Tough Call

[Big Blunt Boy]

well heres the deal ive known this chick since i was in grade 7 and im in 11th grade. At school she chills with completely different ppl then me and so i was wondering is it wrong to bridge the gap between two groups at school cuz shes hot in my opinion, but i know my buds would hassle me for dating someone below their standards. Advice will be appreciated especially from the ladies like to hear their point of view.

[shoi]

shouldnt let ur friends be the one who decide who u can date.... theyll just make fun of u cuase theyll think its funny wat they say but they wont actually think any diferent of u... just dont let it bother u:thumbsup:

[Big Calhoun]

Just do you...then do her!!

[Visualize]

Make your own decision, your true friends will condone it.

[Euphoric]

the important questions is...does she at least smoke weed? i can make exceptions to dating outside my "scene" if the lady in question makes up for her lack of good taste wby smoking mad amounts of dank

[UnitedParcelSecrets]

If you like the girl, date her.

[Captain Hanks]

well heres the deal ive known this chick since i was in grade 7 and im in 11th grade. At school she chills with completely different ppl then me and so i was wondering is it wrong to bridge the gap between two groups at school cuz shes hot in my opinion, but i know my buds would hassle me for dating someone below their standards. Advice will be appreciated especially from the ladies like to hear their point of view.

if you have to rely on your mates to determine and decide your love life for you then you probably don't care enough for her to keep a strong relationship going, nuff said.. bad idea:pimp:

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Why should they care who you're dating? As long as she's treating you well and such then they should be happy for you. You should probably tell them that and slowly ease her into your life (as long as she's cool with it). While your friends may not click together and mesh into one new group, you can atleast be welcomed into eachothers groups. Make sense? Hopefully. good luck!

[stickyinsalem]

lol...i had the exact same problem when i was in high school...but thats just the thing...its high school...not life....if you like her then be with her...your friends will grow up and have lives of their own and not give a fuck what you say...high school is all about experimenting...if they give you a hard time...tell them to go fuck themselves....and give them a tube of kY jelly...
thats how it is...REAL LIFE...PEACE

[Ammie]

Dude, why on earth would u care if ur "friends" liked her or not? there not the one that could be on a relationship with her. Anyways if there really ur friends they wont say or do jack about it, they will just be glad that ur happy :) and if they dont then pffffft you didnt need them anyways :D

[zero2104]

ya dude in 4 years no one will care who u dated in 2006 just do it, go out with her

[Nochowderforyou]

Who gives a shit what your dumb friends think. What makes them so damn special? ;)

You'll be the one getting some hot action, not them. :thumbsup:

[xcobrax]

If you like the girl, just ask her out. Who cares what other people think.

[deftdrummer]

I understand the position you are in and sometimes in high school it can be difficult. Often times your friends are your BEST friends and their opinion does matter and you want to have good advice and get a warm feeling from your friends.

Here is the deal though. In order to make it work for yourself you have to hang out with the girl and date obviously. So my advice would be to hang out with the girl somewhat in private first. This is not to conceal your activity from your friends so that you don't look stupid in their eyes, but rather because its not really any of their fuckin business anyways.

This way, if it does work out with the girl you can break it in to your friends easily.

YOU: guys ive been hanging out with this girl for a few weeks now..you know her...Cindy Brumpledorf and she is pretty cool

DUDES: DUDE! you have been kicking it with her and you didn't even tell us!, thats fucked up man... isnt she kind of a lame ass anyways? etc. etc.

YOU: Well, not really thats why I have been kicking it with her for a few weeks. I just didnt really feel the need to run and tell you guys right away ya know?

problem solved..they are cool with it, she's cool with it, and you are cool with it and there were no surprises for anyone.

[smoke it]

itll all be worth it when ur tappin her :thumbsup: