Am I a good looking guy or not? Opinions please...

[drgreenthumb1238]

Just wondering cos I split up with my ex fiancee bout a year ago and I've been kinda strugglin with the ladies since. So I was wondering if you'd consider me a good looking guy, I'm pretty short which doesn't help with the ladies. Not a lot I can do bout that though! I've included a more recent pic than my avatar, its still a few months old as I have my lip pierced now. Anyways any opinions gratefully received, oh and please be honest, ya ain't gonna upset me (too much!)

[Nochowderforyou]

Well I'm a guy, who has no gayness in him, not that there's anything wrong with that, and I don't consider you an ugly person. I mean, you look like you're in shape, you don't have any disfiguring scars on your face, or acne or anything. I don't see why you should feel insecure.

Keep looking, the right girl is out there, just don't come off desperate as a lot of girls find that either a chance to tease with the guys heart/mind, or just be turned off altogether.

Good luck! :pimp:

[dryst]

let me let u in on a little secert about women...looks has next to nothing to do with getting the women, its all about attitude...u gotta talk a good game...

the trick is getting them to feel comfortable around u, once u do that ur in like flynn :D the easiest way to go about that is to make em laugh...

[roly mo]

Hi

Well I find you kind of cute looking, maybe you should smile a little more.

Sorry that your having trouble finding a girl, but she might just be around the next corner!

To be quite honest, looks are only part of the attraction for us girls, its no good looking like Jude Law or Brad Pit if you behave like a total pratt with a girl.

Thoughtfulness goes a long way with us girlies and not hogging a conversation or ramming the latest football/tennis/golf/surfing/whatever results down our necks.

All the best, there are more girls on this planet than men, so your lucky, you have a choice:)

Roly Mo aka Maureen;)

[baisez le monde.]

Anyways any opinions gratefully received, oh and please be honest, ya ain't gonna upset me (too much!)

promise you wont be too upset?

[thcbongman]

I think your about average looking.

But I seen butt ugly dudes dating beautiful women. Looks aren't that important.

[stinkyattic]

I think a VERY short, almost shaved haircut would suit you well! You have nice big brown eyes but your bangs are too long.. awww.
That shirt is awesome.

[drgreenthumb1238]

Yeah I promise :p , n I do smile,see :D that was me strikin a bit of a pose lol! am quite chatty round women, work with shit loads of 'em, and most women I know say I'm really funny. Suspect I may have lost my mojo!COuld be cos I'm titchy boy does it suck bein 5ft4!

[DonSmokin]

reminds me of beauty and the geek

[drgreenthumb1238]

reminds me of beauty and the geek

Lol wheres the beauty... :p

[baisez le monde.]

wel.. i think you look like a hobbit.
but hobbits can be cute, and like dryst said, looks dont matta for shit. FOR SHIT. they really dont.

[drgreenthumb1238]

Well I'm the right height baisez..liking the name, a french word they never taught us at school lol! Think I might go get my haircut tomorrow, cos its getting too long now and the same with the sideburns too!

[Dantexg]

Dude you should totally go for the Thom Yorke look, you could pull it off. If you don't know how Thom Yorke is, he's the lead singer from Radiohead.

[drgreenthumb1238]

Yeah heard of him, had a lil band called Radiohead :p I can't have my hair cut that short cos as I'm slender it make me look super scrawny, plus I wear glasses in the day and too short hair really doesn't go, think the length on my avatar will be what I'll go for :D

[drgreenthumb1238]

Here my avatar picture a lil bigger, how does the hair on here seem...

[Inferius]

In that pic you look a bit like a puppy.
A lot of people like puppies.
Just try not to smell like urine.

You could add some fire to your look.
Before you get it all cut off, wear some black, fashion your hair into a mowhawk. You might like it.
And someone else might as well>?

[Pipe Dreams]

You look fine man, lay your game right and youll walk away with the prize.

Atleast you dont look like me eh?

Edit like 4 times: I just realized... I take absolutely HORRIBLE pictures!

[Marable_hebrew]

Mate, ye look fine to me marabonechum, and ive saw ALOT more ugly people then you with VERY smart lass's, (not that your even ugly i would say) ill ask my lass, her opinion, tomorrow, and ill come back reet.

its just a confidence thing. im the same mate,. :/

[BabyFacedAbortion]

You've got an indie-grunge look. I like it, personally. You should learn guitar if you don't already know it. Just kidding, but in all seriousness..you're quite cute and seem some-what charming.

[Marable_hebrew]

You look fine man, lay your game right and youll walk away with the prize.

Atleast you dont look like me eh?

Edit like 4 times: I just realized... I take absolutely HORRIBLE pictures!


Listen to this guy, he knows his shit pal,..

[Marable_hebrew]

You look fine man, lay your game right and youll walk away with the prize.

