If my husband gives me one more lecture...

[sophiastarchild]

I am going to strangle the man. He's in AA (court ordered) and now I have to hear his sermons about the psychological dangers of marijuana "addiction," how I smoke way too much and need to cut back, blah, blah, blah...he can't smoke because he gets randomly tested. Sometimes I think he's just jealous.

I try to counter his lectures with some of my own because I've done extensive research about the dangers and benefits of weed. Unfortunately, he's a stubborn pig and thinks he's always right.

Not that he's stopping me...I made it very clear that I have no intention of quitting, for him or anyone else. If I someday decide to quit, fine. But until hell freezes over, he's just going to have to deal with it.

Thanks for letting me vent. I'm cranky because I'm out of weed and can't find any right now.

[heyman]

Wow its usually the other way with me.... my gf tellin me to stop smoking so much but then she usually joins me.....
maybe you should get him to start smoking but he gets tested randomly.... hmm.. think he's just jelous...lol

[cygnustaxt]

I am going to strangle the man. He's in AA (court ordered) and now I have to hear his sermons about the psychological dangers of marijuana "addiction," how I smoke way too much and need to cut back, blah, blah, blah...he can't smoke because he gets randomly tested. Sometimes I think he's just jealous.

I try to counter his lectures with some of my own because I've done extensive research about the dangers and benefits of weed. Unfortunately, he's a stubborn pig and thinks he's always right.

Not that he's stopping me...I made it very clear that I have no intention of quitting, for him or anyone else. If I someday decide to quit, fine. But until hell freezes over, he's just going to have to deal with it.

Thanks for letting me vent. I'm cranky because I'm out of weed and can't find any right now.

maybe he's not the one thats being a stubborn pig...

[pabloescobar209]

I am going to strangle the man. He's in AA (court ordered) and now I have to hear his sermons about the psychological dangers of marijuana "addiction," how I smoke way too much and need to cut back, blah, blah, blah...he can't smoke because he gets randomly tested. Sometimes I think he's just jealous.

I try to counter his lectures with some of my own because I've done extensive research about the dangers and benefits of weed. Unfortunately, he's a stubborn pig and thinks he's always right.

Not that he's stopping me...I made it very clear that I have no intention of quitting, for him or anyone else. If I someday decide to quit, fine. But until hell freezes over, he's just going to have to deal with it.

Thanks for letting me vent. I'm cranky because I'm out of weed and can't find any right now.
If I was you, the second he starts the lecture I would crack a beer.

[notrightquite]

If I was you, the second he starts the lecture I would crack a beer.

That's hilariously cruel.

[slipknotpsycho]

I am going to strangle the man. He's in AA (court ordered) and now I have to hear his sermons about the psychological dangers of marijuana "addiction," how I smoke way too much and need to cut back, blah, blah, blah...he can't smoke because he gets randomly tested. Sometimes I think he's just jealous.

I try to counter his lectures with some of my own because I've done extensive research about the dangers and benefits of weed. Unfortunately, he's a stubborn pig and thinks he's always right.

Not that he's stopping me...I made it very clear that I have no intention of quitting, for him or anyone else. If I someday decide to quit, fine. But until hell freezes over, he's just going to have to deal with it.

Thanks for letting me vent. I'm cranky because I'm out of weed and can't find any right now.
me and my wife had the 'i'll quit if i want to quit, otherwise deal with it or leave' argument, needless to say, we're still together and she 'deals' with it... lol :thumbsup:

[da haze meister]

If I was you, the second he starts the lecture I would crack a beer.
ROFL
omg that shit had me in tears
lmao dude your a sick fucker

[slipknotpsycho]

what if he's a liquor man?

[Skink]

Thanks for letting me vent. I'm cranky because I'm out of weed and can't find any right now.
WTF??? You can be cranky but, he has to sit there strait and shut up??? God bless the man for not strangling you...

[slipknotpsycho]

skink, she is a woman, find me one damn woman that doesn't expect their man to put up with them being 'cranky' once in awhile with a big assed smile on their face...

[josh g]

skink, she is a woman, find me one damn woman that doesn't expect their man to put up with them being 'cranky' once in awhile with a big assed smile on their face...

a whore...

[slipknotpsycho]

if you're talking about a prostitute, that doesn't fit in this situation, as i said her man, not her customer... if you're talking about a sexually promiscious woman (doesn't do it for money or other items, but just cuz she wants to or w/e), well, 'whores' get periods too..

[josh g]

well, 'whores' get periods too..

Haha! Right you are.

[sophiastarchild]

What the hell is wrong with you people?

I'm drinking a beer right now. And so is he. Yes, he's in AA. Because he has to be. Didn't say it was working, or that he wanted to be there, or cares at all about quitting drinking.

What the hell is all this whore crap? We've been married for eight years and have two gorgeous children.

We're both bitchy all the time. It's an equal thing. Men can be bitches, too.

[beachguy in thongs]

Here, you can show him some of these.

