SOME THINGS SHOULD STAY IN THE BEDROOM

[Kenn]

MAN SOMTHIN S REALLY PISSIN ME OFF AT THE MOMENT AND ID LIKE SOME OPINIONS. my girl and I went to aparty where all our friends were ,anyway everything was goin fine ,the boys were in the shed drinkin and smokin and the girls gatherd in their little group as usual. I went to the toilet ,the window was open and i could hear the girls chattin so i thought id eavsdrop and see what they were talkin abt.This is when it gets wierd I hear one of my good mates girl starts tellin the other girls how my mate loves a dildo shoved up his ass while avin sex!!.Fuck dudes i nearly fell over i couldnt believe what i was hearing, my mate who i go shootin with campin with likes abit of the plastic fantastic,man i was embarressed for him.So i go back to the lads in the shed and there he is smokin and drinkin just like always but I cant look at him or even talk to him, everytime i look at him i picture him with a fkn dildo up his ass.So its been awhile now and every timt my mate rings me to go out or somthin ,I make excuses to avoid him. Why am I bein this way i dont know how to deal with this shit . I wish i never heard what i did it just made things...WIERD!!:confused:

[Delta9 UK]

My guess is you are homophobic = which means you are probably gay :)

But seriously - so what if he's a plastic butthole surfer? He's still your buddy? Right?

P.S: Make a note of any gay stuff you have done with your girlfriend 'cos it's gonna get around :)

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Why does this bother you so much? It doesn't make him gay, or bi or anything (although I dont know his sexuality). It doesnt change the person he is, think about it this way; he liked a dildo in the ass before you found out about it and you didnt think anything weird of him so why should you now? I understand that it's a shocking thing to hear about your friend, I guess but it doesnt change who HE is. He's just kinky, you'll get over it.

[Kenn]

[quote=Delta9 UK]My guess is you are homophobic = which means you are probably gay :) WRONG!! Thats why its pissin me off i dont even know any gays and in rural Australia it is really looked down upon bigtime .

[WeedGremblin]

Kenn I hear what your saying man, I wouldnt be able to look at the guy the same anymore.

Unfortunately we live in a day and age where if this type of thing offends you, you are automatically labeled as a homophobic(as our buddy delta has so clearly pointed out)close-minded blah blah etc etc. So your not going to really find the understanding that you are seeking here. Your going to find a lot of pro-gay claiming to bi etc etc types on here. I try to stay away from the sexuality forum as I do not agree with somethings that are said here.

Im on the same page with you though. To me that isnt normal at all, but to someone else it might be. Those 2 types of people have to respect each others opinions weither or not they can understand the reasoning behind it.

Personally my brown eye is a one way street, and the only thing that goes down that one way street is what I ate the day before. Thats it.....

I find it funny that nature doesnt let homosexuals reproduce, phew! Hopefully no further genetic mutations happen that lets gays reproduce asexually....

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ah goddamnit im high

[Captain Hanks]

MAN SOMTHIN S REALLY PISSIN ME OFF AT THE MOMENT AND ID LIKE SOME OPINIONS. my girl and I went to aparty where all our friends were ,anyway everything was goin fine ,the boys were in the shed drinkin and smokin and the girls gatherd in their little group as usual. I went to the toilet ,the window was open and i could hear the girls chattin so i thought id eavsdrop and see what they were talkin abt.This is when it gets wierd I hear one of my good mates girl starts tellin the other girls how my mate loves a dildo shoved up his ass while avin sex!!.Fuck dudes i nearly fell over i couldnt believe what i was hearing, my mate who i go shootin with campin with likes abit of the plastic fantastic,man i was embarressed for him.So i go back to the lads in the shed and there he is smokin and drinkin just like always but I cant look at him or even talk to him, everytime i look at him i picture him with a fkn dildo up his ass.So its been awhile now and every timt my mate rings me to go out or somthin ,I make excuses to avoid him. Why am I bein this way i dont know how to deal with this shit . I wish i never heard what i did it just made things...WIERD!!:confused:

i can understand man, i never become real close friends with bisexuals, then again, i never avoid them either, am allways nice...

the problem here is that you don't really know if he's bi or not, he could just like the increase of the orgasm (something in your but you press makes it more pleasurable i heard in class once)

don't treat him any different than you did before, and if you find out he is bi and can't ignore it and keep things the same, then at least don't make it obvious

[Kenn]

ah goddamnit im high
Im fkn high too man . cheers 4 the comments man nice to see theres someone who wld feel the same , my ass just for shittin thanks.:thumbsup:

[qdavid]

That's gotta be one of the funniest things I've ever read. But you gotta chill man. She could have benn makin' it all up for whatever reason. but lmfao.

[orangeman]

LOL thats hillarious. I dunno what to do, just deal with it..but dont touch his hands lol.

[birdgirl73]

I don't necessarily think it has to do with your mate's potential bisexuality or your fear of it. I think you simply have some basic discomfort with the idea of a dildo up your own rear. And to think about it happening to someone you hadn't imagined in that way just makes it worse. This is about your discomfort with your own sexuality and perhaps your own attitude toward toys or anal stimulation, not your discomfort with him, really. Lots of straight guys like anal and/or prostate stimulation. And plenty are open-minded about playing with toys. Truly, shouldn't consenting adults be able to play in the manner they choose? And does someone else's idea of a turn-on have to be the same as yours? No. That was fairly private stuff you overheard, and what I wish made you far more uncomfortable was the idea that his lady friend was sharing tidbits about her partner's likes/dislikes in an indiscriminate manner.

You're clearly fairly young. As you mature, you'll get to where you're more comfortable with your own feelings and attitudes toward sex play and sexual experimentation of various kinds. And you'll come to recognize that other people will have a wide variety of interests, including toys, and that those interests, if you find yourself choosing to eavedrop again to find out about them, doesn't make those people perverted or stop them from being good mates, good friends.

[Snorbel]

It's just the prejudice of your culture.

Imagine how most people have been indoctrinated against drug use. Now imagine how they would feel about your use of cannabis.

This is prejudice, not based on anything logical. Just as some people may never look at you the same when they know you use drugs, so you look down on your friend.

If you are to resolve your prejudice, maybe the cannabis movement stands a chance. As we try to change people's prejudice and longstanding disdain for certain practices, so must you become more accepting of other people's actions/preferences.

