I help her out, and so does my friend. My friend drops ALL his groceries and is like trying to pick them up while my mom watches. My friend and I get inside and she blocks teh door and starts talking about someone my friend and I know who is going through surgery. The whole time I feel like she's checking out our eyes.

Well anyway, I give the kid a ride home... the entire time I'm like "fuck man I'm screwed, she's going to check out my closet."

So I get home... and just before I open the door the phone rings. I wait until she picks up and I walk inside, and right up to my bedroom. I wait there for a bit, pulling out my homework and getting to it. (I'm blazed off my ass btw, not just a little whacky.) Suddenly I hear my mom knock on the door.

"Hey hun, are you getting hungry yet?"
"Just a little..."
"Okay I'm going to go start dinner."

(This is standard dialogue between us two.)

When dinner is ready, she calls me, and I go down. We start talking about school, and she makes a point of asking me how all my classes are going. I tell her that they are going well, which is true except I'm alittle behind on the term paper.

I tell her thanks for dinner and that I'm going up... and here I am now posting this.

What do you all thinK? :confused:

[wayoftheleaf]

offer her a hit?

[Professor Dan K.]

my mom is like this too,

i think she knows that i smoke, but since ive been able to keep my grades up and stay out of trouble she doesnt really mind... but i feel like the first time she actually sees me smoking or with weed or perephernalia or i get into trouble or something that she will flip out and go apeshit on me.

shes even said to me once before "you look higher than hell, your eyes are all red and squinty"... it was really akward

[Samwhore]

shes probally like my mom and doesnt want to admit to herself that her little baby smokes

[go toke up]

offer her a hit?

good idea. id take a hit if i could right now. i havent smoke in 2 days which is irregular for me. goddammit.

[Samwhore]

good idea. id take a hit if i could right now. i havent smoke in 2 days which is irregular for me. goddammit.


i know, i havent smoked since tuesday and i got drunk today because i was dry

[go toke up]

i know, i havent smoked since tuesday and i got drunk today because i was dry

i wish i could get drunk today... sobriety is a bitch. lol

[Samwhore]

i wish i could get drunk today... sobriety is a bitch. lol


It is, i was sober for 9 months, then fell off the wagon becuase i had no pot today, and i dont want to scrape my pipe

[hipEstoner]

good idea. id take a hit if i could right now. i havent smoke in 2 days which is irregular for me. goddammit.

its tim to scrape your PARAFONELIA !!~!~!~!~!

[Matt the Funk]

Just chill about it. She might not even know. And if she does, she probally isn't too concerned since it probally doesn't effect your life that much. But if she finds your stuff, good luck.

[Samwhore]

its tim to scrape your PARAFONELIA !!~!~!~!~!

i have so much resin in my pipe, it would take forever to scrape

[go toke up]

i have so much resin in my pipe, it would take forever to scrape

whoa i wish i had some res left.:( i smoked it all on tuesday.

[Samwhore]

whoa i wish i had some res left.:( i smoked it all on tuesday.


res tastes like ass hat

[Taiden]

jesus christ you guys derailed this thread pretty good. :D

on topic again about my mom and me.

[go toke up]

res tastes like ass hat

it gets ya high tho.

[go toke up]

jesus christ you guys derailed this thread pretty good. :D

on topic again about my mom and me.

i think u should call her a stupid bitch and slap her face off.

[hipEstoner]

do you smoke resin wiuth your mom?

[go toke up]

do you smoke resin wiuth your mom?

thats random.:p

[lil josh]

my mums a bit like this, theres bn so many times when ill come in stoned of my head n shell b like dnt u think you shud cut down on the weed or your stoned aint you. i just usually say no i shudnt cut down and a lil bit she knows i smoke and also knows i was dealing for a short period but its nt like i can sit and smoke a joint in front of her i have to act like im doing it on the sly even if she knows im not. once i move and have my own room im pretty sure she wont really mind me toking in ma room as long as i open a windo but we shall see i move on the 15th of december :)

[Samwhore]

it gets ya high tho.


but wouldnt you rather tastes some green from a nice fresh loaded bowl, damn i need bud

[go toke up]

but wouldnt you rather tastes some green from a nice fresh loaded bowl, damn i need bud

oh fasho but resin gets the job done if u aint got no bag.

