Help me?

[FAllout]

I dont like being a virgin. :(
But thats not my main concern. I just want to meet some girls and have fun, but im a very shy and calm person. It seams like its hard for me to open up and talk because I think I take things slower and am less energetic than most girls I know. How should I meet more peopel like myself?

I just want to meet some nice shy easy going people.

[420purplehaze420]

go to the library ill bet theres some ugos you can practice on in there

lol jk...just talk to people, find common ground and make conversation

thats what i do to talk to total strangers, usually works

[shoi]

well if ur wanting to lose ur viriginity finding some one shy is not the way to go...


i dont no u so if u already do what i say then just dont listen to me :p

i think u just need to be confident... i am shy to girls aswell and even a bit nervous.... but if ur confident and outgoing then it helps... just dont be scared... o wen i say out going i mean dont like limit what u say.... say wat seems rite... read the situation... ie her tones, body language, facial expresion... these all help to tell u how she is thinking and can help u to no where to take the convo and wat to say


i dunno if that helps at all but i hope so

[FAllout]

yeah thanks for the help so far. Im not in a rush to get laid, just meet girls like myself.

[JunkYard]

I know where you're coming from, man; I was once the same way. It takes time for a 'shy' person to come out of their shell. For me, it didn't happen until 'after' I first got laid, but casual encounters gradually led up to more and more confidence. Like, I was extemely nervous around girls when younger. (Early highschool) but some of the girls kinda dug that, and everything built up from there...holding hands, to kissing, to boobs, to muff, to sex.

All you need to do is be yourself, man. Alot of girls won't be into you, but 'some' will. Just take it easy, and allow it to happen naturally, :cool:

What I'm trying to say is: "Don't rush it". it 'will' happen for you. All you have to do is be who you are, and let it. (The girls will find you) ;)

Peace,

[dank ass nugs]

Well I my first time was at a party when I was drunk and high beyond belief and so was everyone else so by the end of the night everyone was going off and fucking so I was just like shit im drunk if I get rejected or something they wont remember and niether would I so I just went up to a group of chicks and started mackin. I figured the more chicks that I could talk to and put the charm on the easier it would be to succeed and I was right some of the girls went and danced and There was like 2 chicks left and we were just chillin and talking and we had NOTHING in common I actually was about say fuck it I cant stand anymore when one of them went to the bathroom and then the 1 that was left started flirtying and shit and about 20 Min. later we went out and did it in her car. This was a huge accomplishment for me not only because I lost my virginity but I was also 13 and she was 17 (I was into some bad shit with mainly older kids) so I went to parties with them.

[SkunkStink]

yeah thanks for the help so far. Im not in a rush to get laid, just meet girls like myself.

meet girls like myself...

Obviously this is a girl and you guys are giving her advice about how to get a GIRLfriend :p

[187]

meet girls like myself...

Obviously this is a girl and you guys are giving her advice about how to get a GIRLfriend :p

im pretty sure its a guy that wants to meet girls like him

[FAllout]

im pretty sure its a guy that wants to meet girls like him

Yeah.


C'mon guys im in a never ending funk sense birth, you know what thats like?

help a stoner out!

[187]

Yeah.


C'mon guys im in a never ending funk sense birth, you know what thats like?

help a stoner out!
yes i do

[Captain Hanks]

I dont like being a virgin. :(
But thats not my main concern. I just want to meet some girls and have fun, but im a very shy and calm person. It seams like its hard for me to open up and talk because I think I take things slower and am less energetic than most girls I know. How should I meet more peopel like myself?

I just want to meet some nice shy easy going people.

just be yourself, so that in the end you meet someone similar, try talking to someone with the same interests, be confident, know your the man

[FAllout]

Balls!

I called a girl Ive know for a while tonight at 1:30 cus I knew she would be up

Well she tells me to come over and help her "clean" cus her mom isent home and wont be for a few days...

So I drive over there hang out with her for a while, start drinking and gettign closer.
Well were in her room in her bed with the lights off.. and we see head lights comign fromher drive way.
She gets up Aw fuck my moms here!

I hide in the closet for about 20 mins an litine to her talk to her mom and open her window lol

Finaly a little drunk adn kinda disapointed I leave through her window.

It was fun though andI think ill see her again soon.

I wont forget this one anyt time soon either lol


Sorry about the spelling im a little drunk,

[JR77]

Ahhh....to be young again! Anyway...the best advice I can give you (me also being shy and very laid back) is do what I did...and like Captain Hanks above said...you have to find people with your own interests and then you will be getting into whatever your talking about or doing and you will see that you are not as shy as you think!! Go with the flow! Good luck.......

[slowthestone]

Shy + alcohol = uninhibited. (don't make a habit out of getting drunk before sex)

Virgin + letting a gal know you're a virgin = someone that will find it adorable and irresistible to not deflower you.

Time + experience = confidence.

Confidence - arrogance = a powerful aphrodisiac.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Shy + alcohol = uninhibited. (don't make a habit out of getting drunk before sex)

Virgin + letting a gal know you're a virgin = someone that will find it adorable and irresistible to not deflower you.

Time + experience = confidence.

Confidence - arrogance = a powerful aphrodisiac.

Gimme a guy who knows that and I'd be happy!

congrats on the girl, mate!

[stickyinsalem]

dude...i think your making the right steps into the right direction...you are still young...when i was 16 or 17 i didnt know what the hell i was going to do...i felt desperate to have sex...but would lock up if the girl actually wanted to...but then i did have sex...and my confidence grew...but i didnt think i was the bomb at it or anything..or atleast til the girl would say i was the best...and many have said that...even now...at age 23 i went to a bar like 4 times a week and couldnt get none...then i met my girl friend...i completely opened up to her...and told her shit that i would never have thought would come out of my mouth...like i told her that i was going to fuck her brains out better then any guy ever had before...and sure as shit....she still tells me that she has like a morning after orgasim when she thinks about us having sex the night before...so am i the man? i am to my woman and thats all that matters to me....dont be afraid to be shy....you will open up and free your body when you find someone you like....dont mean its your soul mate...but maybe just someone that makes you sooooo dam hot you cant keep your d.ck soft....youll see what im talking about...PEACE

[zero2104]

after a while u'll get to know the certain girls a lil more and u'll b more comfortable arround them then u wont be as shy