condom - to use or not to use?

[JaggedEdge]

Ok this is for all the youngsters on this site. We have all been told the dangers of sex and how a condom will help reduce preganancy risk and Std's to a certain extent. I assume or at least hope that you are using them if you are sleeping around or just in highschool.

Anyway, I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year 4 months hand stopped using condoms about 3 months into our relationship because she got on the pill. Anyone who has had unprotected sex knows how much better it feels. We were both really sick this past week and didn't bother to go pick up the pills on time and her prescribtion ran out so now she has to go back to the gyno in order to get something new. So I go pick up a pack of condoms, pop one on and begin to go at it and realize I CAN'T FEEL SHIT. She also said it felt really weird and not nearly as good. I ended up having to finish with my hand due to a lack of sensation.

Moral of the story is this. Before you think about having unprotected sex think about STD's and a little pot smoker you may produce, but also think about how much it is going to suck when you have to wrap your shit up agian.

[Samwhore]

the moral of the story should be "always use protection", dont matter if its condoms, pills, injections, patches, or rings, protection is protection

[kiwi]

:confused: I was one the PILL for five years when I fell pregnant with my son who is now nearly 14. Nothing is 100% proof but the moral to the story is that you need to stay safe so..... COVER THE LUMP BEFORE YOU HUMP. :thumbsup:

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

Yes, it does feel better without a condom, but it is not nearly that safe to do. I have done it a few time despite how horny i was and nothing has happened. All the times after it now i have used condoms cause i want to be protected. Be protected, and be safe!

[someuser]

Yeah condoms certainly suck. I dont like em. I know of guys and girls who never had sex w/o one... On one hand that is good they are being responsible but on the other they have no idea what they are missing.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Get her on the pill and use a condom. Why? Because pills can decide to just not work and condoms can always break and from a chick's point of view and from experience, just THINKING you could POSSIBLY be pregnant is nerve wrecking.

[DopeBOYmagic]

Hate em, and if she gets pregnant

it aint mine:
:dance:

Nah I wouldnt do that but yeah um..

[Dankmike]

yeah i always wrap it up.

doesnt matter if its a girl i really like.

sluts and girlfriends get the same deal.

[JaggedEdge]

Get her on the pill and use a condom. Why? Because pills can decide to just not work and condoms can always break and from a chick's point of view and from experience, just THINKING you could POSSIBLY be pregnant is nerve wrecking.


Nah, we both agree, one or the other. I'm convinced two forms aren't that much better. My brother got his wife pregnant on both along with a few other people I know.

If she is on some form of BC I'm not wearing anything, it totally ruins sex. Now it will suck royally if we ever break up because I won't be able to cum with a condom on. At least thats how it looks.

As for scares, they come with having sex. I don't care how many forms of BC you use, there are always a few months out the year both people are just sitting there, is it about to start? How late is it?

[Eraserhead71]

used one once. good to be safe though

[OniEhtRedrum781]

Yeah, its a drag that there's so much disease and pregnancy floating around cuz honestly condoms really do suck..

[someuser]

Just got to be careful (RE: diseases). While it isnt full proof, I usually like to have the girl and myself 'tested' before unprotected sex. Granted some nasty shit can take several months to show up (and sometimes it wont show up at all), it is better then nothing. I never had an STD and I'm 28 (except for mono once as a teenager) **knocks on wood**


In response to BCP failing, BCP is 99% effective when used CORRECTLY. Correctly mean using the BCP exactly as prescribed AND be extra careful that ANY OTC or prescription med you take doesnt counteract the pill (or whatever else one is using). When BCP fails it is almost always human error.

[partyguy420]

the last time i ran out of condoms, i quite using them for a long time, and then did a few even stupider things like ive blown my load in her, but i feal the same way about going back to using condoms and not being able to feal anything, my ex made me start wearing them agin towards the end of our relation ship cause she got tired of having to clean up a huge load of cum off of her tits, belly, and/or ass

[tootsie roll]

the moral of the story should be "always use protection", dont matter if its condoms, pills, injections, patches, or rings, protection is protection

Yes indeed Sam.
I always say tho in this day and age that all emn should wear condoms for sex with partners other then husband/wife couples.