Do you accept anal sex or anal foreplay with a girl as the receiver? A female anus is no more built for sex than a male anus.

[graph]

Some people are black. Some people are white. Some people smoke weed, some people drink. Some people like having dildos shoved up their ass, some people think that you should judge someone differently because of something that doesn't affect them in any way.

In all reality, he's not hurting anyone, or himself or his girlfriend for that matter. Maybe the phobias in your area create a boundary where sexual taboo's can't be discussed. Male anal play is fairly common. Now, it's not my cup of tea, but if my best friend was into it, I wouldn't think of him any differently.

At the end of the day, so what? He's into something that doesn't hurt him or anyone around him, so why do you have a problem with it? In reality, you're the one with the problem, not him. Accept people for who they are, not what they shove up their ass.

[EbelEyes]

Why bother avoiding him? Just because he happens to shove a dildo up his ass, it doesn't change who he is. So what if he likes doing that, to me thats not wierd at all, fuck it, whatever floats your bloat.

Your just going to have to accept that that is how he is. He's still the same person, your just going to have to accept that fact that he enjoys having a dildo up his ass.

You'll get over it, and you will feel normal around him again if you can just accept it.

[Ammie]

Oh Snap!! this has got to win funniest thread of the year!

[NightProwler]

Why does this bother you so much? It doesn't make him gay, or bi or anything (although I dont know his sexuality). It doesnt change the person he is, think about it this way; he liked a dildo in the ass before you found out about it and you didnt think anything weird of him so why should you now? I understand that it's a shocking thing to hear about your friend, I guess but it doesnt change who HE is. He's just kinky, you'll get over it.

i really couldnt have said it better myself...

[Shannon]

Maybe he doesnt even like a dildo up his ass and hes just telling this chick that he does so shell do kinky stuff too...

[stickyinsalem]

ok...the prostate is easily found through the anus...thus if something went up your ass and hit your prostate over and over again...it would make you have the best orgasm that you ever had...its very simple actually...you dont even need a dildo...you can have your girl do it to you....with her finger...actually it is found that many men like this...havent you ever watched the movie ROAD TRIP where stiffler gets fingered up the ass when he is donating cum????? geezz...before you become too judgemental over your friend look into the facts...and quit being a lame ass...he likes freaky shit...ever thought your girl would like it if you were a little less tense about some stuff in bed????? give it a thought and ask her about it toooooooo...stop being a typical male and open yourself up

[zero2104]

duude, just tell him u overheard them saying shit like that, and tell him u swear that u wont tell anyone, and maybe it was a lie

[Kenn]

duude, just tell him u overheard them saying shit like that, and tell him u swear that u wont tell anyone, and maybe it was a lie
u know mate that sounds like a good idea .I think ive gotta just get over it like many av said ,but yeah just sayin i overheard.... could be the way to go.

[Cheery Cherry]

duude, just tell him u overheard them saying shit like that, and tell him u swear that u wont tell anyone, and maybe it was a lie


Are you serious? Do you know how embarrassed his friend is going to feel? Maybe even pissed? Betrayed?

I would definitely tell your friend that "so and so is talking shit about you" (depending on how close you and your friend are) but I wouldn't tell him what you heard in details. If anything, I would let the girl with the big mouth know that you wouldn't trust her with any secrets. Like someone said, it may all be a lie.

[Kenn]

fuck yeah the slut shouldnt be mouthin off like this anyway ,if she shut the fuck up in the first place there wouldnt be an issue. The main reason its pissin me is my mate has no shame payin out on gays when hes drunk with the lads and then he goes home and shoves a fkn dildo up his ass!. THATS WRONG!.

[Inferius]

fuck yeah the slut shouldnt be mouthin off like this anyway ,if she shut the fuck up in the first place there wouldnt be an issue. The main reason its pissin me is my mate has no shame payin out on gays when hes drunk with the lads and then he goes home and shoves a fkn dildo up his ass!. THATS WRONG!.

Actually that sounds like it goes together. He's insecure. Which means if he knows you know, or that his significant other is telling people he likes to have a sexual act done to him thats usually considering homosexual, he's going to be extremely sensitive.

[SuperTorch]

Maybe he doesnt even like a dildo up his ass and hes just telling this chick that he does so shell do kinky stuff too...

good point, he may be testing her freakiness. If shes into this then maybe she into geting things stuck up her a** and thats what hes trying to find out.

[FeastonThisSHITT]

Some people are black. Some people are white. Some people smoke weed, some people drink. Some people like having dildos shoved up their ass, some people think that you should judge someone differently because of something that doesn't affect them in any way.

In all reality, he's not hurting anyone, or himself or his girlfriend for that matter. Maybe the phobias in your area create a boundary where sexual taboo's can't be discussed. Male anal play is fairly common. Now, it's not my cup of tea, but if my best friend was into it, I wouldn't think of him any differently.

At the end of the day, so what? He's into something that doesn't hurt him or anyone around him, so why do you have a problem with it? In reality, you're the one with the problem, not him. Accept people for who they are, not what they shove up their ass.


First of all there is a big diference between your race and your sexual actions. The diference is choice. People do not choose to be what race they are, they DO choose their sexual actions. I don't like it when people try to group race with sexual preferance. A Homophobe is not the same as a racist by any means. (I know you never claimed this, I just threw it out there sense we are talking along these lines.)


The reason people have a problem with the idea of a man getting a dildo shoved up his ass is because it SIMULATES a gay sexual encounter with a cock. Some people are disgusted by the idea of male on male sexual activity. I for one, am one of these people. I grew up very liberaly, never was there a cultural boundry put on bi/homosexuality in my life.

I knew I didn't like male on male when I saw it on TV for the first time. I felt literaly sick to my stomache when I saw it. I was uncomfortable and I knew that this type of thing is not only not my cup of tea, but I was actualy quite angered by it.

Like I said, I have no cultural biases. I wasn't around people calling each other fags, my parents were not religious, I am not religious. I just think a male getting a dick, or anything shaped like one, up his ass is fucking gross and wrong.

You can tell me all you want not to rag on people for being who they are, but before you do, I ask you to think about what you are going say. You are about to rag on someone for being who they are ( I dont like gays, thats part of who I am) If you rag on me for that, than you are being a hypocrite in every sense of the word

I say rag on who you want to. If you get offended because people find your sexual preferences to be disgusting and offensive, than good.... you cancel each other out..,. you offend one another... leave it at that.