Atleast you dont look like me eh?

Edit like 4 times: I just realized... I take absolutely HORRIBLE pictures!

mate, there's nowt wrong with you,. seriously

bet you've had more shag's then me,. put i that way,...LOL

your mind plays games on you,same as everybody's,.
somedays we look good, somedays we all feel/look like SHIT,../

[someuser]

am quite chatty round women, work with shit loads of 'em, and most women I know say I'm really funny. Suspect I may have lost my mojo!COuld be cos I'm titchy boy does it suck bein 5ft4!

Hey dude,

One of the biggest 'pimps' I know is a dude who is on the short side (like 5'6") and like you, very chatty. Chicks really dug it... Some girls like a more non-threatening 'pretty boy' type. Dont get me wrong, not all women are going to go for it (hell, not all women would even go for some of hollywood's A celebs, so no shame there), but you're certainly not out of the game in my opinion.

I would NOT suggest cutting your hair. Grow it out a little, maybe grow some facial hair, and keep yourself in decent condition at the gym (not suggesting you bulk up, just keep toned). I would bet money if you did those things you would probably get more action then some of my 6' + friends.

Just one word of warning bro:

Be VERY careful about not falling into the 'friendship' role (unless that is what you want). I found that while a lot of short dude with that 'pretty boy' look get a lot of 'play', too often it turns to a 'friendship' if they are too nice. Be chatty, but dont be afraid to be an asshole too.

[BabySnookums]

no....not in my opinion....sorry

[drgreenthumb1238]

Snookums, fair enough, is there anything in particular you feel makes me not good looking?

Someuser, I suspect you are right bout the whole "friends thing" but I find it hard to be an asshole unless I've had quite a lot to drink, then bizarrely it comes quite naturally! I still think I'm gonna go get my haircut later on today, if nothing else I'm getting fed up of having to condition my hair every day!

BabyFacedAbortion, you hit the nail on the head there! I am a bit of a rock lad(at 26!) so I wouldn't have too preppy a haircut I don't reckon, and as for me charming, well you've made me blush :p

Marable, are you from Yorkshire by any chance lol!?!

Inferius, thankfully I don't smell of piss, you'll be pleased to hear :D I've done the more rocky look before(albeit without a mohican) but I don't think it suits me too well sadly.

[Pipe Dreams]

mate, there's nowt wrong with you,. seriously

bet you've had more shag's then me,. put i that way,...LOL

your mind plays games on you,same as everybody's,.
somedays we look good, somedays we all feel/look like SHIT,../

Nah man, Im just sayin I may not be the best looking guy, but I definitely get my share of ass.

Girls dont go for all looks man.

[HazmatTHC]

Awwwww, I think you're cute looking. :)

[Cheery Cherry]

Awww...sweetie...the real question is...honestly...how do YOU feel about yourself and the way you look? Because really, that's all that matters. If you're not happy with yourself, it will show no matter how chatty/funny/charming you are. And women, generally, love confident men.

[drgreenthumb1238]

Ok went for the chop(so to speak!) yesterday and here are the results....

[someuser]

Furby!!!!

[drgreenthumb1238]

Lol!I had a gizmo furby once, and while I was asleep it jus went nuts,let out this horrible electronic scream and scared the shit out of me! After that, its all it ever did when I put the batteries back in...true story

[zephyrinne]

I think you're cute.. I don't see a problem anywhere. But I don't like the spikey look, but it's not because of you.. I just don't like that look period on any guys. lol.

But for real, it all just matters how you feel about yourself. Don't worry about having trouble with ladies, you're still very young.. and they will come around. You seem charming and funny.. and girls love that.

Actually.. in that last pic, I'd say you kinda look like Charlie Clouser at first glance, minus spikey hair. He used to play keyboards on tour with NIN a few years back. Maybe it's just me, but I think you kinda look like him. Not a bad thing at all. :)

[drgreenthumb1238]

Lol! Why thank you! As for the spikes, I had my hair cut so its textured so spikes aren't the only option :) and as for being very young, I ain't that young!