The Neuroscience of Natural Rewards: Relevance to
Addictive Drugs
http://www.psychiatry.wustl.edu/Resources/LiteratureList/2002/May/Kelley.PDF

Marijuana Myths, Claim No. 9
CLAIM #9: MARIJUANA IS AN ADDICTIVE DRUG
http://www.erowid.org/plants/cannabis/cannabis_myth9.shtml

What if you knew that some research indicates that marijuana is not physically addictive?
http://www.kqed.org/topics/news/perspectives/youdecide/pop/marijuana/1no.html

[slipknotpsycho]

What the hell is wrong with you people?

I'm drinking a beer right now. And so is he. Yes, he's in AA. Because he has to be. Didn't say it was working, or that he wanted to be there, or cares at all about quitting drinking.

What the hell is all this whore crap? We've been married for eight years and have two gorgeous children.

We're both bitchy all the time. It's an equal thing. Men can be bitches, too.
...i think you're getting the wrong idea... mmmhmm... oh and if you came to be serious.. you came to the wrong board :p :thumbsup:

[sophiastarchild]

Dude, I'm never serious :) It's all cool...

[BigHomie]

g/f and i have lived together about 5 years. she's never smoked. she doesn't really care that i do, but she'd occasionally hold it over my head.

a few months ago my main connect decided to move on with his life and stop selling. i knew it was coming and told g/f that maybe i should do the same. so i quit smoking. that lasted all of about 2 or 3 weeks. when i started back up i didn't tell her.

for the last 4 months she's had no idea that i've been smoking... and we have never gotten along better. i wish i had tried this little experiment sooner

[sophiastarchild]

Big homie...you may be on to something...he knows I smoke, but maybe if I keep it on the down low and just don't ever mention it or let him know I'm doing it, he'll lighten up, and so will I! I'm just a really open person...it's hard for me to keep a secret. I'm the kind of person who gives presents days before the actual holiday and birthday. I told my mother when I lost my virginity as a teen because I just cannot keep a secret. But it's worth a shot! Maybe if I do, I'll be mellow and cool because I'm high, and he'll be proud of me because he's not realizing I'm getting high as often as I actually am. Yes, I'm going to cut back, a little. Because the man has a point in some ways. But I won't quit.

[BigHomie]

i could tell her right now and she wouldn't be mad. i'm not really sneaking around or anything. she works crazy hours and i work from home. i smoke all over house... for some reason she isn't smelling it... i smoke about a pack and a half of ciggs a day too, that might have something to do with her not smelling it. the only thing really different is i'm not talking about it or smoking in front of her. when she's here i'll leave the room to smoke or blaze while i'm walking the dogs.

we used to argue over little stuff all the time. now that i think of it, we haven't had an argument in the last 4 months... even a small one... how scary is that.

last night she was thanking me for helping her with something... then she gives me this weird look and says, "things have been really good lately." i just smiled.

we never fought about me smoking, but it must have been on her mind. otherwise why the change? don't get me wrong... i'm not saying things were bad between us before. i guess we were just ur average couple. but things are great now- better even then when we first met.

good luck to you, whatever you do.

[graph]

How did that whole telling your mom you're not a virgin thing go over?

I wouldn't bother with research, people will continue to believe what they will. However, if your husband is in COURT APPOINTED AA AND IS STILL DRINKING, maybe he's the one who should be considering the psychological aspects of other, legal drugs.

I drink, not too often. I don't like it, I don't like the way I feel when I'm drunk. I smoke, because I like how I feel when I'm on it. Personally, I think cannabis is much less destructive then alcohol.

So what was I getting at with that less paragraph? That it's all about personal preference. Choose what you like best, and if your husband doesn't agree, well, you can complain about it to us I guess.

[sophiastarchild]

Big Homie, you work from home, too? So nice to find someone to relate to! My hubby works all kinds of weird hours and unless I made production out of it, it's unlikely he'd even know I'd been smoking!

Normally, I'm like, "I'm going in the bathroom to smoke cigarettes and read magazines..." which means, I'm going to get high. Maybe I'll just start being more stealthy about it and not letting him know...

I'd imagine I'm easier to deal with when I'm high...I know he is...he's been forced to AA because of some legal crap...he tried to quit drinking but we both decided we liked him a LOT better when he was permitted to drink a beer here and there, so he does...and I don't give him shit..I uphold his lie to his friends, family and everyone else (except you guys, of course!) and I would hope that he extended me the same courtesy with weed, but alas, he is more judgemental and bitchy than I. The funniest thing is...is that when I get the worst lectures out of him, he's torn his way through a twelve pack of cheap beer first..

[The Grim Reefer]

g/f and i have lived together about 5 years. she's never smoked. she doesn't really care that i do, but she'd occasionally hold it over my head.

a few months ago my main connect decided to move on with his life and stop selling. i knew it was coming and told g/f that maybe i should do the same. so i quit smoking. that lasted all of about 2 or 3 weeks. when i started back up i didn't tell her.

for the last 4 months she's had no idea that i've been smoking... and we have never gotten along better. i wish i had tried this little experiment sooner

I did the exact same thing. :thumbsup:

[The Grim Reefer]

Except I never told her I was going to quit, she just assumed it since I couldn't get ahold of anything for awhile.

