possessive chicks

[GHoSToKeR]

Okay so there's this chick, right? She's so hot!!! Like, goddayoum, as bob banana would say!!!!! lol and i get on with her really well, but nothings happened between us yet, just takin' it easy, ya know?

so anyway, whenever i see her we talk for hours, and i always think damn i really fuckin like her, but, like, shes mental lol

ok, well not mental, shes just really fuckin possessive.. i mean, we're not even gong out, we're just mates at the moment.. so why the fuck does she get all upset if i dont phone her one day, or if im goin out somewhere and i dont invite her, shell lay the whole guilt trip thing on me.. and, like, if ever i talk to another girl, shell like get all jealous and interrupt.. i mean, she doesnt do it blatantly but its obvious to people that know her..

anyway, the problem is i really like her.. shes funny as hell, really fuckin hot, shes a stoner, and i get on wit her soooooo well, and ya she likes me too.. but, i dunno what to do, coz like i said, we're not even goin out andshes already bein really possessive and annoying.. dont wanna sound harsh, but i hate chicks like that.. so, advice, people, advice! :P

[RESiNATE]

GHoST:

She has, either A) been in a family where one or other of the parents has cheated on the other - or both, or B) been cheated on herself.

You should either A) talk to her about any issues she has, and express to her that her possessiveness is causing you to be turned off, or B) don't get involved with her.

Maybe that is too simplistic, but I hope it gives you some direction. :)

[maryjanemama]

Ghost, I think the only thing to do here is weigh your options. If she's hot, cool, funny, and a stoner maybe you could put up with her possessiveness. But if you think her being possessive is just too much for you to handle, then maybe you should just stay friends.

Btw, by taking your relationship further you may be able to calm her fears and she'll let up on you a little bit. Or she'll turn into a complete psychopath, either way, it's a wait and see kind of thing. :)

It also depends on how horny you are.

[GHoSToKeR]

lol thanks guys.. you're probs right.. anyway, i like her too much to just tell her to back the fuck off coz shes freaking me out lol.. guess ill have to wait and see :p

It also depends on how horny you are

lol you know whats funny? like, wit this chick it aint even about that.. crazy huh? :o

[RESiNATE]

In all things, GHoST, communication is the only way forward...you should talk to her, I think..at least then, you'll both know where you stand :)
It's fairer on you, and on her too...there's nothing worse that not knowing that your actions are detrimental to your life...better to know and address them, than think that everything is fine, then BAMM...dumped!..why?

Ya know what I mean? ;)

[GHoSToKeR]

yea i get what you mean, Res... the thing is, wit this chick (her names lara, btw), like, we get so well together coz we can b really open with eachother, u know? like we spend hours and hours chatting, and most of the time end up ignoring everyone else all night lol, so like, ya, maybe ill talk to her.. or maybe ill just have another joint :)

[RESiNATE]

maybe ill talk to her.. or maybe ill just have another joint :)

lol..do both, dude

Anyways, good luck with it.
My ex-wife was possessive of me, and was a major factor of our split up (apart from the fact that she shagged my best mate, and was a complete bitch from hell, and we had very little in common, and that she bored me silly because she didn't have a brain, and that she forced me to watch Coronation Street, and Eastenders, and kept hitting me, and swearing at me, and dissing me in front of my family, and friends, and didn't have one iota of respect for me).....:rolleyes:

lol

[maryjanemama]

Res, I don't like your ex, either. I always wonder how women like that get guys in the first place. :confused:


















Oh, yeah, big boobs. I forgot about the power of big boobs. :D

[RESiNATE]

lol, MJM, that would have been a bonus :rolleyes:

Yeah, I wondered how I ended up with her, maybe I was pissed up, or summat lol (or desperate lol)

