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ericwt
11-22-2006, 03:11 AM
I did not know were to post this. So I will leave it to the moderators to move it if it needs to be moved. This was definitely an experience. One I hope to help all of you avoid. Heed these words for your freedom may depend on it.

I have been a grower for over five years. I did all the right things. Never told anyone about my grow. Covered my ass in all the right ways... Well except one thing...My soon to be ex wife.

I knew her for over ten years and we were married for over seven. I considered her my best friend and even a soul mate. I thought we would be together for the rest of our lives.

Rather than go through all the grueling explanations of how and why does not really matter. The fact is the relationship went to hell.

The last time I saw her was a last desperate attempt to save our relationship. It did not work. I went home after a huge fight and got incredibly stoned. After that I was crying in front of the computer for a while. I got tired of crying in front of the computer and decided to cry in bed. So I laid in bed for a while and balled my head off there.

Suddenly I got a creepy feeling of danger. I got up from the bed and longed back on to the computer and checked my wifes blog. My freedom flashed before my eyes. Her blog told of my grow operation in point and detail. She said the next time she would see me would be with the cops.

This was just posted a few minutes ago. It was 9:30pm. I freaked. My mind raced to the two grow rooms I had. One was for the vegetative state, it had a 400 watt mhz lamp with about 10 plants in various stages of growth. My flower room had a 1000 watt hps lamp with about 10 plants again in various stages of growth. I had a huge library of grow books and all kinds of paraphernalia all over the house. There were seed stashes hidden in a few different places.

It hit me like a ton of bricks...I have less than 10 hours to get my shit together emotionally and clean the house of any trace of stoner or grower activity.

My ex wife was popular in the little town we live in. Her blog had several hundred daily visitors. A good deal of her fans were in our little town and my whole family subscribed to the blog. Word would spread like fire.

So I spent the next 10 hours crying and tearing down my grow rooms. All of the plants were cut immediately and stashed in jars. I then climbed a tree in my back yard and stashed the jars. The pruning was just separating stems from any leaf or bud. Get the green in the jars and get them out of the house.
Then were all the 5 gallon buckets that I used to grow in. Note, these are heavy and when you consider there were times I could barely see because of crying it adds to the fun.

I took breaks frequently to catch my breath, get more stoned, cry and drink huge amounts of coffee.

Then I had all the grow equipment to deal with. Well this was late at night and the lights could not be in the house. So they went to a local dumpster. Then my grow books went to the dumpster. Anything related to growing pot got dumped. Then I had to remember where all my stashes were hidden. Then I had to vacuum to make sure there were no seeds in the carpet.

My last task was to get really stoned again and get the final stashes to the tree tops. I left enough in the house for a few joints. which I smoked when I got back. I aired the house out, lit some incense, cried a little bit more and then went to bed.

Less than 2 hours later there was a knock on the door. It was the local Sheriff. We knew each other because it is a small town.

I live in America. There is no real freedom here. If a cop thinks he has probable cause, he does. It does not matter what the law says.

He told me he was contacted about a pot growing operation buy some locals. I acted shocked and surprised and said to come in and show me where it was. He went right to my two grow rooms. Looked around while I made coffee and later admitted it was my ex and some locals that had read about it on her blog. I explained about the nasty divorce that was coming and blamed it all on the pissed soon to be ex wife. He laughed and noticed one of my pipes I had forgotten about by the computer and said I shouldn't leave things out in the open, laughed and said goodbye and left.

This sheriff is famous for busting grow operations. If there was more that a pipe I would have gone to jail or worse.

What have we learned from this kids?

If your sweetie knows that you grow, You need a back up plan if things go to hell.

Do you think your ex lover will not tell on you if she or her is pissed? You are wrong... Back up plan, you need it.

Think you squeez would never betray you. Watch out it can happen.

I was lucky. But if you are smart you will have a plan.

My ex once told me after she quit smoking pot that she would never do anything to betray my personal freedom. Ya right.

If your relationship is in trouble your freedom might be in trouble.

That was Manny months ago. The stash is gone. I have not gotten high in months. That is okay. I am free and will one day grow again. Now that I am divorced I will start to meet others that will sell me some kind soon. Later when I feel safe again I will grow again.