I agree with graph though, what's the big deal? He was born without alcohol and if he's going to let him effect him like that, he's being weak in my opinion.

Though I don't know either of you on a personal level so I can't judge anyone, but I don't understand why people always let the influence of drugs get ahead of everything else.

Moderation.

An addiction is something you can't stop and something that gets in the way of relationships and responsibilities. It sounds like your hubby is headed down a much traveled road..

[sophiastarchild]

Graph...my mom was so preoccupied with her Vicodin addiction, her new stoner husband and her newly born (my bro and sis, now 12 and 16, I'm 28) that she didn't care. She was happy to be rid of me, her illegitimate child fathered by a promiscous police officer (no joke...the fucker's still a cop and has fathered several other illegitmate children in our town -- I've actually met a couple of my half-siblings -- who he has no intention of supporting or knowing...he was what you would call a man-slut)

She didn't care to the extent that when I ran away and dropped out of high school, she signed the papers to allow me to marry him. Eventually, he beat the crap out of me, I left, and met the man who is now my husband. I love him...we've been together for 13 years...married for 8 now...and have two totally gorgeous yet mischevious sons...and although we fight about each others' habits and shit we cannot seem to live without one another...

I've made it clear that I've been smoking weed since I was thirteen years old. It's never harmed me, only done me good, and I have NO intention of giving it up. I have sat many a night, even pregnant, wondering where my man was...and he was somewhere with his buddies...getting drunk...so how dare he call me on a habit that does nothing but makes me more agreeable towards him and our boys??? It's that AA propoganda they're feeding him that's poisoining his brain...they're so one sided...they don't dare touch on the benefits of weed...

[BigHomie]

it can be so frustrating dealing with non-tokers... you can talk about ur own experiences and show them every study ever done under the sun... you might even convince the person all the anti-pot ads are wrong, and that there are much worse legal drugs out there, but the argument still almost always ends with:
them- "well, it's still illegal"
me- "well, it shouldn't be"
them- "doesn't matter, it's still illegal"
me- "go fuck yourself"
lol

[sophiastarchild]

Why, oh why...isn't there some sort of dating service that hooks us up with each other before we marry unsympathetic persons??? I am what I would call fairly attractive and guarantee I could find a mate on these boards alone that would live with me in stoned bliss forever more...unfortunately that's not how my life worked out..I guess it's never too late...I dream of when my kids are adults and I'm a hot, stoned grandma with lots of lovers...

[BigHomie]

lol...

[sophiastarchild]

Oh, and may I add...those lovers are stoned, too...I don't care how nasty you people think old people sex is...I'm looking forward to it...no kids, no responsibilities....now I'm 28 and feel like a spinster....maybe when I'm 55 I'll be a hot bitch!!!

[sophiastarchild]

Listen you guys...I am in major need of escapism...I am trapped in a loveless marriage with a man who doesn't understand me..although that's just the beginning of my issues...I just wish I could run away...are there any male stoners who would take me in??? Maybe just wishful thinking...but in my utopia, we'd listen to Tori Amos, lay in bed, smoke weed, watch TV and eat pizza...I'm sorry if I offend feminists...yes, I understand the women's movement...I am a mother of two and a successful writer...but honestly, I want a man who I can come home to who will kiss and hug me instead of ignoring me...I need affection, attention, and a man who smokes weed with me...anybody out there who loves kids, chinese food, books and weed? And a chick with baggage?

[sophiastarchild]

I swear to Goddess I'll get on a fucking bus now if there's weed (and an understanding person...I'm bisexual...at the other end) at the other end of the journey

[puffpuffand away]

bwahahahahaha...
woe ya

[HazardousToking]

This is NOT the place to be doing this, your going to end up in a world of hurt if you develop habits like this.

Stop running
Open your eyes
Face your demons
Gain your freedom

[sophiastarchild]

What the hell are you talking about???

[sophiastarchild]

I want OUT...my momma is a klepto Vicodin addict. My husband is an alcoholic who swears he and the kids are better off without me...and I agree...I belong somewhere with other stoners that understand me.

[sophiastarchild]

BTW...I am a 29 year old mom of two...I have been there, I have done the whole responsible thing...I have tried to make it a happy family, but it's just not possible...I need to get away for awhile...please, someone help me escape. My hubby says that if I left, my boys (ages 3 and 6) would be better off with him and without me...so fine..I'll go, and try to pursue my own happiness.

[Polymirize]

this thread should be removed for being so heartbreaking...

[Fan o KmK]

This is NOT the place to be doing this, your going to end up in a world of hurt if you develop habits like this.

Stop running
Open your eyes
Face your demons
Gain your freedom


haha yea what the hell are u talkin about.