Nah, it wasn't all bad....there was this one day......:D

[GHoSToKeR]

thanks mjm and Res.. and res, sorry to hear about your psycho bint of an ex-wife.. no amount of tits and ass and hot sweaty nekkedness would make me get with someone like that


well, maybe

[notanovice]

kick her to the curb, no one needs that kind of jealous treatment
you are young, alot more females will cross your path

women are like subway cars, (this pertains to you as you are young)

wait a few minutes

and another will come by

[Bro DZ]

lol you know whats funny? like, wit this chick it aint even about that.. crazy huh? :o

dude, Ghostoker, you are so full of shit! Lmao

if it wasent about you wanting to beat them cheeks you probably would not have told everyone how hot she is and I don't think this thread would have even been created LoL

I know exactly what your going through with this chick... A 'friend' of mine back home had a real nice friend thing going with me but she would trip on me if i muttered the slightest thing to another girl, even if she hadent heard it herself. She would hit me and stuff too, but I guess thats just what girls where doing to us guys at the time, you know, a little punch to the stomach here or there to test your abs LoL

anyhow... one day we ditched school and I had been telling my friends that I was fucking sick and tired of her freaking out on me for no damn reason so I was going to ask her what her problem was. When we got to my pad, i threw some food into the oven and she started blabbing about whoever doing whatever that morning at school and i just interupted her to inquire into her bizarre behaviour.

It was really strange. She totally denied getting mad at me for anything. After a couple hours of discussion (and trying to figure out what i was gonna do with all the burnt tater tots in the oven LoL) I talked her into a corner. It was obvious she had feelings for me... but I didnt want a relationship like that with her. My older brother had a crush on her =o(

But we were closer after that even though she still got mad at me for talking to other chicks LoL crud, she was the only girl i denied back in high school, and she was a hot ass 1/2 black 1/2 white chick. It was crazy, I was the only dude in my whole crew that got hugs and kisses daily AND I got to watch her change dozens of times cause she always wanted my opinion on what to wear. I still chat with her on the phone every once in awhile, I guess I'm her psychological crutch nowadays :)

Peace

[maryjanemama]

women are like subway cars, (this pertains to you as you are young)

wait a few minutes

and another will come by
And then one day you find yourself as old as notanovice...and you'll be in the train station (by yourself) thinking, "Where am I going...? Shit! I can't remember...I'd go home and smoke a jay, if I could remember my way home...Too bad I didn't find a nice girl when I was young, then at least I could be confused and happy, instead of confused and alone."

Just kidding. Notanovice, I like you and I'm old, too, compared to the average age of most of the members here. :D My point is, girls are not like subway cars...the kind of girls you want to be with, anyway. Slutty girls, on the other hand, are a dime a dozen. (Damn us old ppl and our analogies!!! :p )

[clevemire]

beat them cheeksHAHA!! Awesome!

Ghost, I have to agree with Res in saying you should just straight up address whatever issues you have with her. No relationship is real unless there is upfront honesty (To a point, at least. Of course you usually don't want to answer 'yes' if she asks if you think she's overweight. That will just doghouse ya).
Possesive women.. people, in general, are not people you want to get involved with. It will eventually get worse if left alone, and may even ultimately drain some feelings of independance and freedom from you.

[GHoSToKeR]

lol Notanovice.. You might be right, but I don't think like that.. I like this girl, and maybe she just likes me alot more than I like her, thats why shes acting like this? Or maybe shes a psycho.. who knows? but im gonna find out before I give up on her..

lol Bro, i'm being serious man! i mean, yeah shes fucking hot, but seriously, its not all about that this time (makes a change) .. I actually really enjoy talking to her.. if it was about sex than I woulda given up weeks ago, lol

and clevem you're right.. possessive people scare me.. I think its funny when my mates are with possessive chicks, coz if you let them act like that then eventually you start doing what they want, and watching how you act in case your partner or whatever gets mad.. then before you know it youre totally fucking whipped, locked in your room when your missus is out, eating out of a dog bowl with 'Bitch' written on the side, wondering why you didnt just throw her down the stairs or poison her food when you had the chance

[Kid Dynamite]

My ex girlfreind was really possessive...fucking mental. She wanted to see me in all my free time, which i didnt mind that much. But if i ever talked to another girl she went bloody mental and had a huge go at me...then when id start to argue shed go all sad and say "....its only because i love you so much" uber guilt tripping.

