Ideal Significant Other

[justinsane]

Hey everyone. Most people have a pretty good idea of what kind of person theyd like to have a relationship with. What theyre into, looks, personality, music tastes ect.

anyway, lets all take the time to wish for something many of us will never get... dammit. but dont get too down... we ALL have Mary Jane. and she aims to please.

I want to be with a girl who enjoys smoking, having a beer, carrying out a conversation and that can just keep calm about the stuff that alot of girls i know, get real tense about.

I have YET to find a girl that enjoys smoking and going to jam band concerts and just dancing around soaking up the enviornment. Disc golf, hacky sack, and intellect are all plusses. tye dye and opinions are helpful. having fun is a must.

try it out!

[Pipe Dreams]

I have my ideal "significant other"

[lagstronaut]

somebody who is a relaxed yet bubbly person, doesnt get mad at stupid things that her friends probably would, and always has good intentions

[baisez le monde.]

patrick

[Professor Dan K.]

a girl who i can truly feel comfortable talking to about anything, gorgeous, funny smart, and of course, loves to smoke as much as i do. also loves a variety of music, the only music i dont really like is mainstream rap and country, so it shouldnt be hard to find someone who doesnt like at least a little bit of the music i do.

[LIP]

My ideal significant other? A blow up doll that has a smile.

[someuser]

My ideal chick:

Brown hair, brown eyes, pretty face, petite body, creative, loves animals, and a little on the country side (or atleast likes to enjoy doing some cool stuff like riding 4-wheelers, motorcycles, camping, rafting, ect). I cant stand Girly girls so she has to be able to hang with the guys, but does need to be a little feminine.

Occasional beer and or smoker (weed only) is a bonus. I dont want a total stoner or drunk though... No kids is a big plus as well.

[EbelEyes]

Somebody who is nice, can enjoy a Mary Jane with me, has her own opinions, tries to be herself and nothing else, and smart.

Same goes for a guy.

I'm never going to have this, or anything for that matter.

[Frivolous248]

A really pretty chick (not a hot slut, but pretty/cute) that tokes of course, and it just all around chill. Like a really good friend with boobs who I like to talk to and feel comfortable with.

[birdgirl73]

Someone who's funny, smart and compassionate was at the top of my list. Looks were far less of a priority, and the truth is that looks can and do change over time. In the end you want to make sure you're left with someone who's funny and intelligent when you're old and gray and wrinkled.

Fortunately I'm not hopelessly old, gray or wrinkled just yet. And even more fortunatley, my husband has grown more attractive over the years rather than less. The bad news is our golden years are still out in front of us. So we may both lose every ounce of attractiveness and look like absolute toads before we come to the end of our run together. At least once we reach the toad years, however, we'll still be able to make each other laugh!

[kknight]

I've actually found my ideal girl I think. Or atleast as close to ideal and feasibly possible for me to track down. Of course life wouldn't be so fun if we could tailor everything to our exact liking (or would it :D ) and she has her lesser than better attributes but they are far and few from mine.

She is a generally nice person, easy going, on the cover she is slightly conservative but we both listen to the same music (rock) and though we look from drastically different social clicks, we both share attributes of each and we seem to form a good balance.

She is drop-dead goregeous, tall, blond and somewhat "barbie dollish" but she is a makeup consultant and does all of that good stuff so she knows how to make herself look good without looking like she is trying to look good.

We have been together for awhile now and been through hell and back but it works and we enjoy it.

And if she would only enjoy toking as much as I do, she would actually be my ideal girl. :D

[partyguy420]

somebody who is a relaxed yet bubbly person, doesnt get mad at stupid things that her friends probably would, and always has good intentions

yep, thats the perfect girl for me... also, if she has boobs that are right in between big and small, and has a preaty smile... and a nice size ass.... and a burnet or blonde...

her name is kirsty, except i dont seam to be able to tell her that...

[IamTheWalrus]

already found mine...and sadly lost her.....so...aqward huh

[bavet]

I thought I had the right one but guess opposites don't always work out, I'm unhappy in my relationship. Everything I need in it, isn't what I got :(

[midlifecrisis]

Don't look to hard you might pass up the one....you know its good when you forget what you're looking for.

[phillysluts420]

A guy taller then me with dark hair and eyes ... likes to smoke bud as much as me, has to be sexxxy, well off or at least has money to spend on me sometimes ;-D, funny, smart, into art, likes good music ... anyone know where i can get one?

[Inferius]

6 tongues, a boob, maybe a boob and 1/2, and a large coke.
To go please.

