For the ladies - Oral Sex

[KHAN]

Ok, I was just really curious as to whether women like, or expect oral sex on a first date or on a 1 night fling? Or do you prefer to wait until you've been together for a while?

[Kryzco]

I'm picky

I need to know the guy for while

I'm not going down if I don't know where its been

as for me

I don't expect a guy to go there either on a first date

I prefer to be together for a while, not like years or anything but a good amount of time so I can feel comfortable

[Nochowderforyou]

On the first date? :p Give it more time than that. Oral sex, any boob touching or fondling, and intercourse, is a 3 day minimum. After the first 3 dates, then it is acceptable to go for it, but on the first date, nah. I'm a guy, and if I were really interested in a women by going on actual dates with her, I wouldn't eat her out after the first date.

If you're just after a one night stand, that's all it will be. Meaningless sex that has no attachment or commitments, so yes, maybe expect oral sex, but expect intercourse sex, but what fun is intercourse without the foreplay. Nap time, that's what. ;)

[KHAN]

meh I was just making sure ;)

[birdgirl73]

I was amazed when I read this question earlier, but I see now you were just trying to find out.

From a female standpoint, guy-on-girl oral is pretty darn intimate. More intimate in many ways than intercourse. It's definitely a down-the-relationship-road sexual activity. And if it's not, it probably needs to be.

[Kwali]

I know I wouldn't want any relations with a woman who allowed sex/oral the first night nor would I try unless I was drunk with a one night stand knowing I'd never talk to her again.

[birdgirl73]

i'm a big believer in people making sure it's an actual loving, deeply acquainted relationship, preferably moving on toward commitment, before people go to that stage. But that's just me. I'm old-fashioned.