advice ?

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

hey whats up everyone ok well i cant smoke until after 8 cuz i have a hair cut then so right now is gay but anyways, for the ? do you guys think its wrong if i get mad because my gf is spending more time with her friends then with me?thanks for any advice

[Imotep]

be happy you can spend more time with your mates doing what you want.
too much time with gfs and wives is murder in my opinion.
when i was yr age tho i couldnt spend enuff time with girls so im not much help aye? :)

[kyle]

ur not "supposed" to be jealous but lets face it we all do get jealous, just dont get mad at her and fuck everything up, be greatful u get to chill wit ur buddies, and aslong as u see her its coo

[RESiNATE]

be happy you can spend more time with your mates doing what you want.
too much time with gfs and wives is murder in my opinion.


Amen to that ma'an lol
I've been married, but am now going through divorce - I'm having much more fun now...honest...yep

Thing is dude, if you trust her, then no probs - if ya don't trust her, then you might want to look at yer relationship and what it's worth to you 'cos without trust, you aint got shit - beleieve, I know, I've been there.

And that works both way, dude :)

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[Lulu]

The worst thing you can do is try to spend all your free time together.
Have nights where you just see your mates and chill.
It's important for both of you to have your own friends now and in the future.
My husband and I are together since 1990, he still goes out with his mates and so do I.
If we had to spend every night together we wouldn't have made it this far :rolleyes:
I need the company of my girlfriends and he needs his football and his lads and a few pints in the local ~ where's the harm in that :confused:
Just ease up a little, relax and it'll be cool. You get all clingy and whiney and you'll have her running for the hills.
Be busy some nights don't always make yourself available ~ it pays off you know ;)

[RESiNATE]

Wise words, Lulu.
My marriage failed because my (ex)wife was too clingy - she suffocated me, and eventually the relationship turned into one of resentment towards each other.

Mind you, she was a boring old cow, and I must've been stoopid lol
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[Kronik Bagz]

yo penguin,
thiz sounds more of a good thing than bad, embrace it when ur g/f wants time apart, thiz iz when u can sit at home nekid, skratch ur ballz an not worry bout ur g/f seein u an thinkin ur a pig.

most my g/fs are in tha same krew as me so whenever id chill wit homiez she be there too so everytime i said tha weird shit i alwayse talk bout wit my homiez (which we all do) id get tha cold shoulder

[clevemire]

yo penguin,
thiz sounds more of a good thing than bad, embrace it when ur g/f wants time apart, thiz iz when u can sit at home nekid, skratch ur ballz an not worry bout ur g/f seein u an thinkin ur a pig.
Right on. :D

Yeah penguin. In all honesty, you're still pretty young. You really shouldn't take it so seriously to begin with. Trust me, I made that mistake and ended up with a shitload of heartache (hey that rhymed). Teenage females are the definition of fickle.
But in any event, you needn't worry or get upset unless she starts spending time with other random dudes, as opposed to her friends.

As everyone before me said, cherish the solitude you can get.