[sophiastarchild]

Thanks a lot, asswipe. Here I am, begging for help...a way out...and you are calling it too heartbreaking. Listen, if you think I am ugly, think again. I can provide pics. I am reasonably attractive. Basically, I want to start over elsewhere. Preferably Amsterdam. But, somewhere else if I have good support. Anywhere. Anywhere that I feel accepted. Loved. I am an attractive woman, but to my husband judging by him, I am an ogre....

How the hell do I post pics??? I would if my dumb ass could figure out how...

[kuulbns]

Unfortunately we all have tough times in life. While I feel your frustration, perhaps you should think of your children first. How are they gonna feel if Mommy abandons them? Also think of the danger of an online "Knight in shining Aluminum", you don't know what you're getting into. You need to seek counseling if only to help you feel better about yourself. I am not a mental health proffesional, and this is not a mental health site. While I wish I could help you in some way, I (like EVERYONE in life) have my own family and issues to deal with. I do wish you all the best.

[beachguy in thongs]

I swear to Goddess I'll get on a fucking bus now if there's weed (and an understanding person...I'm bisexual...at the other end) at the other end of the journey

Wow. And I'm looking for a roommate, too!

[Peach.Optimo.Bluntz]

what about your kids?........ Grew up from kindegarden with out a mommy and lemme tell you............................................... .................. it sucked.

[sophiastarchild]

There is no clinical help for me. I have researched and recieved it all. Now, I just hope that someday I will find my true love someday, maybe after my kids are adults. Silly me, I thought I could find him now...but i guess I'll wait awhile more if need be..

[sophiastarchild]

My kids think I'm a joke. Miss permissive Mommy. And when she's serious, it's funny. They only listen to Daddy. And he's made it clear that he wants to take them from me and raise them himself. Therefore, I'm almost ready to cut my losses and start over with someone who understands me...many of you won't understand...that's totally OK...I just hope someone will get it.

[Fan o KmK]

sorry i kno this is a stupid uneducated question and mayb cuz im blazed but where do you adults get your weed? do u guys have dealers and shit like "yo mofuga, hook it up wit a 20!" or do u guys have some kinda sophisticated dealer who makes house calls while sportin a tie and white suit. tahtd be tight.

[beachguy in thongs]

Wow. And I'm looking for a roommate, too!
LOL

[Peach.Optimo.Bluntz]

i believe that i lossed the " one " person that was ment for me. Actually still think of her often and its been years. Now i have a wife and a daughter and all i know is i love my daughter to death and i love my wife, and i will always be there for both of them. Sorry to hear about your situation Sophia, I hope that god smiles down on you soon!.

[sophiastarchild]

Arrange to pick me up...and I'll be [email protected]

[sophiastarchild]

I can take care of myself. For those of you who might be psycho killers, well, I have news for you. I will feed your balls to you as an appetizer and shove your dick down your throat for the entree. Therefore, I only accept legimite offers for escape...

[beachguy in thongs]

www.amtrak.com. My ex- is leaving when I find a roommate.

[MaryJaneScott]

This is NOT the place to be doing this, your going to end up in a world of hurt if you develop habits like this.

Stop running
Open your eyes
Face your demons
Gain your freedom

love.

[beachguy in thongs]

I be psycho killers, I will feed your balls to you as an appetizer and shove your dick down your throat for the entree. Therefore, I only accept legimite offers for escape...
Huh.

[sophiastarchild]

[email protected]

I swear..I'm pretty, damaged, stoned, and waiting for Prince charming...sjhot OI'M TOO HIGH TO TYPE...LOL

[25yrsmoker]

My kids think I'm a joke. Miss permissive Mommy. And when she's serious, it's funny. They only listen to Daddy. And he's made it clear that he wants to take them from me and raise them himself. Therefore, I'm almost ready to cut my losses and start over with someone who understands me...many of you won't understand...that's totally OK...I just hope someone will get it.
i think i do understand youre in a place you dont want to be and the man who is supposed to want you doesnt its not that hard to comprehend if you want to chat email me at kono420carolina@hushmail im in south carolina im a 39 year old widowed father if youre interested get back to me peace and good luck in your search

[beachguy in thongs]

I may be able to get you a ride down from the hills. But, not tonight.

[sophiastarchild]

wHAT HILLS...i AM in VA...

[puffpuffand away]

unbelievable...

[beachguy in thongs]

wHAT HILLS...i AM in VA...

And aren't you, at least, an hour inland?

That's about when I start hitting the hills. Just after Petersburg.

[sophiastarchild]

Please...seriously...some hot guy please help me...I will leave..I am in Virginia...I may seem shallow, but I am an extremely deep writer begging for escape from the hell that i smy life...lol...SERIOUSLY...ANGIEBABY777AT HOTMAIL COM i AM TOO STONED TO FIND THE AT SIGN..IF YOU ARE READY TO PROVIDE FOR A HOT CHICK WITH A DEEP INTELLECT AND A LOT OF BAGGAGE EMAIL [email protected] i WIL CHECK THAT EMAIL BEFORE i KILL MYSELF BECAUSE i AM IN A SHITTY MARRIAGE``1

[beachguy in thongs]

Well, I offered to help you through this. But, I'm stuck in a situation, myself.