Stop trying to convert people to the liberal bullshit kids are growing up on tese days.

If your ok with fags and bis... be ok with them... dont try to change other people who aren't ok with them, or explain to them why they are wrong for having their own view on the matter. No matter how negative it may be

[Smokeychik]

Ummm hello? Don't ever say anything to him, that is the WORST advice!!! OMFG! Not only is it none of your business, but you are going to totally interfere with HIS RELATAIONSHIP, he will probably dump that girl for telling. It is SOOOO not your place to mention this to him, Jesus it could rebound and affect more people than you can imagine!

But back to the issue at hand, I have to say this, no one else has that I read, and I did skim through, so sorry if this has been mentioned... that was fucked up of you to listen in on the girls. Girls talk about their sex lives, ever seen Sex in the City? Not sure, you are not in America, anyway, it is IN OUR NATURE as girls... we always talk about our sex lives, our boyrfiends, our periods, everything...this will never ever change. I think it was wrong of you to listen in when you were not suposed to be... so now you just have to suck it up, not litereally, lol, but be a man, and just forget it. Does not change who he is. Don't be shallow, some guys like that shit and they would never dream of being gay, he just likes some kink.

[FeastonThisSHITT]

Ummm hello? Don't ever say anything to him, that is the WORST advice!!! OMFG! Not only is it none of your business, but you are going to totally interfere with HIS RELATAIONSHIP, he will probably dump that girl for telling. It is SOOOO not your place to mention this to him, Jesus it could rebound and affect more people than you can imagine!

But back to the issue at hand, I have to say this, no one else has that I read, and I did skim through, so sorry if this has been mentioned... that was fucked up of you to listen in on the girls. Girls talk about their sex lives, ever seen Sex in the City? Not sure, you are not in America, anyway, it is IN OUR NATURE as girls... we always talk about our sex lives, our boyrfiends, our periods, everything...this will never ever change. I think it was wrong of you to listen in when you were not suposed to be... so now you just have to suck it up, not litereally, lol, but be a man, and just forget it. Does not change who he is. Don't be shallow, some guys like that shit and they would never dream of being gay, he just likes some kink.



Why is he so wrong to be preturbed by the fact that his friend likes simulated gay sex?

I think it's wrong to tell him he is wrong for feeling the way he is. He has the right to be disturbed if he wants to be.

[SuperTorch]

Also its wrong for chics to be talking about it, and no not every girl does. If they feel its OK for a guy to talk about evey nook and cranny of the girls body then girls can talk about guys too. But I bet most girls would expect or hope for privacy like guys do. But if a partner decide to goship out their ass thats just the breaks, but it not a given that girl talk is about all they do just like its not a given about guy talk that all details be offered. Sure its OK to say yea they were hot or he/she is a nymph but details should be private both ways. The truth may have been that the girl really got into puting something up his butt and he just said what ever and went with the flow as hes not a homophobe but he may not have really liked it and FAKED it like girls do. Then she told her friend HELL YEA he loved it when in reality he might have though it kinda of lame, but did it anyhow. He may say yea I let her but it was boring and lame and I didn't kill the vibe because I wanted to Fu**. Her saying he liked it may mean nothing, how many times have you heard a guy saying yea she loved it but if you were to ask her she'd say it wasn't that special. The brager is typicaly the one trying to convince others that they are skilled when infact its probably the oppisit.

[Smokeychik]

Why is he so wrong to be preturbed by the fact that his friend likes simulated gay sex?

I think it's wrong to tell him he is wrong for feeling the way he is. He has the right to be disturbed if he wants to be.

Hey, I hear ya, I said it was wrong of him to listen in, girl talk is private, LOL. He can feel how he wants to feel, and it is different for guys. I never said he was wrong to feel the way he feels, it was my advice not to be shallow, that's all.

And yes, to the other poster, I forgot your username, 99.9% of girls talk about their sex lives with their girl friends. Just because they tell you they don't, does not mean they don't. Sorry. But it is true, and it is just because girls talk about everything, period, especially sex,:D , that is where we learn new things to try, get advice on stuff and just talk, it is our nature. Granted there are some that might not, but I have never, ever met any that did not like to talk about their sexual experiences with eachother. ;)

[FeastonThisSHITT]

Ummm hello? Don't ever say anything to him, that is the WORST advice!!! OMFG! Not only is it none of your business, but you are going to totally interfere with HIS RELATAIONSHIP, he will probably dump that girl for telling. It is SOOOO not your place to mention this to him, Jesus it could rebound and affect more people than you can imagine!

But back to the issue at hand, I have to say this, no one else has that I read, and I did skim through, so sorry if this has been mentioned... that was fucked up of you to listen in on the girls. Girls talk about their sex lives, ever seen Sex in the City? Not sure, you are not in America, anyway, it is IN OUR NATURE as girls... we always talk about our sex lives, our boyrfiends, our periods, everything...this will never ever change. I think it was wrong of you to listen in when you were not suposed to be... so now you just have to suck it up, not litereally, lol, but be a man, and just forget it. Does not change who he is. Don't be shallow, some guys like that shit and they would never dream of being gay, he just likes some kink.

Technicaly, it's not anyone's business if the guy likes a dildo up his ass.

If a guy likes a dildo up his ass that is his business, not his girlfriend's friends business.

It's in a chicks nature to talk about her sexual relations with her boyfriend? Well it's human nature to kill other humans. Nature doesn't make shit anymore ok in the mind of an embarrasssed individual.

From that logic you could say, "People kill, so why are you against murder?"

Why is it not ok for the guy to listen in to a private conversation between chicks, but it is ok for chicks to talk about something private about their boyfriends to the other chicks? Doesn't make sense.

If he dumps the chick for telling it means he didn't want her to tell anybody else and she violated his privacy.

And as for your reply for my previous message. I was trying to tell you he is not necessarily shallow for looking at his friend diferently because he likes the dildo. Like I said, it is preturbing for some guys to hear that your mate likes simulated gay sex. He simply finds simulated gay sex to be disturbing. That is not being shallow whatsoever.

[FeastonThisSHITT]

Personaly, I think it's fucked up for girls to have to be so interested in their other girlfriend's boyfriend's private affairs. But that is just me.

