HELP!

[ToxicHaze]

Hey well ive been kinda worried and i need some info.Well today i had sex with a girl i just met and afterwards my hands were bloody from fingering her and my dick had blood on it as well.I We didnt use a condom so why did she bleed? i hope it was just her period and not some nasty disease i can catch.plz help :confused:

[muncheemama]

it could be bloody herpes, watch out, or boold sucking crabs...are you fucking kidding me? it was probably her period...if you dont know this already, why are you having sex? unprotected, no less...god bless this world, that no babies be formed of this union, amen.

[birdgirl73]

Hey well ive been kinda worried and i need some info.Well today i had sex with a girl i just met and afterwards my hands were bloody from fingering her and my dick had blood on it as well.I We didnt use a condom so why did she bleed? i hope it was just her period and not some nasty disease i can catch.plz help :confused:


Hmmm. The problems, as I see them, with what you just wrote:

1. "had sex with a girl I just met"
2. "We didn't use a condom"
3. "I hope"

For your sake, I hope she's disease-free and that you are, too. Please wear a condom next time and everytime. And maybe get to know these girls beforehand so you'll know something about them and their history and they'll have the same advantage with you?

Chances are good that it was just either her period or some bleeding from the friction because there wasn't enough lubrication. If you didn't know her, was there any chance she might have been a virgin? That could account for bleeding, too. And often women who are on the birth control pill have something called breakthrough bleeding when their hormone levels on the pill fluctuate a bit.

Worrying isn't going to do you any good, but I hope it'll help you make a more informed and safe decision next time. Go get yourself checked out and make sure you're disease free. Then make sure you always have condoms and lube on hand for every future situation like this. We'd like you to live a lot longer so you can actually build a relationship with some of these girls. . . .

[ToxicHaze]

yeah i was expecting answers like that but thanks. It was stupid but im only human. I seriously doubt she was a virgin,though.

[ToxicHaze]

anymore thoughts?

[likemclever]

yeah i was expecting answers like that but thanks. It was stupid but im only human. I seriously doubt she was a virgin,though.


It doesnâ??t matter if sheâ??s a virgin or not. She can't be all that bad after all you had sex with her.



Yes, it was her periodâ?¦you should have used the opportunity to earn your red wingsâ?¦.jk.

[ToxicHaze]

red wings?^

[MaryJaneintheCloset]

If it wasn't her period, then is it possible that you just popped her cherry? (for lack of better term)

[likemclever]

red wings?^

Imagine that itâ??s dark and you go down on your girl.

Roflâ?¦My first job..I was a car hop (waitress) at Sonic.
(picture a 1950â??s Drive In where chicks bring the food out to your car)

Anyway, it was almost closing time and I see a buddy of mine pull in he orders a drink so I take it out to him. I take one look at him and stop dead in my tracks; I donâ??t say anything for a while and heâ??s looking at me like WTF is wrong with you. All the sudden I realized what had happened and I laughed so fucking hard I nearly wet myself. I was laughing so hard I couldnâ??t tell him why I was laughing. Finally, I tell him to look in the mirror. He looked in the rear view mirror as I watched the blood drain from his body. He had blood all over his face he looked like a hyena who just eaten the innards out of a gazelle on the discovery channelâ?¦â?¦ROFL. After we settled ourselves down he told me he had just taken his girlfriend home and there was some hankey pankey before she went into the house. He said it was dark and he had no idea she had started her period (apparently she didnâ??t realize it eitherâ?¦either that or she didnâ??t tell him.) He didnâ??t have it on his hands just his face.

He then thanked me because he was about to stop and get a pack of cigg's...lol..

So thatâ??s what it means around here to earn your red wings.

[beachguy in thongs]

Oh, God, MaryJane!!! Why do you have to use a term like that?

You could've used "conceivable". You didn't
have to use
possible.

[dog420]

Did you ask her about this?

[blazea50]

it could be bloody herpes, watch out, or boold sucking crabs...are you fucking kidding me? it was probably her period...if you dont know this already, why are you having sex? unprotected, no less...god bless this world, that no babies be formed of this union, amen.



LMAO!!! :clap:




you could of popped her cherry if she was young..

[Midnight Baker]

cross off your red belt..im sorry thats gross BUT you did it not me.

[K.Kush]

Well I'm going to bet it doesn't mean you have a big penis. Sounds like you had sex with a chick on the rag!

also, people saying ya busted her hymen??
Those things tend to happen in ones regular life.. anything horse back riding .. whatever? It happens naturally usually... Sounds like a Ragger'

[Sandypointstoner]

on the rag.....If you are too young to realize this then you are too young to be fucking!!

[birdgirl73]

Well I'm going to bet it doesn't mean you have a big penis. Sounds like you had sex with a chick on the rag!

also, people saying ya busted her hymen??
Those things tend to happen in ones regular life.. anything horse back riding .. whatever? It happens naturally usually... Sounds like a Ragger'


Pardon me? I'm pretty sure you're a guy, and you need to do a bit more reading on this subject to educate yourself. A "natural" or spontaneous accident that causes the rupture of the hymen is actually fairly uncommon thing. It's the exception rather than the rule. And about 70% of people who lose their virginity report some bleeding and/or pain on that first sexual encounter. Pain and bleeding with sex, even when it's not first-time sex, are a lot more common than hymen-rupturing accidents, which you can sort of understand if you consider how the female anatomy is rather hidden. If she was a first-timer, she could easily have had bleeding.

I still think it must have been her period, though, considering that she hardly knew this young man. Certainly if he'd been her first, she'd haven taken that step a little more slowly and deliberately. At least I hope so.

[muncheemama]

Pardon me? I'm pretty sure you're a guy, and you need to do a bit more reading on this subject to educate yourself. A "natural" or spontaneous accident that causes the rupture of the hymen is actually fairly uncommon thing. It's the exception rather than the rule. And about 70% of people who lose their virginity report some bleeding and/or pain on that first sexual encounter. Pain and bleeding with sex, even when it's not first-time sex, are a lot more common than hymen-rupturing accidents, which you can sort of understand if you consider how the female anatomy is rather hidden. If she was a first-timer, she could easily have had bleeding.

I still think it must have been her period, though, considering that she hardly knew this young man. Certainly if he'd been her first, she'd haven taken that step a little more slowly and deliberately. At least I hope so.
sometimes it takes 2 or 3 good "pops" to complete the transaction...

[birdgirl73]

sometimes it takes 2 or 3 good "pops" to complete the transaction...


Good point! It did for me. Actually, seems like it took about four weeks of good, steady trying. Luckily, my boyfriend and I were willing to work at it. and do what it took . . . .

[likemclever]

sometimes it takes 2 or 3 good "pops" to complete the transaction...

Yeah it took me a couple of times to get it done.

I didn't know it at the time but my first was above average ...that did not feel good to me...I thought WTF 'this' is sex.

Things change :D .