in a situation

[yoda]

ok, this may be long, but here goes. im torn between 2 girls.

#1 - began seeing each other a few months ago, wed chill for a few days, then just not see each other for awhile. always had fun being with her, but i hated the inconsistency of spending time together.

#2 - just really started picking things up, been with her the last 2 weeks. always have fun with her as well, but she has things that dont really bother me, i just wish she didnt do as much(she bites, but will bite hard like every 5 fucking minutes).

both of them i genuinely like. well tonight, girl 1 called my house while i was out and told my mom she wanted to talk to me because it was my birthday and stuff. eventually we talked and she wanted to hang out and said she'd be at my house soon. i told her my involvement with girl #2 though, just to be honest with her. she told me she had a "kinda boyfriend" as well and she was still coming. we were asking questions about her cituation, and the feelings are still there for her.

i dunno which is the one i absolutely want right now, its both of them, but right now girl 1 is the one im thinking about.

[Cheery Cherry]

Well sounds to me like you're not really looking for a serious relationship so I would just continue hanging out with both. And have you told the Girl #2 to keep her teeth to herself? I would be pissed if someone bit me that frequently. Jesus, get her a chew toy.

[yoda]

Well sounds to me like you're not really looking for a serious relationship so I would just continue hanging out with both. And have you told the Girl #2 to keep her teeth to herself? I would be pissed if someone bit me that frequently. Jesus, get her a chew toy.

the thing is i am looking for a serious relationship. girl #1 is most likely to be more ready for one, but if she already has a kinda boyfriend and is willing to see me, then waht if shes with me, will she be willing to see someone else too then, or am i special?

you females confuse us too fucking much

[HiddenBeauty]

What do you mean girl 2 bites,what does she bite :confused:

[Cheery Cherry]

Some girls are confusing because they are either too young or do not know how to communicate or she's confused with her own feelings. The only way to find out if the girl #1 is going to go with you and only you is for you to ask her. If she wants to be in a serious relationship with you, she should tell you so.

Good luck to you.

[yoda]

What do you mean girl 2 bites,what does she bite :confused:

arms, neck, shoulders, chest, anything she can sink her teeth into

the more i think about it, the more id rather be with girl #1, but that would prolly fuck up so much shit for me, cause i work with #2(now im starting to see why you dont wanna get involved with co-workers).

[likemclever]

but if she already has a kinda boyfriend and is willing to see me, then waht if shes with me, will she be willing to see someone else too then, or am i special?

You were doing the same thing :rolleyes:

just thought id point that out :D .

[yoda]

You were doing the same thing :rolleyes:

just thought id point that out :D .

yeah i realise this, but the only thing that makes what im doing anything close to acceptable is that i already liked her before, so its not like i was still looking for women on the side, she just happened to want to chill with me, and i guess thats how this all started.

[HiddenBeauty]

arms, neck, shoulders, chest, anything she can sink her teeth into

the more i think about it, the more id rather be with girl #1, but that would prolly fuck up so much shit for me, cause i work with #2(now im starting to see why you dont wanna get involved with co-workers).

Is she mentally sane?

If you like girl one go for it and just let the shit hit the fan.Whats the worst thing that can happen?

[poorprincess]

tell them both whats up and it will sort it'self out. They might both want to keep seeing you anyway and then you have two serious relationships. Why does everyone think that they need just ONE significant other.

[psychocat]

tell them both whats up and it will sort it'self out. They might both want to keep seeing you anyway and then you have two serious relationships. Why does everyone think that they need just ONE significant other.

Simple,, it's difficult enough making one relationship work never mind complicating things.

Stop being a coward and front up, otherwise you will be the one left with regrets.

[minnesota man]

Sweet you are, old jedi. Make the right decision, you will.

[Wesley Pipes]

tell them both whats up and it will sort it'self out. They might both want to keep seeing you anyway and then you have two serious relationships. Why does everyone think that they need just ONE significant other.
ok i dont get why ppl need to see more than one person at a time, thats just greed and in the UK (generally) that is considered cheating, date more than one person at a time if u want, to find out which one u like more, but as far as i'm concerned, a relationship is between 2 ppl, not 3.

Peace

[friendowl]

just be with both of them,carefully
when you really start falling in love
youll automatically drop the ones you dont like
till then enjoy the variety i say

[Mr Greenthumb]

fallow yuor heart man, cant go wrong with that. And if you cant decide, let the pros and cons decide for you. And if you can't decide that way, then just don't decide and get the mangos from one tree and apples from a naighbors if you know what i mean.