Love question

[Roulettedares]

I know this isn't the best place to get love advice, but i need it.

Okay Im back at school, and I met this girl named Ari, that i really really like. u could say i have a crush on her.

But im always too nervous to talk to her, and when i do its just for like one second.

When I saw her myspace profile, i soon figured out that she is a big stoner. And now im just dying to at least be friends with this girl.

But I need a way of talking to her. Any Advice?

[azure]

just realise how much of a good opportuity this is, dont miss out like i have!
even if you go up to her and say how nervous you are about talking to her, its off your chest and she may be flattered as she realises you like her.
just jump in you only live once

[Its a Plant]

Hang out with her a few more times until hopefully both of you 'warm up' a bit and things are more relaxed. You should find it a lot easier to talk to her then, or at least the more you hang with her and get to know her.

Lol, and yeah, what others have said. Talk about anything. Talk about the weather. Talk about shoes. Just talk.

Ask her if she wants to smoke. That should definitely makes things more relaxed.

~ "Any they call it . . . pupppy loveee" ~

[qdavid]

Just go up to her and say, "You wanna' blaze?", and then let nature take its course.d

[rottenPauL]

yes man call er at ur house for an ounce-killing and, who knows, maybe she sleeps over there

[shoi]

ur pretty lucky lol just break out a joint or somthing

[OniEhtRedrum781]

ur pretty lucky lol just break out a joint or somthing

word

[Roulettedares]

Well i think on TUESDAY (3 day weekend lol) im gonna just say "hey i dunno how to say this but i love u" and see whatll happen. Im pretty sure shell be flattered although, i am pretty beat looking (http://www.myspace.com/zakkenayo me).

But, even if i dont get her i just wanna be friends. Im pretty sure shell be content with that. God im gonna be so nervous ill prob throw-up T_T. That has happened once. Oh well she seems very un-shallow from her myspace pro so shell be happy with me.

It'd be hilarious if she had an account on Cannabis and was looking at this right now. Me: "hi *waves*" lol

[SmokingPlatypus]

I wouldn't do that if I were you. Just go up and start talking to her. Don't be nervous, what's the worst that could happen?

[Roulettedares]

well u see i think she might avoid me.

I start clenching my jaw thinking how im supposed to put a relationship 2gether

[birdgirl73]

OK, Roulettedares, I think it's time you hear from a girl's point of view here (albeit a grownup girl). SmokingPlatypus was giving you good advice there when he recommended you not leap off the cliff and profess your love for her right away. If, as you said in your next post, you fear she might be likely to avoid you if you just try and talk to her, you'd really be blindsiding her with the "I love you" declaration. You have to go slow at saying that sort of thing so you don't jump the gun and say something prematurely affectionate before you've even developed a close friendship/early romance. Seriously, it might help you blow off some tension to get the "I love you" off your chest, but if she's the least bit awkward around you now and y'all aren't sure how you feel and respond around each other, I guarantee that telling her "I love you" is just going to make things more awkward.

Just go talk to her. As you begin to strike up friendship by talking regularly, do something sweet and romantic like write her a note. Or bring her a flower. Make her a CD. Do some other little gesture. She's not going to feel any doubt that you like her if you show her friendship and begin gradually making little romantic gestures. I know you guys these days tend to move a lot faster and straight into the hookup part of things, but if you could slow down a bit and start with friendship then build to romance/courtship, the relationship will benefit in the long run. It'll be more satisfying for both of you, and you won't scare her away before you've even stepped up to the first rung of the ladder. You know?

Think about it, OK? And good luck!

[FAllout]

Ask her if she tokes then go from there...

[Frivolous248]

Well i think on TUESDAY (3 day weekend lol) im gonna just say "hey i dunno how to say this but i love u" and see whatll happen.

...lol, I realllllllllly hope that wasn't your plan.

[royalHIGHness]

MORE SPECIFIC INSTRUCTIONS:
when around her make inuendos or jokes about being high...wishing you were high...ask her why her eyes are soooo red...
pretend like you need a bowl or help finding a bag bc its so dry or some shit...smoke her up...get munchies.....get foood...
friendship will blossom...