Be safe. Be free

ericwt

OniEhtRedrum781
11-22-2006, 03:13 AM
There's only one thing you gotta do... Kill her.....





















Just Kidding :D

kamakapili
11-22-2006, 03:20 AM
what an exciting story man, congradulations

ghettoBlunt
11-22-2006, 03:31 AM
holy shit, sketchin out is really good sometimes man...thats fucked up...wow, who can find that reasonable raping someones personal freedom over a plant...thats crazed

Box215
11-22-2006, 03:35 AM
thats gotta be the saddest story ive read in a long time...what a fuckin bitch she was. at least you didnt get caught. Im sure you put a lot of work into those plants and all for nothing

katacus
11-22-2006, 03:36 AM
most indoor grows are busted due to females with a grudge. Its a fact.

thNk.m0rbid
11-22-2006, 03:36 AM
i kno.. i read that whole damn thing lol.. good read.. your ex is a complete BITCH.. why would your WIFE do that.. thats fucked up dude.. she definitely doesnt love you.. damn bitch

Willard_420
11-22-2006, 03:39 AM
Bravo, this story kicked ass. Grats on getting it all gone (including the tears, sorry about your wife man...)

biohazard
11-22-2006, 04:09 AM
what a bitch, awesome story tho! you were fucking LUCKY to read her blog and have enough time to get rid of all your growing shit man... congrads on not being in jail :), start growing again in a year or two...

memoryburner
11-22-2006, 04:25 AM
Duuuude....that fuckin sucks. All of those plants gone to shit. I woulda stashed the plants up in the trees also...if there was room. I might start growing in the spring...so this is good advice man...awesome story. U should turn it into a novel and get that shit published. lol.

Frivolous248
11-22-2006, 04:35 AM
Sorry to hear about your relationship.

At least you still got your freedom though. Good job cleanin' up, even if you missed a pipe.

Glad to hear you stayed out of jail.

Mean Green Charlene
11-22-2006, 04:45 AM
Glad you got rid of it all (including the traitor)
Good story :)

Inferius
11-22-2006, 04:55 AM
Great story.
One question.
Would it have been possible to alter her blog before anyone important had seen it?
Not trying to stir up any regret, just a curiosity.

JaggedEdge
11-22-2006, 05:09 AM
That was an amazing story and I am thankful you got that bad feeling that made you check her blog. I'm still a little shocked at the your dumbass ex-wife. If you want to ruin someone's life, you don't post it in a blog for the world to see before you do it. I'm glad for you she wasn't smart enough to realize that though.

I hope you do eventually go back to growing, maybe in a neighboring town?

GrandTheftAut0420
11-22-2006, 05:19 AM
Very good story man. It woulda broke my heart to have to get rid of all that stuff. but i'm glad your free. freedom is way more valuable than the plants. anyways thanks for sharin and good luck.

Pride
11-22-2006, 06:05 AM
Holy shit what a great idea for a short thriller film.

Left
11-22-2006, 09:04 AM
Where is the dumpster?

Cassiopiea
11-22-2006, 11:04 AM
You should move and start up another grow dude.

PS Mad law dodging skills there.

LIP
11-22-2006, 12:22 PM
See, thats why i have no girlfriend, cant trust most of em.

Abattoir Dream
11-22-2006, 12:34 PM
lol great story lol i would have cried alot too lol i think your real smart for stashing it up in the trees, not so much for just 'dumping' the lights... surely a friend coulda taken them off your hands until you get another grow sorted? oh well, girlfriends/wives whatever, they are NEVER to be trusted with your grow, unless they do it with you... glad you got your freedom... peace

rainbow_jo
11-22-2006, 01:03 PM
glad everything turned out ok in the end.

