Boys and flirting

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Lil background info: So, I've been out of the dating game for a while and I've realized I have a crush on my little brother's best friend (he's only a few months younger then me), and I'm fairly sure he's attracted to me in some way. But how do I know for sure? So far, he's brought over some oxy's and he was laying his head on my lap and sort of cuddling and he comes over a few nights a week to just hang out, watch T.V and smoke with me. BUTTTT Guys are so confusing, and that could just mean he likes me as a friend..eh?

SO this question is for the boys, what do YOU do when you like a girl.

[Not Enough Herb]

if hes spending time with you hes probly interesed. try making a move, and see what happens.

boys are not confusing, were simple creatures. Women are so complex it boggles the mind.

[make it legal]

I act that way when i like someone... but i dunno everyones different.

[Smokalotxxx]

if hes spending time with you hes probly interesed. try making a move, and see what happens.

boys are not confusing, were simple creatures. Women are so complex it boggles the mind.

You don't need to do much...it's not hard to be attracted to you.;) :rasta: :pimp: :smokin:

[BabyFacedAbortion]

p.s he sort of has a girlfriend lol

[pbzeppelin90]

if he spends more time with you than your brother, its safe to say hes coming over for you. and when you smoke with someone, you get a bond that only illicit materials can bring :D. id say make a move, show him your interested as well. if he knows his chances are hi, then he wont fear rejection.

coming from a highschool kid
goodluck

[Ammie]

Snap gurl......I told you what to do ;) now g0g0g0

[Its a Plant]

Wellllll, instead of beating yourself up about whether this guy likes you, why not ask him? From what you said, it sounds like he's looking for some lovin' elsewhere . .

Try and think of a way to subtly drop the question, you know? Like "so how's whats-her-face?" or "how are things with the ole ball-in-chain?" . . . "so what do you think of me?" . . Then as the conversation moves on, I'm sure you'll gather enough info from what he says to know where you stand and so on.

Lol, and I just noticed that literally 3/4 of the entire population here is in love with you. So I'm sure if nothing came of this crush, you'd at least have some action from the fellas around here. ~

[Inferius]

Cover your entire body with marijuana, and then tell him he can have you if he finishes it all within 5 mins :)
And then after his second frantic bowl just say kiss it and fuck him.
Edit: oh, and take pics.

[Abattoir Dream]

yeh, it sounds to me like he likes you, i used to have the exact same thing with this girl before, (she had a bf tho) i used to see her almost everyday,
and she stayed over and slept in my bed when she got kicked out from home, - nothing happened, it never could, but i really wish i had told her how much i liked her, that way i could hav at least kissed her once, i definately felt something for her, and im 99% sure she liked me too but, no matter how many people tell you, or how many times you tell yourself, its extremely hard to just say what you feel for them, (especially with a gf/bf in the mix) so im just letting you know, if i could go back in time, i would take a risk, and tell him everything, even if it didnt last, because as soon as you break that original thing you got it just gets worse and worse until you stop seeing each other almost completely. My advice, try and slightly confirm whether he likes you before letting him know anything, and try not to get hurt yeh, -that never helps ;) good luck grl,

[Gothen]

I don't know. I'm pretty sure I don't really lay my head on any of my female friend's heads unless I feel a lil somethin somethin for them, ya know?

What Not Enough Herb says is very true, ya know? I mean, unless you guys have been cool for years, and you guys are friends, if a guy starts hanging out with you more, that usually means he's looking at you now.

If he calls to talk to you, you KNOW somethin's up, or at least you should.

[Kryzco]

BabyFace I think you have no worries

just talk to him, make subtle hints, then just see where it goes

[Dreadmantic]

I'm not a boy, but one good rule of thumb with ALL MEN is this...if there's ANY CHANCE IN HELL he thinks he might be able to have sex with you, he'll pretty much do anything you want. There is nothing more important than the booty, sister ;)

[Euphoric]

she speaks the truth!!!

