Serious Question...

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

Ok, so say that when you have sex you put the condom on and all that jazz, but like 10 minutes into it the condom slips off and you don't realize it and it goes into the girl and your dick is unprotected going into her from there on, what do you do? Is there a huge chance that the girl could get pregnant? Also, this is taking into consideration that you never busted a nut when it was off and you didn't realize it. The chances would be slim right? Has anyone had this happen to them?

[ilovebecky]

RUN LIKE HELL! No. Its possible she could get pregnant. Is she on the pill? If she is then things will probably be ok but if not go get a morning after pill.

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

Where do you get those pills from? I really need to get some for my gf just incase. Any help is appreciated. Thanks!

[Shy Sarah]

Yeah, something like that has happened to me, the condom broke heaps bad, tell her to go to a chemist(pharmacy?) and get the morning after pill ASAP. In Australia only the girl can buy it cos they have to fill out some form, but I don't know what the laws are wherever you are.

[cannabis campbell]

Shit, its quite possible that she could be...

you can get the morning after pills (which works 72 hours after), but the later you take it then the less chance it has of working and its not even 100% sure to work anyway.

If shes not on the pill then theres a chance she could be...

Get her to take a pregnancy test (those are quite accurate but even those aren't 100%)

The only thing that is 100% is not having sex.

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

Ok, but where exactly do i get this pill and how do i go about getting it? I would really like to get it just incase. Thanks for anymore help.

[Captain Hanks]

damn, yeah it's possible for sure, the pills your best bet it seems

[holysmokin]

You also have to realise that just because you hadent nutted yet you still have pre cum that comes out during intercoarse which also contains sperm cells. You dont even know that it's coming out but it is possible to become preganent just from this. Just something to think about.

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

You also have to realise that just because you hadent nutted yet you still have pre cum that comes out during intercoarse which also contains sperm cells. You dont even know that it's coming out but it is possible to become preganent just from this. Just something to think about.

Indeed, i know this and that's why i'm so worried. This type of thing happened once before last month and she was fine, but i'm just a little more worried this time. I don't know, i need to get those pills. Do they sell them without a prescription?

[cannabis campbell]

Pharmacy, any near you?, Where do you live, they should give it to you for free when did it happen how long has it been?

If its longer than 72 hours, get a pregnancy test...

If you really dont want it she might have to have an abortion (thats got to be before 40 days or else she will have to give birth to it) and even if she does have an abortion, thats risky aswell because kill you (very rare chance), and there is a 50% (very high chance) that you wont be able to EVER have children again

You might be lucky... keep us updated and tell us what happens


Ok, but where exactly do i get this pill and how do i go about getting it? I would really like to get it just incase. Thanks for anymore help.

Even if you touch her dick and then finger her pussy you can get her pregnant because of the pre cum its that easy...

[cannabis campbell]

sorry you can have an abortion up to 24 weeks not 40 days... well in the UK anyway

where are you

[cannabis campbell]

She can also get an abortion pills after 9 weeks...




Medical abortion (known as 'the abortion pill')

Medical abortion can be performed in the first 9 weeks of pregnancy. It does not involve any surgery. The woman is given a pill (mifepristone) and 36 to 48 hours later, a tablet (prostaglandin) is placed in her vagina. These two drugs end most early pregnancies within the following four hours. It feels like having a heavy and rather painful

This method is not available everywhere. Women should check with the referring doctor whether this method is available on the NHS in their area.


Have a look here http://www.brook.org.uk/content/M2_5_abortion.asp

Sorry to be talking about abortion and shit but better to be safe than sorry. :thumbsup:

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

She can also get an abortion pills after 9 weeks...



Have a look here http://www.brook.org.uk/content/M2_5_abortion.asp

Sorry to be talking about abortion and shit but better to be safe than sorry. :thumbsup:

Thanks for all that information. It's good stuff but it looks like the information will only help me, not my gf. I told her today that she should take the morning after pill and this is what she said --- "If i take the morning after pill then that is the same as abortion and i'm not doing it".

