About a girl, please help me.

[KiEfBoyjBm]

I have a problem...here is the story

The most beautiful girl I have ever known is in my economics class. I have spoken with her twice throughout the semester. The first time I talked to her, last Wednesday, I neglected to introduce myself or even get her name...I just asked her a couple of stupid questions. The next opportunity I got to talk to her was today, she left class early and was waiting for a bus alone. I saw that she was studying some note cards for geology, a class that I have as well. I used the Geology thing to break the ice, we talked about that and our majors for a bit. I managed to introduce myself and get her name as well. Before I could ask for her number the bus that she had been waiting for came. I wished her luck with her Geology Test and then she was gone.

With her first name and major I was able to find her in the school directory and find a few more things out about her. (sounds kinda stalkerish, I know) She is a year younger than I am and I don't think that we have any friends in common.

The Problem: This Wednesday is the final exam for economics and will likely be the last time that I can legitimately bump into her and ask for her number or something. If I do talk to her, it will be the third consecutive class that I have randomly approached her. If I do not talk to her, I will likely never have another chance amongst 45,000 other students, we are different majors and will probably not have any classes together.

Is it too late, do I have any other options?

[B.Basher]

Lol. Just go for it man, why not? If it's gonna be the last time you see her anyway then what's the damage? Just be cool and be prepared for whatever she says.

[phoenix]

Go for it brotha, if you don't you'll be sorry that you didn't.

[slipknotpsycho]

just tell her you'd like to get to know her, you're intrested in her... ask for her number if she's not already seeing someone, if she denies giving it to you, tell her to just give you a chance, even if the two of you only end up becoming friends... bout all i can say.

[NightProwler]

say "hey, i was wondering if you might want to hangout some time?" see what she says. if she sounds like she wants to, ask her for her number



oh and also, DONT FUCKING CHICKEN OUT OR YOU WILL FUCKING REGRET IT...lol seriousley though, you will

oh, and P.S
if she's got a boyfriend already, by all means become friends with her, but dont try and steal her away or anything. thats just fucking cold

[SkatePopwar]

yeah lol do it its a no brainer...
you will regret it forever if you dont :|

[zephyrinne]

say "hey, i was wondering if you might want to hangout some time?" see what she says. if she sounds like she wants to, ask her for her number


Ditto.

[growitandsmokeit]

I would go for it. You regret more the things you haven't done than the thing you have done. A mantra of mine with things like this is a saying I came up with a while back for personal relations... The worst that will happen is that another person in the world will think you are an arse! Not that I think I am :rasta: a arse but it puts things in perspective.

[couch-potato]

Time to be a man. Dress nice, make sure your breath is fresh and teeth are white and you don't smell like bud. Don't get nervous, she is nothing more than a hot chick. She is a person just like you. Just say hey, make some small talk. Be witty, clever, and funny (if you can, not everybody can make people laugh). Remember, if you can make yourself stand out from the rest, she will remember you and you have a greater chance to pump her poon.

DO NOT use a pick-up line, try keep the conversation flowing (awkward silences are a killer, but don't talk too fast), and DO NOT make it seem like she is the center of your universe. Don't kiss her ass, it's ok to not have a few things in common. Just smile and be cheerful and proud, chicks dig guys with confidence. A little goofy-ness is ok, it shows that you have a sense of humor.

After its said and done, simply smile and ask if she has a screen name of a cell phone number. The rest is up to fate.

[TYCO118]

ya yo do it........let us know how it turns out too

[cygnustaxt]

sounds like you need to quit being a bitch and should just go and talk to her instead of looking for an excuse.

[NightProwler]

LISTEN TO COUCH POTATO, THE MAN KNOWS WHAT HES TALKING ABOUT

[KiEfBoyjBm]

Well it does sound easy when you put it like that...the thing is I have already tried twice and basically pooned out...What if I blow it again....three strikes and your out...is there not another way. Btw, she has a sn, I got it from the directory.

[KiEfBoyjBm]

and also if I go for it and talk to her for a 3rd time with little or no reason to talk to her, she gives me her number or sn...I am still the ass that approached her 3 times in a row babbling about nothing.