[LIP]

For me women are about 10X more confusing than working out how much sodium a fuel has in it to stop the sodium/vanadium ratios getting too high into the danger zone of 0.15 to 0.30, to stop corrosion of an engine...

[It's harder than it sounds]

I just tell the girl... hey... and then it normally goes wrong from there, so never say hey to a girl..


Hang on, i forgot what the question was brb.

Ok i read the question again, if i like a girl i'll hang out with her a little more, cuddle, and evetually ask her out.

[shoi]

dude it always breaks down from hey

or some shit


i love u too baby <3 just thot ud like to no
:p

[Frivolous248]

Umm, he likes you.

I don't think most guys put in time to be "just friends". Its like on That '70s show when that dude is going after donna, and hes like "I listened to you, I spent time with you, shared ideas, whats that all about?" and shes like "I thought we were friends!" so yeah...guys don't play games, if they like a girl they put in time and hang out with her like your lil bros friend is doing with you.

[make it legal]

Haha I love that show.

[allrightname]

Be careful not to alienate your brother by dating his friend. Especially if its one of his 'best' friends. That could turn into bad mojo...

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Well, here's a really shitty update. My bro just told me he's (the kid, not my bro) getting locked up for a year on Thursday of next week. What a fuckin' buzz kill. I'm going to talk to my brother about this and see what I should do. Thanks for the advice everyone <333333

[rottenPauL]

what did he do? murder somebody?

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Violation of probation I think..
I talked to my brother and he didn't really help, but atleast him and his girlfriend are broken up haha.

[rottenPauL]

how old is he?

[BabyFacedAbortion]

he's 15

[Inferius]

This is horrible news. Now you can't go through with "the plan"...
Do they have conjugal visits in kiddie jail?

[rottenPauL]

and ur 15 also??? I always thought youre like 20 or something :D:D:D:D

[BabyFacedAbortion]

I'm 16..Inferius you're such a laugh :P

[Frivolous248]

Yeah, you look older. Maybe its cause the tattoos.

That sucks...although I'm not sure if you'd wanna get involved with someone who did something that got them a year in jail, at 15.

[HypnotizedMind]

Fuk him before he gets locked up and tell him to call you when he gets out.

also beat his girlfriends ass, beat that bitches ass.

and the world will go on.

[hammertime]

ya your a cool chic, find someone who isnt gonna get put in the slammer.

[fikusroot]

Ha, that's such a guy thing to worry about. "Holy shit our knees are touching and she's laughing. Does that mean we get to fuck?"

[Abattoir Dream]

yeh thats a right kick in the teeth for u there,

[graph]

ya your a cool chic, find someone who isnt gonna get put in the slammer.

It's this wierd phase girls do. It makes you mad somewhere deep inside.

My best advice?

Freee your miiind.

[KHAN]

Basically if he isn't gay he likes you, he's a man. Dont fall for a crim tho!

[BabyFacedAbortion]

I've decided I'm going to tell him, only because I'll completely regret it if I don't tell him. lol thank you everyone!

[rottenPauL]

nice, u can brig him cigs and propper food when u visit him in jail :D

[Smokalotxxx]

I'm 16..Inferius you're such a laugh :P

Really?:confused:

[CheeseIsSoHigh]

i know whenever you can shit in someones hair and they still speak to you then they really really like you alot... take that from experience

[Inferius]

i know whenever you can shit in someones hair and they still speak to you then they really really like you alot... take that from experience

I don't think I ever want to test that.
:thumbsup:

[led.zeppelin]

I'd say make a move before he gets locked up, he might not be interested in girls when he comes out lol

[BabyFacedAbortion]

So I bailed out tonight, didn't tell him actually shyed away from him a lot (don't know what happened, I froze up). He's leaving tommorrow. Oh well. Boys are trouble any way ;)

[baisez le monde.]

weeeell honestly i think its better that you didnt tell himbecause whats the point if he's just going to leave you for a year? that would be a bit heartbreaking wouldnt it? youre extremely lovely and can get anyone else anyways!!!!!!

