Breaking up with GF of 4 years

[s2headhunter]

what do you guys think....how should i do it...its for another chick........ ok this is the situation

been together 4 years i love her, but this other chick just makes me feel differnt....my girl now doesnt know ive ever done ANYTHING bad lol....drink, smoke, pills, ANYTHING and i do the first one evry weeked middle one daily and last one pretty often too.....but anyway...how should i do it...ive done it 3 times before and crushed her everytime..i dont wanna hurt her....what do you guys think

[crudemood]

ooh thats tough, if it was me, i'd stay loyal to the girl.
im a sucker for sparing people's feelings..
i hope she takes it well.
as for advice, im not sure. will she take it hard? she doesnt accept you turning to substances then. weigh it out you'll figure it out.

[dejayou30]

i don't understand when people do this. doesn't this new girl realize that she could be in the shoes of your current girlfriend at some point? i mean i guess i understand the whole ladder theory that most guys go by this day in age, but you either love her or you don't. there is no easy way to do it, especially after 4 years.

[kwik nasty]

just do the standard you need time apart to find yourself bullshit excuse. they can never argue with that & they want you to find yourself too. do that & hook up with the other girl. just make sure the first doesnt find out about the second for at least 3 months.

[Garden Knowm]

I'm gonna make a prediction...

when you break up with her.. your life will take a turn to hard core drugs, and deep introspection after you get down down down into the dumps..

meanwhile your ex will go off to college and get staright A's and shagged by an entire fraternity...

You two will reunite in 4 years.. you will tell her that you found GOD but that you are just really really spiritual.. and she'll think your crazy.. but you two will still get in one last shagging.... I recommend you spend a lot of time eating at the Y.. so that her final memories of you are positive..

to be cont.

iloveyou

[partyguy420]

the way i did it with my girl of almost a year, who we were both attached to... and both loved each other alot...i just told her "i want to take a break, so that i can think about were my life is going, and why im fucking it over so bad, how i need to fix it, and i cant do that with a girl on my mind all the time, and say its just tempary... and then when you ask the other girl out, and if the girl your with finds out, just tell her that your experimenting but you still love her..." thats the exact way i did it... and my ex still hasnt killed her self... but she is still crying so it sort of sucks, and sort of hurts my heart....

[XTC]

Sounds like you don't need to be dating. Just live the swinger type of lifestyle for a bit.

If you break up with this girl for another girl, what there's to say the same situation won't come up again.

[PigSnout]

been together 4 years
my girl now doesnt know ive ever done ANYTHING bad lol....drink, smoke, pills, ANYTHING and i do the first one evry weeked middle one daily and last one pretty often too.....

4 years and she doesn't know you. sweet

[the joint meister]

man fuck all that lying shit what you should do is tell her you smoke drink and pop pills and she will probly break up wit you and if she doesint then she'll just have to accept it you can't lose

[Skink]

Strait up!!! be a man... She has to get through the pain to realize you are a jerk... don't string her along and mess up more valuable time,,,time that she needs to find herself and someone who loves her...

[Zoosh]

4 years and she doesn't know you. sweet

Awesome point of you view there.
Ive been goin out with my gf for 2 years, i broke up with her for a day, then rang her up and said it was a mistake.
She doesnt know i smoke pot, she thought i quit way back.
Ive been in your position, just dont break up with her because your bored and want to fuck around.

[Skink]

What makes people believe they can hide pot smokig???

[alexisonfire xo]

I'm kind of in the same situation right now...except the girl I want is with a boyfriend of 2 years, and she's feeling me.

I think it's best for you to do whatever makes you happy, and if that means staying with your current girlfriend, then so be it.

[Eraserhead71]

dude dont do it. i think youre probably just feeling lust for this other girl and if you get into a relationship with her that feeling will go away eventually. please think about it more

[VoidLivesOn]

Fuck all the bullshit. Just get an old recording of a NASCAR race, purchase a three 6 packs of Pabst Blue Ribbon, invite em' both over and get your dick sucked man.

