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kyle
10-19-2004, 10:35 PM
hey, heres my problem. if any of you read my other post ( and remembered :) ) than u would noe about this girl i like, if not, heres a summary
i really like this girl erin in my class shes really nice and hot and we like all the same music and all that, "but" shes really popular, so that sucked cuz i just got into this school and im not, i dont noe to many ppl, neway so she started to hang out with me and talk to me in class and stuff FYI she hugged me today and i almost toppled over, im jsut now being able to talk to her without sputtering and going all red, and it started to seem that she liked me, but as ive noticed she flirts and hugs everyone so im nothing special, and today wen i was just about to ask her out she was kissing some guy that i found was her boyfreind, it felt like a hundred people just stabbed me in the heart. so there that goes down the drain like so many other things... i now posess a mole hill of love poems ide like to burn and more of a landfill of hatred poems, that im not gonna bother to post ( to much negative bitching! ) so yah, who wants to give this a shot, give advice to ur young-un stoner, kyle
thcbongman
10-19-2004, 10:40 PM
You can either do two things. Well you can combine the two as time goes on.....

1. Find someone else to lust over who is single and available.

2. If you truly genuine about your feeling for her, I would wait down until they break up, and then go for the gold.
KillaBuzz
10-19-2004, 10:48 PM
You can either do two things. Well you can combine the two as time goes on.....

1. Find someone else to lust over who is single and available.

2. If you truly genuine about your feeling for her, I would wait down until they break up, and then go for the gold.
rite on
apsinthion
10-19-2004, 10:50 PM
Just be as good a friend as you can to her and in the end if your lucky then thing's will hopefully swing your way.

Bf/Gf's come and go when your a teenager but good friendships will last longer.
sToNeDpEnGuIn420
10-19-2004, 11:16 PM
Bf/Gf's come and go when your a teenager but good friendships will last longer.

all i can so is omg so true and kyle to u id say wait and try and find someone else at the same time always gotta have a fall back atleast IMO unless u really are that crazy about this girl
MRB041
10-19-2004, 11:20 PM
Get stoned till u stop thinkin about her......thats what im forced to do
kyle
10-19-2004, 11:48 PM
i'm really crazy about her, ty for the advice tho, im gonna do what MRB's doin
givemesomeweed
10-20-2004, 12:48 AM
i feel the same way about a girl but she doesnt have a boyfriend :)
RESiNATE
10-20-2004, 01:11 AM
I lost count of the amount of times that something similar has happened to me, Kyle - don't worry dude, you'll get over it.

I speak from experience...it's hard sometimes, but there you go - life's a bitch, aint it!

Personally, stay single - that's what I'm doing - less heartache that way :)
00Ampersand
10-20-2004, 01:59 AM
You just got a case of the dreaded "one-itis" my friend; investing too much thought and energy into just one girl is one huge, major disappointment waiting to happen. Spread that out among more girls and you'll have more of a chance at sucess. Believe me when I say that it is wayyyyy too easy to fall head-over-heels for someone who you'd imagine to be perfect and all ways imagineable...sometimes without REALLY knowing who they are...and when this happens, it's hard to remember that there are better, single girls out there (blue balls is a major contributor to this diversion). So in conclusion, meet more girls. It'll make you feel better...PLUS, if your current object of affection sees you macking it up with other girls, she'll be more likely to be attracted to you, dump her bf, and chase after you (us humans always want what we can't have ;) )
cheers
~007~