One Question, why did you feel it didnt mattered to explain why your relationship went to hell?
In my experience people don't take revenge unless they have good reason to.

growitandsmokeit
11-22-2006, 03:44 PM
Sounds an interesting time. I do find it quite funny how you were toking up all the time while tearing down your grow room and hid the chopped plants up the tree! What i would have done. Bet it was hard chucking all the lights, fans etc in the bin.:(

ToDrunkToFish
11-22-2006, 05:33 PM
Yea man great story. Glad you got that shit down straight before you got too stoned. Hopefully the plants you cut got you stoned later on. But yea wait a year possibly and start again make or move. And make sure that bitches belongings are outa the house so she never can step inside again.

ericwt
11-22-2006, 06:52 PM
Thanks for all the replies. The whole experience was more surreal and strange than I could ever write about. I had about 4 hours sleep in about 3 days before the shit went down. As anyone who has experienced the frustration of divorce knows, it is no picnic.

To answer a few questions:

I did not go into detail about the fighting as it was not important to the message I was conveying. Regardless, I wanted my marriage to work and I was not the one who gave up. I still love the little bitch. I imagine what set her off was when she made me mad and at that moment I knew it was over. I stated to her that I was going to replace her with a 19 year old girl and I left.

Why did I dump the lights? Remember no one that I knew, except my ex, that I was growing pot. At that point and still I know no one who smokes that I trust. I do not even know anyone to buy pot from right now.

I just hope none of you have to go through what I went through and I was lucky. When I find the 19 year old girl she will smoke pot with me but will never know that I grow pot if and when I do.

I tried to go into the ex'es blog and delete it but she had changed her password. I also tried to call her and calm her down. She would not answer her cell phone.

There would be a thousand ways for me to get revenge on her, but that is not my way. She now lives close to Portland, OR so that is across the country from me. Let someone else deal with her as long as it is not me.

The events happened in June of this year. My divorce was finalized last week.
She has nothing on me know.

Between my stash and early harvest I stayed stoned for about 3 months. Pot helped me keep from going nuts.

If your significant other knows you grow make back up plans now in case your relationship goes to hell. Remember I thought I would be with her forever.

Where would you stash your lights and grow equipment? How long would it take you to disassemble your grow room when you are panicking and stoned? Do you have seeds and stashes all over the house? Are there stems here and there in your house? Where would you hide your green if you new the Man would be knocking at your door?

Plan these things ahead of time. Try to make your relationships work but realize you never really know what someone is going to do if they get real pissed.

I lived through the experience and that is why I am here posting about it. I advise never telling anyone you are in a relationship with about your grow. If they already know about it...Plan now or regret it later. But it is ultimately your decision and it it your freedom that you are playing with.

If this post even keeps one person from having to go to jail then I am glad I went through hell. No one should go to jail for a harmless plant.

ericwt

Greenport
11-22-2006, 07:05 PM
i bet ur wife got in trouble for filing a false report :)

ericwt
11-22-2006, 07:20 PM
I do not think she did. In my small town it is the sheriff that pretty much decides what happens. I think you just wrote it off as a pissed woman and dropped the matter. Although you can be sure if I had not cleaned up the place and still had the grow, he would be smiling on the front page of our little newspaper bragging about busting another dope dealing terrorist. That is life in the land of the free.

ericwt

puffin tuff
11-22-2006, 07:22 PM
Great story!! My girlfriend has threatened me before too and It really makes me mad to think about it!I'm pretty sure its mostly just talk though. I bet that this same has happened to thousands of growers.You acted fast man and it was a damn good thing brother oh yeah revenge is a dish best served cold. she defiantly deserves it!

Zoosh
11-23-2006, 07:47 PM
Pack a glock, aim for the head, cap that bitch. Kiddin'.
Seriously, that has gotta be painful but you learn pick yourself up and start again.

Cant even grow a fucking plant - its ridiculous.

Reefer Rogue
11-23-2006, 07:58 PM
Damn, quick thinking man, good job. Great story also, even though it's sad :( I probably wouldn't have believed her... Be glad you didn't get a paraphanalia charge ;)

pu ekot
11-24-2006, 01:23 AM
Wow, that's a sick story.
Yeah you are pretty fucking impressive to be able to do all that in 10 hours, especially with the divorce going on, I haven't gone through one but I know friends who have, it sure seems like hell.

I'm surprised the sheriff didn't give a shit about the pipe. What did you do with the grow rooms?