[TallulahGreen]

Fuck all the bullshit. Just get an old recording of a NASCAR race, purchase a three 6 packs of Pabst Blue Ribbon, invite em' both over and get your dick sucked man.


I bet your a virgin.

VIRGIN!! I SENSE A VIRGIN!!!!!

[potsmokingnome]

what do you guys think....how should i do it...its for another chick........ ok this is the situation

been together 4 years i love her, but this other chick just makes me feel differnt....my girl now doesnt know ive ever done ANYTHING bad lol....drink, smoke, pills, ANYTHING and i do the first one evry weeked middle one daily and last one pretty often too.....but anyway...how should i do it...ive done it 3 times before and crushed her everytime..i dont wanna hurt her....what do you guys think

You've hid all that from your girl friend of 4 years?? wtf man? thats just disrespectful! and now your going to dump her for another girl?...your on your own lol

[Skink]

I bet your a virgin.

VIRGIN!! I SENSE A VIRGIN!!!!!

No he's not,,, I bitch slap bitchs all the time and then they bake me cakes and give me BJ's while I watch Baywatch and tell them"I wish you looked like her"...

[TallulahGreen]

No he's not,,, I bitch slap bitchs all the time and then they bake me cakes and give me BJ's while I watch Baywatch and tell them"I wish you looked like her"...

Wow, glad I don't know any bitches like that. Glad I have my boyfriend wrapped around my pussy.
HAHAHAHA.

[Zohar]

Wow, glad I don't know any bitches like that. Glad I have my boyfriend wrapped around my pussy.
HAHAHAHA.

In all honesty, I believe he just kidding. Now if you knew this, or he was serious, then please disregard this message. I have yet to smoke this blunt I have rolled so I am disgruntled, don't mind me*.



*Please note, I am not actually disgruntled either. I think I am going to smoke this said blunt now, I hope all of you have a good day. I'm going out of my mind for a moment, be back in five.

[buddymyfriend]

Man up and tell your girlfriend you owe her that atleast!:thumbsup: Seriously think about it, what kind of relationship do you have if you don't trust one another and can't talk to each other? Shit just ain't gonna work without those two ingredients, along with a few more! Sit down and tell her how you're feeling and work out whether you do really wanna be with this 'new bit of skirt' or if you can make it work with your girlfriend. Whatever your decision, make it honestly. Shit can't go wrong if your honest and straight up.

Peace

Buddy

[daima]

what do you guys think....how should i do it...its for another chick........ ok this is the situation

been together 4 years i love her, but this other chick just makes me feel differnt....my girl now doesnt know ive ever done ANYTHING bad lol....drink, smoke, pills, ANYTHING and i do the first one evry weeked middle one daily and last one pretty often too.....but anyway...how should i do it...ive done it 3 times before and crushed her everytime..i dont wanna hurt her....what do you guys think

be honest. period.

dai*ma:stoned:
Remember when you use to call me honey
i'd turn around and call you honey too
well you might think it's a joke but it aint funny
to hurt someone who's so in love with you:confused:

[Bong30]

be honest. period.


Best advice right there......

[Genuine17]

I'm gonna make a prediction...

when you break up with her.. your life will take a turn to hard core drugs, and deep introspection after you get down down down into the dumps..

meanwhile your ex will go off to college and get staright A's and shagged by an entire fraternity...

You two will reunite in 4 years.. you will tell her that you found GOD but that you are just really really spiritual.. and she'll think your crazy.. but you two will still get in one last shagging.... I recommend you spend a lot of time eating at the Y.. so that her final memories of you are positive..

to be cont.

iloveyou

rofl

[Garden Knowm]

dude dont do it. i think youre probably just feeling lust for this other girl and if you get into a relationship with her that feeling will go away eventually. please think about it more

the part in bold is true.....disregard the second part of the post..

love is love

[timothylearyisdead]

im in pretty much the exact same boat. i can tell you smoking weed certainly doesnt help with think thinking up excuses. just tell the truth, i think thats what ill do.