Too damn many STDS out there NOT TO PROTECT YOURSELVES AGAINST DISEASE AND POSSIBLE CERVICAL CANCER.

[JMRinFLA]

Dude, if you can't feel nothing then that wrapper ain't too tight. Maybe you need the next size down!

[someuser]

Too damn many STDS out there NOT TO PROTECT YOURSELVES AGAINST DISEASE AND POSSIBLE CERVICAL CANCER.

They have a vaccine for HPV now.

[lowryderulez]

jus ave sex wivout n e fing n wen u feel lyk cumin do it in er mouth!!! lol

[jeremy thunder]

completely not worth the risk

[MastaChronic]

wear a jimmie, at all times the stds are out to get you and they may strike at you at any time, any where

[partyguy420]

Dude, if you can't feel nothing then that wrapper ain't too tight. Maybe you need the next size down!

dude, that not realy it, cause ive always used the same size, and same brands of condoms, and it wasnt until my girl started cheating on me, like to the point wear she had a couple of dicks in her pussy, that i started not fealing it threw the condom

[baisez le monde.]

dont be silly, wrap your willy! :thumbsup:

[Kwali]

Best way is to goto the clinic together show your both clean, and fuck your brains out with out a condom while shes on the pill. :thumbsup:

[someuser]

Best way is to goto the clinic together show your both clean, and fuck your brains out with out a condom while shes on the pill. :thumbsup:

A-Fucking-men bro. That is the only way to do it IMO :thumbsup:

[LIP]

Get her on the pill and use a condom. Why? Because pills can decide to just not work and condoms can always break and from a chick's point of view and from experience, just THINKING you could POSSIBLY be pregnant is nerve wrecking.

That happened to me at 14. The Jonny split and since then she was on the pill, then i left her.

[stinkyattic]

Hate em, and if she gets pregnant

it aint mine:
:dance:


Wow you're a little shithead no matter where your stupid opinions pop up on this site! I thought you were just a thief, but no, you're a flat-out scumbag!!!

[napolitana869]

human error is a bitch. thats why i use the ring and not the pill. i have fewer chances to fuck up. my boyfriend and i dont use condoms anymore but we used to.

[I just love weed]

Wow you're a little shithead no matter where your stupid opinions pop up on this site! I thought you were just a thief, but no, you're a flat-out scumbag!!!

It was a joke you fucking phsyco he even said "no i wouldnt really do that" at the end. holy fuck smoke a bowl and get over it you crazy bitch

[someuser]

It was a joke you fucking phsyco he even said "no i wouldnt really do that" at the end. holy fuck smoke a bowl and get over it you crazy bitch

ROFLMAO

:clap:

[Ignatius]

I'm 42 and I used one once in my whole ife. Never had an STD, never had an unwanted pregnancy with any girl I've been with. Use your brains and you'll be ok. But hey, life's a risk, and sex eith a condom isn't sex. It's fucking shit in other words.

[stinkyattic]

Listen here, just love weed and someuser, that is NOT a funny joke at all. Not only not funny, but also REALLY disrespectful towards women. And you wouldn't be defending this dopeboy character if you'd seen his posts in the Grow Lounge.

You should always
-use a condom
-take birth control seriously
-take full responsibility for your actions and even mistakes.

And BTW I am neither psycho nor a bitch; I am simply a woman who takes protecting myself seriously. If that offends you, perhaps you should consider going solo.

[someuser]

And BTW I am neither psycho nor a bitch; I am simply a woman who takes protecting myself seriously. If that offends you, perhaps you should consider going solo.

Or, maybe, if it offends you so much you could either consider going 'solo' yourself or just choose not to read messages you cannot emotionally handle :dance:

[Fengzi]

I posted this a while back, first time this topic came up, but it seems prudent to post it again

Back when I was in college I met this chick at a dorm party. I was normally careful but we had been drinking a bit, I didn't have a condom, she said she was on the pill, and that pussy just looked too good to pass up. Well, one morning about a week later I took a piss and was like "yeeoow, what the fuck..? That hurts". Later that day I noticed this funky yellow/green pus started leaking out of my dick. Nasty shit I tell you. Every time I'd take a piss it would hurt like hell. I might as well have been pissing flaming napalm, actually that might have been more pleasant. It got to the point where I had gotten seriously dehydrated because I didn't want to drink anything since I was afraid to piss.