Should I try to talk to her before the test or after, you get to leave once you are done. She might finish really early and then I am just as screwed.

[NightProwler]

well then talk to her beforehand and be like hey do you want to hangout after the test.

also, if you miss the chance, TALK TO HER ON AIM. i met the love of my love on AIM becuase i was too scared to approach her in school

[KiEfBoyjBm]

I can't just randomly message her...

[bongomania]

get tickets to a local live band and say, "yo, beautiful, I got two tickets to go see Long Beach Dub Allstars (or whoever), let's have a great time and go see a show."

How could she say no, especially to you... you're the Kief Cammander!!!

[slipknotpsycho]

lol.. the internet seems to be catering to scared asses instead of just talking face to face :D yeah, i could picture how well that would go over

hi.
who's this?
<insert description of yourself she'll reconize>
ok, so how'd you get my sn?
oh, i used your name and your major to find out more about you, and found your sn
FUCKING STALKER!

[napolitana869]

trust me, if shes interested she'll hang around after she finishes the test to give you the chance to talk to her again. Dont IM her unless she gives you her sn, or at least add her as a friend on facebook first.

[damjv]

You Know You're a Little Bitch When...... you're to scared to ask a girl out. Just kidding, but go for it!

[Nylo]

No matter how you approach her it's going to be a little awkward since you're rushing a last-minute gambit on getting a number =) Dress nice, primp your hair nice/shave, and most importantly make an effort to smell nice ; it's more important than most people think. But don't go overboard on the cologne.

lemme know how it goes man.

[fackfackfack]

good song by nirvana?

[crf250smoker]

dude, i might be young, but i knwo nothings worse than wondoring later if it coulda happend, its not worth the torment, you better off trying and getting a no

[NightProwler]

i disagree with everbody.

randomly IM her and be like her im blah blah blah remember me?

if she seems really weirded out... well too fucking bad. i dont see why she would be. i wouldnt be weirded out, i'd be flattered that someone looked that hard just to contact me

[KiEfBoyjBm]

^^Great song by Nirvana

If only she new how kind my bud is...It seems that I have just one option...if it doesn't work out at least I tried. I think I'll get there a bit early and maybe I'll get a good chance to talk to her.

If all else fails I can always ask her if I can "pump her poon", or maybe mention "the Long Beach Dub Allstars show." lol, thanks for all the great advice yall.

I'd also like to hear from the ladies, if they are out there. How would you react to someone taking so much interest in you all of a sudden?

[KiEfBoyjBm]

night prowler has a point, anyone else agree? That sounds like an easy way to clear things up.

[damjv]

maybe she posts on this very site

[Fan o KmK]

dude fuck that!! go for it!! if you dont take the opportunity think how much youll hate yourself. be super confident but also dont be like "man your gorgeous, how bout a date" because thats what every guy in the world does. next time you see her at the bus stop or whatever, jokingly insult her shirt or something. along the lines of..." [happens to be wearing a band shirt] haha wow..jessie mccartney suckssss!!" "hey!! no hes cool!" "pshttt whatever, what are you doing tonight?" that kinda thing and BOOOMMMM BOOOM BOOOM I WANTCHOO IN MA ROOOM I SAY BOOM BOOM BOOM I WANTCA IN MY ROOOOM



man i am so high but seriously that always works.
bottom line...GO FOR IT! what do u have to lose? on one hand, a shutodwn, on the other, a gorgeous girl. take the chance. its worth it.

[juicy james]

yeah man i say you definetly just go for it. if this is gonna be the last time you see her anyways you got nothing to lose. just approach her with confidence and be real with her, tell her she's beautiful and all that and if you dont get the digits, so what you never see her again.

[KiEfBoyjBm]

Shit Yall! I just smoked some bad ass kief that was stuck in my grinder. I'm having second thoughts about wasting my time with that chick...she would probably be a lost cause with regard to conversion.(Ganja) Perhaps I should just seek mj smokers. Sounds like a good idea right now, its just a bit past 4:20...

[CYRAX]

Good luck, I hope you get some pink :thumbsup:

[thcbongman]

Shit Yall! I just smoked some bad ass kief that was stuck in my grinder. I'm having second thoughts about wasting my time with that chick...she would probably be a lost cause with regard to conversion.(Ganja) Perhaps I should just seek mj smokers. Sounds like a good idea right now, its just a bit past 4:20...