[SkatePopwar]

bro bro bro what the fuck are you thinking
dont leave a girl you love for a girl you are attracted more too. your going to regret that and its going to be too late. but i think you really need to tell her about your drug use and stuff, because i used to cover that stuff up too but then i realised its pointless. and its as big of a part of em as anythign else, so if your girl cant accept that then shes nto accepting a part of you. but now that im totally honest with her its so much better, god..love is amazing :)

[s2headhunter]

yeah guys/girls i really do love her.....but i would just man up but 1 shes really close with my mom and shed probally go into a crying coma and then tell my mom what i told her....IM ALMOST POSITIVE about that.....and i deff dont wont her doing that...if i were for sure she wouldnt tell my mom or something id tell her...and the reason ive hid it i guess she is COMPLETELY like straight edge lol....and when we first met...well she asked me if i did..and back then i dditn often, so i just told her know because i didnt want her to be turned off by that..and i just havent told her ...i dont know ...over the summer i fucked around with this girl i kissed her and shit and told my gf about it....in hopes that she would say it was over lol and i wouldnt have to be the bearer of bad news...but she said lets just forget about it....!!! lol i know she loves me and i know i love her....but i dontknow if its weve just been together so long and i know i love her...or its still really there...because this other girl makes me feel completely differnet.....i dont know ...i might feel out the situation for a bit

[renovator4]

the truth is the truth it doesn't change so be careful of the boom-a-rang effect or duck lol

[SkatePopwar]

lol do you plan on hiding it from her forever?
that must suck, your going to have to tell the truth sometime
jsut tell her..crying or no crying, jsut tell her that you have been smoking bud for a while now, and that you have no wish to stop because its more healthy than alot of other things you could do. maybe present ehr witha few facts. if she really loves you she should accept you for who you are.

[bavet]

Dude, you are a F@#$ up! If you don't see yourself married to a girl then don't waiste their time, life is too short to be F@#$ed around by people like you.

[D.Boone]

yea youll dump you chick go out with the other chick for like a month and then the other chick will dump you for some other dude. same shit happened to me.

[D.Boone]

or you could just be a pimp and go out with them both at the same time. but you just gotta make sure that niether of them find out your dating them both at the same time. prolly wouldnt work given your situation but just a though

[TallulahGreen]

or you could just be a pimp and go out with them both at the same time. but you just gotta make sure that niether of them find out your dating them both at the same time. prolly wouldnt work given your situation but just a though


Good advice.:thumbsup:

[s2headhunter]

well the other girl already knows im dating my gf now..but she still said shed fuck around with me if i stayed with her.....and one of her friends told me that this other chick said she was in love with me.......but i dunno .....lol

[TallulahGreen]

well the other girl already knows im dating my gf now..but she still said shed fuck around with me if i stayed with her.....and one of her friends told me that this other chick said she was in love with me.......but i dunno .....lol


Sounds like a winner to me.:thumbsup:

[bavet]

ahh hell with it try n get a 3 sum

[Garden Knowm]

bro bro bro what the fuck are you thinking
dont leave a girl you love for a girl you are attracted more too. )

this is the endless cycle of life.. new poon.. = wandering KAK

Coolidge effect!!

iloveyou

[Garden Knowm]

ahh hell with it try n get a 3 sum

first piece of solid advice I have heard yet...

A true diplomat!!!

: )

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

[s2headhunter]

LOL, no....that could NEVER happen lol...i mean that would DEFF break me and my gf up if i mentioned a 3 some with that chick.......lol she hates this other girl.......but i still dont know what im going to do lol...this situation sucks ......o well thanks for the advice everyone....

[partyguy420]

just fuck them both... say fuck off to both of em, and put on the playa neckless... thats what im about ready to do

[Garden Knowm]

im in pretty much the exact same boat.

everybody is in this boat who has 2 balls full of... full of...

you know.. that stuff..