[BabySnookums]

Snookums, fair enough, is there anything in particular you feel makes me not good looking?



ok i dont want anyone getting mad at me for answering this lol...cuz i was asked....

i opened your pic up again to try and get a good grasp on what exactly makes me think your not good looking. first i just looked at the shirt, and in general how you're dressed. not bad...i was kinda thinkin somethin bout the face/ears...so what i did is i held my hand up against the picture to where i could only see from the middle of your nose down. once again...not bad....

so i've come to the conclusion that it must be a combo of hair, ear size/shape, and the way your eyes look.

i'm reaaaaaaaaaally gonna get flamed for this, but have you ever seen "Full House"? your eyes kinda look like the Olsen twins eyes did when they were very little girls....kinda seems too wide...too open...doesn't match the rest of you very well....

i doubt any of this makes sense LOL...but thats all i can come up with...

but yeah...your not like, FUGLY or anything...but i just, personally, don't find you attractive (i have weird tastes)

EDIT: just went back and looked again LOL....ok its mostly the ear and the hair...face is ok enough....just the ear and hair :thumbsup:

[Just A Beginner]

The short spikey hair suits you a LOT better :)

[KiEfBoyjBm]

"...just went back and looked again LOL....ok its mostly the ear and the hair...face is ok enough....just the ear and hair :thumbsup:

Sweet, all you have to do is cut off all your hair and your ears as well, and you'll be on your way to being a stud...as long as your not a slob, live and let live.

I think your missing just one thing in that pic...a huge fucking blunt of chronic.

Happy Tokin'

[sensistar]

wel.. i think you look like a hobbit.
but hobbits can be cute, and like dryst said, looks dont matta for shit. FOR SHIT. they really dont.


yea its the ears ....and the somewhat EMO look ....
take your ass down to pac sun and get some hurley shirts ...
and a tight ass hat you'll be straight .....
find a ok lookin chubby at a grocery store ...you know like a confidence booster.....you know the girl thats just like blah and wierd lookin ...
those girls are perty easy to score on ...esspecially because your not that bad lookin so she'll think your cool......work your way around they usually have a friend thats a little hotter ......
hell maybe they 'll even smoke /////
just do it ....if they say no you'll only feel wierd till your gone.....
or become a bad ass dj ...im chubby and i slay mad clam.......
my wife hates it ...just by confidence alone she gets so jelous....
dont be afraid to be the super nice guy for a while also ...sluts that dont want to be sluts anymore love that shit...be like --ahh man that sucks alot---
and never make a move till she gives you that feeling


lol thats me on the left and my brother on the right and we do alright lol
and our wives

[fikusroot]

You seem like a good guy. You look like you've got some good vibes. Your at a point where you and not your looks define who you are. Some people are so ugly it hinders then in life. Some people are so attractive that they never really have to do anything. You are just right though. You choose you're own destiny. Quit placing so much emphasis on your looks and start working on being able to back it up.

[kwik nasty]

he looks scary

[2mass]

Ok went for the chop(so to speak!) yesterday and here are the results....


Nice haircut dude, that first pic u put up I didn`t think u looked very nice at all but I didn`t say anything cos I didn`t want 2 be unkind, but the second pic is a vast improvement, I`d say u are a pretty good lookin guy, long hair didn`t suit u, keep it short, no longer than it is now and you`ll look pretty good.

[Inferius]

Yeah that new haircut is definately cooler than your old dungeons and dragons look.
Now, I wonder how your voice matches your punkish look...
But otherwise, vast improvement. I think your old haircut was making you have that roundish big eyed look. And trust me, I know that big eye look. I see it everytime I walk into a mirror.

[Da Boy Genious]

He's no Tek but ummm, ..... confidence? Yea (insert self esteem boosting copliments here) so you look a little bit like smeagel, girls like lord of the rings.:thumbsup:

[mushypeas]

i cant tell yer pic is too blurri

[ksizzle]

you look so much like my guitar teacher it's scary...... If he comes in with that haircut tomorrow, u wanna go smoke or something?

[drgreenthumb1238]

Well the spikey look didn't work, and as I'm skinny I thought why not embrace the emo look! So I dyed my hair black and have grown it again...any thought?

[stinkyattic]

aww I though the spiky look worked pretty well! your stylist cut it too long/tall though... but in general it was a good look!
now, about that tie... :D

[drgreenthumb1238]

Hey don't pick on the tie lol!I'll post another pic tomorrow, wearing my waistcoat and one of my better ties :p lol!

[Lamperus]

I'm a guy, and I'm not gay, so this opinion really has no warrant ... NONETHELESS ... I think you're pretty good looking. On the other hand, I'm ugly as sin, so, that makes my opinion even less valid. >_O

[Samwhore]

your not bad looking, id say fair, your just not my type, ;)

[higher4hockey]

im with stinky, cut your hair. also shave, stand up straight, and keep your hands out of your pockets at all times.

[RyanTheCaveman]

Well I'm a guy, who has no gayness in him, not that there's anything wrong with that, and I don't consider you an ugly person. I mean, you look like you're in shape, you don't have any disfiguring scars on your face, or acne or anything. I don't see why you should feel insecure.

Keep looking, the right girl is out there, just don't come off desperate as a lot of girls find that either a chance to tease with the guys heart/mind, or just be turned off altogether.

Good luck! :pimp:

Agreed!





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[JetFoi34]

i would say your trying too hard, just be yourself
im not really to talk though