Shitty Friend?

[FindingTim]

So I went to Mammoth this weekend and left my 20 sack in an incredible hiding place in my house. When I returned home, my "best friend" informed me that he walked over to my house, searched through my stuff, eventually found my bud, and smoked it. He said he was sorry and that he was desperate, and then he proceeded to smoke me out with a couple bowls of some other weed (which was really good by the way). It seemed a little weird that he would take my weed, so I went home, and in a paranoid state of mind, hid my money so that he couldn't find it.

Do you think that what he did was fucked up, and is this reason not to trust him in the future?

[VeeZee]

mos def fucked up...when shit like that happens, u have to question trust...i wouldn't trust them wit anything really...how the hell did he gain entrance to ur house??...im guessing the door was open...i'd keep the doors/windows closed from now on...and wouldn't let them in my room all by themselves...but its nuttin to break a friendship over

[cannabis campbell]

Well at least he told you he could of kept it a secret so its shows you can trust him

[OrangeKush]

The part I would worry about is how he got into your house. The fact that he told you about the weed and then smoked you out would lend me to believe he is a pretty stand up guy who admitted to an honest mistake.

Im not sure how happy I would be with someone (even one of my friends) rummaging through my room/house while im away on vacation tho...

[Psycho4Bud]

He raided your house like a DEA agent and your question is what....trust???

Have a good one!:thumbsup:

[rhino44]

just shows he doesnt respect you. how do you think he would react if you ransacked his house while he was gone and took his stash? maybe that's no big deal for some people but i would be really pissed just for the fact he went through my shit even if it was just for a little bud.

[FindingTim]

So how should I deal with the situation? Should I just show him this post I made and see how he responds, or should I just tell him that I lost a lot of respect for him for what he's done. I mean he obviously has a problem if he is breaking into houses (my house was unlocked because of house sitters staying there during the night).

[ThatTokenWhiteGuy]

I've got a friend like that. He just doesn't think he's doing anything wrong when it comes to stuff like that. He'll just be surprised and confused if I were to confront him but he's still trust worthy just.. different. I'd be pissed if someone did that, I like my privacy kept private and I don't like when people enter my spaces without my consent. I'd talk to him, just tell him it's not cool. If he does it again then I'd start question things like repsect and trust but hey, you know him best. Use your judgement.

[Skink]

Even if the dude can be trusted,can you leave shit and not worry??? will you not leave shit in your room in the future???

You might want to distance yourself a bit and think,he violated yur space,which I believe is worse than smoking yur pot...


I really don't know how your friendship was before this,cause if you were like brothers he may of felt you wud accept this behavior,ultimately it comes down to you and what you can deal with...

Good Luck...

[puffpuffand away]

he should not have done that 2 u...

anyway u look at it, it was wrong...


peace

[Nochowderforyou]

He raided your house like a DEA agent and your question is what....trust???


Anyone else see that lightbulb go off? ;)

[Big Calhoun]

Usually I suggest passive means of retrobution, but this deserves an ass whippin! You don't go into someones home or personal space and start rifling through things without permission. Yeah, if I were you, I'd be hiding my money, any jewelery, and anything else of value. Give it some time...you've probably found the answer to what happened to some of those things you've been missing and can't find...

[friendowl]

hey tim
did you see rainbow falls in mammoth
was there lots of water in the streams
any snow

what did you do up there

[sweetnhighz]

id kick his ass....then plan a payback

[NightProwler]

well its good that he admitted what he did, it means he would most likley never keep a secret from you. but yes it is fucked up that he woiuld do that without having your permission. in the future, i would clearley tell him NOT to ever enter your house un-invited.

[rhino44]

lock the door. if you have a house sitter leave a key with them.

[bob123]

That's gay man.

[lizzie on low]

At least he told you about it and tryed to make amends...

However, I think it's time you told him that doing stuff like that isn't cool.

Besides. Your friend can manage a few days without weed. It's not going to kill him to be sober for a little while.

[SpiritLevel]

It's your mate, you know him better than us, you should know what to do!
For all we know, you could owe this guy your life or something. Then him stealing a 20 sac from your open house isn't so bad.

If my pal broke in, he or she goin to jail, or i'll end up in there for kicking the schooby dooby out of them,.. unless he or she saved me in some way and i kinda owed them; as well as related daily to them as a family member; and they cooked themselves food out my kitchen; and so on. If we were tight then I would be bothered but I wouldn't mind as if it was the end of the world. If we aint tight then we got the next biggest problem beside armagedon. I guarantee blood on the ceiling, in fact I feel a moment coming on now!!