[sophiastarchild]

bEACHGUY6 FOR THE LOVE OF GOD EMAIL ME AT [email protected] AND MAYBE WE'LL HELP EACH OTHER

[rainbows.rsexy]

try a 420 dating service online.....

http://www.420dating.com/

[beachguy in thongs]

I already have.

My name is Chris.

[birdgirl73]

Sophia, Sophia, Sophia. I want to cry for you right now. And I feel worried that you're simply going to jump out of one very hot frying pan and into a fire that's worse. You clearly have a good brain. Isn't there a way out that doesn't involve jumping into the arms of a complete stranger?

[Peach.Optimo.Bluntz]

beachguy in things, im sorry to say this but alot of my respect i had for you is now gone... what a bummer man... good luck.

[beachguy in thongs]

What the hell, Peach.Optimo.Bluntz?

I can lend her an ear, for now. Why don't you go let your Mother borrow your brain, I heard she's losing it.

[beachguy in thongs]

By the way, Virginians like to help each other out.

I know that California has very different ways.

[beachguy in thongs]

Sophia, Sophia, Sophia. I want to cry for you right now. And I feel worried that you're simply going to jump out of one very hot frying pan and into a fire that's worse. You clearly have a good brain. Isn't there a way out that doesn't involve jumping into the arms of a complete stranger?

And this isn't jumping into the arms of a stranger.

I would also like to help the waitress in Texas and the student in France.

[IanCurtisWishlist]

if your husband is a deadbeat then you can always get away from him.. plenty of people out there in the world.

[Peach.Optimo.Bluntz]

Thanks dude! good luck loser :thumbsup:.

[beachguy in thongs]

Oh, well, the girl woke up. Can't get back to you, quickly. Sorry. And I lost all respect for you, jumping to conclusions like that, PeachOptimoBluntz. :mad:

[beachguy in thongs]

Thanks dude! good luck loser :thumbsup:.


Whatever, chump.

[Peach.Optimo.Bluntz]

i didnt, u sayed u would take her and u needed a roommate. She has kids dude, kids need mom thats all there is to say, you where the one that decided to act like a complete douche bag by insulting me, like i said, good luck loser. Oh and btw i didnt live in California my whole life, talk about assumptions huh?.

[easton]

I might be able to help you out....pic? nudes? lol

[Fabolous]

god damn isn't this your 2nd or 3td thread about you husband? my god if you hate him so much then leave. simple as that, find a nother place to crash at or somthing, (Hotel)

[beachguy in thongs]

i didnt, u sayed u would take her and u needed a roommate. She has kids dude, kids need mom thats all there is to say, you where the one that decided to act like a complete douche bag by insulting me, like i said, good luck loser. Oh and btw i didnt live in California my whole life, talk about assumptions huh?.

You're putting words in my mouth.

I didn't say that I would take her. I said that I may be able to get her a ride from a little ways away (but that'd take time). I offered to talk about her. You offered to call me a "douche bag" and showed intelligence by using the word "where" when you meant "were".

Hit the books, whether you I should call you "Senior" or "Junior".

[Peach.Optimo.Bluntz]

Wow. And I'm looking for a roommate, too!
...

[Peach.Optimo.Bluntz]

www.amtrak.com. My ex- is leaving when I find a roommate.
...

[beachguy in thongs]

It's a fact, buddy.

[Peach.Optimo.Bluntz]

lol aite man, what ever you wanna call it. Im off to better things...... cheers

[hahaitsdoogle]

If you are in fact so attractive and intelligent, then why havent you saught after a man in your area, that way you could still see your kids, its one thing getting a divorce, but its another to be the one who walked out on their kids.

You have a lot of thinking to do, and in my opinion no person who is sane is stupid enough to do this, i mean honestly.

Seek some help, there are many free clinics in each state, just have to find the right one.

Hope this helps.

[kuulbns]

You can't rely on others to fix your problems. Get some help, get a job and start over with your kids. Don't dump your kids because you're unhappy. And Don't flame me. I have been there and back. I had a bad marriage once, and 3 kids. There are shelters, medicaid and help out there. My ex knocked my teeth out so ya can't tell me about bad marriages. But for crying out loud, get over your "sexy" self and think of your kids.

[beachguy in thongs]

Jump all over her, everyone. Every comment has bashed her. You had some good advice, up there, but, you also put in your biased two-cents worth.

Obviously, she's stoned.

[kuulbns]

I offered help. The best I could. All she did was count it out and keep saying how attractive she is. Looks fade,... use your head. And btw,... the kids shouldn't pay for their parents mistakes Beachguy.

[beachguy in thongs]

But, I don't make mistakes.

I mean, but, I'm not a parent.