[lagstronaut]

...lol, I realllllllllly hope that wasn't your plan.

me and you both :stoned:

[hammertime]

You cant be nervous about talking to her, cause i used to be the same way and being nervous does get any chics, you just gotta talk to her and be friends with her andIf you know she smokes, you just gotta strike up some coversation, then some how slip smoking into chat and boom your smokin some weed with a cool chic! let us know how it goes, im pullin for you

[ThePurpleMan]

BRO ITS SO EASY.... just be like hey babby girl.. you wanna smoke a bowl? or if you dont have the cofindence i have just be like hey we should blaze some time.. its easy i promise... then when u2 are dating u can say it tis all thankz to the purple kid

[Roulettedares]

yeah honestly, she barely knows me dipshit. If i go up and say "hey u wanna blaze" chances are shell think im a stalker and the whole situation will get worse.

Im gonna just start following birdgirl's advice. Talk to her after class/during lunch/passing period/etc. I will start playing guitar for her (specifically songs she like), making her CDs, maybe even take her for free ice cream sometime (my sis works at baskin robins :D). So It can only get better.

I jsut need a good firestarter, if u help me with that than i will appreciate ur help TONS

[LIP]

*clears throat...small cough...clears again*


When i read that i did it lol

[Samwhore]

just ask her to smoke a bowl and see how it goes from there

[Blunt420]

When i read that i did it lol

LOL, so did I

[ThePurpleMan]

hey dip shit... u have to have confidence... which u obviously dont... so do it on myspace lol be like wow i didnt know u blazed thats so cool and i barely know u but ur ausomee

[Frivolous248]

hey dip shit... u have to have confidence... which u obviously dont... so do it on myspace lol be like wow i didnt know u blazed thats so cool and i barely know u but ur ausomee

Hey yeah! Thats the best idea anyone has said. Just leave her a comment and be like "hey I seen you before, lol I didnt know you toked, hit me up if you wanna blaze :rasta: "

or something like that, then see what she says, maybe she'll think "free bud" and you can smoke her out.

[ThePurpleMan]

yea i met a chick like that from gelndora SOOO hot and i was like hey ill meet u after school one day and well pack bowls so me and my friend drove up there and now me and her toke up and are like friends with benifits.. we make out and just mess around.. i have to say shes ausome

[Roulettedares]

well i talked to her today and realized that she is a MAJOR FUCKING BITCH!!!

Im gonna talk to her agian and see whats up. Hopefully shes different than what she made herself look like. If she isn't than im no longer interested.

[lagstronaut]

well i talked to her today and realized that she is a MAJOR FUCKING BITCH!!!

Im gonna talk to her agian and see whats up. Hopefully shes different than what she made herself look like. If she isn't than im no longer interested.


so you're not in love with her anymore after spending a few minutes together? :p

[ThePurpleMan]

lol

[Professor Dan K.]

hahhahahah, damn sorry bro, thats lust for ya though.

[birdgirl73]

well i talked to her today and realized that she is a MAJOR FUCKING BITCH!!!

Im gonna talk to her agian and see whats up. Hopefully shes different than what she made herself look like. If she isn't than im no longer interested.
Give her a little time, Roulettedares. Sometimes guys deem girls "bitches" when all in the world that's going on is they're shy or possibly uncomfortable around you. Or what if she was having a bad day? Do you think you ever come off as less than friendly when you're having one? This is all why you need to get to know people gradually. Keep chatting with her.

[ThePurpleMan]

hey i had love at first sight today... and i was like where have u been all my life but she was getting in the car with her mom and she was like ill see u later and smiled and blew me a kiss... but i dunno how im supposed to see her agian... it was a robecks juice lol

[DannyMan]

You have no idea how hard I'd laugh if I saw someone do that to start their courting of a girl lmao.

"Hey, Jake...that girl over there is pretty fine."*points*
"DAYUM! She sure is!...wait...I think I smoked with her before!"
"Oh really? Hmmm..." *friend goes up to girl, introduces self, pulls out the joint for a second...the girl's eyes widen and then they look around...then walk to the kid's car*
"Oh God. I don't want him to give me a ride until he has that motherfucker cleaned out inside now..."