[RainyDayWoman]

I must be in that .1% (so I've been told)

I would never gossip about my partner behind his back.
That's a deal breaker for me... right up there with cheating.

There's a difference between talking about sex and talking about your partners sexuality.

When you go thru relationships, marriages, ect....
And have respect for your partner...
You talk about sex with your partner.

Secrets between lovers last forever.

[dank ass nugs]

your only problem is like you said you live where gay's and Bi's are seldom and look down upon. See were I live its like a mini San Fransico everyone in the city is Pro-gay and they never see a problem with it. I'm not like most folks in my city though. I dont have a problem with gays or BI's but be honest. You see your friend as a freak because you have known him for a while and you don't suspect shit like that. For me if I found out my friend shoved a dildo up his ass I would be ok with it and stuff. I would talk and hangout with him but I would really have to think about having him stay at my place for a night. You won't see your friend the same until you forget this but don't just ignore him just act the same and shit. Oh and if you feel like pulling one of those "confront and talk about it with him" shenanagins DONT!!! Your friend will hate you for even mentioning and dont try to understand what he likes about it ( don't shove something up your ass ) Just chill with him and forget about it.

[Inferius]

I must be in that .1% (so I've been told)

I would never gossip about my partner behind his back.
That's a deal breaker for me... right up there with cheating.

There's a difference between talking about sex and talking about your partners sexuality.

When you go thru relationships, marriages, ect....
And have respect for your partner...
You talk about sex with your partner.

Secrets between lovers last forever.

A-fucking-men.

[FeastonThisSHITT]

I must be in that .1% (so I've been told)

I would never gossip about my partner behind his back.
That's a deal breaker for me... right up there with cheating.

There's a difference between talking about sex and talking about your partners sexuality.

When you go thru relationships, marriages, ect....
And have respect for your partner...
You talk about sex with your partner.

Secrets between lovers last forever.

Thank you.

[K_Shootz_Den]

Some people are black. Some people are white. Some people smoke weed, some people drink. Some people like having dildos shoved up their ass, some people think that you should judge someone differently because of something that doesn't affect them in any way.

In all reality, he's not hurting anyone, or himself or his girlfriend for that matter. Maybe the phobias in your area create a boundary where sexual taboo's can't be discussed. Male anal play is fairly common. Now, it's not my cup of tea, but if my best friend was into it, I wouldn't think of him any differently.

At the end of the day, so what? He's into something that doesn't hurt him or anyone around him, so why do you have a problem with it? In reality, you're the one with the problem, not him. Accept people for who they are, what they shove up their ass.ahahahahha fuckin sigged

[Smokeychik]

Technicaly, it's not anyone's business if the guy likes a dildo up his ass.

If a guy likes a dildo up his ass that is his business, not his girlfriend's friends business.

It's in a chicks nature to talk about her sexual relations with her boyfriend? Well it's human nature to kill other humans. Nature doesn't make shit anymore ok in the mind of an embarrasssed individual.

From that logic you could say, "People kill, so why are you against murder?"

Why is it not ok for the guy to listen in to a private conversation between chicks, but it is ok for chicks to talk about something private about their boyfriends to the other chicks? Doesn't make sense.

If he dumps the chick for telling it means he didn't want her to tell anybody else and she violated his privacy.

And as for your reply for my previous message. I was trying to tell you he is not necessarily shallow for looking at his friend diferently because he likes the dildo. Like I said, it is preturbing for some guys to hear that your mate likes simulated gay sex. He simply finds simulated gay sex to be disturbing. That is not being shallow whatsoever.

Ok, I get it, I was just trying to stress a point about girls, especially younger ones. Now you are comparing GIRL TALK to MURDER, lol, I am backing out of this one, I have tried to be fair and honest in what I say, but it is obvious we have to agree to disagree on this because that comparison is WAY extreme if you ask me, good lord, girl talk and murder?? Seriously? :p

However I am mature enough to get your point, but I was just being honest. Now that I am married, I keep our bedroom private of course, and I never said that girl that was talking about her guy liking it up the ass was right, I was just making a point that IS WHAT GIRLS DO! PERIOD, hahahaha... And it is with good intentions usually, see when I was a teen, and early twenties, that is how I learned some of the fun and awesome things I still use to this day,(My husband has no comaplaints, heehee). Now of course, pratice was great, but at that young age, girls feel more comfy asking other girls for advice.

And any girl that says she has never had sexy girl talk with her friends, well, if you beleive it, great, but I know better. Take care! ;) :D :smokin:

[WeedGremblin]

Ummm hello? Don't ever say anything to him, that is the WORST advice!!! OMFG! Not only is it none of your business, but you are going to totally interfere with HIS RELATAIONSHIP, he will probably dump that girl for telling. It is SOOOO not your place to mention this to him, Jesus it could rebound and affect more people than you can imagine!

But back to the issue at hand, I have to say this, no one else has that I read, and I did skim through, so sorry if this has been mentioned... that was fucked up of you to listen in on the girls. Girls talk about their sex lives, ever seen Sex in the City? Not sure, you are not in America, anyway, it is IN OUR NATURE as girls... we always talk about our sex lives, our boyrfiends, our periods, everything...this will never ever change. I think it was wrong of you to listen in when you were not suposed to be... so now you just have to suck it up, not litereally, lol, but be a man, and just forget it. Does not change who he is. Don't be shallow, some guys like that shit and they would never dream of being gay, he just likes some kink.


Perfect example of how fucking stupid girls are when they get together. Its like when they get together they magnify each others stupidity. Ive listened in on groups of girls conversations before and let me tell you, they talk about some weird stupid shit. Talking about your sex life is in no way "In your nature", dont even try n pull that bullshit. If you guys didnt know, now you know, girls run their mouths like no other....

Oh yeaaaah, way to compare real life to a lame ass TV show, good job!!

Gawd sometimes I really despise women....

[FeastonThisSHITT]

Ok, I get it, I was just trying to stress a point about girls, especially younger ones. Now you are comparing GIRL TALK to MURDER, lol, I am backing out of this one, I have tried to be fair and honest in what I say, but it is obvious we have to agree to disagree on this because that comparison is WAY extreme if you ask me, good lord, girl talk and murder?? Seriously? :p

However I am mature enough to get your point, but I was just being honest. Now that I am married, I keep our bedroom private of course, and I never said that girl that was talking about her guy liking it up the ass was right, I was just making a point that IS WHAT GIRLS DO! PERIOD, hahahaha... And it is with good intentions usually, see when I was a teen, and early twenties, that is how I learned some of the fun and awesome things I still use to this day,(My husband has no comaplaints, heehee). Now of course, pratice was great, but at that young age, girls feel more comfy asking other girls for advice.