[birdgirl73]

I donâ??t think everyone has bashed Sophia at all. I think the voices of reason here are simply hoping Sophia will do nothing until she can get un-high enough and out of escape-mode enough to see that maybe this might not be the best way to escape. I certainly mean no offense to you, Beachguy, and admire your gallant desire to be of assistance. But I don't think you, Sophia, or the other gentleman who offered his assistance can begin to know what youâ??d be getting into. How could you?

Sophia assures us she's received all the clinical help she needs, and if that's the case, then I'm certain along the way one of the therapists told her about dysfunctional antennae. How they have an uncanny way of coming up and out and sensing the other person across the room--or across cyberspace--who's just as dysfunctional and baggage-laden and unhealthy as the first antennae-owner. Those antennae are how baggage-laden people generally manage to find successions of relationships that are even unhealthier than the previous ones theyâ??ve left.

Theyâ??re why several wise souls here tonight have urged her to do some more work on herself before making another choice that wonâ??t benefit anyone in the long run. I really believe this advice has been communicated kindly and with great concern for everyoneâ??s well-being.

[birdgirl73]

Good heavens! I passed my 420th post tonight and didn't even notice. I may have to go celebrate the occasion.

[beachguy in thongs]

I was speaking of doogle, birdgirl. Excellent advice, but he came to the conclusion that if she is so attractive, then she would've already found her Prince Charming, by now. Or, along those lines.

[beachguy in thongs]

. you came to the wrong board :p :thumbsup:
I guess so.

I think I did, too. I should be at Traumatic Brain Injury support chat.

[Polymirize]

obviously she's ugly, shallow and completely empty on the inside. Seeking to fill that void with sympathy garnered from cannabis.com's message board (interesting choice).

For that reason it seems like she'd be a perfect match for beachguy, who distracts himself from his own meaningless existence by constantly posting about nothing in particular.

You two deserve each other. I wish you all the best.

[WhiskeyGirl]

I can take care of myself. For those of you who might be psycho killers, well, I have news for you. I will feed your balls to you as an appetizer and shove your dick down your throat for the entree. Therefore, I only accept legimite offers for escape...

Is there a reason why she wasn't banned yet?
Im sorry but if she wanted help , she would get it, she has kids to think about. You cannot help any 1, if they dont want help!! Just my opinion.

[beachguy in thongs]

obviously she's ugly, shallow and completely empty on the inside. Seeking to fill that void with sympathy garnered from cannabis.com's message board (interesting choice).

For that reason it seems like she'd be a perfect match for beachguy, who distracts himself from his own meaningless existence by constantly posting about nothing in particular.

You two deserve each other. I wish you all the best.

Take your needless attack and go after someone who, actually, could be hurt by it.

If you think that she's ugly, then go fuck your janitor, because she has posted her picture, and she is cute. But, to offer someone help when they ask and then get swamped with ridicule when I try to help, only means that this site is no longer for everyone.

[Garden Knowm]

people... you don't need to quote the original post... we all know what you are responding too...

lol

iloveyou

[Polymirize]

oh sorry, you'll have to forgive me. I was high at the time of my last posting.

Oh wait, maybe being stoned isn't an excuse for immature behavior...

So then why do I have to be so tolerant of this thread again?


Way to get all fixated on physical appearence beachguy. I don't care about what anyone looks like on the outside, its the inside where I think some people are the most ugly...

[king kong bong]

blah blah blah i wanna see pics. right now.

[graph]

I guess so.

I think I did, too. I should be at Traumatic Brain Injury support chat.

TBISC is where it's at.

[birdgirl73]

sorry i kno this is a stupid uneducated question and mayb cuz im blazed but where do you adults get your weed? do u guys have dealers and shit like "yo mofuga, hook it up wit a 20!" or do u guys have some kinda sophisticated dealer who makes house calls while sportin a tie and white suit. tahtd be tight.
We older ones just hook up with someone who's a little older and maybe in similar life/work/age circumstances. The local board for my state was a good place to start.

The only sophisticated dealer with a suit and tie I've ever known of is known a "Dr. Weed" in a large West Coast city. He serves folks who work in the movie industry, among others, with top-drawer goods. Drives a Mercedes. Carries a briefcase. Is regularly used by two friends of mine who are screenwriters and many of their friends. I witnessed him making a house call when I was there visiting last year, so this isn't social folklore. It was like something you'd only see in LA.

[HazardousToking]

You can come stay at my place but you better be in a cocksucking mood if you think you are getting "free" weed.....











Hope I didnt get your hopes up

[graymatter]

people... you don't need to quote the original post... we all know what you are responding too...

lol

iloveyou

Yes, true, so can you put me through to customer support? I've taken 12 Viagra and like the ad warns... "Erections lasting more than 4 hours could be a sign of a medical emergency" :o

[Cooler Then Jesus]

question is, will YOU adopt me? mom? hehe. im 14/male/ca, run away, with all the hook ups. and all the love =)

[da haze meister]

are you hot

[likemclever]

Look Iâ??m sorry but this is bull shit. Beach Guy you can bitch at me if you like. Sounds to me like the last thing she needs is someone to stroke her hair and tell her everything going to be alright. From everything she has said here it sounds like her husband has every right to think of her as an unfit mother. No mother would run out on their kids without a damn good reason. The only thing I have heard thus far is â??Oh Iâ??m so unhappy and my husband is a big meanieâ?� SO FUCKING WHAT. Youâ??re an adult bitch. Suck it up.