So.. i got pretty mad after that cause it isn't abortion and i guess she would rather get pregnant than take a pill to possibly stop the cause of it. Jeez.. i really hate how she is thinking. If she gets pregnant than my life is over. I would seriously rather be dead then tell my parents and go through with a child. My parents as we speak would no longer love me and they would probably throw me out onto the street.

I will keep everyone posted on how it turns out here in the next week or so. Her time for her period is coming up in the next week or two. If she doesn't get her period around the expected date and she i late, then i will make her take a pregnancy test. Hopefully everything goes well. Thanks for all the info though, helps a lot! :thumbsup:

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

Pharmacy, any near you?, Where do you live, they should give it to you for free when did it happen how long has it been?

If its longer than 72 hours, get a pregnancy test...

If you really dont want it she might have to have an abortion (thats got to be before 40 days or else she will have to give birth to it) and even if she does have an abortion, thats risky aswell because kill you (very rare chance), and there is a 50% (very high chance) that you wont be able to EVER have children again

You might be lucky... keep us updated and tell us what happens



Even if you touch her dick and then finger her pussy you can get her pregnant because of the pre cum its that easy...


...Is there something about his girlfriend you know and we don't?

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

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...Is there something about his girlfriend you know and we don't?

Ah, i know what you are getting at. He made a mistake about what he wrote. It was supposed to be, "even if I touch my dick and finger her she can get pregnant". Of course, i would never ever do that. Also, if my gf had a dick then i'm sure i would know. ;)

[LordSmaug]

Go to planned parenthood man.

[cannabis campbell]

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...Is there something about his girlfriend you know and we don't?


Ah, i know what you are getting at. He made a mistake about what he wrote. It was supposed to be, "even if I touch my dick and finger her she can get pregnant". Of course, i would never ever do that. Also, if my gf had a dick then i'm sure i would know. ;)

oh shit! LMAO

[holysmokin]

If you would rather be dead then her getting pregnant and having to tell your parents then why are you having sex in the first place?

[cannabis campbell]

Because its his gf and he used a condom

accidents happen

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

Because its his gf and he used a condom

accidents happen

Exactly! Thanks man for supporting me. Most of the times it's my gf urging for sex, not me. So, if whoever doesn't like it and says, "... then why are you having sex?" then they probably aren't getting any sex and are just jealous. Accidents do happen, its a fact of life.

[Thetrippinhippie]

hey d00d. its whatever about all that happened. if she gets pregnant, just hide out somewhere low key for a few months or something. like say, a close friend or family member who by chance lives in a secluded wooded area? or get on welfare checks and live in your parents back room for a while til you can get on your own two feet, juknow? but thats IF shes preggy .
i wish you luck, kind sir

[birdgirl73]

Tbagu, I hope all turns out OK for you and that she's not pregnant. Believe me, even if she were, your parents would still love you a great deal. They'd be upset and disappointed and worried, but they'd still love you. I have a 20-year-old son and live in fear of exactly this sort of situation, but if it did happen, we'd love and support him and his girlfriend in whatever decision they made.

Morning-after pills are going to be available without a prescription probably within this next year sometime, but they'll only be available to girls who're 18 or older. Contrary to what some people believe, they're not abortion pills. They're just heavier doses of the same hormones that are in birth control pills. Until they become available without a prescription, a girl has to call her doctor as soon as possible after unprotected sex so the doc can call in the prescription and she can take the morning-after pill within 72 hours, preferably within the first 24.

It's important to set the record straight on a couple of things Cannabis said above that are inaccurate. Infertility after abortions is very rare and is probably no higher than 2%. And early term abortion procedures don't have a 40-day limit. The standard D&C and D&E procedures can generally be performed up to 18 weeks or so. After 16 or 18 weeks, the options do involve some type of saline or hormonal injection-initiated birth.