And any girl that says she has never had sexy girl talk with her friends, well, if you beleive it, great, but I know better. Take care! ;) :D :smokin:



Actualy I wasn't comparing murder with girl talk at all. There was no comparison made. I simply stated a point that using that logic you could excuse anyone from doing aything that is in their nature, no natter how wrong it is.

Comparing would be saying "That is just as bad as murder!" Which I didn't do.

[FeastonThisSHITT]

Perfect example of how fucking stupid girls are when they get together. Its like when they get together they magnify each others stupidity. Ive listened in on groups of girls conversations before and let me tell you, they talk about some weird stupid shit. Talking about your sex life is in no way "In your nature", dont even try n pull that bullshit. If you guys didnt know, now you know, girls run their mouths like no other....

Oh yeaaaah, way to compare real life to a lame ass TV show, good job!!

Gawd sometimes I really despise women....


Than switch teams lol.

[WeedGremblin]

Switch teams? no


Take advantage of them? yes

[robert42]

lmao just call him up and chill with him have a smoke watch a dvd shove a dildo up his ass

[Smokeychik]

Perfect example of how fucking stupid girls are when they get together. Its like when they get together they magnify each others stupidity. Ive listened in on groups of girls conversations before and let me tell you, they talk about some weird stupid shit. Talking about your sex life is in no way "In your nature", dont even try n pull that bullshit. If you guys didnt know, now you know, girls run their mouths like no other....

Oh yeaaaah, way to compare real life to a lame ass TV show, good job!!

Gawd sometimes I really despise women....

Such a typical guy with a serious attitude problem. Look, I never said it was right, I never said it was wrong, I JUST SAID IT HAPPENS whether you guys beleive it or not, or whether or not it is "in our nature", that was a figure of speech btfw, ever heard of that term? A figure of speech is just that, talkiing sex is a girly thing to do, period. I never said it was right, it just IS.

This is so frustrating to explain to closed ears/eyes.

Yes, btw, it is a lame ass show, but funny as hell if you are "mature" enough to understand the meaning behind it. Regardless, it happens, girls talk, get over it.

[Smokeychik]

Switch teams? no


Take advantage of them? yes

Your signature:

Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny

Sounds like you need to re-read your own signature, or use your own advice for that matter. Or was your comment on taking advantage of girls just your figure of speech? :D

[WeedGremblin]

Sorry my posts twist your niblets sweet cheeks


Aye when me n the mates get together for some beers we dont talk about who we are fucking we talk about who we want to fuck. Oh yeah, remember "IT HAPPENS" when you get cheated on lol

Ive seen the females that talk about sex n the city at work before and let me tell you, they are dumb as a brick to boot. They find it to be a funny show as well.....interesting.....

[WeedGremblin]

Your signature:

Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny

Sounds like you need to re-read your own signature, or use your own advice for that matter. Or was your comment on taking advantage of girls just your figure of speech? :D

I can never follow my own advice, ironic huh?

[Smokeychik]

Sorry my posts twist your niblets sweet cheeks


Aye when me n the mates get together for some beers we dont talk about who we are fucking we talk about who we want to fuck. Oh yeah, remember "IT HAPPENS" when you get cheated on lol

Ive seen the females that talk about sex n the city at work before and let me tell you, they are dumb as a brick to boot. They find it to be a funny show as well.....interesting.....


Thank you, you have just proven your maturity level, now I understand. :)

All jokes aside, I do like the "twisting niblets" comment, that is funny as hell, yes I am being serious. Never heard that one before, I like it, yes you did piss me off, but you are young so it is all good "mate". No worries. :smokin:

[WeedGremblin]

Aye it is pointless to argue


But I will take advantage of one in your honor smokey, and when it happens I will be sure to post about it ;)

Now go ice those niblets

[Inferius]

Ok, I get it, I was just trying to stress a point about girls, especially younger ones. Now you are comparing GIRL TALK to MURDER, lol, I am backing out of this one, I have tried to be fair and honest in what I say, but it is obvious we have to agree to disagree on this because that comparison is WAY extreme if you ask me, good lord, girl talk and murder?? Seriously? :p

However I am mature enough to get your point, but I was just being honest. Now that I am married, I keep our bedroom private of course, and I never said that girl that was talking about her guy liking it up the ass was right, I was just making a point that IS WHAT GIRLS DO! PERIOD, hahahaha... And it is with good intentions usually, see when I was a teen, and early twenties, that is how I learned some of the fun and awesome things I still use to this day,(My husband has no comaplaints, heehee). Now of course, pratice was great, but at that young age, girls feel more comfy asking other girls for advice.

And any girl that says she has never had sexy girl talk with her friends, well, if you beleive it, great, but I know better. Take care! ;) :D :smokin:

Makes sense. Although the generalizations are annoying. Everyone has different levels of maturity. It is well known that girls tend to mature (physically AND mentally) faster than guys. But it is also well known that guys tend to mature (mentally...) much greater in the long run.
This gets complex. Girls tend to open up to each other far more than guys do, their comfort level together is greater. To talk about their sex in deeper detail is only natural. Imo, this girls respect for her guy's sexual privacy wasn't very strong. But she's young. And... god I hate it when this happens. I lose all motivation to continue my point, or to post anything on the thread at all. I question the purpose of trying to add my 2 cents. Fuck it. Everyone's different. Fuck generalizations. It wasn't very respectful to inform everyone that her guy liked a dildo up his ass. Should have been a little more loyal with a matter of that significance. The end.

[Kenn]

I must be in that .1% (so I've been told)

I would never gossip about my partner behind his back.
That's a deal breaker for me... right up there with cheating.

There's a difference between talking about sex and talking about your partners sexuality.

When you go thru relationships, marriages, ect....
And have respect for your partner...
You talk about sex with your partner.

Secrets between lovers last forever. thats the shit !! i agree u should be able to trust ur partner with your secrets like i say in the title some things should stay in the bed room and between lovers not blabbed all over town!