. chelsey
11-24-2006, 01:36 AM
whatta bitch

johnnyAKABob
11-25-2006, 02:41 PM
that sucks but at least your not in jail. theres always another grow

Not Enough Herb
11-25-2006, 03:38 PM
theres another grow, just likes theres more girls out there.

your ex wife is a straight up old fashioned BITCH

and they dont make her kind like they used to

later

cygnustaxt
11-25-2006, 06:23 PM
damn that sucks. You should have taken all your grow shit over to her place while she was at work or something and set it up then call the cops on her. That'd teach her to fuck with you.

rajking86
11-25-2006, 06:51 PM
HOLY SHIT!!!!!!!!!

I almost passed out when I read that she posted about your grow in DETAIL on her BLOG!

Shit............

I would SECRET WINDOW her ass.

Don Don
11-25-2006, 07:06 PM
Step 1:Dont get married to a bitch your not sure about.Step2:Dont tell ANYBODY about your grow opperation, matter of fact dont get married if you plan on having a grow opperation.step3:when you dump a bitch anything negative she's ever heard about you will come back to bite you squarly in the ass.Step4:if she did to you what your telling us you was'nt shit to her in the first place.Step5:KILL THE BITCH!!!What she did to you was lower than being some shit i just stepped in.

big smoke07
11-25-2006, 07:06 PM
Damn crazy story man. Sorry all your hard work went to waste.

Pride
11-25-2006, 09:09 PM
yea, the ol' 'im replacing you with a 19 yr old' always gets to them.
careful bout that one dude.

it's like chris rock said: "You know the reason why your woman is pissed da FUCK OFF?! -cause she wasn't your FIRST CHOICE!"

similar enough.

i taunted my girl saying i found some hot girl just to make her jealous and she hasn't shut the fuck up about it since then (its been since summer). mainly cause she found her on my phone LOL!!

ericwt
11-27-2006, 02:56 AM
The fact is when a relationship goes bad it can get really bad. I still have regrets over the relationship. I almost posted the link to her blog to prove the point. But frankly it does not matter what happened. My relationship crashed and burned.

This happens to relationships all the time. I just do not want others to loose everything because of a vindictive ex wife, ex husband, ex girl or boyfriend.

Cover your ass regardless of how strong you think your relationship is. The fact is you can never know what someone will do when they are pissed.

Ivlatt
11-27-2006, 04:55 PM
Typical woman.
Remember there's more women and more plants though ;)
GL in the future.

PdoubleOTY
11-27-2006, 09:21 PM
Blogs have finally proven a purposeful use to me now....rough times man, but with your loss you know have a new lease on life and knowledge that will be very ueful down the road...set up a new grow room, find a new stoner girl, and be ready for it again...i applaud you and would smoke you out like CRAZY if i knew you in person for the work you did...having hte balls to walk the sheriff in to your grow room that was htere 5 hours ago..solid work my friend, solid

orangeman
11-27-2006, 11:55 PM
Man that's some fucked up shit. This is exactly why besides online no one is knowing about my grow op. That is just some fucked up shit. I hope things go your way one day and she gets repaid in the name of God. How do you use man's law to get some one arrested for growing God's plant that is like a gift from him! Damn this killed my high :p..

d00d989
11-29-2006, 01:34 AM
wow man.....jsut think....if she would have just called the cops and told them about your grow instead of just putting it on a blog.....you'd be in jail for a LONG LONG time

Pshamous
11-29-2006, 04:05 AM
you got to move and start the biggest growing operation where ever it is you live. dude and all you need to get to never have this problem again is those cool doors in the movies that have the secret switch and a section of the wall opens to reveall the biggest operation ever...i love those doors.

Alpepiman
11-29-2006, 04:52 AM
That story was a very good read. I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through that, but just think of how worse it could've been. You are lucky for checking her blog.

Best of luck to you in the future, as far as women and growing go.

Greenhit
11-29-2006, 09:20 PM
Robert De Niro's character had a great line that applies here I think.

A man told me once: you want to make moves?
Don't keep anything in your life you're not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner.

dano420
12-09-2006, 09:43 AM
as said by stone cold steve austin D.T.A.

DONT TRUST ANYONE !!!!!