Hope your situation has the most positive--and here I actually mean a negative pregnancy test--outcome possible!

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

Tbagu, I hope all turns out OK for you and that she's not pregnant. Believe me, even if she were, your parents would still love you a great deal. They'd be upset and disappointed and worried, but they'd still love you. I have a 20-year-old son and live in fear of exactly this sort of situation, but if it did happen, we'd love and support him and his girlfriend in whatever decision they made.

Morning-after pills are going to be available without a prescription probably within this next year sometime, but they'll only be available to girls who're 18 or older. Contrary to what some people believe, they're not abortion pills. They're just heavier doses of the same hormones that are in birth control pills. Until they become available without a prescription, a girl has to call her doctor as soon as possible after unprotected sex so the doc can call in the prescription and she can take the morning-after pill within 72 hours, preferably within the first 24.

It's important to set the record straight on a couple of things Cannabis said above that are inaccurate. Infertility after abortions is very rare and is probably no higher than 2%. And early term abortion procedures don't have a 40-day limit. The standard D&C and D&E procedures can generally be performed up to 18 weeks or so. After 16 or 18 weeks, the options do involve some type of saline or hormonal injection-initiated birth.

Hope your situation has the most positive--and here I actually mean a negative pregnancy test--outcome possible!

Thanks! I really hope everything works out really well for me and my gf. I don't think she is pregnant though.. she has been having symptoms of her period coming for the past couple days. Plus, today, she was really mean to me.. saying some of the meanest shit i have heard from her. It hurt me, but i blew it off as knowing her period is probably starting here. I guess i'll find out pretty soon.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

How long ago did she have her period? Something a bit more reliable is to figure out when she was ovulating, while she can get pregnant when she isn't ovulating, it's pretty rare. You can figure out when she was ovulating (about) using http://www.babycenter.com/calculators/ovulation/ <- that. Hopefully she bleeds and none of this is a problem though!

Don't worry hon, That's happened to me two or three times before (and torn condoms too), be sure that both of you don't stress too much until you know facts not assumptions and try and get her on birth control or have a plan/go to planned parenthood and talk to someone there. It sucks but there's a shitload of responsibility attached to having a nice bang :(

[cannabis campbell]

Exactly! Thanks man for supporting me. Most of the times it's my gf urging for sex, not me. So, if whoever doesn't like it and says, "... then why are you having sex?" then they probably aren't getting any sex and are just jealous. Accidents do happen, its a fact of life.

seriously if shes your gf

why dont you just put her on the pill if she always wants sex?

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

seriously if shes your gf

why dont you just put her on the pill if she always wants sex?

Because she can't get it yet. She also will never use the morning after pill which pisses me off. Anyways, GOOD NEWS!!!


She isn't pregnant. Today, i was in school and she texted me and was like, "I got my period!!" and i was happy to hear that. So, thank ALL of you for helping me through this and making me feel more comfortable about it. It was a scary time for atleast the past 4 weeks and now i can relax and not worry one bit. Thanks again to everyone out there that helped!

[LIP]

Same thing happened to me when i had sex with my ex.

Thing was the condom didnt slip off, i just forgot to put it on and she didnt care.

She got the morning after pill, i got a slap.

All worked out for the better though, cos she went on the pill and i got away without wearing stupid condoms... god i cant stand em.

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

Same thing happened to me when i had sex with my ex.

Thing was the condom didnt slip off, i just forgot to put it on and she didnt care.

She got the morning after pill, i got a slap.

All worked out for the better though, cos she went on the pill and i got away without wearing stupid condoms... god i cant stand em.

Yeah man, the feeling of thinking you got the girl pregnant is horrible. Worst 4 weeks of my life pretty much. I can't stand condoms either. I mean, you get all horny and are ready to have sex and then you have to put on a condom which for me sometimes, my erection goes down and i have to get it up all over again just to insert it into her. It sucks. Condoms do blow ass, but atleast they keep you safe from STD's for the most part.