[Kenn]

lmao just call him up and chill with him have a smoke watch a dvd shove a dildo up his ass what!!! ur wierd man.FUCK THAT!!!.

[bitch from hell]

Actually maybe you shouldn't have been evesdropping in the first place.

[Kenn]

maybe u are right but the window was open and if it was one of my other friends that heard this shit it could av been alot worse ,he could of been confonted with it that night by a group of pissed mates payin him out.I dont like what he does but I wouldnt want him to go thru that shit!!.

[Inferius]

Actually maybe you shouldn't have been evesdropping in the first place.

Maybe she shouldn't have been blabbing that shit in the first place.
But I suppose everyone grows up eventually.
By the way, What's Hell like this time of year? :p

[manshowboy487]

MAN SOMTHIN S REALLY PISSIN ME OFF AT THE MOMENT AND ID LIKE SOME OPINIONS. my girl and I went to aparty where all our friends were ,anyway everything was goin fine ,the boys were in the shed drinkin and smokin and the girls gatherd in their little group as usual. I went to the toilet ,the window was open and i could hear the girls chattin so i thought id eavsdrop and see what they were talkin abt.This is when it gets wierd I hear one of my good mates girl starts tellin the other girls how my mate loves a dildo shoved up his ass while avin sex!!.Fuck dudes i nearly fell over i couldnt believe what i was hearing, my mate who i go shootin with campin with likes abit of the plastic fantastic,man i was embarressed for him.So i go back to the lads in the shed and there he is smokin and drinkin just like always but I cant look at him or even talk to him, everytime i look at him i picture him with a fkn dildo up his ass.So its been awhile now and every timt my mate rings me to go out or somthin ,I make excuses to avoid him. Why am I bein this way i dont know how to deal with this shit . I wish i never heard what i did it just made things...WIERD!!:confused:


I would just laugh if i heard that about my friend, and if he's good enough of a friend i would talk to him about it. At least he's banging a chick while it's going on. unless he has his own and does it every day, i wouldn't say that kind of thing would hinder any type of friendship tho.

[Kenn]

Maybe she shouldn't have been blabbing that shit in the first place.
But I suppose everyone grows up eventually.
By the way, What's Hell like this time of year? :p
right on inferius:thumbsup: I totally agree!

[graph]

First of all there is a big diference between your race and your sexual actions. The diference is choice. People do not choose to be what race they are, they DO choose their sexual actions. I don't like it when people try to group race with sexual preferance. A Homophobe is not the same as a racist by any means. (I know you never claimed this, I just threw it out there sense we are talking along these lines.)


The reason people have a problem with the idea of a man getting a dildo shoved up his ass is because it SIMULATES a gay sexual encounter with a cock. Some people are disgusted by the idea of male on male sexual activity. I for one, am one of these people. I grew up very liberaly, never was there a cultural boundry put on bi/homosexuality in my life.

I knew I didn't like male on male when I saw it on TV for the first time. I felt literaly sick to my stomache when I saw it. I was uncomfortable and I knew that this type of thing is not only not my cup of tea, but I was actualy quite angered by it.

Like I said, I have no cultural biases. I wasn't around people calling each other fags, my parents were not religious, I am not religious. I just think a male getting a dick, or anything shaped like one, up his ass is fucking gross and wrong.

You can tell me all you want not to rag on people for being who they are, but before you do, I ask you to think about what you are going say. You are about to rag on someone for being who they are ( I dont like gays, thats part of who I am) If you rag on me for that, than you are being a hypocrite in every sense of the word

I say rag on who you want to. If you get offended because people find your sexual preferences to be disgusting and offensive, than good.... you cancel each other out..,. you offend one another... leave it at that.

Stop trying to convert people to the liberal bullshit kids are growing up on tese days.

If your ok with fags and bis... be ok with them... dont try to change other people who aren't ok with them, or explain to them why they are wrong for having their own view on the matter. No matter how negative it may be
I wouldn't rag on you for your opinion, I learned a long time ago you usually can't change people. However, to think less of someone for something that doesn't affect you in any way is wrong in my opinion. If I found out a close friend of mine slaughtered cats in his backyard I may be put off a little bit but that's none of my business. I think you missed the point of my post, it had nothing to do with gay or straight, it had to do with thinking less of someone for stupid shit.

I wouldn't want someone screaming fag the same way I wouldn't want someone screaming homophobe. Both are prejudiced. However, to think less of someone for something like that just seems entirely stupid to me.

Liberal bullshit that kids are growing up on these days? Well I guess you're a hypocrite too then, aren't you? Then again, we're all big hypocrites.:thumbsup:

Oh, and even though it may seem gay to have a guy's asshole penetrated, keep in mind it's a girl doing it. If he was gay, he'd be having sex with guys. To me, that's like saying that because girls and guys kiss, if two guys kiss they must be straight.


As for kenn, I think you see my point, even if it wasn't me who put the idea into your head. You seem like a good guy, just don't mess up a friendship over something as stupid as this.

[FeastonThisSHITT]

I wouldn't rag on you for your opinion, I learned a long time ago you usually can't change people. However, to think less of someone for something that doesn't affect you in any way is wrong in my opinion. If I found out a close friend of mine slaughtered cats in his backyard I may be put off a little bit but that's none of my business. I think you missed the point of my post, it had nothing to do with gay or straight, it had to do with thinking less of someone for stupid shit.

I wouldn't want someone screaming fag the same way I wouldn't want someone screaming homophobe. Both are prejudiced. However, to think less of someone for something like that just seems entirely stupid to me.

Liberal bullshit that kids are growing up on these days? Well I guess you're a hypocrite too then, aren't you? Then again, we're all big hypocrites.:thumbsup:

Oh, and even though it may seem gay to have a guy's asshole penetrated, keep in mind it's a girl doing it. If he was gay, he'd be having sex with guys. To me, that's like saying that because girls and guys kiss, if two guys kiss they must be straight.


As for kenn, I think you see my point, even if it wasn't me who put the idea into your head. You seem like a good guy, just don't mess up a friendship over something as stupid as this.

So you don't think bad of people who torture, molest children, and kill them and their whole familes? Because it doesn't affect you personaly? Well.... ok... whatever floats your boat. Actualy it DOES affect me. It makes me angry and sick to see gays, that is an effect it has on me, and because of this effect, my opinion exists as it does. I am not comparing homosexuality to murderous pedophiles, I was only making an example in response to your statement. Because of course, if it's true for gay's and cat killers, than it should be true for all others if that is a value you have.