Well wouldn't you know that's pretty much how I met my gf :cool:
She sat next to me in my first college class, and she was freakin out because she forgot her book and whatnot. I was blazed as fuck and I was just making her laugh and stuff. Then on break I thought of a way to get closer to this girl: Smoking weeeedd, smoking weed!
I went up to her as she got out of class and told her I had a surprise for her, brought her to my car and busted out a blunt I was gonna smoke after school. Well change of plans :cool:

Then we did so everyday, taking turns at smoking each other out. We got a lil closer and first thing you know the blunt's burning the carpet at the bottom of her car cuz we're making out, mwah! :D

Good memories hehe


Hey ThePurpleMan, there's a cute girl working at the Robek's by my house, what a world. :rasta:

[Roulettedares]

lmfao ahh! lol

I asked her bout it on myspace and she says

"
haha...sorry about that.
im pmsing out of my mind! "

oh well good enough excuse for me :) i forgive her!

[smoke it]

Just go up to her and say, "You wanna' blaze?", and then let nature take its course.d

jus like that. ask her 4 weed or sumthin
:smokin:

[WhiskeyGirl]

I know this isn't the best place to get love advice, but i need it.

Okay Im back at school, and I met this girl named Ari, that i really really like. u could say i have a crush on her.

But im always too nervous to talk to her, and when i do its just for like one second.

When I saw her myspace profile, i soon figured out that she is a big stoner. And now im just dying to at least be friends with this girl.

But I need a way of talking to her. Any Advice?

Yeah , let us know if ya score, i know im curious LOL
WG

[birdgirl73]

lmfao ahh! lol

I asked her bout it on myspace and she says

"
haha...sorry about that.
im pmsing out of my mind! "

oh well good enough excuse for me :) i forgive her!
LOL!! I'm glad to hear this. I thought you might have been thinking of abandoning that ship far too early. Sounds like she had a fairly reasonable excuse. . . .

By the way, welcome to your soon-to-be-grownup years. For the next 35 years or so, you'll be hearing that PMS excuse out of many of the women in your life. Thank you for starting off on a tolerant foot!

[pogmoasal1]

haha after growing up with my mom and sister i have decided that pms is a very scary thing.

[birdgirl73]

PMS can be scary! I have mercifully and happily been spared that particular affliction, but I have a longtime dear friend, Judy, who becomes like devil-woman for five or so days each month. It's scary for her family, and it's hard on us, her friends. I know it can be very bad at times. I've seen it and felt the wrath! She's truly like another person. We're hoping she'll reach menopause early. . . .Fortunately, most people who have it have fairly mild symptoms.

[Roulettedares]

well what she did unfortunately had nothing to do with PMS :P. She just walked away while i was talking to her basically saying with her actions "I dont want to talk to u".

But i just said it over myspace "Why are u such a bitch to me" and this was her reply:

"i dont mean to be a bitch.
im sure your a cool kid and all but your coming on waaay too strong.
i dont know you.
at all.
dont push it.
things like friendship come with time..."

I just take it as "we can be friends 'later', you suck!"

Right now i am hella fucking bipolar so im sorry if i sound irrational or unorthodox.

[NightProwler]

smoking and then talking is always a good way to bond.

[Frivolous248]

Haha, that sucks. What did you say to her anyway?

[YouD0nt]

Yah, you do sound a little posessive/bipolar or something roulette dude, but we've all got our problems, i'm scared as fuck to talk to girls also, Mj usually helps with my confidence, but i've been dry for a month I guess.. So i've been struggling lately..

Good luck bro, just baby steps man, baby steps.