BACK UP PLAN IS KEY TO A SUCESSFUL GROW!!!! MUST HAVE ALL BASES COVERED.

emanresu
12-09-2006, 09:52 AM
duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude,,
good job on not sluffin and cleanin up RIGHT AWAY,
and im glad u didnt get caught! that would've been FUCKED UP

and man, thats one sketchy asss bitch, i wouldnt kill her, but i would hope someone did ahha no offense, but she tried to put u away....and for long time too lolz looks like she didnt give a dam

DoPeY323
12-09-2006, 05:54 PM
daaam nice close one.
next time if this happens make shure everything is ready so it all goes smooth..
and dont ferget the pipes this time:rastasmoke:
well still nice nice job u should get back at your wife somehow...
o yea try to find a girl that wouldent really care if you grow but that u like also.
like theres this gurl i know she likes getting stoned to so shes my first pick:rastasmoke:

HughESan
12-09-2006, 06:48 PM
it would have sucked greatly if you did all that and the popos didnt even do anything... better safe than sorry I guess...

Iggmasta
12-09-2006, 07:41 PM
what an aweful bitch

FakeBoobsRule
12-09-2006, 07:59 PM
If you paid for your lights with anything but a credit card I would print off the blogs ASAP and then hire a lawyer and sue her for slander and libel. I think libel is for printed material and if you print it off, she can't edit her blog and deny it. Even if you used a credit card I would take her to the cleaners in civil court and divorce court (which I know is another civil court).

herostyle
12-09-2006, 08:20 PM
damn nice story man...good luck with everything.

MastaChronic
12-10-2006, 12:32 AM
There would be a thousand ways for me to get revenge on her, but that is not my way. She now lives close to Portland, OR so that is across the country from me. Let someone else deal with her as long as it is not me.


where in postland does she luve? do you know? i could have some people take care of things. narcs will narc again and again until the problem is fixed.

ericwt
12-10-2006, 01:09 AM
Thanks again for all your kind thoughts.

I am not interested in revenge. Quite frankly it is not my way.

She never mentioned my real name, just a nickname I was known by. She has since changed her blog. Although anyone can figure out what she is saying.

She still talks about calling my mom and telling about the grow. Like that would do anything as I own my own house. All she wanted to do is create chaos in my life. It worked.

But I am thankful that I made it through that time. Divorce sucks.

But I am going to be the better person and let her go and live her life with no interference from me. She no longer smokes weed so I doubt she will do this to anyone else.

I wish her well. As long as I do not have to see or hear from that bitch again.

She is someone elses problem now.

stinkyattic
01-26-2007, 08:11 PM
Hey Ericwt
That's an amazing story.
I wonder how many growers will go through that someday.
I have about 24 hours to dismantle my grow and clean the house... I consider myself very very lucky to have that much advance warning...I suppose you were also very lucky to stumble across her blog... that feeling of impending doom.
I'm glad you are safe.
Stinky

geonagual
01-26-2007, 08:24 PM
Great story...can you say Dumpster Diving. LOL

420izzle
01-26-2007, 09:07 PM
DAMMIT@ FUK
What thE FUCI
WHY? Why do people have to be like that!

Thanks and GL.

ericwt
01-27-2007, 12:18 AM
Hey Ericwt
That's an amazing story.
I wonder how many growers will go through that someday.
I have about 24 hours to dismantle my grow and clean the house... I consider myself very very lucky to have that much advance warning...I suppose you were also very lucky to stumble across her blog... that feeling of impending doom.
I'm glad you are safe.
Stinky

Wow, Thanks for the bump Stinkyattic!

This is an important topic. It was a painful story to write down and post on a Cannabis site. I also in a way relive the experience when this topic gets commented upon. Very good for my own healing in this matter.

I think you would be surprised how many people have gone through this experience. I know of some overgrowers that it happened to.

What scares me is that more than a few will experience the same thing that we have, and some will not be as lucky as we were.

They will wake up one morning with police pointing guns at them, asking them to get on the ground. They will experience getting hand cuffed. They will experience what it is like to get finger printed. They will enjoy the joy of having their freedom ended. They will learn what it is like to have their houses and cars confiscated. They get to experience loosing their children, their jobs or their businesses.

They loose everything.

You were smart Stinkyattic. If this guy is that out of control it is only a matter of days before he gets busted for some thing. Then he would sing like a bird to save his own neck. Enjoy growing those Peppers! I grow them too.

It is funny there are a few that have scoffed me when I post in the growing area of the forum. I always speak of a friend that grows. The funny thing is that it is true. I still don't grow weed in my house. It will be a while before I will be able to grow. Likely I will have to sell my house and move to another area before I can ever grow weed again. But my Peppers will rock your world and mouth on fire.

I had I think 7 mouths of being dry. It sucked bad. Then I set up other peoples personal grows. I helped them set up the area and paid for the lighting and the genetics. They use their own place and I guide them and check on the plants. My split is 1/2 the harvest. I never sell and neither does the partner. Works for me.

But one thing I still cant understand about my ex wife how did she turn into a vicious vindictive person. It is still beyond my understanding.

But I am a lot happier now and am making great progress in my own spiritual journey.

Cover your ass, all you growers out there.

The less people that know you grow the better. Trust your inner feelings and if your relationship starts to go to hell, best to act quickly and dismantle the grow. Don't give your enemy ammunition. If they can use it against you and they are pissed, it is just a matter of when they will do it.

God, all of this for a plant that does good things. Well at least it makes life interesting.

MotleyCrueBoy24
01-27-2007, 03:16 AM
AMAZING story!

Honestly....Damn! I'm at a loss of words.

Duke420
01-27-2007, 03:54 AM
OMG! what a story!

Man, she moved to my neck of the woods =/

You made me think of what i would do if someone came unexpected, thanks for the kick ass warning. I have some work to get my break down time in check. I'll be starting tomorrow!!

peace :stoned:

MotleyCrueBoy24
01-27-2007, 03:55 AM
One question. How did your family take it. Did they know about your relationship with the god given plant? Or was this their first news. Did they believe her? If so, did they shun you from the family?

ericwt
01-27-2007, 05:01 AM
One question. How did your family take it. Did they know about your relationship with the god given plant? Or was this their first news. Did they believe her? If so, did they shun you from the family?

My mom called me after she talked to my ex. This was a few days after my visit from the local sheriff. So for all practical purposes I was not growing at that time. So I invited her over. She came and I even offered to take a drug test. She of course said that would not be necessary.

I suspect she knows I smoke weed. She also knows that I do not drink. I think the whole incident actually made me and my mom closer. I showed her my ex wife's blog that said things about me that my mom knew were not true.

The truth is without her and my family I would have never made it through that whole mess. I mean it sucks having to kill your plants and loose your grow but the whole divorce matter really devastated me. To be betrayed by your closest friend changes your view of things. The being dry and not being able to smoke was nothing compared to the feelings of betrayal. Then there is the cost of divorce. I almost lost everything financially. I am now just getting back on my feet money wise.

One day soon I hope I can be honest to my mom about weed. I feel it is getting closer. But right now I am okay with her not knowing or asking about it.

MotleyCrueBoy24
01-27-2007, 07:53 PM
I am saying nothing about you. But when I am completely independent I will straight out tell my parents that I smoke weed. Knowing my bitch ass mom (who I dearly love and WAS a pothead) she will call the cops. HAHA.

OzzyOz
01-27-2007, 08:15 PM
Thanks for all the replies. The whole experience was more surreal and strange than I could ever write about. I had about 4 hours sleep in about 3 days before the shit went down. As anyone who has experienced the frustration of divorce knows, it is no picnic.

To answer a few questions:

I did not go into detail about the fighting as it was not important to the message I was conveying. Regardless, I wanted my marriage to work and I was not the one who gave up. I still love the little bitch. I imagine what set her off was when she made me mad and at that moment I knew it was over. I stated to her that I was going to replace her with a 19 year old girl and I left.

Why did I dump the lights? Remember no one that I knew, except my ex, that I was growing pot. At that point and still I know no one who smokes that I trust. I do not even know anyone to buy pot from right now.

I just hope none of you have to go through what I went through and I was lucky. When I find the 19 year old girl she will smoke pot with me but will never know that I grow pot if and when I do.

I tried to go into the ex'es blog and delete it but she had changed her password. I also tried to call her and calm her down. She would not answer her cell phone.

