geonagual
06-19-2006, 05:33 PM
Let us for a second visit the notion that while we think of ourselves as open-minded and objective, in fact our approach to ourselves, our circumstances, and others is often filtered and even obscured by pre-existing notions and ideas â?? by our upbringing, our values, our past experiences.
We see those filters for what they are â?? an all-pervasive influence that profoundly colors our relationships with people, circumstances, and even ourselves. An awareness of these filters, and a recognition of the striking limits that they impose, allows for a refreshing freedom. People, situations, and our approach to life alter dramatically.
This controls who we are and makes it hard to be freely open minded. Any thoughts on this? Are you able to recognize these filters that have so much influence?
An example to this kind of thinking would be the pre judgements of race, the way someone dresses or where they live. Before even speaking to them or even knowing them. You take your thoughts from the past and instantly have them pegged for what they are. Or do you?
We see those filters for what they are â?? an all-pervasive influence that profoundly colors our relationships with people, circumstances, and even ourselves. An awareness of these filters, and a recognition of the striking limits that they impose, allows for a refreshing freedom. People, situations, and our approach to life alter dramatically.
This controls who we are and makes it hard to be freely open minded. Any thoughts on this? Are you able to recognize these filters that have so much influence?
An example to this kind of thinking would be the pre judgements of race, the way someone dresses or where they live. Before even speaking to them or even knowing them. You take your thoughts from the past and instantly have them pegged for what they are. Or do you?