And if you could take care of yourself you wouldnâ??t be on here looking for someone to do it for you, pissing and moaning about how unfair life has been to you. Do you have any idea how selfish you are being. ME ME ME. What about your KIDS KIDS KIDS.

[beachguy in thongs]

This is where everyone has me wrong. I still have a live-in ex-g/f, and I'm not running away. So, she can't come here.

[minnesota man]

Is she hot beachguy? Post her pic if she sent you 1.

Look girl, just go. Your family obviously doesn't want you. I would take beachguy up on his offer, if I were you, as long as you can prove you can pay for your own bus ticket and pay for your share of the rent.

Oh, I see you reneged.

[BigHomie]

i'm thinking she just had a rough night... don't be too hard on her.

i'm only guessing- but she was obviously upset about something going on in her life and i think she may have had a few too many drinks. then she said/did some stuff she didn't mean. who hasn't done that before?

if i'm wrong please seek counseling... if not for you then for your kids sake.

[Lulu]

Sophia

If you can even consider walking out on your children into the arms of some random stranger from a message board that you think is gonna rescue you from your lifeâ?¦â?¦. then you need help bigtime â?? and not from anyone on here.

Go talk to someone more qualified, like a councellor, marriage guidance, citizens advice bureau��..ANYONE�..before you do something as damaging as walking out on your babies. Have you any idea how that will affect their lives??????

Do you really have that little self worth?
Are you trying to prove your husband right?
Because right now, offering yourself up to all and sundryâ?¦youâ??re not exactly painting a pretty picture here.

I feel for your children, I fear for them too and for you.

Woman, you need to COP DA FUCK ONTO YOURSELF before you get your foolish arse into anymore trouble.

No one needs to rescue you
Only YOU can decide what you can live with, and without.
Make the changes in your life.
If youâ??re not happy look at the reasons.
If itâ??s your marriage, decide whether you can save it or not.
Take things one step at a time.

You donâ??t have the luxury of throwing your shit into a bag and walking â?? thatâ??s what being an adult is about â?? you gave up that option when you had children. You owe it to them to do the best you can. Wandering the www looking for â??someone to save youâ?? will not solve your problems.

I'm hoping you were at a real low point when you wrote this and you're gonna reread this thread and go, "wtf was I thinking?". I wish you and your family the best. Please think long and hard before you do something youâ??ll possibly regret for the rest of your life.


Lulu

[slipknotpsycho]

GO DOWN WEINER!

[psychopixi]

I'm confused. Sophia's last post in this thread was at about 3, - three hours after she posted this in another thread;

"I left, and met the man who is now my husband. I love him...we've been together for 13 years...married for 8 now...and have two totally gorgeous yet mischevious sons...and although we fight about each others' habits and shit we cannot seem to live without one another..."

Never mind the fact that she started this thread at nearly two. So what the hell happened in the two hours between not being able to live without your husband, and being "trapped in a loveless marriage with a man who doesn't understand me".

[NoosaHeads]

Sophia

If you can even consider walking out on your children into the arms of some random stranger from a message board that you think is gonna rescue you from your lifeâ?¦â?¦. then you need help bigtime â?? and not from anyone on here.

Go talk to someone more qualified, like a councellor, marriage guidance, citizens advice bureau��..ANYONE�..before you do something as damaging as walking out on your babies. Have you any idea how that will affect their lives??????

Do you really have that little self worth?
Are you trying to prove your husband right?
Because right now, offering yourself up to all and sundryâ?¦youâ??re not exactly painting a pretty picture here.

I feel for your children, I fear for them too and for you.

Woman, you need to COP DA FUCK ONTO YOURSELF before you get your foolish arse into anymore trouble.

No one needs to rescue you
Only YOU can decide what you can live with, and without.
Make the changes in your life.
If youâ??re not happy look at the reasons.
If itâ??s your marriage, decide whether you can save it or not.
Take things one step at a time.

You donâ??t have the luxury of throwing your shit into a bag and walking â?? thatâ??s what being an adult is about â?? you gave up that option when you had children. You owe it to them to do the best you can. Wandering the www looking for â??someone to save youâ?? will not solve your problems.

I'm hoping you were at a real low point when you wrote this and you're gonna reread this thread and go, "wtf was I thinking?". I wish you and your family the best. Please think long and hard before you do something youâ??ll possibly regret for the rest of your life.


Lulu



I second that.^^^...
couldnt have said it better...:thumbsup:

[graph]

Anybody else smell that?

Maybe it's just me, but this all seems way too elaborate. All in one night?

[Peach.Optimo.Bluntz]

physcopixi, im a married man but your uber hot... sorry couldnt help it, continuuuue everybody =P.

