Height

[cannabis=freedom]

Women seem to always say they prefer a tall man. This isn't an issue for me (I'm roughly 6'), but I don't see how it really matters. The biggest Cassanova I know is 5'7", I don't see what difference it makes. I'll admit I wouldn't like a woman taller than me, but if women just want a man taller than them, I mean.....My female friend is 5'3" and she wouldn't like a 5'6" man; if she's 5'3" it doesn't matter if the guy's 5'6" or 6'5".

[poiuyt]

A person's height doesn't matter when they're on their backs. (if you know what i mean)

[Wesley Pipes]

Women seem to always say they prefer a tall man. This isn't an issue for me (I'm roughly 6'), but I don't see how it really matters. The biggest Cassanova I know is 5'7", I don't see what difference it makes. I'll admit I wouldn't like a woman taller than me, but if women just want a man taller than them, I mean.....My female friend is 5'3" and she wouldn't like a 5'6" man; if she's 5'3" it doesn't matter if the guy's 5'6" or 6'5".

lol its all about SEX!!

in a womens mind... tall men = big dick :p

[Tom Swierzbinski]

Er, well Im not quite sure what the question is (if any), but Ill always go for girls that are either the same height as me or just a little shorter. Dont like them more than 4" shorter than me, or I cant kiss them easily.
Right now, the girl Im with has the perfect torso/leg length for a 69 :D

[LIP]

Im 6'2"

I like my gals about 3 inch smaller, not too much tho. But i wouldnt like a gal whos taller than me

[someuser]

My biggest advice to any guys here who are trying to 'understand' women: Stop trying to use logic. Women are not logical creatures.


I dont think women liking tall men has anything to do with dick size. Despite what so many men would like to think, the vast majority of women I know are turned off by an abnormally large dick.

I personally think it has more to do with feeling 'protected' (women like strong men) and also 'status'. Women like to brag to their gf of the month about the man they are with... What better then to have a tall, handsome, well-paid bloke to wrap legs around ;)


Anyhow, I never encountered any women where my height was an issue (I'm 5' 11" and a half LoL) but I do know that some of the women who are the most picky about height are the shorter women. I know this one chick who is 5' 3" but will NOT date a guy under 6'3". Ironically, all the tall chicks I know and been with dont mind guys that are either as tall as them or even a little shorter. I think it is a Napoleon complex for women :dance:

[shoi]

i agree with some... i think it has more to do with feeling like the person ur with is in control and powerful, wen i say in control i dont mean in control of them but just in general, its probably an instincts thing that was programmed in for the saftey of the female... i mean all attraction is just based on wat is best for the continuation of human (or animals as well) kind... men are attracted to the body shape of a women, ie hips, breasts, cause they see this and no that if they have these features then they can take care of the baby and give birth easily. many other things apply to this

[birdgirl73]

I think Someuser had it right. Having a taller guy is about a feeling of being protected. We tend to lean toward someone who's taller than we are who can symbolically "defend" us. Everything I've read, too, indicates that there's almost an unconscious, evolutionarily driven desire to combine genes with someone who's going to father tall, strong, healthy children who'll perpetuate and even improve on our genetics. I think that comes into play, too.

My husband is 6' 4" and I'm 5' 10". We're a tall lot. Our son is 6' 3" and I'm not sure if he's finished growing or not. I think he probably has.

[B u M b L ee K y]

I could never date a woman taller then me. It feels weird for some reason. I'm 5'11" and anything my height or shorter would be ideal.

[BlueDevil]

A person's height doesn't matter when they're on their backs. (if you know what i mean)


WRONG!

I'm about 6'4", and my wife is 5'4" - trust me, it can certainly matter given the position you choose, otherwise I wouldn't seriously be considering getting one of those sex cushions or swings...


Birdgirl is correct in regards to her evolutionary musings as well...
I'm not sure how I'd feel with a mate the same height or taller than me, just because I've never tried it. All of the ladies I've had the pleasure of being with have all been drastically shorter than I, it just worked out that way - I don't have a petite chick fetish, honest! ;)

[turquoise70]

I've always felt that tallness desire working against me; I'm a 5'6" male at best, sometimes I think it's more like 5'5". I think Someuser is 100% correct about what he said.

I've preferred shorter girls in the past, but now i honestly just don't care. I'll take whatever i can get.

[turquoise70]

I want to edit my post but I can't for some reason. The Edit button is gone.

