2 best friends going out....should i tell her?

[yoda]

2 of my best friends have been dating for the last year, but just broke up a few days ago, or atleast i think they broke up.

i hung out with the guy, joey, last night and a few other friends. but he said he was picking up this girl lauren before i got off work. well sure enough, joey has himself a new girl now.

now, his old gf is asking if hes alright and stuff and that he wont talk to her. i told her we hung out(didnt say the girl was with us) and he seemed alright. should i risk everything with pretty much everyone and tell her that he has a rebound, or what?

if anyones been in a similar situation, any advice would be greatfully appreciated. im thinking on telling her just so she can get the pain done with.

[friendowl]

fuck no yoda dont say shit
take that girl out and get her drunk
real real drunk
then tell her
when she gets all moist about it
seduce her
then shell be so drunk she wont remember
dont tell her
your homies are gonna get mad at yo ass if you do

[PureEvil760]

^ agreed, especially if shes hot.

[birdgirl73]

I think if she were to ask you straight out, you'd have to give her an honest answer. But I don't think you should tell her just on your own. She'll find out soon enough. Just be there for her and befriend her. Are you interested in her, Yoda?

[beachguy in thongs]

Tell her. What can it hurt? Would you want her to keep it from you?

[zephyrinne]

I'd wait til the subject of him comes up again between the two of you. Then let her know that you think he might have started seeing someone else. Otherwise, I'd just keep your mouth shut til she asks.. no point in bringing him up whilst blazing or whatever else, if it isn't the topic of convo. Just my .02. Good luck!

[likemclever]

You tell your friends to keep you out of their drama.


Next time she asks and she will ask tell her that your not comfortable being in the middle of all this. Tell her that he is fine and that any issues they have with each other they need to work out with each other. Tell her if he wont talk to her than itâ??s his loss and she should move on.

Take yourself out of the equation.

Good luck

[yoda]

I think if she were to ask you straight out, you'd have to give her an honest answer. But I don't think you should tell her just on your own. She'll find out soon enough. Just be there for her and befriend her. Are you interested in her, Yoda?

i have slight interest in her, but ive known her a few years, and i just always thought of her as a really nice person. when me and an ex broke up and she fucked my friend 2 dyas later, she was there for me when i needed to rant, so im returning the favor. but that has nothing to do with this.

she knows about the other girl now. so i told her what i knew. im still trying to pick up the other details, but he aint talking so i cant do that.

she found out on her own, so atleast i didnt have to break her heart.

[likemclever]

Any friend who fucks your ex-girl 2 day after you broke up is not your friend.



What I donâ??t get is why your guy friend is not talking to you. I can see why he may not talk to her but you? Whatâ??s that all about?

[yoda]

Any friend who fucks your ex-girl 2 day after you broke up is not your friend.



What I donâ??t get is why your guy friend is not talking to you. I can see why he may not talk to her but you? Whatâ??s that all about?

i dunno. whenever some kinda shit goes down with him, he just doesnt talk to ppl.

[beachguy in thongs]

I'd wait til the subject of him comes up again between the two of you. Then let her know that you think he might have started seeing someone else. Otherwise, I'd just keep your mouth shut til she asks.. no point in bringing him up whilst blazing or whatever else, if it isn't the topic of convo. Just my .02. Good luck!

Just your two percent?

[beachguy in thongs]

Any friend who fucks your ex-girl 2 day after you broke up is not your friend.




Ouch!

That hurts. The last time I asked about a best friend of mine (at my H.S. 10-year reunion), the answer was, "Nobody's heard of him".

When we were sixteen, I slept with his girlfriend, while I had a girlfriend.

I guess that under your rules, I shouldn't worry about him, anymore.

[willystylle]

I've been in the exact same position Yoda.



DO NOT get involved.


The reasons are not clear, but they will be when the shit hits the fan.

[likemclever]

Ouch!

That hurts. The last time I asked about a best friend of mine (at my H.S. 10-year reunion), the answer was, "Nobody's heard of him".

When we were sixteen, I slept with his girlfriend, while I had a girlfriend.

I guess that under your rules, I shouldn't worry about him, anymore.


Thatâ??s right Beach guy donâ??t worry about him.


Are you trying to tell me that what you did was best friend behavior?

Come on now! :rolleyes:

Everybody fucks up and does stupid shit myself included but that doesnâ??t make it right.



I know it sounds crazy but no you can't fuck your friends girl.

I didn't make the rules Beach Guy if I had I would have made a loop hole :D .

:glugglug:

[beachguy in thongs]

I'm sorry, she was French-Canadian, Lithuanian. :smokin:

[cannabis campbell]

Tell her :)