Whats your Safety Word?

[poorprincess]

Mines Pineapple. In fact since everyone who visits me is a kinky bitch it's a house rule that if u really want someone to stop doing something to you you can say the safety word.

[nuggetgirl]

Peanut Butter

[MaryJaneScott]

banana

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[The Grim Reefer]

banana

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LOL!

Peter: "I love you" *crack*

[The Grim Reefer]

I just read baking soda has a PH of 8.5 - all of my watering juice is ready to go, I just need to finish balancing the PH out.

If I don't get a response in the next few minutes, I'll go ahead and add baking soda in small quantities.

<3

[muncheemama]

razz matazz

[GreenEyesRed]

STOP!!! Or I'll shoot you!

Seems to get the point across

[poorprincess]

people have been saying pineapple a whole lot around here recently...but not meeee haha

[JMRinFLA]

Mines Pineapple. In fact since everyone who visits me is a kinky bitch it's a house rule that if u really want someone to stop doing something to you you can say the safety word.

Safety words are sooooo stupid!! Just say "STOP" or "I don't fuckin' like what you're doing". But the whole notion of a fucking "safety" word is moronic to a degree that's just incomprehensible to me.

[TCSparky]

Safety words are sooooo stupid!! Just say "STOP" or "I don't fuckin' like what you're doing". But the whole notion of a fucking "safety" word is moronic to a degree that's just incomprehensible to me.

Haven't you ever said "stop" when you really didn't want them to? I.E., your favorite person is tickling you and you say "stop", but you really don't want them to, at least not yet, so they continue ... taking you to the edge of what you can handle, they sustain until you are at the point of exceeding your threshold, then you say "banana" and it all comes to a hault.

In the heat of passion, "stop" can become "don't stop" real easy, so it isn't a good "safety" word.

"Stop, oh stop, please don't, don't, please don't, stop, ohhh, please, ohh, don't stop, please don't stop....." see what I mean? :)

[TCSparky]

By the way, mine is Banana.

[Psycho4Bud]

- If you are going to play with bondage or spanking or resistance play or role-playing, it's often wise to establish a "safeword," which is a code word that means 'Stop, now, I'm serious.' This word should be something you won't forget and that won't come up in any other way. Many people use "Green-Yellow-Red:" Green means "everything's fine," Yellow means "Don't stop, but don't do anything harder than that," Red means "Stop everything right now."
http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsafety.html
:D

[TCSparky]

And again I learn something new. Ok, much better than banana since one could say "do me with that banana over there". Not sure about a pineapple though, kinda rough. :)

[JMRinFLA]

Haven't you ever said "stop" when you really didn't want them to? I.E., your favorite person is tickling you and you say "stop", but you really don't want them to, at least not yet, so they continue ... taking you to the edge of what you can handle, they sustain until you are at the point of exceeding your threshold, then you say "banana" and it all comes to a hault.

In the heat of passion, "stop" can become "don't stop" real easy, so it isn't a good "safety" word.

"Stop, oh stop, please don't, don't, please don't, stop, ohhh, please, ohh, don't stop, please don't stop....." see what I mean? :)

O.K. then, just say the safetyword is STOP!! See how easy that was? Or pick any of the other fifty or so words that can be construed as meaning stop. Pineapple??? Banana??? Totally ridiculous.

[tokinggreg]

STOP!!! Or I'll shoot you!

Seems to get the point across

real subtle.:)

[TheLion]

O.K. then, just say the safetyword is STOP!! See how easy that was? Or pick any of the other fifty or so words that can be construed as meaning stop. Pineapple??? Banana??? Totally ridiculous.
No dude, you obviously can't read. And you're coming off as a moron...

[d00d989]

And again I learn something new. Ok, much better than banana since one could say "do me with that banana over there". Not sure about a pineapple though, kinda rough. :)
roflcopter

anyone else remember hitler taking a pineapple up his ass in "Little Nicky"?

[friendowl]

when you hear the sound of my
glock cocking back
its time to be nice

[MrGuy]

Chewbaca

mmmmmm......I love the kink......

Anyone who DOESN'T understand the purpose of a safety word has obviously never been seriously involved with kink.
I agree with PSYCHO4BUD about the different "degrees" of words, but I'm ussually too over-the-top to understand anything but one word....

[JMRinFLA]

No dude, you obviously can't read. And you're coming off as a moron...
Sorry "DUDE"! I can read just fine. The problem is you are too stupid to stop defending this moronic practice. People who need safety words are too retarded to be having sex anyway!

[TheLion]

And you have just confirmed my statement...You sir, are trully moronic. You will be hearning no more of me.

[JMRinFLA]

And you have just confirmed my statement...You sir, are trully moronic. You will be hearning no more of me.
Oh yes I will! When you finally start having sex you will understand exactly what I mean and at that point of enlightenment you will come into complete and utter agreement with me. Until then...................PINEAPPLE AWAY ASSHOLE!

[psychopixi]

Normally we use "red" or "orange".

MRinFLA; using a saftey word that sounds like, or really does mean "stop" isn't a good idea because it can be part of the fun to beg for the other person to stop what he's doing, just pretending that you don't like it.

If you pick a word that's really unlikely to come up in conversation while having kinky sex (like "pineapple") then you've got all the fun of "Oh, please, no, stop, please..." but you know your partner will know when you -really- want them to stop what they're doing.

Also, if you're in the middle of kinky sex it's handy to have a word that means "whoa, slow down there, I enjoy most of what you're doing, apart from -that-" because it'd kinda ruin the mood to have to have that whole conversation when "orange" or "yellow" works just as well and doesn't kill the moment.

[shoi]

oklahoma!