[beachguy in thongs]

people... you don't need to quote the original post... we all know what you are responding too...

lol

iloveyou

Who the hell am I responding to, now, wise-ass?


TBISC is where it's at.

What's that, Southern California? The one I've found is http://braininjurychat.org/tbichat.htm.

[beachguy in thongs]

It was like something you'd only see in LA.

Wow, I recall a similar experience with the doctor in New York City.

People from the City would know what I'm talking about.

[graymatter]

People, people... she's Ann Coulter

[WaKeNvAp]

pixie
hey, she could have wrote that earlier and left it for another activity/chore/arrand w.e. and posted it later. just becuz she post's it at that time, dsnt exactly mean she wrote it at that exact time. benefit of the doubt, but i see what you mean.
sophia, best of luck. and remember, boys sumtime's side with dad, for they feel its the right thing at the time(age).

[birdgirl73]

People, people... she's Ann Coulter
You nailed it! And the more I thought about it after I signed off yesterday, the more I realized the same thing. She's a writer. A dramatist. And she knows how to stir things up and get people spinning. It worked, too.

I won't fall for that again!

[dark0ne]

i think we all have been in that boat though, the feeling of being trapped and theres no way out. sometimes the best thing is to find a good freind and smoke some weed and talk about whats going on, and i think thats why some people use the internet to reach out.



NOOSA!!!!!!!!! how have you been.

[Breukelen advocaat]

You nailed it! And the more I thought about it after I signed off yesterday, the more I realized the same thing. She's a writer. A dramatist. And she knows how to stir things up and get people spinning. It worked, too. I won't fall for that again!



That's exactly what I was just thinking.

Could you imagine somebody really taking this person in, without even meeting her, and starting a "relationship", which includes intimacy? Are the kids part of the deal and, if so, what's the alcoholic husband going to do? How much "bisexual" activity is going to happen, and is the male (who's footing the bill) allowed to participate?

[beachguy in thongs]

As the thread says, "No flaming".

But, since that rule has already been broken, I'm gonna call all the English speaking "morons" who use the word "uber" surrounded by words of the English language, when the "u", in German, would be translated to "ue" in English, therefore, the correct spelling is "ueber-hot" and "ueber-cool".

A little research never hurt.

[dark0ne]

I'm gonna call all the English speaking "morons" who use the word "uber" surrounded by words of the English language, when the "u", in German, would be translated to "ue" in English, therefore, the correct spelling is "ueber-hot" and "ueber-cool".

A little research never hurt.
HEY don't forget the little dots.... omlows... or however you spell it. i took german for a year in highschool..... and i failed..... badly.

[muncheemama]

men ARE fucks.....aren't they....fucking fucker...and, yes they can be BITCHES too...and dare I say....a bigger pussier bitch than me...

[birdgirl73]

As the thread says, "No flaming".

But, since that rule has already been broken, I'm gonna call all the English speaking "morons" who use the word "uber" surrounded by words of the English language, when the "u", in German, would be translated to "ue" in English, therefore, the correct spelling is "ueber-hot" and "ueber-cool".

A little research never hurt.
Keep up that research yourself! That's just a good example of what's known as "assimilated spelling." Happens in American and British English all the time. Ueber becomes uber. Pharmacoepia becomes pharmacopia. Orthopaedic becomes orthopedic. There are many others. Modern English speakers/writers are fast-track shorteners of -ae, -oe, and -ue diphthong combinations, among others, so we quickly begin to spell the words like we say them. Simply indicates a trend toward modern, efficient usage rather than moronics.

[Shelbay]

You nailed it! And the more I thought about it after I signed off yesterday, the more I realized the same thing. She's a writer. A dramatist. And she knows how to stir things up and get people spinning. It worked, too.

I won't fall for that again!
Shocked it worked on you the first time..considering you also write professionally..I almost responded but psychopixis post caught my attention about her posting time.

[birdgirl73]

Shocked it worked on you the first time..considering you also write professionally..I almost responded but psychopixis post caught my attention about her posting time.
Oh well, I'm pretty gullible! I saw that second posting Psychopixi mentioned after I'd written my last response and it just went "bing" in my head. Then I realized I'd been had. Y'all are wiser than I am! Now the whole thing just makes me chuckle.

[beachguy in thongs]

Yeah, I know what you mean. :stoned: Hey...wait, a second!

[likemclever]

People, people... she's Ann Coulter



Ha ha â?¦.the difference between her an Ann Coulter is that beneath all of Ann Coulterâ??s crazy talk there is usually a good point somewhere. Itâ??s usually hard to find because you have to cut through the ugliness first.



Good spot on the posting time pixiperson :thumbsup:

[Pipe Dreams]

You married him, deal with it.

[king kong bong]

Anybody else smell that?

Maybe it's just me, but this all seems way too elaborate. All in one night?

smells like chicken teryaki.

[king kong bong]

she disappeared perhaps her hubby killed her ass and ate her.

[Pipe Dreams]

Maybe.