[rainbow_jo]

I'm quite happy just being me, but I've got a great guy.
He's gorgeous, funny, clever and makes great joints and cups of tea! :)

[Satan666]

Video Games
Bud
Outgoing
Not a cunt.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

I've had many 'ideal' significant others..it's bizarre, my need changes as I get older. When I was younger, I desperately needed a father like figure, to keep me in control, take care of me, ect. Then I needed to take care of someone, so I found him and he was a total druggie/lush and at the time it was great. Now I've got this inbetween guy where we're 'friends with benefits' even though he's really my ideal guy (strong, funny, cute, sensitive, great smile, drinks a bit, pops pills like me, used to smoke, charming and can make me melt with only a few words), minus the fact he's getting locked up soon.

[Samwhore]

yep, thats the perfect girl for me... also, if she has boobs that are right in between big and small, and has a preaty smile... and a nice size ass.... and a burnet or blonde...

her name is kirsty, except i dont seam to be able to tell her that...

kirsty???? im sorrrrrrrrrrry, what she told you was pretty fucked up

[YahtzeeG]

my ideal other is 5'7" and 105.54 pounds. and her name has to be Ashley.

[MaryJaneScott]

My ideal significant other? A blow up doll that has a smile.

Ask Santa. And then don't be naughty.

[Shannon]

Eli<3

[az666]

I wish I knew

[Its a Plant]

Hmm..

She's gotta be one-of-a-kind, open minded, down to earth, wity, & full of life. Materialistic is a no-no. While it's the personality that ultimately brings out TRUE beauty, it wouldn't hurt if she had a cute smile.

In short, natural beauty, inside and out, and she's perfect. ~

[five0addict]

already been found :D
gone to MUCH more school but still not smarter than me, beautiful with D size tits, and shes the only person i know that smokes more than me!
what more could you ask for lol

[blackbarbie]

My ideal:
-not fat
-good hygiene
-should be fairly social
-dresses nice (Polo)
-can't be a pretty boy
-no kids/stds
-preferably not a ho
-no rappers
-must be cute. don't care if people think this is shallow - i have to find you attractive
-a gentleman
-easygoing
-very masculine
-must smoke green
-older than me

[thcbongman]

My ideal woman has a beautiful voice that sings to me in the wind, every word, succumbs me to love. Beholds a passion that cannot be crushed, strong, yet possesses a fragile calm and laissez-faire attitude. Bedroom eyes that draw you to her soul. Adventurous, opened-minded, intelligent, nurturing like a mother. One that loves to go to concerts, festivals, party, also enjoys sitting by a campfire on a beautiful summer day, and skiing on a cold winter day.

[slowlickitysplit]

Someone who's funny, smart and compassionate was at the top of my list. Looks were far less of a priority, and the truth is that looks can and do change over time. In the end you want to make sure you're left with someone who's funny and intelligent when you're old and gray and wrinkled.

Fortunately I'm not hopelessly old, gray or wrinkled just yet. And even more fortunatley, my husband has grown more attractive over the years rather than less. The bad news is our golden years are still out in front of us. So we may both lose every ounce of attractiveness and look like absolute toads before we come to the end of our run together. At least once we reach the toad years, however, we'll still be able to make each other laugh!
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Birdgirl....you have a sister? That was very well stated.

[someuser]

Looks were far less of a priority, and the truth is that looks can and do change over time. In the end you want to make sure you're left with someone who's funny and intelligent when you're old and gray and wrinkled.


Looks certainly can and do change, of course, over time. However, mutual physical attraction is very fundamental in every long-term successful relationship I've seen. Ideally, even as two people grow older and 'change' (physically) they will continue to find beauty in one another... I think after a while how you perceive your significant other (physically) evolves... But in the beginning I dont think simply a smart/compassionate/ect type is going to be enough.

I think in our puritanical based society we have this tendency to down play sex and how crucial it is in our lives... Some of us like to kid ourselves into believing sex is somehow a 'lesser' important attribute compared to 'intelligence', 'success', 'personality', ect. I think such thinking is flawed :) I never understood why some adults have such a conscious (or subconscious) aversion to placing attraction/sex high on their list of important qualities... I mean, seriously, who are we really fooling? :stoned:

[slowlickitysplit]

4 foot tall with a flat head to rest my drink on!

[Cheery Cherry]

My ideal would be someone who has a high libido, open-minded, kind, loving, funny, willing to try new things (in bed), sexy, intelligent, a little cocky is okay too, mature but likes to goof around and is playful, strong (mentally and physically), and loyal. OH and HONEST is up there too. Did I mention high sex drive?

[crudemood]

im going to find out in a few days, wish me luck.
if not, i'm taking it out on the world
seriously though if not, im done looking for the one for a bit. augh too much drama :mad:

[gabee42ee]

i met him ... and lost him ... i hope i get him back :(
He was good looking tall shaggy hair ... just my type ... listened to good music... smoked just as much herb as me ... hada job... but he wasn't the type u can stay with for longer then a month or so ... oh well i guess a guy who can be commited and easy to talk to and an understanding guy (With all of the qualities listed above) would make my ideal man