[Samwhore]

oh fasho but resin gets the job done if u aint got no bag.

not if your getting some 'cid soon, but yea, i need some more bud, im going to ask daddy when he gets home :dance::dance::dance:

[go toke up]

not if your getting some 'cid soon, but yea, i need some more bud, im going to ask daddy when he gets home :dance::dance::dance:

lucky piece of shit. lol

[Samwhore]

lucky piece of shit. lol

i gotta pay for the cid and dad doesnt get home until 1am saturday

[go toke up]

i gotta pay for the cid and dad doesnt get home until 1am saturday

oh shit.how much is it gunna cost ya?

[Samwhore]

oh shit.how much is it gunna cost ya?

around $20, but my friend wants me to get some shrooms for her because shes scared of her boyfriend

[Taiden]

guys if you dont mind chatting in my thread that would be excellent... :)

[go toke up]

guys if you dont mind chatting in my thread that would be excellent... :)

go fuck yourself.:)

[Samwhore]

i mind, sorry, but at least you thread went over a page

[d00d989]

So I am pretty lax about keeping my smoking a secret. I don't air out the house enough after I smoke, I smoke inside, I leave all my stuff in my closet etc etc. I smoke with my bong (which is pretty loud) while she is upstairs, but only when music is on.

So today I was with a younger friend of mine, like four years younger (I'm a senior), and we were smoking at my house. I'm talking to him about a friend, I open the front door finishing my sentence: "dude AND he grows!"

My mom was outside with the groceries, and she just looked at me. "Hi mom!" akward silence. She asks me to help her with the groceries. I help her out, and so does my friend. My friend drops ALL his groceries and is like trying to pick them up while my mom watches. My friend and I get inside and she blocks teh door and starts talking about someone my friend and I know who is going through surgery. The whole time I feel like she's checking out our eyes.

Well anyway, I give the kid a ride home... the entire time I'm like "fuck man I'm screwed, she's going to check out my closet."

So I get home... and just before I open the door the phone rings. I wait until she picks up and I walk inside, and right up to my bedroom. I wait there for a bit, pulling out my homework and getting to it. (I'm blazed off my ass btw, not just a little whacky.) Suddenly I hear my mom knock on the door.

"Hey hun, are you getting hungry yet?"
"Just a little..."
"Okay I'm going to go start dinner."

(This is standard dialogue between us two.)

When dinner is ready, she calls me, and I go down. We start talking about school, and she makes a point of asking me how all my classes are going. I tell her that they are going well, which is true except I'm alittle behind on the term paper.

I tell her thanks for dinner and that I'm going up... and here I am now posting this.

What do you all thinK? :confused:


honestly man, if you dont air out your room after u smoke or be careful about where u keep your stuff, she probably knows.

[Taiden]

I'm like 100% sure she knows at this point, she is just acting normal... the thing is she asked me how school was going... so maybe that means she's okay with it as long as school is going well?

[Samwhore]

maybe, that what my dad says "as long as this doesnt affect your grades" i can understand that, and hes giving me enough leeway so i do try in school

[Taiden]

WHAT THE HELL

So here's the deal. I'm starting a grow in my closet (save the napalm for later, guys), and I haven't sorted out wiring an outlet inside my closet yet. I have a big, fat, orange extension cord running out under my door to a nearby outlet.

Anyway, I usually chuck some clothes over my cord right next to my dirty clothes bin. When I came home tonight, the bin had been emptied, the clothes all taken away from in front of the closet, and mom was acting normal again.

I DONT GET IT!



PS. Oh, and I'm 18. I waited until I was 18 to grow in my closet so that way I am the one legally at fault, and my parents are not involved in any way.

[yoda]

PS. Oh, and I'm 18. I waited until I was 18 to grow in my closet so that way I am the one legally at fault, and my parents are not involved in any way.

there house, they will be held liable too

sounds like she knows, but doesnt really care since you keep your grades up

[tootsie roll]

I'm like 100% sure she knows at this point, she is just acting normal... the thing is she asked me how school was going... so maybe that means she's okay with it as long as school is going well?