[hahaitsdoogle]

BUCKEYES - normally you dont hear around here without everyone stopping what they're doing and stompin ya. JK

umm. varys between red yellow green

[God v2.0]

people have been saying pineapple a whole lot around here recently...but not meeee haha

well then of course, because u haven't had a chance to meet me yet, i wouldnt stop til you were screaming pineapple at the top of your lungs.

[muncheemama]

And you have just confirmed my statement...You sir, are trully moronic. You will be hearning no more of me.
bill oreily???i love you:D

[krustythfreakinclown]

Mine is, "Stop" or some such statement.

:D

[JMRinFLA]

Mine is, "Stop" or some such statement.

:D
Finally!!! Someone who gets it!!!!

[MiamiGreg]

JMr I know this is completely off topic, but I saw that you live in ft. laudy too. I used to live in south dade, but just moved up towards downtown ft. laudy with my gf because we just finished school. I was wondering if you could connect me to a connect anything reliable or point me in the right direction. I have been dry and non high for a week,, Im going crazy, any help you could offer I would appreciate, just email me or post a repy and I will respond asap. I would appreciate any help. [email protected]

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

Okay, first thing's first:
Stop fucking fighting over this.

The safety word practice is actually a good idea. I know from when I was increasing my pain tolerance with burning and shit like that, I'd automatically start cursing and yelling stop and shit. My friend came up with the idea of saying "ENOUGH!" when I'm at mind's end. That way I could curse and yell "FUCKING STOP! STOP! STOP!!!" all I wanted but still get going. Now I'm much more pain-tolerant (used to be a bitch about it) and I agree with the safety word usage. It's much easier to get rid of the human impulse to keep going when someone's begging you for mercy when you don't use a word hard-wired in to your brain to mean NO MORE!...I suggest switching words once in awhile :)

The hole problem with saying "STOP" is that some kniky shit might mess with a guy or girl's head. They might know "STOP" means no more....but they'll keep going to go beyond the realms. But it makes it much more personal if an agreed upon word is chosen. Because then, someone's more likely to think "Okay, my love has had enough" Instead of "Stop? STOP? HELL NO MWUAHAHA!!!"

End rant :D

[Paige]

Jake, your quote in your quote is absolutely quoteable and may i add outrageously awesome hxc style. Your bro is a wise goth.


ps. I'm back

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

Jake, your quote in your quote is absolutely quoteable and may i add outrageously awesome hxc style. Your bro is a wise goth.


ps. I'm back

Hallelujah!!!

By the way...OUR current one is Jimmy...I don't know why lmao

[Paige]

:confused: jimmy? are you kidding... i will never remember

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

:confused: jimmy? are you kidding... i will never remember

You better. I think the whip's coming out tonight!

[TCSparky]

Oh yes I will! When you finally start having sex you will understand exactly what I mean and at that point of enlightenment you will come into complete and utter agreement with me. Until then...................PINEAPPLE AWAY ASSHOLE!

Me thinks you forget we are mostly talking about S/M, Bondage, Role Play and other things that are outside of the normal or casual love making sex.

[krustythfreakinclown]

You "trained" yourself to be more pain tolerant by having someone hurt you?

How fucking stupid are you?

Crazy Mormons...


Okay, first thing's first:
Stop fucking fighting over this.

The safety word practice is actually a good idea. I know from when I was increasing my pain tolerance with burning and shit like that, I'd automatically start cursing and yelling stop and shit. My friend came up with the idea of saying "ENOUGH!" when I'm at mind's end. That way I could curse and yell "FUCKING STOP! STOP! STOP!!!" all I wanted but still get going. Now I'm much more pain-tolerant (used to be a bitch about it) and I agree with the safety word usage. It's much easier to get rid of the human impulse to keep going when someone's begging you for mercy when you don't use a word hard-wired in to your brain to mean NO MORE!...I suggest switching words once in awhile :)

The hole problem with saying "STOP" is that some kniky shit might mess with a guy or girl's head. They might know "STOP" means no more....but they'll keep going to go beyond the realms. But it makes it much more personal if an agreed upon word is chosen. Because then, someone's more likely to think "Okay, my love has had enough" Instead of "Stop? STOP? HELL NO MWUAHAHA!!!"

End rant :D

[poorprincess]

You "trained" yourself to be more pain tolerant by having someone hurt you?

How fucking stupid are you?

Crazy Mormons...

I'm gunna formally request that you dont post any more in here. It's obvious that you dont even understand the kind of people who would have anything usefull to say on the subject.

Heres the concept of a safety word: I like pain to be inflicted on me and to inflict pain. I am a sado masochist. I enjoy it in a sexual way. But only to a point. I never know what that point is until I've reached it. I might say stop stop, but I dont mean it because I like to be taken to new levels. It takes my brain just a second longer to be absolutly sure that I want it to stop, than it would take my lips to form the word.

In practicing the safety word method, I in affect train myself to not only tolerate but enjoy new levels of pain.

I'm glad when I say stop because I dont think I can take anymore and my boyfriend keeps going. Its a personal choice I've made,to which you've made the opposite.

Nough said.

[muncheemama]

mormons are not crazy...

[diphen]

banana! although it changes depending on the mutual decision.

and yes whomever feels that safety words are pointless probably isn't very kinky (that doesn't have to be a bad thing). i think it's good to have a word totally unrelated to the act to signal a full-stop.

[muncheemama]

sometimes i talk with the hubby and we rank ourselves in percentiles of kinkiness. we have determined that we fall somewhere in the 75th to 80th percentile...we are probably wrong, probably in the 60th percentile..there are wierd people and fetishes out there. someone smarter and not as stoned as I should fashion a poll to figure that out...I read in a parenting mag that 80% of parents thought their kid had above average intelligence...thats funny