So, after a couple of days I realized it wasn't going to go away and I went to the doc. It was a lovely visit. Yeah, right! First of all it's pretty embarassing. The doc grabs my dick and starts milking it for pus like i'm a god damn cow or somehting. Then comes "the test". Have you ever had a test for strep throat? You know that long q-tip thing they stick down your throat to get a culture? Well, the doc pulls one of these things out and puts some lube on it. I'm thinking "what the fuck??" when he grabs my dick and puts the q-tip thing way fucking up inside. Jesus Christ! Pissing flaming napalm was a hell of a lot better.

Turns out I had chlamydia, a STD. Fortunately I got some antibiotics and got it cleared up. These days, if all you get is chlamydia you can consider yourself lucky. If you get aids the doctor doesn't prescribe an antibiotic to get rid of the disease. He will only prescribe lots of different medications to, hopefully, prolong your life a bit longer. I'm married now, wife's on the pill, and I don't need condoms anymore. I'm just happy I didn't catch something that would cause me to have to keep wearing them.

Moral of the story WRAP IT UP GUYS

[Mr.Chimeny415]

Sex with a condom aint real sex- but if you're just finding fucks wherever u can get em i.e dorm parties:rolleyes: , raves, or on the street, then yeah you should use protection. I personally feel that if I honestly think I need to sheild my dick from physically touching your flesh, then I don't wanna do you in the first place...It's like sleeping with enemy...or a prostitute.
Question: Would you risk having unprotected sex with a prostitute(m or f)? Then y would you risk it with a person who, based on their interaction or involvement w/you, is obviously just as promiscuos even if on a lower scale?

I dont' random fuck.
I give 60 min conversational background checks.
If they pass, I pound that ass. j/k :D

[Fengzi]

Sex with a condom aint real sex- but if you're just finding fucks wherever u can get em i.e dorm parties:rolleyes: , raves, or on the street, then yeah you should use protection. I personally feel that if I honestly think I need to sheild my dick from physically touching your flesh, then I don't wanna do you in the first place...It's like sleeping with enemy...or a prostitute.
Question: Would you risk having unprotected sex with a prostitute(m or f)? Then y would you risk it with a person who, based on their interaction or involvement w/you, is obviously just as promiscuos even if on a lower scale?

I dont' random fuck.
I give 60 min conversational background checks.
If they pass, I pound that ass. j/k :D

Your logic contradicts itself. If she's willing to have unprotected sex with you, she's probably had it with someone else. When you consider that, depending on the particular STD and especially in women, many cases won't have symptoms, your "60 min conversational background check" doesn't mean very much.

[someuser]

I think we can all agree on two things:

1. One should always protect oneself when fucking some random skank hoe from a bar, club, party, ect.

2. Sex with a condom feels nothing like sex without a condom (not nearly as good for the guy OR girl).


The trick is, at what point does one have sex w/o a condom??? To each their own. Personally, while it certainly isnt fool proof by any stretch of the imagination, I will have unprotected sex with a girl I consider a gf (IE I'm very selective about girls I consider a gf) whereas I wont have sex with just some random girl w/o a condom (with one exception in my life).

If it makes the 'gf' feel better I'm always open to getting tested and using condom until that point. I'm not ok with having a long-term relationship with a girl where we always have to worry about having a condom to have sex and where the sex is constantly sub-par to what it could be. That is just me :)

So far I only had one girl who was potentially a gf not feel comfortable with my thinking. I in no way pressured her to change her mind but rather respected her decision. We however never ended up talking again.

[dutch.lover]

For all you ladies out there on the pill- I can't recommend enough switching to the 'ring' instead. It's awesome, you don't need to remember to take a pill every day/night, and you totally forget it's there. It's more effective than the pill as well, because the accuracy can't be reduced by forgetting to take a pill at the same time all the time, etc. It also costs about the same. It's called NuvaRing, for the record.

[someuser]

Yeah and the best part of the NuvaRing is if you leave it in the entire month it stops your period!

The only other thing I know of that stops a chick's period is depo but most girls I've been with had their sex drive killed by 'the shot' (defeats the entire purpose of fucking BC). There is nothing more annoying then not being able to have sex cause the girl is on her rag.

