Catholic question

[funky not a junky]

Hey stoners. I was just goin online to see if there were any catholics on the boards because i have a questoin. I just wanted to know if it would be okay for a catholic to get oral sex. I am 16 years old and i have been going out with this girl (who is beautiful) for about 4 months and wanted to know if it would be alright to get a bj. She wants to give me a bj, most likely because it would make me happy and she wants whatever will make me happy. Thnx for the help

[downundadude]

man 4 months.....and u havnt tapped that yet... you must be playing hard to get.... im sorry... if i was you i would flop it out and let what ever happens happens it will bond your relationship im sure, but you also must give oral back.. shit just dont come for free bro.... hhahaha get in there tiger

[downundadude]

oh sorry i just relised im not catholic, i would not listen to my last post!

[funky not a junky]

hahha yeaaa. it was funny when u realized u werent catholic. But yea catholic me and catholic her. I know she will be awesome at it

[Mean Green Charlene]

Im sure its fine..just dont get her pregnant.

[funky not a junky]

i just wanna hear from another catholic person on the boards. Like their full fledged opinion.

[halo]

I'm catholic. If you are trying to be all religous and stuff than no that would not be acceptable as it is considered adultery--which includes basically any stimulation of the genitalia outside of marriage. Even masturbation. Personally im not very religous and really dont give a damn what the church has to say about my life. But if you are trying to be a good catholic boy than no oral sex would not be permissable. Neither would jacking off or even touching her boob.

[Eraserhead71]

yeah, shes just not supposed to take bc apparently or something... fuck it. i dunno

[Nylo]

I'm catholic and I have to disagree with the above post; halo is right. It's wrong if you're trying to be strictly dedicated to your religion. We all sin, it's our nature. I think it's important to live and gain experience from life, so I'd say go with your gut. I think if you guys are close and care for eachother it's all good; just my personal opinion.

Just don't be under the impression that Christianity says anything like take a BJ from whoever wants to give you one :P Good luck man :D Glad you've got a great girl.

[partyguy420]

fuck all religon is my religon.... and that includes, saying fuck of to my religon, im not gonna let some guy tell me weather or not i can have sex... i will let my mind, and body, and the mind of the girl im with decide that...

[Nylo]

fuck all religon is my religon.... and that includes, saying fuck of to my religon, im not gonna let some guy tell me weather or not i can have sex... i will let my mind, and body, and the mind of the girl im with decide that...

That's actually hedonism; but whatever. More power to ya, brotha' :dance:

[dutch.lover]

I'm not religious either, and needless to say I disagree with a lot of things religions like christianity and catholicism forbid. Would god want you to be unhappy? No. Masturbation, sex, a closer relationship to the one u love- those are all great things, and whos right is it to stop you from all of those things? If god really exists I see him as a being who wants happiness and peace for everyone. And being an irrational hardass is definitely not part of that.

[harris7]

Here is my non-believer opinion.

The “rules” that “god” has put forth had good reasons behind them. And it wasn’t so that you would avoid hell. They helped people live better/healthier lives.

Not having sex until marriage was probably meant to stop bastard children and the mothers stranded with them. Because, back then there was no birth control.

Another example that I have half forgotten is the promotion of drinking alcohol. This was probably because beer and wine were the safest (bacteria free) beverages around at that time.

You probably could look around on the net and find a bunch of other good things they teach you. I read all about it once.

[someuser]

I'm Catholic funky not a junky, and I can tell you yeah, oral sex is looked down on by the Church. So, if you care about the Church then wait till you're married and dont use any kind of birth control... Ever.


However, if you're like the rest of us 'normal' people I say not only should you get a BJ you should maybe eat her out too and maybe even, if you feel you're ready, consider sex (make sure someone is on birth control though).

[CritiKalBill]

I wonder how many Catholic priests have oral sex? And from who?

[the yeag]

The pontiff of pot has spoken...... oral is not immoral....get some head young man

[Purple Banana]

But then why would "god" allow women to have a clitoris? It serves no purpose in the sex act itself other than to facilitate pleasure.

Someone's gotta practice somehow. I say do as you please, and don't let the Catholic church bring you down. Many priests really don't follow the religion's sexual rules...

I was a Catholic once... Thank "god" I'm an Atheist now :D

[Frivolous248]

Are you fucking serious?

Sorry man, I despise religion, and I think its ridiculous that you won't take a BJ cause your afraid it might go against your religion.