There would be a thousand ways for me to get revenge on her, but that is not my way. She now lives close to Portland, OR so that is across the country from me. Let someone else deal with her as long as it is not me.

The events happened in June of this year. My divorce was finalized last week.
She has nothing on me know.

Between my stash and early harvest I stayed stoned for about 3 months. Pot helped me keep from going nuts.

If your significant other knows you grow make back up plans now in case your relationship goes to hell. Remember I thought I would be with her forever.

Where would you stash your lights and grow equipment? How long would it take you to disassemble your grow room when you are panicking and stoned? Do you have seeds and stashes all over the house? Are there stems here and there in your house? Where would you hide your green if you new the Man would be knocking at your door?

Plan these things ahead of time. Try to make your relationships work but realize you never really know what someone is going to do if they get real pissed.

I lived through the experience and that is why I am here posting about it. I advise never telling anyone you are in a relationship with about your grow. If they already know about it...Plan now or regret it later. But it is ultimately your decision and it it your freedom that you are playing with.

If this post even keeps one person from having to go to jail then I am glad I went through hell. No one should go to jail for a harmless plant.

ericwt


hmmmm...
yeah
close call
but maybe you should start growin again?
just keep it on the Dl from even anyone you have a relationship with.
i know thats nearly impossible,but just try.

EbelEyes
01-27-2007, 10:17 PM
I read this a while back. I see that it popped up again, so I'll leave a few words.

It sounds like your ex wife never even loved you.

You don't go from loving someone to wanting them in prison, and trying to do so. It just doesn't make any sense.

That is so wrong.

But its all over with now.

She's can ruin someone else's life now.

What doesn't kill is only going to make you stronger.

Sorry to hear about all this (your ex-wife, the destruction of your grow op), but there is one thing to remember...

Nothing lasts...

Your good will always turn to bad.

And that bad is only going evolve to good again, that is if it already hasn't.

Stay on your feet, all I can say is that things will be golden for you sometime in the future (if it isn't already). I can't say when it will happen, but it will happen...

rnichilo
01-28-2007, 01:01 AM
wow great read, i commend you my friend :rastasmoke:

VaporDaddy
01-28-2007, 01:23 AM
OMFG!
Hell hath no fury, like a woman scorned.
You are the luckiest guy ever.

wont say
08-10-2007, 01:30 AM
that sucks man! do you have any pics or movies you can get her back with?? its called... revenge and sometimes karma. sorry to hear that happened, you did an awesome job covering it all up though!

Johnny McPotSmoker
08-11-2007, 07:07 AM
That's crazy.

But yeah, he couldn't use the pipe as evidence anyway since his warrant (I assume) was for a grow op. Then again, it is the US.

sorgens_kammer
08-11-2007, 08:31 AM
Wow what an amazing story! and sorry to hear about your relationship man, really too bad, but I bet freedom never felt more real until you were hours away from losing it.

BudPages
08-11-2007, 08:37 AM
Probably wasn't the best idea to post any of that... considering your situation. sorry about your family though... that's rough on anyone.

cannabisis4for20
08-11-2007, 09:05 AM
I read this back in December, but since it's resurfaced I'll just say that feeling that something wasn't right is what saved your ass. Just imagine what could have happened if that never crossed your mind. You had a guardian angel looking out for you that night man.

orangeman
08-14-2007, 02:16 AM
This might be an odd decision but I really think I might end up being single and never getting married unless laws change. Don't mean to be selfish but when the people are gone the Cannabis still is there to satisfy me. I probably wont ever have any one living with me.

MadSativa
08-17-2007, 11:41 PM
damn that stroy hurt............when I first read the title I was like all at once?

ganjzilla
08-17-2007, 11:55 PM
wow dude thats harsh...i cant beleive someone would do that shit

MadSativa
08-18-2007, 12:00 AM
For real I am kinda shocked like does she have no brain???

boston686
08-26-2007, 12:44 AM
im very sorry that she did that

i cant imagine that occuring in my life
because most females i hang out with or date accept it and juss kinda ignore it or smoke themselves

but i did read the part where u said she quit

just outta curiosity what made her quit?

also if u are considering growing again u should probbably move

once again
im sorry
especially that ur dry if i lived in that area i would smoke u up if i could