Fuck buddies

[Purple Banana]

Share your opinions on the concept of fuck buddies. Good or bad? Worth it or not? What are your experiences?

[3rdEyeVision]

good if you dont really like them

[baisez le monde.]

anyone wannan be my fuck buddy? :stoned: :D

[Inferius]

Not worth it. I'm sure it works for some people, but for me, too much emotional garbage. Then again, the alcohol kinda solves that... You can always blame the alcohol. :)

[Kryzco]

involves too much drama

one person winds up getting attached somehow

great idea, but it just doesn't work

props to those who pull it off, but as for me it doesn't work

all coming from experience

...oh yeah I found this looking through google a while back, its an interesting read

http://mywebpages.comcast.net/jbond529/theories/friends_benefits/friends_benefits.htm

[maryjanehaze]

i've got ya covered baisez la monde :thumbsup:

[baisez le monde.]

meeeoww :p

[birdgirl73]

F buddies aren't a bad idea, at least in concept, if both partners can stay at equal distances emotionally.

For me personally, it would never have worked. I attach a lot of emotional importance on love and commitment along with the physical (very traditional attitudes) and couldn't have had a remote sex buddy like that. I needed to be in love with him and be fairly certain I was going to marry him before I'd feel comfortable having sex w/ him.

[maryjanehaze]

i thought by f-buddies, it was implying just gettting it on with eachother for a physical bond after a hard days work or when you're feeling like you need to really connect with someone, not like a relationship or anything.

and right now....

i really feel like connecting with someone :cool:

[. chelsey]

they're fun for a while, but then feelings get in the way and fuck it all up.

[birdgirl73]

i thought by f-buddies, it was implying just gettting it on with eachother for a physical bond after a hard days work or when you're feeling like you need to really connect with someone, not like a relationship or anything.
You have it right. That is what it is. I was just saying I personally can't approach sex like that. Probably a generational thing.

[maryjanehaze]

i respect :thumbsup:

[birdgirl73]

Backatacha, friend! So the second part of what you wrote above--about feeling like connecting with someone? You have a reliable "buddy"?

That's one of the good things about loving/marrying them. Husbands do serve that F-buddy purpose very well. (Among other purposes, of course.)

[HeyItsMe]

anyone wannan be my fuck buddy? :stoned: :D

Hell yea, hit me up im in Va

[PlantBoxer]

Sex is just sex. Nothing more ...nothing less. Married, or not, it boils down to who you are comfortable with...if they take care of themselves or not. My lady and I have a very few *f-buddies* male and female. Very professional, very discreet, and on occassion, we all indulge in playtime!! I love my lady dearly...enought to want her to open to me to be able to say, "I want to...."

If you need alcohol to go thru with something...it's something you should rethink. Enjoy a healthy sexual appeitite, but do so on your terms. Do so with your eyes wide open...it's much more fun and exciting. Sex is about fun and frolic, not control and inducing others to your will.

F-buddies, are a great minivacation, so plan and have fun.

[LIP]

I remember one of my fuck buddies... Me and her were the definition of no strings attachted.

[markomon]

I tend to agree with everybody's take on this subject.
Masturbation works for me as I am my own best FB
definitley safe sex right?

[B u M b L ee K y]

I've had a girl offer herself to be my fuck buddy, but I had to turn it down for the sole reason she was just too slutty.

[OniEhtRedrum781]

I've had a girl offer herself to be my fuck buddy, but I had to turn it down for the sole reason she was just too slutty.

That's always a kick in the teeth, man...

[B u M b L ee K y]

That's always a kick in the teeth, man...

I guess, in the end...fuck buddies is something that's not for me, because a lot of guys would have said yes, but I just couldn't do it knowing there is nothing there, no bond or anything. I need some sort of connection, but that's me.

[Purple Banana]

I am considering starting the whole fuck buddy ordeal... I know I won't get emotionally attached, nor will he, and it's great because he's a kinky bastard. Drop by his house before work every other day, and I'm good to go.