Ok, look, your mom isn't that old and she knows what weed is. More then likely she has smoked it in her lifetime. Maybe she smokes it still and that's why you get away with having the smell in the house; because it smells normal to her. :shrug: It's normal for a mom to ask questions about school and stuff to see what you say to make sure you're ok.
Don't be freaked out by any of this. Seems all is cool at your house. :)
In fact, the only thing I'd worry about is being a senior smoking out an 8th grader. (or by 4 years did you mean a frosh?)

[tootsie roll]

there house, they will be held liable too

sounds like she knows, but doesnt really care since you keep your grades up


You are correct about the house. The law doesn't care how old someone is. The owner of the home is 100% responsible for what happens under their roof.
(you're prolly correct about the mom too.....wish I could pass you a J thru the screen yoda. :( )

[tootsie roll]

Take a hint, kid. She wants you to discuss it with her. She wants YOU to bring it up.

Prolly
LOl!

[VoidLivesOn]

Hah you sound just like me before I quit.

Yeah um you're entering the stage obviously known to you as the "lax" stage but it's generally the "fucking up" stage. Where you get to that point in your smoking life where you think your moms to dumb to know or just doesn't care and you just let all that shit go on right under her nose but not directly. Till she gets enough nerve to catch you.

See what it sounds like to me is your mom trusts you. Like never thought her son would do that so why go through his room or go by it to spell it or care?

You're messing up man. Sounds like you smoking was never an authentic thought in her mind till today. I would watch your back if your mom wouldn't enjoy that shit going around in her house and if you respect any amount of trust she has for you.

[aznson01]

i onyl read the original post but it sounds like ur frekin out and she has no idea to me, u are thinking to much about it

[Taiden]

Well here's the thing... I asked her a long time ago about her trying weed way before I ever tried it. (At that point I was really against it, and knew a couple kids who were trying it, so I figured I'd ask.)

She told me that at her all girls school there were two guys on her floor that both delt weed and LSD. (Yes, all girl schools will admit guys.) She said one of them was her boyfriend, and that she tried weed. She then told me that she didn't really like it and only did it once...

And about the house thing... I'm gonna get on it and ask a lawyer friend of mine and see what the deal is. Plus, if I come out straight and say in court "I grew the weed, I used it for myself, mom never knew, I hid it from her." etc etc, of course they COULD nail her, but what judge/jury in their right mind would do that?

Plus, she has ZERO priors. The judge/jury would not be serving their purpose of upholding the law if they nailed my mom.

[yoda]

You are correct about the house. The law doesn't care how old someone is. The owner of the home is 100% responsible for what happens under their roof.
(you're prolly correct about the mom too.....wish I could pass you a J thru the screen yoda. :( )

so do i....so do i :smokin:

[Skink]

do the right thing and yank the plants from your moms house,,,she sounds to good a mom to send to jail...

[Taiden]

I'm talking to a lawyer tomorrow. If this is the case, the plants will be yanked, or I will ask her permission.

Think about it. Every time you toke up in your parents house in states where pot isn't decriminalized you are risking sending your parents to jail for possession.

[Skink]

I'm talking to a lawyer tomorrow. If this is the case, the plants will be yanked, or I will ask her permission.

Think about it. Every time you toke up in your parents house in states where pot isn't decriminalized you are risking sending your parents to jail for possession.

it's the right thing to do...

[Taiden]

it's the right thing to do...

My point is this:

When a lawyer tells me that getting caught doing something illegal in your house without your mother knowing sends your mom to jail, I will believe it. That is why I am talking to a lawyer about this tomorrow.

I have never heard of a case where a kid gets nailed in his household for having an amount of weed that legally makes it for selling purposes where the parents get nailed too. Doesn't make sense.

If you are smoking at home and a cop drives by and sees your buddies dumping that cashed bowl out the window, you go on probation, not your mother.

If you are growing weed in your closet, and a cop finds out, and nails you for it... dot dot dot.

Doesn't make sense to me. That is why I am contacting a lawyer. If this is the case, the plants will be gone sooner than you can say bonanza.


edit: realized skink that you might have been agreeing with me. not sure!

[Skink]

I've seen where a mom went to jail for just being present while underage people were drinking beer in her house...

[Taiden]

I've seen where a mom went to jail for just being present while underage people were drinking beer in her house...