[rottenPauL]

too bad... this poor guy will jack off till his dick melts with a wear without pussy... u had a chance to give hope to a desperate man.. shame on you :D:D:D:D:D:D

[Frivolous248]

False hope, by the time he gets out, she'll probably find someone else. A year is a long time, especially for teenagers.

[budzy malone]

WOW 15. Never mind if he likes you any more. After about a year or so inside his ass will be as wide as a 4 lane highway.
Thats too bad. Most 15 year old guys are experimenting with dating and kissing and hugging and their first real sexual intercourse.....
Instead hes gonna become some felons bitch for a year. Sorry to hear that. I really mean that. It sounds like you really could have helped him with all his problems and shit. Face it.... the good life for him is over...:( :mad:

[Kid Dynamite]

WOW 15. Never mind if he likes you any more. After about a year or so inside his ass will be as wide as a 4 lane highway.
Thats too bad. Most 15 year old guys are experimenting with dating and kissing and hugging and their first real sexual intercourse.....
Instead hes gonna become some felons bitch for a year. Sorry to hear that. I really mean that. It sounds like you really could have helped him with all his problems and shit. Face it.... the good life for him is over...:( :mad:

not really a problem as such, considering she doesnt want to do him up the arse.

[phoenix]

Guys, I don't think a 15 year old is going to a place where he's gonna get raped. ;)

Yeah Babyfaced, you should done somethin with him before he left, given him a nice send off.

It's what I would have wanted, if I was gettin locked up for a year. :D

[Frivolous248]

Oh really? In 6th grade I met a kid who was in juvy and shit and saw a kid get raped. Yeah, they do that shit in any kind of prison/detention center/wherever the fuck criminals are sent.

[orangeman]

I know the situations over I guess but I'll tell you straight up, I'm not trying to be an asshole or anything that might upset some one but if a guys spending time with you, unless he's gay or respects you alot and just wants to be friends..he's trying to get at you :).

[Fattie]

hes not gonna be gone for a year... people and their first few encounters with the law...

[swift707]

boys are not HARD TO PLEASE!!! All you girls and faggots who are the girls of the relationship need to know is all you gotta do everyday is:

#1 - Suck his Dick.
#2 - Lick his Balls.
#3 - Make him a Sub Sandwhich (Subway and Quiznos is cool.)
#4 - Very Import!! DONT TALK TO DAM MUCH

[Th3 Chr0nic]

boys are not HARD TO PLEASE!!! All you girls and faggots who are the girls of the relationship need to know is all you gotta do everyday is:

#1 - Suck his Dick.
#2 - Lick his Balls.
#3 - Make him a Sub Sandwhich (Subway and Quiznos is cool.)
#4 - Very Import!! DONT TALK TO DAM MUCH


That is really terrible I think I should go lesbian if i have to please a man like that. Men aren't worth that the treatment I've had in the past.

[dank ass nugs]

Ask him out if your not fat or a slut you won't get rejected. NO MAN SAYS NO and I have yet to be proven wrong about that theiry. Listen to Nike "just do it" !!!!:stoned: :stoned: :stoned: WOOO hardcore

[Frivolous248]

That is really terrible I think I should go lesbian if i have to please a man like that. Men aren't worth that the treatment I've had in the past.

Not all guys are dumb like captain dipshit here, don't go lesbo just yet.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

So turns out he isnt leaving until THIS thursday, not last thursday. He spent the weekend at my house, partying it up but here's where it gets confusing. First night he was here, he cuddled with me, layed his head in my lap and such and then the second night he completely ignored me and layed his head on my best friends lap? And NOW, today, he wants to come over and hang out (no one else is here)..what the fuck is this kid thinking.

[Its a Plant]

Lol, what is this kid, some kind of lap-dog?