We both have papers from a local STD clinic, we're both clean, and it's good to go :P

[BabyFacedAbortion]

I have a fuck buddy who I don't really like. He's a booty call and nothing more. He's been my fuck buddy for about 3 years, but is way more into me than I am into him. All he's worth to me is good oral sex. :)

I'm all for fuck buddies as long as no emotional shit happens. 'Cause emotions just cause drama.

[BlueDevil]

but is way more into me than I am into him.



...well obviously. BA-DUM-BUM! :D


Otherwise that would be, like, uber kinky.

[miadol]

hey baisez la monde, wanna be my fuck buddy??

[Transition Force]

anyone wannan be my fuck buddy? :stoned: :D

i'm avaliable. you're hot :)

[Purple Banana]

Where are some good spots if either person can go to either person's house? Cars would be best; he's a bit shy, so he's not big on in public changing rooms, ect.

[hello3pat]

The first person I had sex with it started out as just fuck buddies, but I quickly developed feelings for him and it immediatly fell appart from there. When I told him he began lying to me about how he got some chick pregnet and how he was engaged and so on so forth, all of which I learned from his brother is bullshit. This happened while working at a Boy Scout camp during the summer, admittidly I fell for him and I still would do anything for him, but I haven't seen him since camp due to the fact he lives a few hours away and the few times I called him he lies to me more. From my own personal experiances I think fuck buddy relationships aren't good because they are self destructive.

[Eraserhead71]

i had a fuck buddy who i really only liked as a friend but ended up falling in love with her

[someuser]

Where are some good spots if either person can go to either person's house? Cars would be best; he's a bit shy, so he's not big on in public changing rooms, ect.


Cars actually are my least fav. to have sex in (very restricting unless you got a nice big roomy SUV or truck). Hotels are one options (costs a little $$$ though); Friends house's/apartment's are another option; Even a secluded place out of the way... IE get some blankets, pillows, whatnot and find some privacy... I guess it just depends on where you live.

[partyguy420]

never realy worked for me... ive tried it with my ex, after we broke up, i said "i loved her" and she said "she loved me" so we just fucked... partly cause we were both just there... and it worked fine for a while, but always ended up back together... but the last time i got laid was by here the same day we broke up for good... i still feal dirty from fucking that whore... and ive even takin 2 showers every day since wednesday

[partyguy420]

anyone wannan be my fuck buddy? :stoned: :D

im here for when u need it... most girls become attached to me in a loving way after the first time we fuck thu

[DannyMan]

oh man. i dont even call it fuck buddy no more.

if im single and i like a girl, i make sure shes the one i want, then we get serious. the time spent making a decision is called the sexual trial stage. if things are great, we move on, if not, we keep it goin' until we move on to someone else. thats all love anyway.

fuck buddy is just a rude term.

:rasta:

[jeremy thunder]

the best experiences i've had have been with fuck buddies. my best friend was a fuck buddy for a little while, and we're still best friends now. i am definately an advocate for fuckbuddy-age.

[Purple Banana]

Yeah, I went ahead with it; it was satisfactory, he was just kind of creepy when I came over- practically threw me against the door and made these odd groaning sounds. I felt like it was a rape, hah.

But we got downstairs, ect, and it wasn't too bad. Kept me feeling good through work, so I guess it was okay. Might or might not continue.

He certainly enjoyed it, though...

[Mr.Chimeny415]

I am considering starting the whole fuck buddy ordeal... I know I won't get emotionally attached, nor will he, and it's great because he's a kinky bastard. :P

If no one ends up getting attached then at least one of you are'nt doing it right:thumbsup:

SEX IS NOT A GAME...

[DonnieDarko]

If no one ends up getting attached then at least one of you are'nt doing it right:thumbsup:

SEX IS NOT A GAME...

Alsolutely right Mr C...

Attachment and commitment are great things .... They are the fuel to intimacy and make sex really special. Sex without intimacy is a waste of time.