Hmm... It also depends on where you are. Different areas have different amounts of respect for certain things. (Respect isn't the word I want to use, but you get the idea.) I am talking to a lawyer who specializes in Maine Marijuana laws. Take a look at this thread:

http://boards.cannabis.com/showthread.php?t=93548

Same person.

Oh and Maine is awesome. :thumbsup: Growing 5 plants here is Class E Misdeminor at 6mo incarceration and $1000 fine.

www.norml.org

[Skink]

Hmm... It also depends on where you are. Different areas have different amounts of respect for certain things. (Respect isn't the word I want to use, but you get the idea.) I am talking to a lawyer who specializes in Maine Marijuana laws. Take a look at this thread:

http://boards.cannabis.com/showthread.php?t=93548

Same person.

Oh and Maine is awesome. :thumbsup: Growing 5 plants here is Class E Misdeminor at 6mo incarceration and $1000 fine.

www.norml.org

yes laws are strange and apply to your state and even to local jurisdiction... it's wise to find out specifics in your one place...

[Taiden]

In Maine it is legal for a minor to have BAC level of around 0.10% if their parent or legal guardian is present...

I guess that's what you get if you live in the boonies.

[xcrispi]

hey taiden ,
F.Y.I last yr. here in my city , right here in the u.s,a a 16 yr. old punk w/ 2 b/s plants and cfl's in a closet in a rental house was raided . both the kid and the single mom of two were both charged w/ manufacture of m/j .
keep it real -n- wait till your only risking your own neck .
peace
crispi

[Storm Crow]

Back on topic- I'm a mom and there are two levels of "knowing" something about your kid that you really don't want to know. The first level is -you know he is smoking (smell, red eyes) but you have no physical proof (a baggie full, a bong) and the confrontation isn't worth it to hassle as long as the kid is discreet. THAT is the key- don't blow it by being too bold! As a "mouse", I was alway able to get away with way more stuff than my "bad-ass" brother! The second level is where Mom has the physical proof (baby-boy calling from jail, a baggie full, etc). When this happens, moms are expected and have been raised to do the "right" thing- explode! So keep it at level one- get a vaporizer to get rid of the smell (healthier, too). Don't leave your stash and bongs out. Keep your grades up. Don't smoke in risky places. Tell Mom you love her. --Granny Storm Crow

[Taiden]

hey taiden ,
F.Y.I last yr. here in my city , right here in the u.s,a a 16 yr. old punk w/ 2 b/s plants and cfl's in a closet in a rental house was raided . both the kid and the single mom of two were both charged w/ manufacture of m/j .
keep it real -n- wait till your only risking your own neck .
peace
crispi

he's 16 years old. the parent is responcible for their child's actions.


Back on topic- I'm a mom and there are two levels of "knowing" something about your kid that you really don't want to know. The first level is -you know he is smoking (smell, red eyes) but you have no physical proof (a baggie full, a bong) and the confrontation isn't worth it to hassle as long as the kid is discreet. THAT is the key- don't blow it by being too bold! As a "mouse", I was alway able to get away with way more stuff than my "bad-ass" brother! The second level is where Mom has the physical proof (baby-boy calling from jail, a baggie full, etc). When this happens, moms are expected and have been raised to do the "right" thing- explode! So keep it at level one- get a vaporizer to get rid of the smell (healthier, too). Don't leave your stash and bongs out. Keep your grades up. Don't smoke in risky places. Tell Mom you love her. --Granny Storm Crow

Got honors in school.. doing really well this year.

I've ceased the smoking until first semester is over, since this is my most critical semester of my highschool career. I am a responcible smoker.

I tell my mom I love her, and we have a good relationship. :)

[couch-potato]

I remember one time walking through the kitchen from the backyard (I just blazed) while my mom was preparing a bagel. She dropped her knife, looked at me and said "You're so stoned!" Then laughed.

[Taiden]

I remember one time walking through the kitchen from the backyard (I just blazed) while my mom was preparing a bagel. She dropped her knife, looked at me and said "You're so stoned!" Then laughed.

hahaha... after first semester grades and exams come back I will probably tell her. i'm sure she already knows. if she wanted to get me for it all she'd have to do is follow that orange cord...