How am I a hyprocite for saying liberal bullshit kids grow up on? (By the way I agree that we are ALL guilty of hyprocite syndrome) I just want to know specificaly how saying that makes me a hypocrite?


I don't understand your last example of kissing. I never said it seemed gay, I said it simulated gay sex. A dildo is a simulation of a penis, you replace it with a penis to achieve the same effect a penis would, therefore it simulates gay sex. That's all.

[graph]

What about lesbians though? Using a dildo simulates straight sex, right? What about two males taking part in oral sex? How does that not simulate straight sex? A dildo isn't a penis, it's a girl doing it. If it was a penis in his asshole, I'd definitely agree with the gay idea.

The difference is with murderers and pedophiles, they're hurting other people. That's the difference between a girl putting her fingers in a guy's asshole and a pedophile touching a small child.

You were just telling me not to feed liberal bullshit, to me you calling it liberal bullshit is... kinda forcing your opinion on me. Doesn't really matter either way, I think we're all hypocrites in one way or another too. I mean, that's why we strive to be better.

Oh, and no offense, because I understand it could be me, I understand that completely, but if it angers and sickens you to see two men showing affection for each other, is it possible that they're not the one at fault? I mean, why should it affect you either way?

You know, we could use a good smoke right about now.

[FeastonThisSHITT]

What about lesbians though? Using a dildo simulates straight sex, right? What about two males taking part in oral sex? How does that not simulate straight sex? A dildo isn't a penis, it's a girl doing it. If it was a penis in his asshole, I'd definitely agree with the gay idea.

The difference is with murderers and pedophiles, they're hurting other people. That's the difference between a girl putting her fingers in a guy's asshole and a pedophile touching a small child.

You were just telling me not to feed liberal bullshit, to me you calling it liberal bullshit is... kinda forcing your opinion on me. Doesn't really matter either way, I think we're all hypocrites in one way or another too. I mean, that's why we strive to be better.

Oh, and no offense, because I understand it could be me, I understand that completely, but if it angers and sickens you to see two men showing affection for each other, is it possible that they're not the one at fault? I mean, why should it affect you either way?

You know, we could use a good smoke right about now.

Yes, lesbians with a dildo still simulates dick, but sense they are women it wouldn't be GAY sex like with the guy. I wouldn't say gays givin each other head simulates straight sex because the mouth is a body part we all have, a dick isn't. That is the diference there. I know a dildo isn;t a penis I am not sayingit is, I just said it simulates one. Also, keep in mind that I never even suggested that this person may be gay. I just said he liked simulated gay sex is all.

I understand the diference between a pedophile murderer and a gay, but your words were this:

"However, to think less of someone for something that doesn't affect you in any way is wrong in my opinion. If I found out a close friend of mine slaughtered cats in his backyard I may be put off a little bit but that's none of my business. "

He is hurting cats. So he IS hurting something. Using the value of "If it doesn't affect me It's none of my business and I don't look down on them for it" should apply to all people in all situations, otherwise it's selective values to meet a situation, and isn't truly a staple value of yours. Know what I mean? Like if it applies to cat killers and gay people, it should apply to pedophiles, otherwise the statement really isn't true, and you in fact DO look down on people for things they do that don't affect you. Why? Because they hurt people, it is a good reason.

I never told you not to feed liberal bullshit. I said I hate the liberal bullshit kids are growing up on these days. That statement wasn't even directed at you it was just a general statement.

"but if it angers and sickens you to see two men showing affection for each other, is it possible that they're not the one at fault?"

I didn't say anyone is at fault. In fact no one is at fault at all. They are allowed to be gay, and I am allowed to not like it. Or even better, it is OK for them to be gay and it is OK for me to not like it. That's life.

"I mean, why should it affect you either way?"

Like I said, for some reason it makes me feel ill and angry, for reasons beyond logical grasp. It's subconscious.


And yeah I am toking as I write this, so I'm completely chill. I'm finding the conversation to be interesting because we can express two diferent points of view without resorting to childeshness. Usualy I am flamed 100000 times over for writing about his subject.

[graph]

Yeah, my bowl was clogged so much with resin that I couldn't smoke weed. Cleaned it out, saved the weed for tonight. Conservationist, you know. So it's a high, just not a great one.

And is it so much to say that I just don't like cats? I really don't. I know my metaphor was bad, but I don't like cats.

I know what you mean though, actually thinking about sticking something up the hoo-hah makes me uncomfortable. Still, there's about a thousand good reasons to hate people. Ass sex just ain't one of em to me.

[FeastonThisSHITT]

Yeah, my bowl was clogged so much with resin that I couldn't smoke weed. Cleaned it out, saved the weed for tonight. Conservationist, you know. So it's a high, just not a great one.

And is it so much to say that I just don't like cats? I really don't. I know my metaphor was bad, but I don't like cats.

I know what you mean though, actually thinking about sticking something up the hoo-hah makes me uncomfortable. Still, there's about a thousand good reasons to hate people. Ass sex just ain't one of em to me.

Oh, I don't hate them as people, just their sexual choices.

[Kenn]

Oh, I don't hate them as people, just their sexual choices. Im not out to hate anyone or rag on anyone especially my mate. This thread has opened my eyes to alot of issues if not for this thread i would have proberly never even discussed things like this.The thought of sticking things in my ass does make me uncomfortable but its not my ass its his and he can do what he wants with it.Time to try and forget the whole thing and just think of him as afriend not a LOLLYPOP.:smokin:

[FeastonThisSHITT]

Im not out to hate anyone or rag on anyone especially my mate. This thread has opened my eyes to alot of issues if not for this thread i would have proberly never even discussed things like this.The thought of sticking things in my ass does make me uncomfortable but its not my ass its his and he can do what he wants with it.Time to try and forget the whole thing and just think of him as afriend not a LOLLYPOP.:smokin:

There ya go..........

Just be glad I don't rule the world.

[Kenn]

But I still think its fkn wierd.

[Fengzi]

Maybe your friend isn't a closet homo/bi-sexual. Maybe he's just into kinky sex. I like my wife to put on her school girl outfit occiasionally for a little game of teacher and student but that doesn't make me a pedophile. It's just something fun to do every now and then.

