Normal?

[Whos Carl]

Does anybody ever get the feeling there not getting there share? Everybody else seems to be doing it all the time while you aren't? Everyone else talks about it but you have no stories or experiences?

Im 19 and an average looking guy. Nothing special just normal. 6"4 average build I suppose.

So Im 19 I just seem to be shit with ladies. I dont no what is. I just never seem to be able to talk to females.

But I have loads of mates quite popular go out into town alot smoke weed with loads of people. Never argue with anyone never cause trouble or get into fights.

Its a mystery anyone else got this?

[Frivolous248]

Yeah, I know exactly what you mean.

[dryst]

the trick is to make em feel comfortable...it doesnt matter what u look like...i seen ugly dudes with dime peices...once u make em feel comfortable its pretty ez to get in the panties :D not that im that kinda guy...but...w/e floats ur boat right?....anywayz chicks hate guys that have no confidence, that studder over their words, its a turn off....make em laugh, thats the easiest way, for me at least

[orangeman]

All you have to do is get zooted and go talk to some girls. It loosens you up and makes it easier, and heres an idea. Even though you've done it high when you become sober it might be easier since you already had the experience when high.

[Mean Green Charlene]

Also...don't show you want it. If a girl knows you're looking to hook up, chances are it wont happen. thats just my 2cents.

[orangeman]

Also...don't show you want it. If a girl knows you're looking to hook up, chances are it wont happen. thats just my 2cents.

Actually that is a good thing around here lol, if a girl already likes you but seem to be to too shy if shes for sure you like her then she'll give signs she likes you to and shit after that it gets pretty comfortable and eventually you've got a couple lolz.

[azure]

i can make small talk with girls normally, 10x better when im a bit pissed, but its soo boring for me.
and its always with ones i already knowish, its probably impossible to get into a decent convo with a stranger.
stupid the way lads always have to initiate it as well.

btw orangeman that is the best word ive heard in a while, i might have to spread it to england if it hasnt already.
"zooted" - classic

[orangeman]

i can make small talk with girls normally, 10x better when im a bit pissed, but its soo boring for me.
and its always with ones i already knowish, its probably impossible to get into a decent convo with a stranger.
stupid the way lads always have to initiate it as well.

btw orangeman that is the best word ive heard in a while, i might have to spread it to england if it hasnt already.
"zooted" - classic

Lol, I heard it from some "Kids" in NY, lol if anyone knows what I'm hinting at.

[Frivolous248]

I don't remember them saying zooted in that movie. I gotta start usin' that though, pretty cool term.

I don't really get any chances to talk to chicks other than school though, I don't get out much. I'm used to it though. I'll just like...get a hooker. Its all good.

[orangeman]

I don't remember them saying zooted in that movie. I gotta start usin' that though, pretty cool term.


Go back and watch the part where they are in the subway train. From the beginning of them going in the subway train. You'll hear Casper say it.

[Mean Green Charlene]

Actually that is a good thing around here lol, if a girl already likes you but seem to be to too shy if shes for sure you like her then she'll give signs she likes you to and shit after that it gets pretty comfortable and eventually you've got a couple lolz.

obviously show enough interest to keep them entertained, and just play it "cool".

Me and a bud and two girls were hanging out, and my friend is always just making it obvious hes a hornball..i ended up with both of them by just talking, and not showing any sign of sexual needs from them.:cool:

[Mean Green Charlene]

Go back and watch the part where they are in the subway train. From the beginning of them going in the subway train. You'll hear Casper say it.

I remember watching that movie a long time ago, i tried searching for it on bitlord..nothing specific is coming up. "kids on the raido" "Disney kids" etc
any suggestions? :(

[AlwaysBlazed]

yeah getting high works for me. Girls think im smarter, funnier, and just seem to like me much better when im stoned (not drunk tho, fuck alchahol).

[bavet]

If you have trouble talking to girls you are attractive to, try talking to some you arnt really attracted to or ones that are like taken for practice. Then move up. Ask questions about them or comment on things they had control over, like their shoes, or how they dressed. Show your are really listening to them. Like is she's telling you about a bad day at work and says "my boss is such a creap", repeate it back to her "oh really your boss is a creep"? And of course make em laugh. Best off triing not to get in their pants and well it will be easier to get in.

[orangeman]

I remember watching that movie a long time ago, i tried searching for it on bitlord..nothing specific is coming up. "kids on the raido" "Disney kids" etc
any suggestions? :(

Just look for a file that may have the words "Larry Clark" or "1995" in there. Those are probably the best keywords I could give you.

[Mean Green Charlene]

Thanks man.

[Frivolous248]

If you have trouble talking to girls you are attractive to, try talking to some you arnt really attracted to or ones that are like taken for practice. Then move up. Ask questions about them or comment on things they had control over, like their shoes, or how they dressed. Show your are really listening to them. Like is she's telling you about a bad day at work and says "my boss is such a creap", repeate it back to her "oh really your boss is a creep"? And of course make em laugh. Best off triing not to get in their pants and well it will be easier to get in.

Yeah, but see I would hate to have an ugly chick hit on me...so I would never wanna do that to a chick. Ya' know, be that guy who girls wish didn't try and talk to them.

[huh]

you should look into doing ecstasy and going to clubs. you will be able to talk to anybody you look at without a problem. but if you arent into that stuff just get trashed and go to parties and start talking to ppl.

[dutch.lover]

you should look into doing ecstasy and going to clubs. you will be able to talk to anybody you look at without a problem. but if you arent into that stuff just get trashed and go to parties and start talking to ppl.

i wouldn't advise using drugs to talk to girls. if you keep on doing that, eventually you are going to convince urself that u arent able to approach girls unless ur high. thats no good. also, like other people have said, confidence is a HUGE thing to have to attract ladies. even if the guy is an asshole, if he is confident/charming it (i hate to admit it) is easily excusable. think about it; how pathetic would it sound if a girl found out that the only way u were able to talk to them was with an intoxicated mind?!:confused: