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[wakenbaken]

My girlfriend and i both want to have sex and have tried two different times to no luck. She is a virgin and so am i so were both new to it. Both times we tried i wasnt able to fit it inside of her + it adds to the problem that i dont get a full erection. What should i do cuz its kind of embarasing

[kindprincess]

astroglide babe, you'll do fine;)

[officerleeroy]

Dude I had the same problem...which is why I'm still a virgin. I haven't had another chance to try so maybe someone else can enlighten you lol.

EDIT: I didn't have the erection problem though...you're on your own with that...

[kiwi]

:confused: I'm not to sure how much help I will be to you.....the best thing to do is not to put too much pressure on yourself, some things do take a bit of time and there is nothing wrong with that. Practise makes perfect.... so just relax and spend time exploring each others bodies, then from there just wait to see what happens.:thumbsup:

[BigNugs4U]

Try foreplay. Then once you are both nice and juicy (and you got some woodage), it will be easier to penetrate. Use lube too. Or if you cant get any, if you perform oral sex on her, use lots of saliva, then use saliva on your penis and put some more on her vagina. Listen if she tells you to stop, it can hurt alot that first time, i hear.

[PotHeed420]

have you considered the fact that you might be gay?

[thcbongman]

Finger her first.

Feel around, explore, let it moisten up as much as possible. No reason to feel nervous, remember that. I remember my first time how I couldn't get completely hard because, after all, it's the first time. Just gotta let go and let instincts take over.

[Lucifuge]

have you considered the fact that you might be gay?

What he said.

[Vapedoc]

claim down its just pussy you afraid of some pussy

[rainbow_jo]

wakenbaken, don't put too much pressure on yourselves to do it.
just have fun with each other, have a laugh, be comfortable being naked together.
Just try sitting about and chatting naked, and have fun.

Sex is uncomfortable sometimes!

There are times when my boyfriend can't get inside me, but it's just because you have to have a play around first, and relax.

reassure your girlfriend that you love her, and that what's the rush anyway? you have ages and ages to have sex, just take it slow, it'll get there.

huge hugs xx

[birdgirl73]

Some of these responses are idiotic and insulting. You're not gay, and you're not afraid, although some nervousness is understandable. Kiwi's right. Just take some time and try and relax and practice some more.

The thing about being young and trying to have sex is that you rarely have enough time or privacy to do it right. As the guy, you need to be fully and completely turned on so you have the erection quality you need, and that happens with lots of foreplay and, ideally, with less nervousness. If you take any sorts of medications, many of those can affect erection quality as well. For a young lady who's a virgin, full "intromission," as it's called, sometimes takes a lot of time and practice. It may hot happen suddenly, either. When I lost my virginity, we had to practice and practice for three or more weeks till we got it right, and trying to force it and get it over suddenly in one or two tries would have been far too painful to contemplate.

Take the pressure off yourself and don't set the expectation on complete sex next time you get together. Make sure you two have had plenty of time for foreplay and body exploration. Get her very turned on and make sure you're the same way, too. Then as the pressure eases, try again and again, with the understanding that it may be a very gradual process. Make sure you have some good lube on hand, too, which'll help, too. Good luck!

[Rekos]

Drink some wiskey, give her some too. Be careful not to get so drunk you can do anything or make you sick. Just to make you both feel more relaxed and more confident. I think it helps. Maybe?

[NightProwler]

here i think what you should do is first get completley naked and just make her really horny. play with her nipples and eat her out. make her really wet and if your not extremley hard by that point, i dunno maybe you should get high before or something. but yea. pretty much foreplay and just take your time. let it happen because it will.

oh yea im still a virgin too haha

[stinkygirl]

Some of these responses are idiotic and insulting. You're not gay, and you're not afraid, although some nervousness is understandable. Kiwi's right. Just take some time and try and relax and practice some more.

The thing about being young and trying to have sex is that you rarely have enough time or privacy to do it right. As the guy, you need to be fully and completely turned on so you have the erection quality you need, and that happens with lots of foreplay and, ideally, with less nervousness. If you take any sorts of medications, many of those can affect erection quality as well. For a young lady who's a virgin, full "intromission," as it's called, sometimes takes a lot of time and practice. It may hot happen suddenly, either. When I lost my virginity, we had to practice and practice for three or more weeks till we got it right, and trying to force it and get it over suddenly in one or two tries would have been far too painful to contemplate.

Take the pressure off yourself and don't set the expectation on complete sex next time you get together. Make sure you two have had plenty of time for foreplay and body exploration. Get her very turned on and make sure you're the same way, too. Then as the pressure eases, try again and again, with the understanding that it may be a very gradual process. Make sure you have some good lube on hand, too, which'll help, too. Good luck!


wow.....its funny a bunch of young people askin other people questions and the a MODERATER MOM come and gives the parental advice....lol

[NightProwler]

hey like someobdy else said, just be naked together without "having" to do anything.. theres really nothing better than comfortably being naked with the person you love.. just laying on the bed casually feeling eachother

[stinkygirl]

if you cant get it in its because she doesnt want you in that bad,or you dont want it in that bad!

when i lost my virginity the guy rammed it in ,and he was a virgin too

if you cant get it up for your girl ,you must not think she's that hot .
i say eat her out real good for about 10 minutes then she'll be wet enough

[LIP]

if you cant get it in its because she doesnt want you in that bad,or you dont want it in that bad!

when i lost my virginity the guy rammed it in ,and he was a virgin too

if you cant get it up for your girl ,you must not think she's that hot .
i say eat her out real good for about 10 minutes then she'll be wet enough

That's the kind of idiotic and insulting shit Bridgirl was talking about...

You gotta be having a joke.

[justinsane]

Relax don't do it when you wanna go to it
Relax don't do it when you wanna cum

[OniEhtRedrum781]

Don't worry, its normal to get "wind-socky" on your first time. It may be because you're nervous, remember to relax and just go with it

[smoke it]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DEPrDqblhM0

your welcome

[.undefined]

you're putting the pussy on a pedestal.

:p

[NightProwler]

That's the kind of idiotic and insulting shit Bridgirl was talking about...

You gotta be having a joke.

lol thats the douche who got banned for being such a bitch

[dutch.lover]

i want an update!

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Just remember...Use a rubber :)

Update please :D

[Smokalotxxx]

Pretty much foreplay. Don't worry too much about the condom. Just practice how to put it and good luck. Be nice and smooth...don't push it.