Is this wrong?

[Acouwaila]

Well ive got this friend here at college

she is kinda depressed because her ex bf (and best friend) are going to start dating....they are both her real good friends..and the guy is also her ex though...

before this happened I was tryin to get her to smoke with me (not really trying to get her to but telling her its less harmful than alcohol, and she drinks too) so anyways...im trying to tell ehr that smoking will make her feel better

I know it sounds like that it soudns like a cheap escape from reality and some non smokers would be most likely to say that you need to rise above and learn to deal with issues with something other than using marijuana...

anyways she said shes gonna smoke with me...

but now I kinda feel bad about it, and I dont know why

[flamingskullballs]

if you had the ability to get her to smoke, by saying its less harmful than alcohol...then she didnt have a big defense, therefor worry, about it anyways

just make sure you put the E in her soda

wait.....can you put MDMA in soda and not destroy it?

[Acouwaila]

well no she never really tried to say it was harmful for u in the first place...she actually said she would eventunally smoke but it seemed like she didnt want to (it seemed like she had the perception of it like everyone does before they start using it)

[flamingskullballs]

well hey, if she is in the situation and wants to say no, dont force her

but dont take away her option to use it either

and dont just giggle and watch family guy, actually talk to her, so she gets some use out of it

[Acouwaila]

well of course...Im gonna let her experience her favorite bands dave mathews under the influence..

Since a lot of people dont get high (or atleast dont fully notice the effects) the first time they smoke...

im hoping she does...i want to rid her of her mental pain and open her world to harmless cannabis

[Ol Schwaggy Bastard]

Explain this to her. Tell her you feel kinda bad and don't want her to feel pressured, and tell her the risk of her depression leading to ganja as an emotional crutch. Let her hear this, not us, man.

[Acouwaila]

damn...you're right^^ thanks man

[Ol Schwaggy Bastard]

No problem, I like being right :p

[andruejaysin]

wait.....can you put MDMA in soda and not destroy it?Certainly. All phenethylamines are quite stable, even in solution. Probably tastes pretty shitty.

[Ol Schwaggy Bastard]

Certainly. All phenethylamines are quite stable, even in solution. Probably tastes pretty shitty.

tastes horrible

[LIP]

Dont feel bad or guilty. You've done an amazing thing.

Now, if she wants to get completely wasted, she can do it with weed and be safe. If she did it with alcohol she could easily die.

You could have introduced her to something that may one day save her life.

And no one here can disagree with me.

And also cannabis smokers are significantly less likely to become depressed, even though its classed as a depresant.

[Abattoir Dream]

LIP, youve got a good point, hes done a great thing lol, plus, maybe she can get her friends to smoke it, and they tell their friends.... and there will be more girl tokers, and that cant be a bad thing at all....good man!

[Ol Schwaggy Bastard]

Dont feel bad or guilty. You've done an amazing thing.

Now, if she wants to get completely wasted, she can do it with weed and be safe. If she did it with alcohol she could easily die.

You could have introduced her to something that may one day save her life.

And no one here can disagree with me.

And also cannabis smokers are significantly less likely to become depressed, even though its classed as a depresant.

it's an amazing thing as long as she doesn't feel peer-pressured into trying it prematurely. goading somebody into using an illegal substance they don't feel totally comfortable about isn't usually an amazing thing.

[yoda]

make it clear to her your not pressuring her to do it, just that your offering her an option that helps you out.

[LIP]

it's an amazing thing as long as she doesn't feel peer-pressured into trying it prematurely. goading somebody into using an illegal substance they don't feel totally comfortable about isn't usually an amazing thing.

I agree, but i dont think he was pressuring her.

[suhl]

well i really dont see the difference in smoking to feel better or popping prozac to feel better, except smoking doesnt have the side effect of suicidal thoughts.

[wadejason]

look this is probably too late as you have already smoekd her out by now but its like this. it didnt sound to me that you were forcing her to smoke out with you. she said shed try it so there you go. on the contray maybe if she understands how much "safer" cannabis is compared to alcohol, ie:not only the effects but maybe even the people; then she'll toke more than drink. i dont think this has anything to do with feelings. some people say the reason why people get into drugs is to "take away the pain" and all that bad stuff. i didnt...i got into smoking because i never liked drinking (lots of alcoholism in the family too) and because smoking is FUN. dont forget to tell her that shes doing something new and fun and theres a whole world out there waiting to embrace in the stony world.

i dont know just my 2 cents. i hope she has fun smokin with you guys. hopefully she doesnt drink as much, and hopefully she works this ugly shit out with her ex bf and her best friend or whatever...