Oh cmon man, at least try!

[Left]

all the answers were in your first post, you dont share the same friends and this, unless you get a number, will be the last time you talk to her. So, if she sais no it will be as if you never talked to her, if she sais yes then you win. Nothing to lose, only somthing to gain.

[NightProwler]

i'll tell you a very quick story about my girlfriend. in eighth grade, i had her AIM screenname somehow i really dont know how. but i knew it was her and i knew who she was. but we ahd never talked before. It took me an incredible ammount of courage to type to her. i introduced myself and she really didnt care how i got her screen name, she was incredibly nice and we just started talking. after that conversation, however, i was way too nervous to type to her again, because i was afraid she's think im stupid or something lol. but as it turend out she began typing to me more often, and soon we were talkin online allll the time. this was all happeneing around the end of the school year and when summer came around, we made plans to chill out somewhere and blaze. the fact that we both had "getting high" in common helped alot becasue i felt more confident to talk with her when i was high, and i think she did to.

all in all, im so incredibly fucking glad i typed to her. im in 10th grade now and ive never known a better girl than my girlfriend.

[KiEfBoyjBm]

Update:

I took my economics test, not much of my plan worked...I don't even think I did well on the test. I got there late and had to sit in the very front. She finished about 5 mins after I got there, I smiled at her. I finished like 10 mins later and looked around for her but she was gone. Although I did put a great deal of energy into meeting her, I'm really not that bummed.

Hot girls are a dime a dozen around here, I would rather meet someone based on something other looks. Looks are very important but cannot be the entire basis for me pursuing her. At least I know her name, and she knows mine...if its meant to be, maybe we will meet again.

Thanks for everyones advice, it was very helpful.

[VoidLivesOn]

Do you really need 20 strangers on a message board to tell you a no brainer?

GEt laid man. Fall in love. Get to know her. It won't hurt a damn thing if you already know that if you don't get her number chances are you won't see her again after this class. So the fuck what if she blows you off then?

[VoidLivesOn]

Damnit I'm to late.

I suck.

[couch-potato]

I suck.

Quoted for truth. lol

[TokinAsianGuy]

any ladies wanna put their 2 cents in? hello?

*crickets chirping*

okay then.

uhh dude. go for it, be chill, be David Caruso from Jade.

[blackbarbie]

Next time you get an opportunity like that - just talk to her, flirt & ask for her phone number. This might sound dumb on my part, but I didn't know guys got shy like girls did lol, I think it's cute.;) You should always go for it even if you are insecure because you never know, she might have been into you as well.

[marvelous22]

Sorry man maybe next time!

[Fengzi]

You blew it dude, sometimes you just got to take the plunge. What's the worse that could happen? Sure, she could think you're a freak, kick you in the balls, you'd puke from the pain and fall down in a pool of your own vomit, and then she'll just walk away and leave you lying there in front of everybody dieing of embarassment, but is that really so bad? And who knows, it could have worked out great. The last time I asked out a girl I met in class, I was nervous as hell and almost didn't go through with it. But I did. Well, that was 10 years ago, and our daughter turned 3 a few months ago.

Better luck next time.


P.S. And if yoy think you were nervous, the "girl" I met in class was actually my professor :D

[KiEfBoyjBm]

P.S. And if yoy think you were nervous, the "girl" I met in class was actually my professor :D

Professors are paid to talk to you...jk

[napolitana869]

you could always friend her on facebook. but by friend I dont mean stalk

[KiEfBoyjBm]

I personally detest when people "assert" themselves as my friend of facebook. So, I wouldn't want to do that to somebody else. I have no problem with stalking though...jk

[Cheery Cherry]

I think face to face is better than IM'ing. I know I'm a little late in responding and you have moved on already but I feel like adding my two cents :p. I think most women find it cute when a guy is shy or nervous. You really should've asked her out for a cup of coffee or something (so she doesn't feel like it's a date). It's always nice to meet new people.

Like you said though, if it was meant to be, you'll see her around again.