afraid of penis

[pbzeppelin90]

so how do you go about convincing a girl who isnt into oral sex?
im not about to force anything but i dont get whats wrong with my penis :confused:

[Kwali]

Will she at least touch it?

[invision]

how old is this girl?

some chicks just dont like giving oral sex its a shame but true

[Inferius]

Rofl. Why don't you talk to her rationally, understand what she doesn't like about it?
lol......

[souldistortion]

Train her with honey. Whenever she does somthing good (make you a sandwich etc.) give her some honey. Then, when you want some oral, squirt a bit of honey on yourself and call it a lollypop. Lean back... enjoy.

[pbzeppelin90]

^^^^^ i like your style XD. if i bring it up she says "not now" then we argue, etc. if i eat her out i dont think she can't gve me head once in a while.

is it too much to ask?

[birdgirl73]

Chance are, PBZ, it doesn't have anything to do with your equipment. If she's young, she's likely inexperienced and doesn't know what to do. She's probably a little frightened of sex in general and may even have some earlier formed notions that oral sex is bad or unpleasant. Girls tend to be more cautious sexually anyway, especially at first, and she may feel like you're a little too eager in that area. It could be almost anything, and truly none of those things have to do with your penis at all.

You have to start with getting her to initiate touching you with her hands, then work from there, practicing the patience and celibacy of a monk for a time. You can plan now to be frustrated as heck for a while. Just give it time.

[Kwali]

Just bring it up after eating her out, ask for the favor returned

[birdgirl73]

OK, if you're already doing her that for her, then I do see why you would be wanting her to reciprocate. I was imagining y'all were still just in the heavy makeout phase.

I think that's good advice to just ask, kindly and with as much humor as you can muster, "How about it's my turn now?" See what she says. She may be afraid of your size, again, may have some preconceived (or experience-based) notions that she won't like it, may be afraid you might expect her to swallow. It's worth exploring whatever's making her hesitate.

[souldistortion]

^^^^^ i like your style XD. if i bring it up she says "not now" then we argue, etc. if i eat her out i dont think she can't gve me head once in a while.

is it too much to ask?

you guys cant argue about it during intamacy. bring it up after some sex, or like what the guy above me said, after you eat her out and ask for the favor returned.

[pbzeppelin90]

thanks BG. she's had sex before and even tho im a whopping 6 1/2 inches, i doubt size is the problem XD. it doesnt bother me that much, sex is ok. i was just confused.

[Gothen]

thanks BG. she's had sex before and even tho im a whopping 6 1/2 inches, i doubt size is the problem XD. it doesnt bother me that much, sex is ok. i was just confused.

Hey, man, me and you are the same size and all my female friends (including the close ones) say that that is actually a nice size. :thumbsup:

[Dreadmantic]

Train her with honey. Whenever she does somthing good (make you a sandwich etc.) give her some honey. Then, when you want some oral, squirt a bit of honey on yourself and call it a lollypop. Lean back... enjoy.

HAHAHA

[bentleygtgirl]

one thing tho, if you pester her about all you're gonna do is piss her off. she might just be shy about it but if you constantly bug her shes not going to want to get intimate at all with you because she knows thats what you want. when i was younger i was the same way, i was scared to even rub my hands on my guy when we were making out lol. he thought it was because i didnt like his body, i did, i just was confused and didnt really know waht to do. lol. shes probably scared that shes not gonna be good at it or that you're not gonna like it or maybe shes just awkward.

[Nochowderforyou]

Some girls don't like giving oral sex, and some don't like the fact that they'll be suckin on something you pee out of, or maybe they don't want a mouthful of your love juice. Many reasons, but I say you get what you put out. If she's not into oral sex, then I'm not into it, and sad to say, I find the old in-out quite boring without foreplay, and I bet she does too.

I have heard that a large percent of women can't reach orgasm with just intercourse alone. To make sex enjoyable, foreplay is needed. Sex alone is nap time to me, especially if they're like a dead fish who just lays there. Zzzzzz...

[Dreadmantic]

Ew dead fish :(

[led.zeppelin]

Well imagine it from her perspective, would you wanna suck your own dick?. Heading bobbing on some veiny sausage for ten minutes only to be treated to a salty shot of toothpaste. lol im a guy and i love getting oral but not giving it. sorry:dance:

[Nochowderforyou]

Well imagine it from her perspective, would you wanna suck your own dick?. Heading bobbing on some veiny sausage for ten minutes only to be treated to a salty shot of toothpaste. lol im a guy and i love getting oral but not giving it. sorry:dance:

That's from a straight mans point of view though. Of course the thought of yourself sucking off a guy, if you're straight, will make you cringe. Bad analogy. :)

You're a guy and you don't like eating pussy? ;)

[pbzeppelin90]

well i havent been pestering her about it, we've talked maybe... 3 times about it in all. i eat her out, and i like it, the meaning of this topic was just to explain to me wtf was going on. oh, and she says mine is a good size too :D

[Dro_Princess]

im a guy and i love getting oral but not giving it. sorry:dance:

If you want oral you have to give me oral that is the way it should be. One sided sex will only cause problems, and possibly finding someone else who will do oral. The biggest precentage of women cant have a orgasam from straight sex. The clit has to be stimulated and this for about 90 to 95% of women. How would you like to have sex and never get off because your partner is not willing to please you. And then some men wonder why women always turn sex down or cheat. There not gettin off. Plain and simple.

[CheeseIsSoHigh]

chlorophorm...

[led.zeppelin]

That's from a straight mans point of view though. Of course the thought of yourself sucking off a guy, if you're straight, will make you cringe. Bad analogy. :)

You're a guy and you don't like eating pussy? ;)
Very true, however for some girls its like that. Most of the girls Ive been with aren't to into getting eaten out, and not too interested in giving it either. im fairly young anyway (16) so I guess il just have to wait

[irishAFRICAN]

Can't you ask her to close her eyes, open her mouth and wait for the surprise?? Make sure you do it whilst holding a chocolate bar in the other hand right before you ask her to close em, otherwise she'll get suspicious.