Let me tell you, the older I get, and the more women I've met, the more I've learned that people are into all kinds of things sexually. People have a tendency to experiment, especially after being with one person for a long time. Partially because you get comfortable with the other person and partially because you want to spice things up a bit. Don't get me wrong, sex is always great; but after several hundred rimes with one person you get tired of the same-ol' same-ol'. So, you try different things; things that might seem a bit weird and things you probably wouldn't tell your friends about. Sometimes you both look at each other and say "umm, let's not do that again". Sometimes it results in mind blowing sex.

If you overheard the girl saying your friend liked to fuck her in the ass you'd probably give him a pat on the back. You wouldn't automatically think he'd rather be pluggin a dude. But doesn't that simulate gay sex? I mean, there's a nice soft wet warm hole just an inch away, the one that nature intended to be used, so why go in the out-door if he wouldn't rather be with a guy? And what guy here doesn't like a blow-job? But isn't oral sex popular with gays? Does that mean we're all closet homosexuals? Of course not! We like blow jobs because they feel pretty damn good. Who knows? Maybe having a dildo up your ass feels good too.

Bottom line, just because your friend likes having a dildo up his ass doesn't mean he's gay. It could just mean he's comfortable enough with his own sexuality to experiment. Weird or not, he could be 100% hetero but having better sex than most of us.

[FeastonThisSHITT]

Maybe your friend isn't a closet homo/bi-sexual. Maybe he's just into kinky sex. I like my wife to put on her school girl outfit occiasionally for a little game of teacher and student but that doesn't make me a pedophile. It's just something fun to do every now and then.

Let me tell you, the older I get, and the more women I've met, the more I've learned that people are into all kinds of things sexually. People have a tendency to experiment, especially after being with one person for a long time. Partially because you get comfortable with the other person and partially because you want to spice things up a bit. Don't get me wrong, sex is always great; but after several hundred rimes with one person you get tired of the same-ol' same-ol'. So, you try different things; things that might seem a bit weird and things you probably wouldn't tell your friends about. Sometimes you both look at each other and say "umm, let's not do that again". Sometimes it results in mind blowing sex.

If you overheard the girl saying your friend liked to fuck her in the ass you'd probably give him a pat on the back. You wouldn't automatically think he'd rather be pluggin a dude. But doesn't that simulate gay sex? I mean, there's a nice soft wet warm hole just an inch away, the one that nature intended to be used, so why go in the out-door if he wouldn't rather be with a guy? And what guy here doesn't like a blow-job? But isn't oral sex popular with gays? Does that mean we're all closet homosexuals? Of course not! We like blow jobs because they feel pretty damn good. Who knows? Maybe having a dildo up your ass feels good too.

Bottom line, just because your friend likes having a dildo up his ass doesn't mean he's gay. It could just mean he's comfortable enough with his own sexuality to experiment. Weird or not, he could be 100% hetero but having better sex than most of us.

You are being redundant. Who suggested that he is gay or bi? Not I. If the girl likes gettin it in the ass, it doesn;t simulate gay sex because she is a GIRL.

It's simple.


dildo in guys ass=simulated gay sex(because a male ass with a dildo in it simulates getting fucked by a cock)

dildo in girls ass= Simulated straight sex (because again, a dildo, simulating a cock going into a FEMALES ass would be straight)

Head=Neutral (Because all people have mouths)

Understand? It is the anatomy.

If simulated male anatomy goes into a male, that is simulated gay sex.

If simulated male anatomy goes into a female, it is simulated straight sex.

If anatomy that both genders have are being used it is neutral.

None of this makes anybody gay or bi, please don't respond suggesting I am saying it does because this is getting repetative.

[Fengzi]

It's simple.


dildo in guys ass=simulated gay sex(because a male ass with a dildo in it simulates getting fucked by a cock)

dildo in girls ass= Simulated straight sex (because again, a dildo, simulating a cock going into a FEMALES ass would be straight)

Head=Neutral (Because all people have mouths)

Understand? It is the anatomy.

If simulated male anatomy goes into a male, that is simulated gay sex.

If simulated male anatomy goes into a female, it is simulated straight sex.

If anatomy that both genders have are being used it is neutral.

.

Silly me, i thought some people were open minded in this day and age. Sorry 'bout that.

[Kryzco]

ok the best way I can put it

its not your cornhole thats getting dildos up it

its his

therefore none of your buisness

his sex life is his and yours is yours

he's probably not the only friend you have thats got dirty little secrets

hell you may have some too, maybe not to that extent but shit everyone has done something that they wouldn't tell others in their sex lives

point is stop being so anal retentive about it and move on, he was doing this before and he was your friend and he still does it and hasn't changed as a person

in the end thats all that matters

it hasn't made him less of a friend

[shoi]

lol another great post from kenn... i read no replys so if wat i say has been said then ok

basically i think its kinda a homophobia thing going on... u just need to rember that before u new that it was fine.... and he hasnt changed jsut becuase u no abt it... hes still the same.... and someppl like diferent things and thats their business :stoned:

[Kenn]

Yeah ur right shoi, i was to quick to judge him ,it took awhile to come to terms with cause its just somthin that is weird to me. Somthing id never see my mate into u know but ive thought abt it and fuck it he is my mate rgardless of his sexual preferences,mite explain why he is always scratchin his ass........lol.

[Fengzi]

Yeah ur right shoi, i was to quick to judge him ,it took awhile to come to terms with cause its just somthin that is weird to me. Somthing id never see my mate into u know but ive thought abt it and fuck it he is my mate rgardless of his sexual preferences,mite explain why he is always scratchin his ass........lol.

More people should think like you Kenn :thumbsup:

[Greenport]

Theres nothing wrong with it, its just something he likes to do. Its his choice dont judge him for that man :p

[shoi]

Yeah ur right shoi, i was to quick to judge him ,it took awhile to come to terms with cause its just somthin that is weird to me. Somthing id never see my mate into u know but ive thought abt it and fuck it he is my mate rgardless of his sexual preferences,mite explain why he is always scratchin his ass........lol.

lol i wonder if that would make it itch :confused: :confused:

[Kenn]

lol i wonder if that would make it itch :confused: :confused: lol dont really know and dont intend on findin out...lol;)