Pain while having sex?

[johnny cottonmouth]

ok so me and me g/f were having sex lastnight and in the middle of it she sudenly told me to stop and that she was done. now at the time i didnt know what had happened i just thought she had had enough. so i got up and went to throw the condom away (gotta be safe). and when i came back she was crying so now im kinda tripping b/c i have no idea whats going on so i asked her what was wrong and she said that i had hit a nerve or something and it hurt her really bad. now i remember feeling my cock hit something just before she said stop but i didnt think to much of it. does anyone know or have an idea of what might have happened? and she said that it was a nerve not like the normal pressure that she gets, it was a sharp pain. and i hate the idea of hurting her in any way so any help would be apreciated. Thanks in advance.

-JC

[OniEhtRedrum781]

Was she a virgin? If she was, that thing you hit was probably you popping her cherry. If she wasn't a virgin, you may want to invest in some lube. Good luck!

[Loudogg]

Her cervix maybe? That happened to my ex once when I has pounding her really hard. She was hurtin' for certain. Only ever happed once though. I dunno.

[cole]

is she on her period? if she forgot to take out her tampon thats probibly the problem

[birdgirl73]

Johnny, often what happens is that if you're thrusting fairly deeply and perhaps slightly at an angle, you can bump into the area where her ovaries are inside, and that's a very tender internal spot and can cause significant pain. The parts of the female reproductive system are all quite close together up in there, which means a deep thrust can sometimes inadvertently poke a tender area. This tends to happen more when you're in the standard guy-on-top missionary position.

When she's on top and is able to control the depth of the thrusts a little better, you won't be as likely to run the risk of thrusting into the area where the ovaries are. Work on slowing down and taking shorter, slower, shallower strokes or let her take the upper position, and you'll avoid that problem in the future. Good luck!

[Garden Knowm]

Just put in the first 6 inches. then asses her facial expression.

Proceed with caution..

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HEY BIRDY.. : )

[birdgirl73]

Hey, sweetie! Good to see you online, Knowm. I liked that line "then assess her facial expression. Proceed with caution"!

[OniEhtRedrum781]

is she on her period? if she forgot to take out her tampon thats probibly the problem

that would be pretty sad...

[shmoofer]

you most likely hit her cervix. that doesn't feel good. probably the equivalent of kicking you in the nuts.

[johnny cottonmouth]

thanks for the respones everyone. i think birdgirl hit it on the head b/c she said it really hurt but after a little while it didnt hurt anymore. and no she didnt have a tampon in and she isnt a virgin. so thats gotta be it. and i have no problem with being on top or on bottom but she likes to be on bottom b/c she says that im better at it. we tried slowing down and not going as hard but when her legs are on my shoulders i still hit it even if im not going fast and hard. so i think your right bird and thank you very very much.
-JC

[cole]

that would be pretty sad...

people can be stupid you never know