So i strangled her with piano wire and threw her body in a canal.

[toejam]

problem solved.....

http://www.dataflo.net/~mpurintun/videos/art_of_war-husbands_and_wives.mpg

[GooseBear]

Oh toejam.......... Jeeze OUCH! lol
Didn't see that coming.....poor girl....hahah...lol...


oh boy

[RESiNATE]

So i strangled her with piano wire and threw her body in a canal.

lol...it's the only way, dude :rolleyes:

:D

[Bro DZ]

So i strangled her with piano wire and threw her body in a canal.
Your my hero Dynamite! LoL :D

Try guitar strings next time though, those nickel ones LoL


Ghostoker, it seems like this girl is a hell of a find... she might be kinda possessive but i say tell her how ya feel and see if you can't change her psychotic tendancies a little... after getting blazed the fuck out people ten dto be way more understanding. My few friends that have ladies that toke with us have great relationships... and their ladies arent always calling them or tagging along :D

[sampson419]

Chick in general are Hormonal Trips, I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now, and at first she was that way, and I addressed the issue, and today we are really fuckin' cool together, its weird after we worked out our craziness and learned how to put up with some of our shit, we are totally happy and don't fight too much anymore, but we used to go at it man, just wait, talk to her tell her how you feel (this sounds corny but it really works) WOMAN HAVE THESE THINGS CALLED FEELINGS, SHIT NEVER HEARD OF THEM UNTILL I STARTED DATING ONE.

[sawleaf]

American women are a waste of time if you ask me. Grab a European woman and you'll never look back! :)

[GHoSToKeR]

American women are a waste of time if you ask me. Grab a European woman and you'll never look back! :)
well.. i am in the UK.... lol

[apsinthion]

Try giving HER some more attention GHoST.

Play her at her own game lol. For a 17 year old (I so hate using age as a generalisation) to be in a relationship and not see sex as a issue is like me walking into a pub and ordering an orange juice:D.

It seem's to me that you like this girl almost to the extent of love lol.

I think if you stick with her long enough and still see other friend's (but not show any tendencies to play away (as it were) then you will eventually gain her trust and she won't be so paranoid.

Sorry if this doesen't make sence I'm as stoned as John Clease in the life of Brian.:D

[koshea]

DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HER



if you have sex with a possessive girl, she will be 10x more insane, ESPECIALLY if you were her first which i doubt...anywho...if you date her its a dif. story...still...girls are insane


fucking estrogen bombs

[maryjanemama]

American women are a waste of time if you ask me. Grab a European woman and you'll never look back! :)
Hmmm, the last I knew English chicks were in Europe. Smoke another one, Sawleaf! :)

PS Ghost, do not take advice from anyone who calls a woman an estrogen bomb. lol

[sawleaf]

Okay then Eastern European women.

[GHoSToKeR]

lol

Aspinthion - Don't say the 'L word'.. it scares me... lol People throw the L word around too much.. it's like "yeah, ive been going out with this chick for 3 days, im in love with her already" "whats her name?" "Ja.. no, Han... fuck i forgot.. i do love her though"

Koshea - yeah you're right.. if she does turn out to be a psycho, then I wanna find out before I get with her... I don't wanna have to dump her and then nail my letter-box shut in case she decides to send me the head of a dead kitty or something...

MJM - lol yeah, England is in Europe.. funny, that! I'm not in England though, but thats not the point :p

[apsinthion]

How long have you been seeing his girl GHoST?

Sorry didn't mean to thrust (for want of a better word) the L word on ya it was just the way I saw it.;)

As for love being tossed around (yet again for want of a better word) I have a friend that's like that, I swear he's been engaged to every girl he's ever been out with lmao.:D

[Imotep]

thtas a good idea-out posessive her. smother her in attention and a close, watchfu eye, sneak outside her window, until she cant breathe.
she sounds 3 out of 4 man. theyre pretty good odds and all y need at that age.
everyones got baggage of some sort.
make it very fucking clear what yr about and what you dont like.
have yr arguments about it before it gets serious.
do a pre-nup lol.
"i will give you every 2nd saturday, for no less than 5 hours, time to goof around without me doing whatever, and i shall not enter into emotional tantrums, guilt trips or breakdowns, as defined in section 2." :D

[Bro DZ]

thats a hell of an idea... see how she reacts to your over-attention LoL

chances are she will trip on you and be all like "Why won't you give me any space!?"