[dutch.lover]

Just to note; It stops your period but u still have to insert another ring after the original 3 weeks are up, cause they are only designed to stop ur period for 3 weeks at a time. I didnt want anyone getting preggers thinking the rings worked for an infinite amount of time. lol.

[JaggedEdge]

Thats what we are using next, the ring.

[Reefer Rogue]

The results are in:
You are NOT the father.
*breakdances*

[Kryzco]

lol

Honestly sex without a condom feels way better
but carring a child for 9 months seems a bit painful

so thats why I require protection
safety first!

but I'm def gonna look into that nuvaring thingy I've heard of it and never looked into it

are there any side effects because the pill made me moody and I didn't want sex anymore (kinda pointless after that)

[buddymyfriend]

Listen here, just love weed and someuser, that is NOT a funny joke at all. Not only not funny, but also REALLY disrespectful towards women. And you wouldn't be defending this dopeboy character if you'd seen his posts in the Grow Lounge.

You should always
-use a condom
-take birth control seriously
-take full responsibility for your actions and even mistakes.

And BTW I am neither psycho nor a bitch; I am simply a woman who takes protecting myself seriously. If that offends you, perhaps you should consider going solo.


Amen!:thumbsup:

It just aint worth the risk, the next time i dont use a johnnie is when im making lil buddies! Penetration aint the only part of sex, there's so much more!

Peace

Buddy

[someuser]

Just to note; It stops your period but u still have to insert another ring after the original 3 weeks are up, cause they are only designed to stop ur period for 3 weeks at a time. I didnt want anyone getting preggers thinking the rings worked for an infinite amount of time. lol.

Good point to bring up! You're indeed correct :)

[MastaChronic]

when i turn 18 im getting a vasectomy, i hate kids and would probably end up killing mine by throwing it through a window because it wouldnt shut up.

[napolitana869]

common side effects of nuvaring (from the paper on the inside of the box): vaginal infections and irritation
vaginal secretion
headache
weight gain
nausea

i love the ring. i would recommend it to everyone (of course talk to your doctor first to make sure it doesnt interact with any other meds you may be on)

[partyguy420]

well.... today, i found out something... i had a chance to take a girls virginaty on tuesday. and in darrington, finding a virgin(that is actualy at a age were sex is considered appoprite),, is like finding a person who works at microsoft... and as far as i know, theres only one person, who works at microsoft that i know in darrington, so that means one thing, there are only a couple of virgins in this town, and i didnt get it because i didnt have one simple thing....

a CONDOM.... always keep a box handy, you never know when you may need it....

[someuser]

common side effects of nuvaring (from the paper on the inside of the box): vaginal infections and irritation
vaginal secretion
headache
weight gain
nausea

Those arent side-effects of the ring, I think those are natural side-effects of being a woman ;)

[partyguy420]

Those arent side-effects of the ring, I think those are natural side-effects of being a woman ;)

thats sort of mean and rude.

[someuser]

it wasnt meant as 'mean'.... I guess my sense of humor is a little distorted when I'm really fucking high and a little buzzed.

[partyguy420]

its alright... i just thought i would let you know, even thu now that i think about it, what i said was a bit hipocritical, cause i blame girls being piussed at me on PMSing

[partyguy420]

Lip is the most bullshitting person ever yo i swear to Gotti. Read what he just said, claiming he was smashing at 14..pshh...LIP man you lied already about the picture of that trichome glistened plant dat you're "GROWING" lol bullshit ..stop lying lol its the virgins who talk about having SEX..like you..lmao..real people dont gotta brag and talk about it you foool lol

(said it nicest way possible btw..)

hey, i like to brag about having sex... and im not a virgin, rember, im the guy that turned a girl into a whore... and im not sure if thats a good thing or a bad thing(it either says my dick is huge, and after me she couldnt get enuf, or its saying my dick is tiny, and she was trying to find some one to fullfill her needs i take it as im huge, and she couldnt get enuf, if not why would she have stayed with me for so long?)

[Maggz]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

but you're not claiming things to the level that this guy has been doing lol... smashing at 14? come on.