I'd say that at this point, you've got to decide if he's worth making a fuss over. Consider all aspects to the situation, mainly him leaving for a year, but others as well. If you conclude that he is, tell him. If not, bake him a cake with a file in it and wish him the best in the showers. ~

[rottenPauL]

LOL

[MaryJaneScott]

If not, bake him a cake with a file in it and wish him the best in the showers. ~

Dearest Plant!! Too bad no one did this for you while in the Uhaul..
LOL
Love!!

[Its a Plant]

Dearest Plant!! Too bad no one did this for you while in the Uhaul..
LOL
Love!!
LOL, exactly what I was thinking! It would have been very hard to bake a file into one of those pies we were eating. The pie would have been too hot to reach in and grab the file!

I had FUN in the Uhaul though. We still managed to smoke out that bad boy. ~

[MaryJaneScott]

:eek:
That's photographic evidence!
Where did you get that?!
I thought Ammie said she'd destroyed those!!

[Its a Plant]

Let's just say you and Ammie missed more than just that. You two really shouldn't drink off of your prisoner's keg anymore . . That's how people escape. =)

[Inferius]

Let's just say you and Ammie missed more than just that. You two really shouldn't drink off of your prisoner's keg anymore . . That's how people escape. =)

I am so confused...
:confused: :stoned:

[led.zeppelin]

Yeah, im too stoned to figure out tricky proverbs

[delta9thc06]

Maybe him ignoring u is him actually trying to get ur attention? I think he likes u.

[bud breath420]

just straight up ask him if he likes you or is he just playing you around... if he says answer number 2 kick him in the nuts... problem solved!

[Gothen]

...kick him in the nuts... problem solved!

Not for him they're not....

:: painful face smilie::

[Pride]

I was gonna say talk to your brother first cause of bros before hoes but then I just read you're 16 and past posts I still remember claimed you've had sex and i honestly think you're too young to be having lots of bfs and sex.

kids these days...

[downundadude]

grab his ass,,,,, if he likes you he will grab yours, then you can wrestle punching each other then take off your pants and start humping him, girls are so shy these days......

or play spin the bottle!! i do that with all my frigit girlfriends seems to work well, mind you its just the 2 of us..........

[rottenPauL]

so babyfaced... what happened???

[EmericanStoner420]

yea that dude iant goign away for a year for ajust a probation violation, my friend is getting sent away again october 11th for pocession of cocain, hes already been sent away for over 14 monthes, another friend just got put into detention and is getting sent away and one of my best friends has been sent away since febuary and is getting back this january, ohh and i highly doubt the kid will get raped, everybody in detention centers are pussys anyways




ede

[led.zeppelin]

If I ever get sent to prison il shiv some badass in the kidneys, so no one will one fuck with me

[bud breath420]

lmfao... hes gonna be jailbait for sure

[led.zeppelin]

no explanation, needed however im sure he'll appreciate you getting him some soap on a rope

[qdavid]

no explanation, needed however im sure he'll appreciate you getting him some soap on a rope

It won't be funny next year when someone says "Bend over and crack a smile." Or he could just change his name to Ben, as in Ben Dover. Juevvy hall, yeah right. Seriously. Don't worry about it.

[rachel25]

sorry to hear that hun. sounded like he was into you. Never mind though chin up babe. lol x:thumbsup:

[rajking86]

God help us all when a 15 year old boy is laying his head like a wounded terrier in various girls lap......

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Currently he's sitting behind me watching Pokemon with my brother. Fags..Well he's been at my house non-stop for the past two-three days. Im gonna send him a text later tonight and tell 'em how I feel. Him and his girlie are back together though.

[rottenPauL]

Pokemon????!??@??!??$!#@$^~!!!? Light him a bowl to bring him back to his sences... or maybe light a bowl yourself

[Inferius]

*little boys voice* "I choose you! Scarlet!"
*throws red and white pokemon ball*
hahahahahaha

[qdavid]

God, was I like that when I was 16? The answer is yes, except for the indiscriminate sex and watching kiddie shows.....Fags.

[delta9thc06]

Ha pokemons a shitload of hooplah! show sucks. Anyway how did the textin go?