Trust me GT, when I say you can NOT play the same mind games with women that they play (for lack of a better word) on you. They will hate your guts LoL

Cold, cool and simple logic will prevail here. And you Ghostoker, will be the man harnessing the logic. I hope =oP

[getHigh]

WARNING>possesive chicks=DANGEROUS!

[GHoSToKeR]

thats a hell of an idea... see how she reacts to your over-attention LoL

chances are she will trip on you and be all like "Why won't you give me any space!?"

Trust me GT, when I say you can NOT play the same mind games with women that they play (for lack of a better word) on you. They will hate your guts LoL

Cold, cool and simple logic will prevail here. And you Ghostoker, will be the man harnessing the logic. I hope =oP
lol

thanks guys

i dont know about over-'possessiving' her.. mind games are for chicks.. i wouldnt know where to start lol

aspinthion, im not exactly seeing her seeing her, if you get me.. but like, i am, in a way.. i dunno lol anyway, ive been 'sort of seeing her' for 3 maybe 4 weeks...

[00Ampersand]

ask yourself this ghost.....is ma thang gettin wet?!?!
If the answer's no, then you must ditch the ho
~007~

[GHoSToKeR]

ask yourself this ghost.....is ma thang gettin wet?!?!
If the answer's no, then you must ditch the ho
~007~

hahahahahhahahaha you rock!

[Bro DZ]

so Gt, u wet er what? LoL

would ya beat, er what?

those are the truly important questions for a 17 year old male... I know you wanna score, even if you deny it =oP Hell, maybe if you rock her world she'll chill out some more cause of all that relieved stress.

[ScarlettCrush]

she might be possessive because she wants you to ask her out, and not some other chick. You are spending a lot of time with her, and you obviously enjoy each other, she may be just impatient waiting on you to take the next step.

[notanovice]

you are wise for your years
you will make the right choice



i forgot to take me geritol
now i cant type
what was i typing about
i think i got alsehymers
but i forget
i was waiting in the subway for maryjanemamma

y`all are the greatest, i think
i cant remember

peace
and
grass

[toejam]

she might be possessive because she wants you to ask her out, and not some other chick. You are spending a lot of time with her, and you obviously enjoy each other, she may be just impatient waiting on you to take the next step.

I remember when I was working at a car dealership and I really wanted this BMW but I didn't have enough money and I couldn't get credit. I would be so possessive of it, I would try to stear people away from it by saying alot of negative stuff. Someone eventually bought it from another salesmen, I will never let another love get away.

[maryjanemama]

she might be possessive because she wants you to ask her out, and not some other chick. You are spending a lot of time with her, and you obviously enjoy each other, she may be just impatient waiting on you to take the next step.
Absolutely right! She's nervous you're going to spread your Ghostly love somewhere else. Ask her out already, dammit!

England and the UK aren't the same thing? How totally American of me. :o

[Ammie]

England and the UK aren't the same thing? How totally American of me. :o

lol dont feel bad babe i thought the same thing :confused:

[Ammie]

ask yourself this ghost.....is ma thang gettin wet?!?!
If the answer's no, then you must ditch the ho
~007~

lmfao u silly fecker :p

[GHoSToKeR]

lol you guys rock

oh btw i got a bnew job, finally.. doing deliviries and stuff.. its hard work but the pays realyl good.. im so happy and sooooo stoned :D

[Lulu]

Okay then Eastern European women.
Happy Shopping ;)

http://www.online-dating.org/Foreign_Brides/Eastern_Europe/

Just kidding btw :D

[sawleaf]

Happy Shopping ;)

http://www.online-dating.org/Foreign_Brides/Eastern_Europe/

Just kidding btw :D

Thanks Lulu, I just bought 4! ;)