I need some advice..

[baisez le monde.]

There's this guy I like... A LOT... but im not sure if he likes me back. I just get really confused because he does a lot of things that make me think he likes me back and sometimes he even says things... but why doesnt he make a move? like ask me out or whatnot? then i start questioning all over again if he actually likes me at all.. well heres some of the stuff he does and you guys can tell me if you do this to chicks you like?

[baisez le monde.]

when w'er alone he'll hold my hand or touch me
at a kickback like a week ago out of nowwhrer he grabbed me and did a shotgun hit on me
and later that night we kissed at various times throughout the evening.. drunk kisses though haha
we were sitting getting food and he "accidentally" poured water on my thigh (i was wearing a mini skirt) and then he said sorry and was rubbing my thigh for like a straight 3 minutes
when we're watching tv or whatver he'll put his head on my lap
he asks me to join the school activites that he's in
when we're in the car i can see him looking at me through the corner of my eye


the thing is that some of this could just be him.. being him? idk.. im confused and in love..

[LIP]

Well, if i was him i wouldnt do that. I#d come straight out and tell ya i loved ya. BUT, he might not know if you feel the same. Just tell him and see what he says. I rekon he likes ya

[Captain Hanks]

when w'er alone he'll hold my hand or touch me
at a kickback like a week ago out of nowwhrer he grabbed me and did a shotgun hit on me
and later that night we kissed at various times throughout the evening.. drunk kisses though haha
we were sitting getting food and he "accidentally" poured water on my thigh (i was wearing a mini skirt) and then he said sorry and was rubbing my thigh for like a straight 3 minutes
when we're watching tv or whatver he'll put his head on my lap
he asks me to join the school activites that he's in
when we're in the car i can see him looking at me through the corner of my eye


the thing is that some of this could just be him.. being him? idk.. im confused and in love..

Well if he's doing all that for you then you owe him some signs back! A guy usually doesn't just jump not knowing if theres a secure landing on the other side, let him know it's safe.:dance:

[baisez le monde.]

well i mean.. i onno what to DO! im good at flirting with guys i dont really care for but HORRIBLE at flirting with the guys i really really like.

[lagstronaut]

start mirroring him, doing the things he's done. shotgun hit him, put your head in his lap while watchin tv [might be too strong for a girl to do it though, a guy can get away with that and not look like it's an obvious come-on], and then after that you gotta spill some water on him and rub it off. see how he responds to those then come back :D

[rottenPauL]

go get him girl :D hes ready, nice baked and smells great... u can take him out of the oven :D:D:D:D:D:D (that lucky bastard...)

[Kryzco]

baisez, hit that shit

ladies can be pimps too!

he's probably just waiting for the okay

you guys kissed, I'm sure that didn't happen cuz he was bored

and your too pretty

be straight up about it, if you don't you'll always wonder what might have been

[baisez le monde.]

so should i just tell him next time we're stoned or should he be sober?

[rottenPauL]

sober????? get crazy girl!

[Frivolous248]

...Yeah, he likes you. He definitely likes you. Guys don't do that stuff with girls that they don't like. I know I wouldn't.

[smoke it]

There's this guy I like... A LOT... but im not sure if he likes me back. I just get really confused because he does a lot of things that make me think he likes me back and sometimes he even says things... but why doesnt he make a move? like ask me out or whatnot? then i start questioning all over again if he actually likes me at all.. well heres some of the stuff he does and you guys can tell me if you do this to chicks you like?

he dosent know if you like him or not. he obviously likes you so you must make the first move.

[rottenPauL]

so what happened?

[baisez le monde.]

haaaaaa im such a pussy. i havent done it yet. BUT I WILL!!!!!! I WILL TELL HIM STRAIGHT OUT, and when i do, ill let you guys know what happened...

[rottenPauL]

i feel ya.. good luck then :D:D:D:D

[Its a Plant]

What's with all these guys putting their heads in girls laps? Does it really work or something? Lol.

You gots to be straight up, for your sake and his. You wouldn't want to look back on all of this years later going "you know, I wonder if so-and-so really did have a thing for me?" would you? Regret is a bitch, so fight back by making a move. I wrote the book on remorse, and trust a plant when he says it's not a fun book to read.

Pshh I knowww you got this. ~

[rottenPauL]

yeah... i mean if say no he has to be a retard, a fag or a sick perverd

[Buddha Man]

the same shit happened to me. dont tell him straight out cuz he might be freaked out or whatever. u kinda just gotta get a little more "intimate" with the flirting mostly through eye contact. and bite your lip. if i see a girl look at me and bite her lip i explode in my pants

[AR15]

Yeah, definately show him some signs. See, if I really flirt with a girl, and she doesn't show anything back, then I get discouraged. I ended up missing an oportunity like that, and I was pissed when I found out. But hey, wtf was I supposed to do when to me it seemed like I was just making an ass of myself.

You don't have to come straight at him, but push back a little, or push back more, just push. Then it will make it easier when you feel you can put it out there.

[PaRaNoIa]

So..

What happend??




You should give him ONE condom.. That should give him a pretty obvious sign, huh?

I know for one thing.. That shit is sexy.. Say nothing, just give him a condom.. Look at his face, look what happens.. lol Unless you're on the pill, then I don't know...

[Skink]

My student dentist put her warm crotch on my knee and kept it there for 3 4 minutes... She's married and in college and has a new house... does she want me ??? yes,,, does she love me??? Nooo...

[Pipe Dreams]

...Yeah, he likes you. He definitely likes you. Guys don't do that stuff with girls that they don't like. I know I wouldn't.

I dont know man.. When I was in highschool I used to mess with girls alot like what shes describing, then never say anything else to them again after that night.

[friendowl]

my advice is to keep playing along
you know deep down that he likes you
just drive him crazy with your teases
till he gets enough balls to tell you himself
his confidence aint at 100% yet
but cmon if he's rubbing thighs ,and getting kisses
and putting heads in laps,[what more do you need to know]

just torture him till he's ready

[WeedyBoyWonder]

Just tell him. Some guys dont like to make the first move, because they dont want the rejection. Its pretty obvious he likes you just as much as you like him from the stuff you says he does... just tell him, and get naked. Wooo NAKEDNESS! >_>

[AR15]

my advice is to keep playing along
you know deep down that he likes you
just drive him crazy with your teases
till he gets enough balls to tell you himself
his confidence aint at 100% yet
but cmon if he's rubbing thighs ,and getting kisses
and putting heads in laps,[what more do you need to know]

just torture him till he's ready

Fuck that... don't be cruel. He put in effort to make something happen, bout time it comes from the other side... I hate teases...

[WeedyBoyWonder]

Fuck that... don't be cruel. He put in effort to make something happen, bout time it comes from the other side... I hate teases...

I agree. After people have been teased for sooo long, they just say "fuck you" and move on. If you realise someone deep down is an annoying fucker which leads you on, all attaction is lost.