[partyguy420]

and if premarital intamancy is so wrong, and being gay is wrong acording to most curches... wouldnt touching and moletsing little boys be aginst gods rules, how many catolic preists or what ever have you heard about molesting little boys?

[WEED_UK]

I have the perfect answer......If u want i`ll fuck her....that that way you would have done nothing wrong...........Simple
:dance:

[EckyThump]

I have the perfect answer......If u want i`ll fuck her....that that way you would have done nothing wrong...........Simple
:dance:

Am with my felliow Uk mon on this.. :stoned:

[Smokin EnDo]

I am an atheist. I attend a Catholic High School. This is very immoral from your perspective. I am not joking and if you wish to believe in that shit its not my call but under your beliefs you may not let tha girl suck you off. You may also not open-mouth kiss her, touch her sexually, get impure ideas about her, or jerk off. Your faith not mine.

[DonnieDarko]

If you even think about getting a BJ, and you happen to die before you go to confession on Saturday, you could end up in hell, or at least spend some time in purgatory. I learned this from Catholic nuns in the 1960s ... they wouldn't lie.

[harris7]

Jesus says that lust out of marriage is bad.

There's your answer.

yes but why did he say this...

I dont think he was saying that the act is implicitly bad. I believe he was advising against it because it could bring bad things (much more so then)

another topic

jerkin off is a black sin, one in which you cannot be fogiven. so i'm going to assume your jacked it so your alredy fucked. so come join the rest of us and have some fun :rasta: :thumbsup: :dance:

[WEED_UK]

Originally Posted by UnitedWeFall
Jesus says that lust out of marriage is bad.

There's your answer.

So why the fuck did mary have a baby by god.........or did i miss the mary/god marriage bit in my R.E lessons at school?

I`d love to seen that marriage
Do you mary take god to be your lawful wedded husband?

Mary " I DO"

God-

God-

Where the fuck are u?

Bollocks to it
I bet you belive in father christmas,fairys and pixies.....actually dont answer!
You die and turn into plant food,coal or oil
God- Do you take mary to be your lawful wedded wife?

[funky not a junky]

Im ready to get some ORAL!

Thanks guys

[WEED_UK]

Das it my man..................trust me you only live once.....enjoy

make sure you give it a good wash....lol

and goodluck
hope i didn`t offend you

[funky not a junky]

nah man its actually kinda hard to upset me. If i remember ill post after the deed is done. Im hoping halloween, and im also hoping to be high.

[WEED_UK]

Goodluck

[Frivolous248]

Im ready to get some ORAL!

Thanks guys

Glad to hear it!

[partyguy420]

thank god that you have decided to get a BJ...plus, you can just put a ring on both of your fingers... and be like we are married, we can fuck now, and not go to hell... also... theres a saying about jacking off that my mom told me when she cought me one time(she didnt realy catch me, and my mom didnt tell me this, it was a ubuddys mom that told me...)

its better for your seed to be spilled inside of a whore, then it is for your seed to fall on the floor....

[biohazard]

if youre gonna get oral, why not go all the way too?

oh and yeah glad to hear your mind is not corrupted by religion.

[Babr]

I think if she wants to, and you want to then just do it. I was raised Catholic, but just couldn't live by man made rules. But that's just me.

If you want to play by their rules, then yes I suppose it's a sin, but imho I just can't see why it would be, but whatever lol.

Relax, have a good time, and be nice and reciprocate to her, and try not to think of the religious repurcussions cause that'll just rent space in your head and well you want to focus and enjoy :)

[Phire210]

Don't turn down head man, not cool. As i've already read you decided to go on with it and I say thank you man. You ask why I thank you, and I reply by saying that because you decided to get your knob slobbed on, so therefor I now don't have to track you down and swiftly backhand you for turning down some head. lol. Hope all goes well brother, peace.

[copelandia]

I don't think it is a sin as long as she wears her plaid skirt. :D

[t3hl0st]

do you masturbate?

im assuming so

In that case you fall into the grey area alot of us "catholics" fall into.

Now in this grey area you have to decide for yourself which rules you want to abide by.

you can get head and STILL be a good catholic...



my 2 cents

[PdoubleOTY]

im a confirmed catholic, went to 2 years of schooling to be confirmed etc....and i cant really stand catholics..i never really go to church but i still consider myself religious. as whats-his/her-face posted earlier, do unto others as you would do to yourself, etc. love everyone around you and respect everything and thats about all God could ask..if she wants to give you head, respect that, and respect yourself for wanting it and go for it!