[Ripper]

He raided your house like a DEA agent and your question is what....trust???

Have a good one!:thumbsup:

I second that one

Peace rips

[FindingTim]

to answer somebody's question, I went to Mammoth, did some hiking, ate out a lot, got food poisoning from "The Mogul" and I set up my pitching machine with my family and hit baseballs at Shady Rest Park. And I didn't make it to Rainbow Falls, but I did go to Hot Creek, if you know where that is. There was a new eruption of boiling hot water so the creek was fenced off- it sucked.

[JuggaloAtTheDoor]

if he told u str8 up I'd trust him.. if hes a realiable person, depends on personality

[fat4fun]

stealing is stealing, end of story

[Nochowderforyou]

I remeber for a short stint when I was 17 dealing weed for these small deal dealers. I had gone out one day to deliver and brought a little extra to sell along the way. My buddy one night told me after a night of drinking, that that day, he came to my place to buy an 1/8, I wasn't home, so instead he broke into my house, looking through my freezer and my house, looking for my stash. Luckily I had it all with me, or he would have stolen it.

I haven't talked to him in 6 years since. When someone goes through that much trouble, to befriend you, and go through your things, and take money out of your pocket, that's the end of the line.

By the way, it sounds like your friend smoothed things over with a nice bowl. If he didn't have any weed and still confessed to you, would have still forgiven him?

[JR77]

So in the future is it OK if he does something to you again and he knows he can just apologize and everything's fine again?

[MaryJaneintheCloset]

That IS fucked up... It's like one of the cardinal rules of pot smokers- "Thou shall not steal thou friend's weed!"

And then he magically had some more to smoke you up with? I don't get it... why did he gank yours if he had some already?

[420Mikey420]

The thing is that if it's cool, you'd be cool with it. I've got exactly one friend that could get away with this... but he's my bro and we've been down every road for 30 years and a lot more than pinching a bit of bud has gone on between us. Obviously you don't look at this guy like that so yeah it was a fucked up thing to do. Seems to me he did the right thing by telling you, though. If you think your friendship with this dude is worth $20, maybe you can find a way to forgive, if not forget. But you need to tell him that he needs to stay the hell out of your shit if he values the friendship. That's a serious invasion of your privacy.


So I went to Mammoth this weekend and left my 20 sack in an incredible hiding place in my house. When I returned home, my "best friend" informed me that he walked over to my house, searched through my stuff, eventually found my bud, and smoked it. He said he was sorry and that he was desperate, and then he proceeded to smoke me out with a couple bowls of some other weed (which was really good by the way). It seemed a little weird that he would take my weed, so I went home, and in a paranoid state of mind, hid my money so that he couldn't find it.

Do you think that what he did was fucked up, and is this reason not to trust him in the future?

[Tom Swierzbinski]

So I went to Mammoth this weekend and left my 20 sack in an incredible hiding place in my house. When I returned home, my "best friend" informed me that he walked over to my house, searched through my stuff, eventually found my bud, and smoked it. He said he was sorry and that he was desperate, and then he proceeded to smoke me out with a couple bowlsof some other weed (which was really good by the way). It seemed a little weird that he would take my weed, so I went home, and in a paranoid state of mind, hid my money so that he couldn't find it.

Do you think that what he did was fucked up, and is this reason not to trust him in the future?

An incredible hiding place in my house. This seems to me that he was searching for a long, long time and going through everything.
He was desperate - only ten percent of stoners 'get desperate'.
A couple of bowls? Why cant he pay you back the twenty bucks, or buy you a 20 sack?

Seems to me like theres more going on here than is showing on the surface. Has your friends behaviour been a little strange lately? Anything he is saying that is out-of-character? Im not saying that hes on harder stuff, because if he was, he would be nicking yer DVD player by now. Im just wondering if hes starting to become someone that has to depend on weed to get them through the day. If he is becoming like that, Id talk with him. Its much, much easier to 'nip it in the bud' and if youre wrong, just apologise and Im sure everything will be cool between you. Just think to yourself though - if you dont say anything or keep an eye out, and he ends up being one of the minority that steals in order to buy their next sack, then youll kick yourself for not saying anything earlier.

Of course I could be entirely wrong and yer mate could just be going through a tough time right now and he needed a smoke - weve all been there. But a question that pops into my mind is, if he was a bit stressed out and needed to chill with Mary for a while, then why didnt he just ring up his dealer and ask? Why did he have to rummage through your personal belongings in order to get a buzz?

[LazySmoking420]

I'd be pissed!

It's like he went into your house a stole 20 dollars off your dresser.

[LazySmoking420]

It's not crack..He didnt need it