[Roulettedares]

wow have i got hell of a fucking story to tell

okay ari, the girl i liked i gave up on for a little bit bc she was being a bitch to me. But our relationship would soon take a turn. a BIG ass fucking turn

okay so last week, in math class (class with Ari) we had to do partner work. And my partner happened to be near Ari's. And people around me notice my Kandi, and on it it says "<3MDMA<3" and they ask "whats that" and they get pissed at me for being a raver. And they ask "WHO GAVE YOU YOUR FIRST PILL" and i said my friend in Tierrasanta (suburb of San Diego where i used to live). Immediately Ari turns around and goes "what about Tierrasanta?"

I said "I used to live there" and it turns out that she lived up the street from me when i was in like the 3rd grade. Creepy huh? BUt thats not all.

I figured out that she used to bee best friends with my sister over myspace, and as a matter of fact, I ALREADY FUCKING KNEW HER!!! This blew my (and prob her) mind COMPLETELY! I know we think about the same memory of Tierrasanta, which i think was the last of her. So she gave me her phone number and apologized for being a bitch to me. WHo knows what will happen next

Quote from hella old message:
"i dont mean to be a bitch.
im sure your a cool kid and all but your coming on waaay too strong.
i dont know you.
at all.
dont push it.
things like friendship come with time..."

hmm i already knew her; and its been 5 years since we've seen each other last. lol

[lagstronaut]

wow have i got hell of a fucking story to tell

okay ari, the girl i liked i gave up on for a little bit bc she was being a bitch to me. But our relationship would soon take a turn. a BIG ass fucking turn

okay so last week, in math class (class with Ari) we had to do partner work. And my partner happened to be near Ari's. And people around me notice my Kandi, and on it it says "<3MDMA<3" and they ask "whats that" and they get pissed at me for being a raver. And they ask "WHO GAVE YOU YOUR FIRST PILL" and i said my friend in Tierrasanta (suburb of San Diego where i used to live). Immediately Ari turns around and goes "what about Tierrasanta?"

I said "I used to live there" and it turns out that she lived up the street from me when i was in like the 3rd grade. Creepy huh? BUt thats not all.

I figured out that she used to bee best friends with my sister over myspace, and as a matter of fact, I ALREADY FUCKING KNEW HER!!! This blew my (and prob her) mind COMPLETELY! I know we think about the same memory of Tierrasanta, which i think was the last of her. So she gave me her phone number and apologized for being a bitch to me. WHo knows what will happen next

Quote from hella old message:
"i dont mean to be a bitch.
im sure your a cool kid and all but your coming on waaay too strong.
i dont know you.
at all.
dont push it.
things like friendship come with time..."

hmm i already knew her; and its been 5 years since we've seen each other last. lol



lucky bastard

[Blunt burner turner]

this is like fucking neighbours man i'm entranced, keep us posted. also now yo have her number and a shared thing and a shared memory:
ring ring
Ari:hello?
You:hey wanna come round and blaze and catch up (but not straight away say some other shit like hi and stuff firtsobviously (or not)
Ari:yeah sure, blah blah blah...

long story short
be yourself if she doesn't like who you are then you don't want to make her like someone your not, messy hard work, like mucking out a stable.
good luck. x

[Blunt burner turner]

oh yeah and i would change my mood because of this thread but i can't be bothered, you have truley made my evening though, like i said, like neighbours. x

[rachel25]

sounds like its meant to be. good luck sweetie lol x

[Frivolous248]

Damn thats wierd. You shoulda been like "Hey, you used to live up the street from me! Wanna' fuck?"

Like everyone else above said, keep us posted, this is more interesting then staring at nothing and being completely stoned, well almost.

[hammertime]

your in man, you are in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DONT BLOW IT

[Roulettedares]

She invited my sister to go on a boat (but not me :( ) Oh well shell prob come back to my place and ill stone them uP :)

[Roulettedares]

Indeed, I have good news (despite the fact my day has been like the shittiest outta any other ones).

Me and Ari are both ravers :)!!!!!!!!! w0000000t!!!!! And she wants me to make candy for her birthday. Lol im gonna make her a shit load. God this is like my time for repentance.

Okay so a little good news, otherwise my day sucked.

[Roulettedares]

Oh yeah (edit time ranout i apologize for double posting) I sit so close to her in math now its really easy to get her attention.