I wanted to add that I know that, generally, short guys can get as much play as anyone else; they just have to "make up for it" somehow, by being handsome and well-built and charming for instance. I'm not handsome or well-built and I'm pretty awkward and nerdy so I fail to "Make up for" my shortness.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

I'm 5 foot.
I've hooked up with a guy who was like 5'2 (who was very great)
and another who was about 6'7 (who was horrible and had a tiny penis.)
(Not at the same time of course..that'd be uber kinky)
BUT Height really doesn't matter to most of the girls I know (doesn't matter to me either).
Except really really short guys, and I mean like 4'11 kinda short.
I like an inbetween tallish guy, so I'm protected but not overwhelmed.

[rottenPauL]

what about a midget?

[BlueDevil]

Aw man they're great! Just plug in, and spin'em! :dance:

[Transition Force]

I don't know about y'all but i wish i was a little shorter (i'm 6") and i think tall girls are hot! :)

[Samwhore]

the security of having someone taller is true, but to me height doesnt really matter, id like some one whos a little taller than me but height isnt really a turn on for me, a great hug is the biggest turn on for me :D

[B u M b L ee K y]

What's the criteria for a "great hug"? I've heard so many girls talk about how people hug and they can tell the difference between them, but I really can't. All hugs are the same to me...or so I think? Everyone tells me I'm a great hugger, but I don't see how you can be a "bad" hugger.

[Samwhore]

What's the criteria for a "great hug"? I've heard so many girls talk about how people hug and they can tell the difference between them, but I really can't. All hugs are the same to me...or so I think? Everyone tells me I'm a great hugger, but I don't see how you can be a "bad" hugger.

the classic "A" frame hug is the worst

a good hug is more mental than physical, the thought of having a guys arms around your, warm and sensual, you think in you mind that he will never let you go, then when the hug is over you just want to kiss him because hes so damn cute

[B u M b L ee K y]

the classic "A" frame hug is the worst

a good hug is more mental than physical, the thought of having a guys arms around your, warm and sensual, you think in you mind that he will never let you go, then when the hug is over you just want to kiss him because hes so damn cute

Haha...I've been told that one too many times about me. Crazy girls. Oh yeah, I love hugging people shorter then me.

[birdgirl73]

the classic "A" frame hug is the worst

a good hug is more mental than physical, the thought of having a guys arms around your, warm and sensual, you think in you mind that he will never let you go, then when the hug is over you just want to kiss him because hes so damn cute
That was the perfect description of both a bad and good hug! A good one really embraces you, physically and emotionally, whereas a bad one, like Sam was saying, is sorta standoffish and remote. I love that A frame hug terminology!

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Sometimes really skinny people give bad hugs too. Cause they're too skinny. Hahha I like a little squishy to snuggle into.

[Samwhore]

That was the perfect description of both a bad and good hug! A good one really embraces you, physically and emotionally, whereas a bad one, like Sam was saying, is sorta standoffish and remote. I love that A frame hug terminology!


Thank you! now im just looking for someone to hug now

[cannabis=freedom]

As I said in the very first post, I'm 6', and I guess I was more physically affectionate with my 5'1" girlfriend that I had than my 5'11" girlfriend. Haha the first one was just so little, just looking at her made you want to pick her and give her a hug.

[someuser]

As I said in the very first post, I'm 6', and I guess I was more physically affectionate with my 5'1" girlfriend that I had than my 5'11" girlfriend. Haha the first one was just so little, just looking at her made you want to pick her and give her a hug.

I feel ya man! :) I prefer petite women myself even though I have dated girls as tall as 5'11".

[partyguy420]

maybe what girls mean by a guys heigt is the heighth from the base of his penis to the tip when hes laying on his back.... me im 8"s

[baisez le monde.]

maybe what girls mean by a guys heigt is the heighth from the base of his penis to the tip when hes laying on his back.... me im 8"s


a guy will never pass up the chance to exaggerate his penis size... :D

[Ol Schwaggy Bastard]

I'm a short motherfucker, clocking in around 5'7", and i've had girls all different sizes, but yeah, in general girls feel akward with a short dude, it has to do with feeling secure and safe, they like guys that are physically intimidating to others. Not all girls, but quite a few feel this way.

Edit - and as for penis size, I'm swingin roughly 299 inches.

[Kryzco]

call me crazy but tall was always bad to me

shorter guys have always been better in bed and generally more attractive than the taller guys I've fell for, taller guys were always more emotional and just don't satisfy me sexually, mostly on the account of their cockiness, they always thought they were the shit, while shorter guys have always been more humble about it

[someuser]

I will say the biggest pimp I met was this 18yrs dude who couldnt have been taller then 5'6". The kind of women he brought in on a regular bases blew my mind. Different strokes for different folks I suppose.

Personally, I honestly wouldnt want to be tall anymore then I would want to be short. I think my height, for me, is just perfect.

[partyguy420]

a guy will never pass up the chance to exaggerate his penis size... :D

who said it was an exagreation ok... so i squuezed in like .00001 of an inch in so im realy 7.99999