[dutch.lover]

lol

Honestly sex without a condom feels way better
but carring a child for 9 months seems a bit painful

so thats why I require protection
safety first!

but I'm def gonna look into that nuvaring thingy I've heard of it and never looked into it

are there any side effects because the pill made me moody and I didn't want sex anymore (kinda pointless after that)



It really depends on the specific types of pseudo-estrogen and progetin and the levels of them, when it comes to making you moody. the pill made me really moody too but so far the ring has been much better (i have been on it for 6mnts now). There aren't any other side effects tho- they're all similar to the pill. Oh, and my doctor told me that the ring is supposed to raise up your sex drive a bit too- something about the way the hormones are taken (oral vs skin).

[intrepidus6]

Condoms don't always work! I am the result of a broken condom, No Joke! (Yes, for some strange reason my mom told me that, probably just to try and make me feel bad or something)

[dutch.lover]

the pill doesnt always work either (but its probably only ineffective when people dont use it properly), I work with a girl who is 24 and has a 3 year old...she had been on the pill for a couple years when she got pregnant.

[dutch.lover]

Condoms don't always work! I am the result of a broken condom, No Joke! (Yes, for some strange reason my mom told me that, probably just to try and make me feel bad or something)

Why do parents tell their kids shit like that? My friends mom told him that his brother was a 'mistake'...so what does he do? tell his brother of course! strange...

[spatte21]

Its hard to go from no condom to condom, definately not anywhere near as good, but its important to use them in most situations.

[partyguy420]

yea, tomarow, if my ex girlfriends mom isnt working at the store, im gonna go buy a box, and if she is... i guess im gonna go buy a box....

(and this mom thretend to run one of her doughters ex boyfriends dick threw the deli slicer) wow... this will be scary...

[Harry Pot Head]

Best way is to goto the clinic together show your both clean, and fuck your brains out with out a condom while shes on the pill. :thumbsup:

How romantic :stoned:

[snicklefritz1825]

Yes and make sure you wear the condom at all times. I made the mistake of having sex without the condom and then using it. Now I am with a man I wanna be with forever and not to long ago I find out I have HPV. Just cause I didn't use the condom part of that time now my man has to live with my mistake. The wierd thing about HPV is you can have it for years and never know you have it and over half of men and women in the world have HPV or some other form of a STD. So think of this next time you have random sex this person I barley even know might have an STD and even if I use this condom I am not 100% protected. Even while using the condom you are at risk for HPV or another STD. Just some Knowledge.

[hammertime]

yeah i dated a girl for a couple years on the shot, and i stopped wearing rubbers, and when i use them now, i dont think i can even get a nut, and they break alot, and choke the fuck outa my dick, condoms suck, but i guess you gotta wear em cause its better than some huge warts on your shaft

[Mean Green Charlene]

Its ideal to start dating a virgin, get her on the pill.
no stds. no condoms.
you win.

[someuser]

Its ideal to start dating a virgin, get her on the pill.
no stds. no condoms.
you win.

Actually, even though any who read my posts in this thread know I'm not a big fan of the condom, just cause she is a virgin doesnt mean she is safe bro. You can still get various STDs from IV drug use as well as 'tainted' legitimate medical procedures.


I dont think there is anything such as 'safe sex'.... I think it should be called responsible sex. What is 'responsible' is relative, in a way, as it all comes down to how much 'risk' both people are willing to accept. As long as both parties know the risk and neither of the 'parties' are withholding information about a medical condition that could affect another through sex I feel comfortable.

I do feel bad for some of the younger generation 'brain washed' into thinking unprotected sex = high chance of a STD. This just is not the case. Yeah, if you go bar hopping and find yourself frequently bedding dirty bar hoes your risk is pretty high... But on average I dont think the majority of people out there are walking around with STDs...

Now with HPV, I dont know how much of a risk it is to men. I do know that there is a vaccination now for women so the point there should be mute these days... Atleast for the girls. Not sure if the HPV vaccination works for men or not....

[Mean Green Charlene]

Actually, even though any who read my posts in this thread know I'm not a big fan of the condom, just cause she is a virgin doesnt mean she is safe bro. You can still get various STDs from IV drug use as well as 'tainted' legitimate medical procedures.

the two girls ive been with are both "good girls" first one didnt smoke pot, the one im with now does smoke pot, but thats it. so theres no worry from stds from needles or whatnot.

just be smart,&dont pick up hookers ^__^